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On Ching Ming Festival.

Jiang Shi's father first sent Jiang Shi and his mother back to his grandmother's house, and then he went back to Jiang Shi's grandma's house.At Grandma Jiang Shi's house, there was somewhat patriarchal thinking.

Every time Mother Jiang and Jiang Shi went back, they talked back and forth about those things.

Simply, the mother and daughter didn't go back, and Dad Jiang walked around by himself.

At first grandma would say that, but after a long time, her old man is also getting older, and it doesn't matter if she doesn't live together.

Tomb-sweeping day, grandma's house is bustling.

All the relatives at home have returned. In the past, when grandma was in good health, she would prepare two tables of dishes.But now, her hands and feet are not as sharp as before.It can only be prepared by the aunt at home and Jiang Shi's mother.

The women in the family are responsible for preparing meals, including offering sacrifices to ancestors and eating for everyone.

The men went into the mountain to sweep the tomb.

Before cremation became popular, old people who died before were still buried in coffins.When Jiang Shi was young, he followed his uncle and the others up the mountain to visit the tomb.When I grew up, I didn't go there a few times.

One is because the road up the mountain is not easy to walk.

The second is that every family dinner, the elders in the family will call her to work.Several times, she did not follow into the mountain because she had to help with cooking at home.

They always say that Xiaozhi is so old that he should help the family with some chores.

As for Jiang Shi's younger brothers, no one would say a few words.

It's like every time there are festivals, women cook and do the work, and the men put down their chopsticks and turn around, and there is a mahjong table.

This is one of the reasons why Jiang Shi doesn't like relatives getting together.

Those trivial jobs are always done by women.

A long time ago, Jiang Shi was thinking about this problem.

Why are women always bowing their heads and working hard at home, but men never touch their hands.

So are women born to do these things?

It seems that this is how men think.

Even Jiang Shi's grandfather thought so.

As long as women take care of their own affairs, it will be fine.Don't think too much about the others.Jiang Shi had a blind date before, and most men asked her the same way.

They always say:

I heard that you are very well-behaved, sensible and obedient.Then you must be very virtuous.After we get married, you can't care too much, and you don't have to work outside. Take good care of your husband and children at home, and take good care of our parents.It's better to have another fat baby.

It's just perfect.

It is Jiang Shi's modified version of husband and son. To put it bluntly, it means washing and cooking, and then taking care of my parents and giving birth to a son for me.As for your life, your life, what is that.

During the blind date, Jiang Shi was really anxious.

She couldn't see any expectations that marriage gave her. They were all people whose scalps felt numb just by listening to them.

If she didn't like Boss Ni so much at the beginning, and didn't feel the power of women from her, maybe, as time goes by, she would just find someone to marry.

Anyway, they are all living together.

Adult men and women, where can they meet true love.

So every family dinner, those relatives always complain about men's bad things, but when they lick them, Jiang Shi doesn't want to say a word.

This kind of thing where one is willing to fight and one is willing to suffer, there is no way to judge who is right and who is wrong.

Just like Jiang Shi has a cousin who is 30 years old this year.When she was 24, she was introduced and engaged to a man in Linxiang.But not yet married.

Six months later, I got pregnant unexpectedly.

They started talking about the bride price marriage, but because she was pregnant, her husband's family knew that she would never be with someone else, so they avoided talking about the marriage.Let's wait until the child falls to the ground.

Although the cousin was dissatisfied, there was nothing she could do.

In the end, until the child was able to walk on the ground, the in-laws still had no answer.The cousin would complain every time she saw people, and others would persuade her, or they would split up and find another family.But she said she was reluctant to have children.

As a result, half a year later, the man cheated.

I found a woman from the same village, and that woman also had a big belly.

He cried, made trouble, and hanged himself three times, saying that he must get married, and if he didn't get married, he would die in his home.The husband's family had no choice but to pay the bride price to let them get married.

And the cousin, in the end, was nothing.

My cousin's family also went to the man's house to make a fuss, but the man's mother spoke very harshly, saying that your daughter came to my house voluntarily, and that she was going to give birth to the child herself, and it has nothing to do with them.If you want a child, just take it.

My cousin gave birth to a daughter in her first birth.

Her own salary is not high, and she works in the factory, which costs 5000 yuan a month.She spends money and is extravagant, how can there be enough to raise a child.

There is no way, the child can only stay in the man's house.

During that time, my cousin shed tears every day.

She said that she no longer believed in men, she wanted to be beautiful alone.

But in just two years, she found another engagement.

I heard that the man didn't say anything.Do things with one mouth.Talk about hype, in fact there is nothing.

……

These bits and pieces will be passed on among relatives.

He said that men are not good and have no conscience.But the scar healed soon and I forgot about the pain.

Jiang Shi had no hope for anyone since he was a child.

Especially men.

She has always felt that men are, to some extent, more indifferent and selfish than women.

Especially in the matter of marriage, when the woman wants a bride price, she says she wants money.Don't want a bride price, and say it's a reverse sale.

Jiang Shi has also experienced it before, a blind date man who wants to get married in an average family.

Tell her the first sentence, let me tell you, my family has no money, we can get married, but there is no dowry.I will not give your family the hard-earned money of my parents' whole life.

Angry Jiang Shi had a heart attack.

He blocked him without saying a word on the spot, and her second aunt kept talking about her because of this matter.

Said she was rude.

At that time, Jiang Shi wanted to say, you are polite, why don't you be her mother-in-law.

But to save face, I didn't make it clear.

During that time, Jiang Shi was almost driven crazy. She once felt that being unmarried, infertile and infertile could really keep her safe.

At least you can live a few more years.

Will not be pissed off.

She always felt that she was lucky. In her life, she only experienced such speechless things for a small part of her life.

But in real life, most women are experiencing such verbal violence.

But some girls don't think it is verbal violence, they seem to be used to it.Then, at a similar age, find a similar person and make do with them.

Noisy, live a lifetime.

In fact, Jiang Shi really wanted to say that a woman can live a good life without a man.

There is nothing a woman can't learn.

Although Jiang Shi told the people around him this way, it seemed that not everyone could understand it.They agreed, turned around, and started doing this and that again.

I've been so busy all my life that I don't know what I'm doing.

On Ching Ming Festival at grandma's house, women are still busy.

Jiang Shi didn't want to get involved in such trivial matters, so he huddled in a corner and sent messages with Ni Ranfa.In the past, she would squat obediently in the kitchen, doing this and that, but now, she felt that she didn't really want to do those things.

Why her younger brothers can play, she must do it.

Relatives are not there, and when she comes to her grandma's house alone, she is willing to cook meals for her grandparents, which doesn't mean she serves everyone.

She can do this, but only if she wants to.

Relatives also teased her, saying that now that she is the boss, her posture is different.

With a smile on his face, Jiang Shi replied in a panic: "Of course, why else would everyone want to be a boss?"

The relatives were very harsh on hearing this, and said again: "Xiao Zhi, you still have to keep a low profile. It's not good to be too public. Now you can make money no matter what you do."

Jiang Shipi smiled and said: "That's not right, otherwise everyone is still poor."

relatives:"……"

I haven't seen this little girl for half a year, and she is very talkative.

Jiang Shi pretended not to hear these words, and ran to the room to accompany grandma.

Mother Jiang used to be very concerned about what her relatives said. If Jiang Shi had said such things before, Mother Jiang would definitely stop her.But now she basically echoed what Jiang Shi said.

After coming and going, the relatives didn't make any sense.

Also stopped talking.

Jiang Shi actually doesn't care much about what her relatives are saying, what she cares about is what the people she cares about think about her.

Her parents are now on her side and have become her irreplaceable confidence.

Jiang Shi happily shared these changes with Boss Ni.

She said: "My mother also said that if I go to the scenic spot to open a store, she will help me. My father will not travel long distances, so he will help me move the goods."

Boss Ni said very cooperatively: "Then I can eat the meals made by our mother every day!"

Is what our mother said so smooth?

Of course.

Boss Ni said, "Are you going back to Mocheng today? If so, I'll pick you up."

Jiang Shi told her that her father had gone back to grandma's house.I don't know if I have had a drink, but I guess I have to pick them up tomorrow after drinking.

This has happened to me before.

Jiang Shi said, wait for me to ask my mother.

"it is good."

Every time Mother Jiang came back, she would stay overnight.

Talk to grandma or something, but in this kind of festival with many people, Jiang Shi doesn't really want to stay overnight.Because several aunts are there, the house will be very crowded.

It will be particularly awkward and uncomfortable to live in.

In their view, the water splashed by a married daughter is disgusting when she returns to her mother's house.

But every time Mother Jiang comes, grandma always has a lot to say to her.

Jiang Shi was too embarrassed to say that he rushed back tonight.

But Mother Jiang seemed to know what she was thinking, and said to her, Jiang Shi, let's go home to stay at night.Call that friend of yours.

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Boss Ni was completely remembered by Mother Jiang.

And her mother seems to be quite satisfied with her?

They even called her to go home.

Last night, she stayed at home.

Just left this morning.

It was originally said that she sent their mother and daughter back to their grandmother's house.

But Jiang's mother said that she wanted Jiang's father to give it to her.

In the past, it was given by Father Jiang.

It's the same this year.

Later, Jiang's mother explained to Jiang Shi that if your father is not allowed to give it to him, he will feel that he has no sense of existence.Follow him.

It turns out that this is how husband and wife get along.

At night, Mother Jiang knew that Boss Ni wanted to pick them up.

Saying what Boss Ni meant, he agreed to pick her up.

Is this the way of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?Or the mother-in-law?

Jiang Shi didn't know which one to count.

After all, compared with her mother, Jiang Shi found himself really weak.

The author has something to say:

Boss Ni is really delightful wherever he goes!

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