The style of the Queen Mother in Qing Dynasty is different

The second princess is like a melon-eating crowd who strayed into the set. What are the actors doing?She can't stand the show!

Qiqige kept urging, "You are talking!"

The second princess swallowed her saliva, "I want to ask the emperor's grandmother about this matter..."

Qiqige yelled directly, "Wrong! You have to refuse this kind of thing from the very beginning! Adding an official to a noble is related to the government. Do you know what the situation of the previous dynasty is like? Are you in charge of this matter? You are not sure how to handle it." Don’t make wishes casually when you arrive.”

The Empress Dowager said again: "There must be a bottom line in being a person and doing things. You have to draw a line in your heart. For things within this line, it doesn't matter if you are generous and let others take advantage of it. Anything beyond this line You must fight back, leaving no room for trouble!"

Qiqige ran to lie down next to the Empress Dowager, and pillowed on the Empress Dowager's lap.

"Hey, did you see that I'm lying on your imperial grandmother's lap? It's a trivial matter. It's a matter within that line. Your imperial grandmother will not care about me. Look again!"

Qiqige reached out to the Empress Dowager, "Mother-in-law, give me the money!"

The Empress Dowager patted her on the forehead with a smile, and Qi Qige said to the second princess: "See, the money is drawn by your grandmother."

The second princess covered her mouth and laughed, and the Empress Dowager said: "This is just an example from your mother-in-law. The Guerjia family you are going to marry is a big family with a lot of brothers, sisters and wives. If they come to beg you Do you want to agree to everything?"

The second princess is not stupid, "People don't worry about being few but suffering unevenly. If I do something for this brother, but not for that sister, it will definitely attract resentment. Grandmother, is this the truth?"

The Empress Dowager nodded happily, "That's the reason. Some openings can't be opened. Once opened, they can't be closed. You are a princess. It's not easy to refuse in front of your elders. Just cry. Others don't have to give them face. Just show off the majesty of a princess, let me see who dares to be presumptuous!"

Qiqige urged them to get back to the topic, "If you understand the principle, you must keep up with it in practice. Tell me, what if Aobai asks for an official position for his nephew?"

The second princess thought about it and said: "The princess is not allowed to engage in politics, and I have nothing to do."

Qiqige tried her best to stare, imitating Oboi's ferocious appearance, but it's a pity that he didn't pretend to be ferocious, but he was kind of cute.

"This is not asking for an official position for someone who has nothing to do with it, and you are actually refusing like this!"

The second princess whispered: "I really can't help it. Uncle has more face than me in court, why don't you ask the emperor?"

The Empress Dowager and Qiqige smiled and applauded, "That's a good sentence."

The Empress Dowager said: "If Oboi refuses to let go, you can cry again at this time. If you really can't cry, you can take the maids and guards back to the palace, and let your mother-in-law go to Oboi's mansion to spoil her."

The second princess agreed with a smile.

Qiqige rolled her eyes, "Sapo? Then you are looking for the wrong person, I am not a shrew."

After teaching the second princess how to deal with Aobai, Qiqige taught her how to cry in front of her husband.

"Men! Most of them can't do anything about women's tears. When you cry in front of your husband, you must cry beautifully. It must be charming and not annoying."

The second princess listened with a smile, but she didn't think so in her heart.The queen's mother said that other things are very convincing, so let's forget about Yufushu!During her lifetime, Huang Ama devoted all her heart to Concubine Dong E. Although she was young, she still remembered it!

The second princess is embarrassed to refute the face of the elders, but the empress dowager doesn't care so much.

She joked: "You should teach something else! You are so good at crying, why didn't you win the heart of the late emperor?"

Qiqige was furious, I am a giant in theory, but definitely not a dwarf in action!It's not that I can't do it, I just don't want to waste my energy on the dog man!

"Emperor Niang's words are wrong! The first emperor did love Concubine Dong E, but who did he give away all the things in his private treasury? Concubine Dong E's father was named a third-class prince, and my father was named a prince. It is clear at a glance who the late emperor's true love is. ! I'm being low-key, it's because the bun has skin and it's not on the folds!"

Empress Dowager: I didn't see the pleats of the buns, I only saw that you are good at putting gold on your face.

The Empress Dowager changed the topic, "You should teach her how to get along with sister-in-law and sister-in-law first!"

Forget about imperial husbandry, but don't teach my granddaughter badly.

Qiqige is not picky, getting along with sister-in-law and sister-in-law is also a big topic, which is worth studying.

"There is only one point in dealing with interpersonal relationships. You must be kind, because harmony makes money, but you can't be too kind. You have a noble status. Of course, your sister-in-law and sister-in-law dare not bully you, but they may come to fight the autumn wind. It doesn't matter if you want to give it to the autumn wind." , don’t give if you’re not willing to give. You remember, it’s your duty to give, and it’s your duty not to.”

Qiqige is about to start role-playing again, "Come on, let me play sister-in-law."

She held the handkerchief and walked to the second princess in a pretentious way, "Oh!"

The second princess straightened her back in fright, "What... what's wrong?"

Qiqige directly took off the filigree butterfly hairpin inlaid with emeralds on the second princess's bun.

"Sister-in-law, your hairpin is so pretty, just give it to me!"

The second princess hurriedly said: "This... this is what my queen mother gave me..."

"Oh! No wonder this hairpin is so beautiful. It turned out to be the Empress Dowager's property. Good sister-in-law, you can give it to me! I like this hairpin so much!"

The Empress Dowager also made it more difficult, "If I were your mother-in-law, I would say: This hairpin looks good on your sister, so you can give this to her! What should you do?"

The second princess said sullenly: "Sister-in-law and mother-in-law won't do this, right? Isn't this stealing people's things? It's something that the poor settle down..."

Qiqige scolded: "You can pull it down! When Taizu was young, he hunted in the woods! If you count up three generations, no one's family will be settled. Now I will give you some extreme examples. In the future, when you meet Anything can be resolved.”

The second princess nodded again and again, indicating that she was taught.

The Empress Dowager taught her, "The newlyweds are thin-skinned, and the little aunt and mother-in-law begged a few words and said a few nice words. You are too embarrassed to refuse, so you obey them. But people are greedy, and if you have the first time, you will have the second." The second time, you gave it the first two times, and if you don’t give it the third time, you will complain. It’s better not to give it from the beginning, and everyone will be clean.”

Qiqige gave the second princess an additional question, "Suppose you rejected your mother-in-law and sister-in-law, and your husband is dissatisfied, what should you do? Remember, you have to cry weakly at this time. The power is overwhelming. Husband and wife have to run in, how can there be a saying? Quarreling at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed..."

Speaking of this, Qiqige wants to expand some knowledge to the second princess.

"Everyone has desires. That kind of thing is normal. Don't be shy. This kind of thing requires you to be happy. If you have a request, you can ask it. Don't be shy. Things on the bed are normal physiological needs, and there is nothing wrong with them." No shame, you know what I mean?"

The second princess thought for a while before she understood what Qiqige meant. She blushed and ran to hide behind the empress dowager.

"Grandmother, what did you hear what the Empress said!"

The Empress Dowager pointed at Qiqige's nose and scolded: "You are too immodest as an elder!"

Qiqige felt that they were making a fuss, "What can't be said about this? How did the second princess be born? Bypassing this matter, how can human beings continue to reproduce?"

The little girl has a thin skin, she is too shy, what if the sex life is not harmonious in the future?My knowledge expansion is very meaningful, I advise you to know the goods!

The second princess was so ashamed that her face was about to burn, she buried her head on her grandmother's shoulder, the empress dowager hugged her granddaughter and told Qi Qige to leave quickly.

Qiqige also said that Aunt Su Ma didn't care about the rules, stepped forward to cover her mouth, and pushed her out.

Qiqige stretched out her hand and shouted silently: Let me go!let me drive!Let me drive a car that is not allowed in JJ Literature City!

When Qiqige went out, the Empress Dowager hugged her granddaughter and comforted her softly.

"Okay, okay, it's okay, I kicked your empress mother out."

The second princess complained in a low voice, "How did the Queen Mother say such a thing? You are so ashamed!"

The Empress Dowager patted her on the back, "It's not unreasonable what your Empress Dowager said, it's just that this kind of thing shouldn't be said out loud."

She whispered to her granddaughter: "The emperor's grandmother will find you some fire avoidance maps later, you can take them back and read."

The second princess covered her face in shame, and ran away without raising her head.Both the emperor's grandmother and the emperor's wife are bullies!

After that, Qiqige taught the second princess how to take care of her dowry, how to manage the servants brought out of the palace, and how to socialize with the noble ladies in the capital.Life after marriage is a big question, Qiqige can't wait to give the second princess everything in her mind.

In the sixth year of Kangxi, Qin Tianjian set an auspicious day, and the second princess got married.

Before getting married, the second princess came to the Palace of Compassion and Ning to bid farewell to the Empress Dowager and the Empress Dowager.

The empress dowager felt guilty looking at her granddaughter, her eyes were full of tears for such a strong person.

Qiqige patted the Empress Dowager on the back, "It's a happy day, don't wipe your tears."

She helped the second princess up again and held her hand tightly.

"You are the most honorable princess, don't bear with being wronged, come back and file a complaint, the Empress will make the decision for you."

The second princess held back her tears and said, "Thank you, Queen Mother, I know that I am weak, but my daughter is a good student. With your careful teaching, my daughter will definitely have a good life!"

The Empress Dowager and Qi Qige sent her out, and the second princess was wearing a bright red auspicious dress, and the light refracted by the ruby ​​on the top of the crown made people's eyes hurt.

She got into the sedan chair, and the eunuchs carried the dowry, and the wedding procession went far away.

Qiqige looked at the wedding procession and let out a long sigh.

The empress dowager also sighed, "It's my incompetence as an elder who hurt the child. Are you blaming me in your heart?"

Qiqige shook her head deeply, "I didn't blame you, I know your difficulties. Born in the emperor's family, the second princess also has to bear her responsibilities. I just suddenly regretted that I shouldn't have taught the second princess back then."

"What nonsense are you talking about, I think you teach very well!"

Qiqige said remorsefully: "No! Why should I teach the second princess? I should arrest my son-in-law and learn male virtues!"

Qiqige is a person who is very good at summing up experience and lessons. If she was negligent this time, she will never make the same mistake next time.

She said to the Empress Dowager: "I will leave the recipe, you eat according to the recipe, don't be lazy and perfunctory. I have to retreat for half a year, and I will write a book to say that when I leave the retreat, it will be the time when the masterpiece "Men's Virtue" will be published. ! When Xuanye gives birth to a daughter in the future, I will hold a forehead training class!"