shake green

When Jiang Shi received a call from her mother asking her to go on a blind date, she had just finished class.

As the summer vacation approached, the students were particularly restless. Jiang Shi almost finished the main points at the top of his voice, but some students didn't listen to a single word.Jiang Shi was unhappy because of the students' classroom discipline.

Today's junior high school students are all Teppy, and few are obedient.

Seeing that she is a female teacher, she speaks in a gentle manner on weekdays, and she is also thin.It doesn't look majestic at all.

Indeed, she has no temper and no dignity.

In the eyes of others, he was a wronged bun.

I haven't made up my mind yet, just accept it.

My major in college is that my family said that it is good for girls to study Chinese language and literature, and they can be teachers when they come out in the future.She chose to major in Chinese Language and Literature.After graduation, the family said that the school's staffing teacher was good, so she obediently took the exam.

She graduated in July last year, and now it is one month away, and she has graduated for one year.

She thought that what the family said was right, being a teacher on paid leave was close to home.Social benefits are also high.But they didn't tell her that the new teacher was going to be a class teacher like a nanny, and there were various assessments, not only to handle the relationship with colleagues, but also the students' parents.

Even the group of students she manages.

Also have to use the right way to deal with it.

But she has never been such a person who can handle these interpersonal relationships well.

Her parents have arranged for her since she was a child, and she can just study. Who knows that being a teacher in school also has to deal with interpersonal relationships.

It has been almost a year now, and few of the teachers in the office are close to her.

Everyone is superficially polite, but secretly serious.

Daily gossip and clique formation are not unheard of.

Jiang Shi never got involved.

Slowly, people in the office pushed her out.

But she has a good appearance and is a Chinese teacher. She is soft-spoken and her writing is not bad.Regardless of the young male teacher or the elderly, they all love to say a few words to her.

There are already many female teachers in the school, and everything they see is cute and spreads around.There are many things about hearing the wind is the rain, and Jiang Shi hates this way of chatting the most.

It was also because of this that the female teacher in the office always liked to discuss her in private.

It's mostly her fault.

It is said that she is superior and does not know how to deal with interpersonal relationships.

She also said that she loves to carry it.

It's not a good word after all, and Jiang Shi has no interest in knowing it, so it's not her trouble.

Her recent troubles started when her controlling mother asked her to start a blind date.

Jiang Shi graduated at the age of 23. By this year, he will be 24 years old.She also didn't know why after she got a stable job, she suddenly went from being able to consider marriage matters to not finding a good one.

Then everyone in the family said that she should not look too high, it is almost enough.

Then he started frantically introducing her to a blind date.

From police to civil servants, to doctors, teachers, accountants, lawyers.Almost one a week.One day off a week is not easy, and it is clearly arranged.

Jiang Shi thought at the time that he just had to bite the bullet and go.

If you don't like it, let it go. If adults have something to say, it's fine.

But she didn't expect that, after agreeing to the first blind date, she began to be blind dated like a nightmare.

As long as it's five o'clock in the afternoon on Friday, her mother's phone will ring on time.

First, I will call her very kindly, Jiang Jiang, and then start to talk at length, this time, your aunt's friend introduced a civil servant who is very close to our home.As for age, I am two years older than you, but I heard that the other party is practical and capable, and he is still a party member.The prospects are good.

I have arranged a dinner for you tonight.

You clean up now.

Last time I introduced a surgeon.

She is seven years older than her. Although she is a few years older, she has excellent medical skills and has a staff.He is solid.Both parents are doctors, a medical family.After that, seeing a doctor or something, I don't know how convenient it is.

Jiang Shi didn't hear a word about that person.

Anyway, as long as they want to meet each other.

It can keep the ears clean for a week.

But Jiang Shi never expected that when he first met the other party, the first sentence he said was: "I am usually very busy, and I don't often stay at home. Do you know how to wash and cook? Can you take care of yourself? How long do you think?" You can have kids."

"If you have children, can you be a full-time wife at home? I don't have so much time to take care of children at home. But my family really wants it."

Jiang Shi had an expression of ellipsis and question mark throughout.

She couldn't speak at all.

In the end, I ate a meal with my scalp numb, and then went back to my respective homes.

The other party also said that Jiang Shi has a good temper.It can be further developed.But Jiang Shi felt nothing the whole time.

She didn't accept any pursuit from the other party, and of course the other party didn't have time to pursue her.

The money for the meal that day was still AA for the two of them. With such an attitude, the other party said that they deliberately hung him up.

Jiang Shi really never scolded anyone.

Her temper is relatively soft, and she was used to being arranged by her family since she was a child.

But in fact, after Jiang Shi went to college, she saw the outside world, and she seemed to have found what she loved, so she tried to resist.

But in the end it's still not so confident.

In the end, it was arranged clearly.

In addition, parents always love to fight, they are for her own good, in the name of love, and they always love to restrain her on the moral level.If Jiang Shi didn't do a good job at all, his mother would cry.

Said how much effort they spent to train her.

Jiang Shi's family conditions are average, but her parents will always try their best to give her all the best.But the best ones never made Jiang Shi feel loved.

Even in many cases, Jiang Shi felt that she was just the capital used by her parents to show off.

When studying, what you can show off is your grades, which good school you got into.After graduation, what kind of job do you find, whether it is stable, whether it is well paid, and whether it can make money.

They never cared—

Does she like it or not.

Are there things you are willing to do and things you want to do.

They never asked about these.

Then after her job was stable, she began to urge her to get married and find a marriage partner who satisfied them.

It doesn't matter what kind of person the other party is.

What matters is his occupation, how much money he can make, his family background.

Jiang Shi sees him once a week, and he is almost numb.

At the beginning, her mother was dissatisfied with her behavior, but in the end, her seven aunts and eight aunts took turns.

Either to persuade her not to be so high-sighted, or to persuade her, it's almost enough.

I also told her that if there is one in the school, it is okay to look for it in the school.But you have to have good conditions, and you can't ask for bad conditions.

……

Jiang Shi's head was about to explode when he heard it.

It was even scarier than the gossip scene of the teachers in her school.

Every time, Jiang Shi showed an attitude of listening attentively, and then perfunctory.

After all, relatives are very busy on weekdays, and they only meet each other during family dinners or Chinese New Year.Or chat a few words on WeChat.

When Jiang Shi was studying in the past, none of those relatives added WeChat.

Now after graduating and returning to my hometown to work, I am still an editor-in-chief teacher in a key middle school at home.The family group exploded in an instant.

Everyone came to get close to Jiang Shila.

Jiang Shi also knew that it was all for the family to have something related to education in the future, so that he could help out at that time.

But in fact, Jiang Shi is a new teacher, and he is still not on his feet.

And Jiang Shi doesn't like this kind of intimacy very much, so he deliberately twisted it.Jiang Shi politely refused, but unexpectedly, relatives ran to her parents to complain.

It is said that Jiang Shi is amazing now.

The weaving teacher who had just passed the exam began to put on airs.

Her parents told her again that Jiang Shi had no choice but to wrong herself.

Only then did the relatives in the family start to introduce her to her blind date.Everyone wants to be Jiang Shi's matchmaker.

But it doesn't mean that they are kind to Jiang Shi, it's just that they have their own plans.

Maybe it's because these things piled up together, Jiang Shi felt like he was in a closed box, almost suffocating.

Just in that state.

Jiang Shi suddenly found her fresh air.

That day, she just finished meeting the blind date her mother introduced to her.

Yes, it was the night after her mother finished the phone call and told her to tidy herself up and meet her blind date.

She felt like she was about to suffocate.

The blind date I met this time was a low-level civil servant. Jiang Shi really didn't understand any of the conditions he listed. Anyway, in the end he grinned his teeth and said to her with a smile:

"Actually, I originally wanted to find a wife who would help me in my career, but when I saw your photo, I thought you looked pretty good. You are also a teacher, and you have winter and summer vacations, so you can take care of your family."

Jiang Shi's whole body collapsed.

She felt deaf in both ears, got up and said that she went to the bathroom by herself, and never went back.

That night, her mother blew up her phone.

But she didn't answer any of them.

She walked into a Japanese tavern in a trance.

Learning to drink is in college.

Before college, she knew nothing.Can only read and write.

and also--

She secretly went to learn the art of tea.

When she was in college, she joined the tea art club without telling her family.

I also learned a lot about the culture of tea art.

She can have such courage and confidence because that person taught her.

At that time, I went to drink because I saw the person she liked, so I made a whole set of wine glasses and jugs and gave them to her friends.

She thought, if she knew how to drink.

Maybe that person will also give her a set of jugs and wine glasses that she made herself.

It's just that the two of them never met.

That person never knew, in fact, she liked her for many years.

Including now.

There was intoxicating jazz music in the tavern, and Jiang Shi was in a bad mood.

She ordered a jug of sake.

The wine is served.

Very chic flagon and shot glasses.

It is not a common style on the market, but it is more eye-catching than the common ones.

The texture of the jug is obviously not made of industrial molds, and the pattern does not look like it was printed by a machine.

"This flagon..."

"Very chic, isn't it?"

The waiter said with a smile.

Jiang Shi nodded: "Well, it's a good look."

The waiter said in a showy tone: "Of course, our boss specially asked her friend to order this."

Speaking of customization.

Jiang Shi became interested: "Oh? Then your boss paid a lot of money."

"That's not."

"But because the pottery designer who helped design and fire is her friend, the cost is okay."

The waiter's voice fell.

The door was pushed open, and at this moment, someone from the bar counter just took over and said, "Wow, Master Ni, you have time to join us today!"

"Just as I told you so, my boss' friend who is a potter came over."

The waiter said in a very relaxed tone, but Jiang Shi's whole body was completely frozen.

The author has something to say:

choose the day rather than hit the day

A new story to meet you, this time it is the story of a pottery designer and a tea artisan.

The title of the book "Shaking Green" is a process in the tea making process.

The reference materials mainly come from "Chinese Tea Classics".

Then I hope you will enjoy reading this article.

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