The dream amusement park starts with a street stall

"Ahem..." Su Lang cleared his throat and broke the silence.

Mother obviously still has a lot of questions to ask, but emotions are still brewing at this time.Anyway, she has to stay in Nanhai City for at least a few days, so it's okay to talk slowly and ask questions slowly.

Then, it was Su Lang's turn to ask his mother a question: "Mom, did you come to Nanhai City because you saw me on TV? Why did you come here alone, and Uncle Zhang wasn't with you?"

Uncle Zhang was talking about Su Lang's stepfather, who was introduced to Su's mother when Su Lang was in high school.Su Lang has lived in school since high school, and his relationship with his stepfather is not very good, calling "Uncle" instead of "Hello", in Su Lang's opinion, it is a great way to give that man face.

I thought my mother would say that the business in my hometown was busy, and Uncle Zhang didn't have the skills to do it all, and he didn't want to travel thousands of miles to see this stepson who had no connection and no relationship.

Unexpectedly, Mother Su sighed heavily, and then laughed at herself twice: "Oh, I was really deceived by lard and brainwashed by paste, I never thought that I would share the same bed People who have been around for almost ten years actually harbor evil intentions..."

Hiding evil intentions?so serious?Su Lang immediately raised his ears.

"When your father first left, I really thought about living alone for the rest of my life and bringing you up. But seeing you are so young, every day when you come home from school, you can only go to the microwave oven to heat leftovers, and wait until I come back from work. It’s really uncomfortable.” When recalling the past, the mother was much calmer than when she was crying on her unconscious legs just now, as if she was telling someone else’s story.

When his mother said this, Su Lang still had some impressions.After my father passed away, my mother could only take care of the housework and work full-time at the same time, which was still very tiring.Fortunately, I was still able to live up to my expectations, and my academic performance has not declined under such a major blow. I was admitted to the best high school in the small county, and finally went to Nanhai University of Technology.

Thinking of this, Su Lang felt a little guilty.Back then, my mother sacrificed so much energy to carry herself and work on her shoulders, just to make herself a talent, but on the contrary, she deliberately alienated her because she cared about the existence and attitude of her stepfather...

Su's mother's memories continue: "It's not that I haven't thought about resigning. I will rely on your father's pension to send you to high school first. If you don’t enter the society, it will be difficult to find a job again, and you can only hope that your son will be filial, or your remarried wife will have a conscience.”

Su Lang nodded, at this moment his heart was completely filled with gratitude to his mother.For so many years, I have never thought about how my mother survived the years from the death of her father to the time she met her stepfather.

"It's also fortunate that you were already in junior high school at that time, and you were not a little kid who couldn't take care of himself. Alas, I remembered that there was an older brother in the work unit, and the child was still in kindergarten. His wife died of a sudden illness, and he took care of the child alone. It’s much harder than me to grow up. And I have an old sister..." When thinking about her husband who passed away unexpectedly, Su's mother always comforted herself with cases that were more unfortunate than herself.

Su Lang didn't interrupt his mother's memory, although he was more curious about the story that followed.He only remembered the summer vacation when he was just in high school, when his mother hesitated to bring him to meet Uncle Zhang for the first time.

It was another family squabble, and Su's mother finally talked about what Su Lang was most interested in at the moment, but she never wanted to know about it at the time.

"Later, an older sister in the work unit introduced me to Uncle Zhang. He was divorced, and when he got married, he made an appointment with his ex-wife to ask for dink. After a period of marriage, his ex-wife regretted it again. But Uncle Zhang still insisted on not letting go. Divorced and found someone else to have a child. It is difficult for me to bring a boy into a second marriage. After all, any man will raise someone else's son, and everyone will feel a little uncomfortable. But the eldest sister is a neighbor in the same community as him, saying that he doesn't care, anyway You are already ten years old, and you don't need him to expend too much energy to help raise you."

Su Lang nodded.Inheriting one's own genes is a biological instinct, and most people would not be willing to raise children for others.

"I also thought it sounded good. I met him a few times and felt that this person is in good condition in all aspects. It's really tiring to live alone in middle age, so let's live with him. Later you also know , I asked you to meet, and he didn't show much dislike for having a son, that's how I slowly fell into his trap."

"Trap?" Su Lang asked with his eyes wide open.

"That's right, alas..." Su's mother sighed heavily, and blamed herself again, "When we were together, he was very gentle to me, and he kept saying that he didn't mind the existence of your son, but it was impossible to be like him. I never thought it was a problem to be as close as a biological father and son. But in retrospect, he also kept instilling in me at the same time that my son is already grown up, and he can be self-reliant slowly, and that my small family with him is the best Important and so on."

Su Lang felt in his heart that what he said was not bad, the relationship between husband and wife in a small family is the core.But presumably what mother wanted to say couldn't be all that, so he didn't refute and just listened quietly.

"Later, the relationship with him stabilized, and he began to suppress me and belittle me from various aspects. For example, he himself had good working conditions, and he thought that my job as a cook in the canteen of the factory was mediocre and there was no room for promotion. He also said that since I have mastered a lot of cooking skills, it is better to open a shop and start my own business, and he can also give me his idle front room to open a shop, and use part of the savings to help me open it—" Su Mu paused Suddenly, with a sarcastic or self-deprecating look on his face, "I thought I had received so much kindness from him!"

Su Lang also had an impression of this matter.Not long after he was in high school, his mother, who had already been in charge of the canteen in the factory, suddenly announced her resignation from the factory, giving up the salary and stability for a middle-aged woman who graduated from high school like his mother. She changed her job to start her own business and opened a dessert shop.

At that time, Su Lang also felt that his mother had found a good home, and there was no pressure on finances and life, so it was reasonable to want to pursue the career he liked.It's just that he didn't expect that this career was persuaded by his stepfather.

Moreover, in an intimate relationship, they try their best to suppress them. This kind of emotional manipulation behavior uses a buzzword that mothers may not know, which is "PUA", relying on belittling the ability and even personality of the victim to destroy their self-confidence Self-esteem, and then gradually obey their own words, and even make extreme behaviors.

Although the mother did not do extreme behavior, the stepfather blew so many pillow rumors that "boys should be self-reliant and self-reliant when they grow up", which also made the mother often fall into the question of "whether I have invested too much in my son to hurt the stepfather". Self-doubt, and gradually alienated his own son.

Presumably this is also one of the results of the stepfather's subtle emotional manipulation.

"Mom, I remember that the business of the dessert shop is not bad. You have been favored by many young girls for making desserts." But Su Lang was a little puzzled. He remembered that when the shop opened, his mother was quite happy. Full of sense of accomplishment.When I go home on weekends, my mother will still show off in front of me with a little pride. Not long after the new store opened, it attracted a group of salarymen working nearby and became regular customers.

Why did the dessert shop become the first place for the mother to see through the character of the stepfather?

"Well, it's a long story, let me talk to you slowly first. Anyway, this is how I have come over these years, his attitude towards me has always been to slap me, give me a sweet date, and make me think about myself Is there any room for improvement in his behavior, and then his sweet dates have been thrown out, and I will unconsciously follow his advice." Mother paused again, her expression became more serious, "Including... Dad's Pension expands stores and opens branches."

"So, his purpose is to seek Dad's pension?" Su Lang felt that his fist was a little hard.The accidental death of his father was entirely due to the lack of safety supervision in the factory, which led to the aging of the equipment. Pensions and funeral expenses cost 10,000+, which was quite high in the period when prices had not soared more than ten years ago. .

Mother Su didn't answer directly, but just smiled wryly: "It's fine if he just expects me to put the pension money into the small shop. After all, this is the business I run together with him, and we both have a share. But Langerzi, Do you know that this kind of duplicity person, for the benefit of his filth and not daring to see others, is so thoughtful to such an extent! If I hadn't met his ex-wife by chance a few months ago, I really..."

Speaking of this, Su's mother became emotional again and coughed heavily twice. Su Lang had to pat her mother's back lightly to calm her down as much as possible: "Mom, I'll ask the waiter to pour some tea, please speak slowly." , don't worry."

But he felt that the story was getting more bloody, why was it related to Uncle Zhang's ex-wife?

After the waiter went out, Su's mother drank two sips of tea, and then continued to change into a tone that seemed to be telling someone else's story: "He tried his best to make me alienate my own son as much as possible, and actually wanted to use my money to support his son!"

"Ah? Didn't you mean his unwavering Dink?" Su Lang's eyes widened again.

"Hehe, listen to me slowly. An old raw material supplier in the store was planning to immigrate his family to Wool Country for retirement. Before he left, he introduced another company to me. It turned out that the new supplier happened to be his ex-wife's. My current husband, whose surname is Zhu. When I first met Brother Zhu, his wife was there. He heard that I was serving Xinyu Dessert, and his expression was a bit weird. After we negotiated the terms of supply, Brother Zhu left , let his wife and I have a little chat about family affairs, she knew that I was Uncle Zhang’s current wife, and after she said he was a DINK, she immediately showed a pitiful expression and told me: ‘Sister, you have been cheated gone.'"

"I was hit by thunder at the time. She explained to me that Uncle Zhang's DINK meant that he had no children with his ex-wife, and he had no children with me, but he had an illegitimate child! The child was born for six months, and he still had a child with his partner. This ex-wife who knows nothing about getting married."

When Su Lang heard this, he suddenly felt thunderbolt.

The author has something to say: Emotional control is not a concept that has only emerged in recent years, it has only been valued in recent years.I don't know if saying these things in the speech is considered to be carrying private goods, but

When my mother first started working, there was an aunt in the unit, who was my mother’s mentor in the first few years of work.The story of Su Lang and her mother is also based on her experience, with some dramatic elements added.

Auntie was a rare only child in that era, and her life was really hard.She gave birth to a son with her ex-husband, and then her ex-husband got into a fight after drinking, broke someone's arm and squatted in the classroom, and the two left.

The second-married husband is an old bachelor who has never been married, but he looked good when he was young. He tricked other people's girls into having a child and refused to marry him.The child's mother had no money at home, so he set his sights on his aunt's mother's family, and wanted to use her money to secretly raise his illegitimate child, so he tried to instill in her that his son was already seventeen or eighteen, and it was time for him to stand on his own, dear Mom shouldn't subsidize too much.

How much money can the old couple spend without subsidizing their son?The information was blocked again, and I was in a second-tier city, and when I released the illegitimate child and the child's mother to the surrounding small counties, no one knew about it.

My aunt's son was unwilling to go to work. He resigned after working for several years, and went to sea with his friends. He had no business acumen and lost a lot of money.Bewitched by her second-married husband, the aunt was dissatisfied with how she saw her son. The son went down to the sea and said that he had high eyesight but low abilities (although he was right), and then went back to work and said that he was not good enough.Anyway, he has been hit by reality and his mother one after another all his life, so he is so muddled.

When she found out that her second-married husband had an illegitimate child, and lied to her to support his illegitimate child with her natal family's money for so many years, the aunt was hit hard, and her spirit was not normal, so she directly applied for internal retirement at work.Her son's relationship with her is average and his economic conditions are average, but he still has a conscience. Relying on the support of relatives in his aunt's hometown, he took her to see a doctor across the country, and it was not painful when he finally left.

So little angels, no matter how old you are, you must be cautious when entering a relationship. Once the other party has P/U/A behaviors that are willing to belittle your personal conditions, or encourage you to cut off the positive relationship with your relatives, you must run away!

感谢在2021-06-1201：53：27~2021-06-1302：31：48期间为我投出霸王票或灌溉营养液的小天使哦~

Thanks to the little angel of irrigation nutrient solution: 10 bottles of Qianmo;

Thank you very much for your support, I will continue to work hard!