dancer on the knife

I clean up the computer every day, and feel that only in this way can the efficient use of the computer be maintained.I like an orderly life, so once I fall into a state of disorder, I will reflect on it.

One day when I was meditating in the office and thinking quietly, I realized that my life has not been regular for so many years. Although I have free time, it has not brought me the joy of freedom.I kept asking myself questions, and finally found the true solution, that is, I mixed work and life together, so that neither aspect reached the state I expected.Since 2006, for more than ten years, there is no so-called fixed rest time at all, and they are all done at will. In doing so, I think about work when I am resting, and think about rest when I am tired from work.The alarm bell in my heart kept reminding me that I had to make some changes, and it was time to make changes.With such awareness, start to think about how to change?Final decision:

Get up at 4:10 every day, go to bed between 11:[-] and [-]:[-] every night; take a day off every Saturday, and every Sunday is the beginning of a new week.

Through such a work and rest arrangement, you can promote your work and life to be regular.With a specific rest time, you can also make your time with your family a fixed time expenditure instead of a flexible expenditure.At this time, I remembered a sentence that a friend told me before. At that time, I didn't fully understand it. She said that every weekend is the time to spend with my family, and I don't arrange any work-related matters.In fact, I thought her words were too absolute at that time, but I found that as long as I had such a concept, I would actually force myself to finish the work on a working day.

Only after having a child, my whole life has changed a lot. Everything has started to focus on the child, and I fully understand the concept held by my friends before, because I have not done enough in this regard. Before I knew it, my lover would often say to me: When do you have time?Take advantage of the good weather to go outside to the park.Because she didn't know when my rest time was, she asked more times, and I felt ashamed.It was precisely because of this shame that I had that meditative thought on how to change myself.Because the answer can only be heard by looking inward, in order to hear the truest voice.

With regular time with my family, life feels more flavorful than before.It’s just that I’m in the rivers and lakes, and I often go on business trips. During business trips, sometimes I can watch the photos and videos of my children on my mobile phone for several hours. I think this is the best way to rest during the trip.When you are away from home, you can video with your child multiple times a day, once in the morning or in the morning, once at noon, and once in the evening.Hearing the child call Dad, the feeling of fatigue was instantly eliminated.

Playing games with children is the happiest time at home.A peek-a-boo can last a long time.Children are very fond of laughing and crying. They cry countless times every day. When they cry, they feel helpless, and when they laugh, they often dance.Since the child can open the door, it is no longer "safe" to close the door and handle work in the study. He may come in at any time. When he comes in, he must climb my swivel chair, then ask me to hug the desk, and then press the mouse and keyboard. As long as I touch the computer, I feel like I am facing an enemy. On the one hand, I have to protect it from falling and prevent the computer from being damaged.When I get to the desk, after playing around, I will jump up for a while with my own rhythm, and then I will jump off the desk and let me hug it.

Sometimes when dealing with some urgent work, I will let my lover carry the child to the living room to play.But more often, I still play with my children for a while.The office is too far away from home, so in order not to waste time on the road, if not necessary, I choose to work from home.What's more, being able to see children at home is also a kind of happiness.

The most affectionate confession is companionship.I dare not sleep with the child for more than a month after he was born, worrying about pressing the child, and now as long as I give him a small space, it will not affect my sleep; I have never changed diapers, and now I am very skilled; I have never soaked Milk, until now, making milk, bathing, and dressing are very skillful, this is the exchange for companionship.Thinking of those parents who cannot accompany their children, the kind of yearning must be beyond words.The epidemic has greatly changed my work and lifestyle, and it has allowed me to spend more time with my children.

The highest-quality companionship every day is when you go to bed at night. When you are at home, you will basically sleep with your children. Before going to bed, you will tell stories to them. force.I can tell many versions of a race between the tortoise and the hare.Now I let my children sing to me every day. Although I don’t know what to sing, the most important thing is to participate.Sometimes I also play some interactive games on the bed and play nursery rhymes, and it doesn't take long for the child to fall asleep.Sometimes, we stay with our children without saying anything, and often fall asleep because we are too tired.After waking up, I leave the bedroom softly, and continue to work after finishing what I must do every day. Every day is almost a repeat of the previous day, but I feel that it is all worthwhile.

Only when I decided to take one day off a week, I started planning how to accompany my family and children during the break?Will plan in advance, where to go every week?Then I will tell my lover in advance, so that everyone knows what to expect, and I can devote myself more fully to work, and stop thinking about being with my children in a jumpy manner.

Children grow up very fast, and when they still need it, it is the best gift to accompany them more.If you don't wait until the child grows up and has his own life, it will be difficult to get close to him.Now is the age group for children to form habits, and it is also a particularly naughty age group. Sometimes people scratch their heads and make people feel hopeless. This is the nature of children.There is a lot to learn when it comes to being a parent, and to be consistent, plan to take some lessons with your loved ones.Otherwise, only one party will learn, and there will be conflicts and inconsistent thinking in parenting.Continuous learning, self-improvement, and high-quality companionship.

On the way forward, growing up with children is also happiness.This can be regarded as the deepest understanding of life since I started my business. If I don’t have such a cognition, I will get lost on the road of starting a business.

Home is the source of driving force for every entrepreneur.Because there are too many things about knocking out teeth and swallowing blood in the business field, each of which is enough to make people give up, but as long as you think about your family, everything is relieved.After living for decades, I really understood the true meaning of the words "get married and start a business" that the ancestors often said.Understanding a sentence literally is not really understanding, because it does not prompt action, and what is the use of not acting?You can only truly understand it if you practice it yourself.Home is a kind of responsibility and responsibility. As an entrepreneur, responsibility is the best source of motivation for self-improvement.

After starting a business, I have owned a lot and lost a lot.But everything has become a thing of the past. Cherish the present life, be a pure person, spend time with your family when you are resting, and devote yourself to work. This is the biggest gain from working for many years.The time with my family is the most relaxing time for me, and I will press the pause button for those chores at work when I am with you.

For everyone who starts a career, the original intention is to provide the best life for the family, but as time goes by, because it is not easy to make a career, in the end, in the hard work day after day, year after year, they forget The original intention was that I spent less time with my family. I was away from home all year round, and it was difficult to even have a meal with my family.Everyone's life is not easy, and companionship is often much easier than starting a career.In the process of learning Chinese classics, I really realized that companionship is truly worthy of my life's attention.Accompany the child to grow up, witness and participate in every important moment of the child's growth.Accompanying the family to spend every happy time, this is the meaning of struggle.