What should I do if my deskmate is too clingy?

There may be a lot of impulsiveness in Nan Jia's asking this question, but after she said it, she did not regret it, and even imagined Yu Xinan's possible reaction in her heart.

If the other party says no, then they can still be at the same table, be roommates and friends in peace; if the other party answers yes, she will probably say decisively, "But I don't like you."

This is Nanjia, who is extremely gentle to those he likes, and doesn't give even a chance to those he doesn't like.

However, this time Nanjia's radar probably turned over, and Yu Xinan's reaction was quite different from what she had seen before.

"Yes, I like you very much." The other party's tone was brisk, and there was no emotion such as shyness, dodge and anxiety after being punctured, only calmness.

The innocent and pure smile on Yu Xinan's face told her that the liking the other party mentioned should be just the liking between simple friends.After all, not everyone is like her, and fortunately the other party is different from her. Nan Jia breathed a sigh of relief and at the same time seemed to feel a little bit of loss, but she quickly ignored it.

She took a sip of water and reclined back on the sofa.

"Hey, Yu Xinan." Nanjia's tone was casual, suddenly curious, "Why do you like me?"

It seems that since the first meeting, the other party has a surprisingly high degree of affection for her. On the other hand, she always feels a little cramped when she gets along with other people.

"Because you are very good..." When she spoke, her eyes were shining brightly, as if she had cast a dazzling light in them.

Nam Chia is really good.

She is free, unrestrained, self-willed, publicized and brave...

On the other hand, she can't speak beautiful words, and she doesn't have a smart mind. Her dull and dull personality always makes her seem out of place in the crowd.Stupid, dull, timid, cowardly, unpopular...

One of the laws of complementarity in the principle of attraction shows that people are easily attracted to people who are completely different from themselves.Because they are different, they are more able to see the shining points of each other.

This is probably how Yu Xinan feels about Nan Jia. It can be said that the things in the other party are what she longs for but is difficult to have. She yearns for and hopes to become a person like Nan Jia.

Of course, that's not the only reason. A more important reason is that she clearly perceives that Nanjia is one of the few people who express pure kindness to her except her family.

"And," she fixed her gaze on Nanjia with a sincere expression, "you are my only friend."

"The only one?" Nanjia raised her eyebrows slightly, feeling a little puzzled, "Where are your former friends? And Yu Jingshi and the others, aren't they?"

"Not before." Yu Xinan answered the previous question first.

Those who hurt her in the name of friends should not be counted as friends. This is what Nan Jia told her, so she has no friends.

However, "Shishi and the others are classmates."

The past experience made Yu Xinan cherish and fear the word "friend".She is always obtuse and can't tell whether other people's kindness is true or false, so she can only use the most clumsy method, looking at everyone with vigilance, and therefore needs more time to accept others.

But this other person does not include Nanjia.

Regarding Yu Xinan's double standard, Nan Jia had a subtle complacency in her heart, but she hid this complacency very well and did not show it.

She changed the direction of her body, leaned closer to the other party and asked with a smile, "Why are they classmates and I am a friend?"

Yu Xinan replied truthfully, "Because you are different."

"Why am I different?" Nan Jia continued to ask.

"Because, because..." Yu Xinan was already stupid, and under her continuous questioning, she didn't know where to explain it.

"Because of what?" Nan Jia said in a frivolous tone, seeing Yu Xinan being forced into embarrassment by her, not only did she not feel guilty, she even went too far.

Seeing the teasing smile on her face, Yu Xinan finally realized belatedly that she was probably being teased, a slight look of embarrassment flashed across her face, and her cheeks puffed up slightly with anger.

Seeing this, Nanjia felt a sense of revenge in her heart.

Ever since he met Yu Xinan, he always choked on her, but this time it was her who pissed her off, Nan Jia would have to take it easy.Moreover, she was also a little curious about how a meek person like Yu Xinan would look like when he was angry.

However, at least Nanjia couldn't see it this time.

Yu Xinan was only annoyed for a short while, then organized her words in her mind, and explained slowly, "Because you helped me and told me that a true friend would not hurt me, and encouraged me to be brave..."

She counted them one by one, explaining the significance of Nanjia to her.

And Nan Jia finally gradually recalled one thing from her words.

It seemed to be the second year of junior high school. At that time, she hadn't noticed anything wrong between Shen You and Nan Yongwang, and her life was going well, and she was willing to help others when she was in a particularly good mood.

It seemed that I had invited people from No. [-] Middle School to play together that day, and happened to meet some girls who were bullying a child on the way.At the beginning, it was just all kinds of insults and belittling, and later it started to slap.

Nan Jia couldn't stand it, so she slammed the basketball in her hand at the lead girl, "What are you doing? Bullying children, you're very capable!"

"Ah!" The girl who was hit on the shoulder screamed in pain, covering the place where she was hit with her hands while looking back at the perpetrator not far away.

"You must be sick." The girl turned around and cursed angrily with a dark face, but after seeing the other person's appearance clearly, she kept her voice hoarse.

The troublemaker was a thin, tall girl, wearing a black and white school uniform, with a black backpack hanging casually on her left shoulder, and her right hand was still in the posture of throwing a ball.What is very different from ordinary middle school students is her hair, which is a beautiful mint green.

People with unusual hair color like Nan Jia, in the eyes of most people, are more common in street girls or vocational high school students.

Although these few people are arrogant, they are only in front of their peers. When they meet someone who is even more arrogant than them, they immediately become shrinking turtles, and they dare not fart.

Nan Jia took two steps forward to take back her basketball, with an arrogant expression, "Yes, I have a disease, this disease is called 'seeing injustice, draw your sword to help', can you help me cure it?"

The human next to the leading girl said, "I think you have a second-grade illness."

Nan Jia glanced at the other party, the corners of her lips curled up slightly, but she was not too angry, anyway, it was not the first time someone said she was a middle school student.

She shook the basketball in her hand, her eyes swept across a row of people's faces, "I haven't tried what it feels like to hit someone's face with a basketball. Congratulations, I am honored to be the first lucky ones."

"Are you kidding me?" another freckled girl shrieked, putting her hand over her face.

The leading girl tugged at her sleeve to stop her from swearing.

In this group of people, she is quite rational.It's fine to do things like bullying classmates behind the scenes, and it's not good for them to insist on making a scene.And people like Nanjia are not something they can afford.

Enduring the pain in her shoulder, the girl grabbed the girl who had just been beaten and explained to Nanjia, "You misunderstood, we are friends, and we were just joking around."

"Play?" Nanjia sneered, and then made a look of sudden realization, "Oh, then I'm playing with you too."

The leading girl smiled stiffly upon hearing this, "No need..."

Before he could finish his sentence, he was hit hard by a basketball flying towards him.

Nanjia moved neatly, and immediately recovered the ball after smashing one and continued to hit the next one.The other party also reacted quickly and began to unite together to stop Nanjia, but Nanjia's fighting skills were not comparable to those of them. Run away in disgrace.

Looking at the backs of everyone running away, Nanjia whistled happily, then turned to look at the shivering little poor man hiding in the corner.

The child is not tall, about a head shorter than her, and the baggy blue and white school uniform on her body makes her look too thin.Because of the previous actions, the girl's long black hair became a little messy. Nan Jia reached out to help her smooth it out, but the person who was still in fear subconsciously avoided it.

"Kids, don't be afraid, they've already left." Nan Jia cleared her throat and said softly, "Sister just wants to help you with your hair, okay?"

"I'm sorry." The child first apologized, and then slowly raised his head, revealing a childish and lovely face, half of which could still be seen a little red and swollen.

It's really a child, Nan Jia waved his hand, "It's okay, don't say sorry to me, you can tidy up your hair first, do you want me to help?"

With a timid expression on the child's face, she shook her head slightly and rejected Nanjia's request for help, combed her hair with her fingers, and tied it up again with a rubber band.

Nan Jia also took advantage of this time to squat down, picked up the schoolbag that fell on the ground, and handed it to her after the other party finished sorting it out.

The child took it hesitantly, held it to his chest, looked at Nan Jia and whispered thanks, "Thank you."

"You're welcome." Nan Jia said indifferently.

The child in front of him has a very cute and well-behaved face, and his words are polite.Out of love for the weak, Nan Jia asked in a responsible manner, "Little friend, why did you come here alone, why didn't you go with your classmates?"

"..." The person on the opposite side was silent for a few seconds before saying, "Those people just now are my classmates."

When Nanjia heard this, a look of embarrassment flashed across his face.Perhaps it was because the faces of the other party were too deceptive, Nan Jia subconsciously ignored that the school uniforms on several of them were actually the same.

"Okay." Nanjia asked her again, "Why didn't you call me when you were bullied just now?"

The child submissively explained, "No, they are my friends, they did this because I did something wrong, they didn't mean to bully me..."

She wanted to defend others, but the grievance and sadness in her heart kept reminding her that this was not the case, so the more she spoke, the more confident she became, and she was completely silent at the end.

Well, Nanjia understands, it seems that this is not the first time, people and children have been brainwashed into something.

"Friend?" She looked at him unclearly and said.

The child lowered his head guiltyly and did not dare to look at each other, and said weakly, "Fan Jie said we are friends..."

"Okay, friend." Nanjia was a little annoyed. She thought she was a poor kid, but she didn't expect to be disappointed. She patiently made the last attempt to see if she could guide this little guy back from the wrong way. "Then what do you say?" Say, what did you do wrong to deserve what your 'friends' did to you?"

Nan Jia deliberately emphasized the tone of the word "friends", full of irony.

The other party probably understood, her ears turned red, and her voice was as soft as a mosquito, "I accidentally bumped into her desk after class..."

It's such a trivial matter, and it's not just this trivial matter. As long as they think about it, they can always find an excuse.

She couldn't help crying as she spoke, and she cried while talking, "She was obviously fine at first, she apologized to me, and I forgave her. I didn't want to talk to her at first, but she has been following me and accompanying me Do homework together, help me to be on duty, other people bully and even speak for me, I thought she got better..."

As if she had been suppressed for a long time and finally found someone to confide in, she couldn't wait to cry out all the grievances that were suppressed in her heart.

That day, the child cried for a long time, and Nanjia didn't even play the ball, so she squatted there and cried with her all afternoon.

In fact, Nan Jia didn't fully understand what happened between them until the end, but she knew how to do some things.

"In short, this kind of person who does harm in the name of a friend is not worthy of the word friend, kid, you should be sober, it should be called an enemy." Nanjia suggested sincerely in an old-fashioned tone, "In the future, remember to ask people for help when you encounter this kind of thing. Teachers and parents are fine. Let's see who is helpful. My sister suggests that you tell your parents about this when you get home today. I don't know what's going on in your family. It's better to change schools."

Hearing this, the child nodded with his red and swollen eyes open, "I see."

"Also, be tougher in the future, don't be such a waste." Nanjia patted her head, but the other party didn't hide this time, "Only if you are tough enough, others won't bully you, understand?"

"Yeah." The child continued to nod.

"Okay, let's go home, my sister is gone." Sending people home, Nan Jia is the most benevolent.

"elder sister."

Nanjia turned around, and two lines of tears hung on the child's face. She asked, "What's wrong?"

The child hastily wiped his tears with his sleeve, shook his head and said, "No, thank you sister, goodbye sister."

"Goodbye."

……

At the end of the memory, Nanjia looked at the clean and beautiful little deskmate in front of him, and compared it with the little guy crying like a cat in his memory, and sighed, "So you are that poor little guy."

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