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The Gu family was devastated by their own child. The child's mother refused to accept the second option, but the child's father and grandparents decided to choose the second option after a period of discussion.

The child is too young to make decisions for himself. They have to consider the child's physical and mental development in all aspects. They cannot let the child suffer both physical pain and mental torture. If they experience this kind of thing themselves, I am afraid There is also no way to accept the change and cognition of his gender in the process of growing up. In this case, it is better to let him forget about it when he has no gender awareness when he was young.

However, the two parties still quarreled over this issue, and the child's mother was quite emotional, "He is my son, no one can turn him into a strange man and woman... I am a mother, this matter I'll call the shots!" She lifted her baby off the couch and tucked him into her arms, as if that would truly hide him.

"You have to think about Jun'er's future... Do you have the heart to see him suffer for more than ten years? How can a mother just watch her child suffer..

"I don't care! I can't accept such a thing, he is a boy, a boy! Not a girl, you heard it too, Doctor Han said that he was originally a boy, he is my son!!"

"There was a crisp sound of slap on the mother's cheek, this time the son of the Gu family didn't hesitate at all, he slapped the hysterical wife into a daze

"It's my fault! I shouldn't have yelled at your stomach...but our family is definitely not the kind of family that just wants to have a son and not a daughter. You,

Don't make the same mistakes again and again, okay... It's because you are patriarchal... that you let your child suffer like this from birth. Now that he has become like this, why are you still obsessed? You want your child to When he grows up in the future, will he know that it is because his mother misunderstood that he was a girl and gave him poison of unknown origin, turning him into a freak? Do you want him to harbor hatred for us in the future? Do you live with dissatisfaction with your own doubts? Are you still a mother... until now, what you care about in your heart

It's his gender, not his safety!" the son of the Gu family complained bitterly.

The child's mother covered her cheeks for a long time without reacting, and she woke up instantly after dozens of seconds, "I knew it would be like this, I knew you would blame me! You still hit me! You hit me!! Is it my fault? It's your fault! Your whole family was whispering behind your back for you and me when I wasn't pregnant

If you get divorced and marry another, I promise you, it’s you! How did you tell me? You said that you will love me forever, and it doesn’t matter if you don’t have children and stay with me forever.But... I'm scared, I'm terrified! Do you know how many people behind us are looking forward to our breakup, in front of my face, my mother's face, and our whole family's relatives?

Dare to introduce you to new women! I hate them, I wish they would all die! After finally getting pregnant, they started to accuse me of spending so much effort to preserve the pregnancy,

Said that I can only have one child in this life, and it is best to have a boy, so that I can live up to your Gu family... The first question everyone asks when they see me is whether it is a boy or a girl

Said that your family depends on you to continue the incense, and it cannot be broken. What do you want me to do? I was almost driven crazy by them! You come to blame me now. When you heard me say that I was pregnant with a boy, your whole family Aren’t you so happy? If I said I was pregnant with a girl, would you be so happy? Would you? Absolutely not!!!!”

Gu Yizhi patted his forehead heavily, and heaved a long, guilty sigh.

At this time, Sanbao came out of the dining room holding her baby bottle, looked at the scene in the living room curiously, and frowned at what the adults just said.

"I dare to pat my chest and say, I just like my son, I like boys! Do you dare?" The child's mother was greatly stimulated, her eyes turned red, and she shouted at Gu's family like a crazy mother beast roar.

"If you like it, you like it, but... the child is born, it doesn't matter to me whether it's a boy or a girl. Didn't I say that as long as he is healthy!"

"You have to admit it too! You are also valuing boys over men...then, don't choose the second option. Otherwise, you will definitely regret it in the future. At that time, who are you going to blame? Do you continue to blame me?!

Although the child's mother said something radical, Xu Weiran gradually understood her meaning.It can only be said that there are too many people around this lady who put pressure on her.

People talk up and down, and point behind their backs. They don't know how much burden they bring to others, and it's not their responsibility when something happens.He also believed that

If you choose the second option, if the Gu family repents one day in the future, they will still pass this important responsibility on to the child's mother.no matter which

One, this mother has had to carry this burden all her life.If the Gu family is really not patriarchal, it's okay, I'm afraid of their family, their family, their family

The people around... are those people, they will continue to dictate this matter, if that is the case, it is still a bad influence.

"Daddy! What is patriarchy!" Sanbao suddenly spoke when she heard a vocabulary she hadn't come across before, and interjected.

Xu Weiran saw her coming out at this moment, so he hurried over to hug her up, "Why did you come out, have you eaten yet?" Sanbao patted his stomach: "You're full! Daddy! What is patriarchy?" she asked again.

Sanbao is wearing the clothes prepared by Xiao Yu today. Xiao Yu doesn't know that this young lady doesn't like to wear skirts, and basically buys pink and cute little skirts. Because there is no other change of clothes, Xu Weiran wears them for her The one with the pink skirt, so everyone knows she is a female doll at a glance.

Facing such a little doll, the grown-ups in the room asked twice what patriarchy is... a little embarrassed.

Xu Weiran touched her little head, "Patriarchy literally means that some people like boys and don't like girls.

"Oh!" Sanbao quickly understood, and by the way, also understood the meaning of what Liu Gang and Gu's family said. She hugged her father's neck and looked at him proudly.

The Gu family said: "My daddy is not patriarchal! My daddy likes three treasures as well as four treasures."

The faces of the Gu family could not be covered.The little girl deliberately looked at them to show off, and it was obvious that she was talking about them, and they were patriarchal.Xu Weiran hugged Sanbao in his arms, and walked to Han Que's side, "Since you can't make a decision right away, go back, and come back when you have made up your mind. Our home is not a place for you to adjudicate family disputes.

Xu Weiran's tone of voice was not as good as it was at the beginning.In his opinion, this family has problems. No matter what they decide, he doesn't want to watch them quarrel anymore, so he should ask them to go back and make a decision before coming back.

Gu Yizhi's face was about to be buried in his chest.For them, seeing Han Que finally, of course they hope that Han Que can treat their children as soon as possible, and they are afraid that they will not know when they will go next time.

"Let's choose the first option." In the end, Mrs. Gu followed her true inner thoughts and decided to choose the first option.

Gu Yizhi also breathed a sigh of relief.In fact, except for the son of the Gu family, their deepest thoughts are the same as the child's mother.It's just that I didn't have the nerve to admit it in front of my son just now.

"Mr. Han, Master Xu, I know you must look down on me." The child's mother also calmed down, "I made a mistake, and my conscience will be disturbed by it for the rest of my life. I like my son more than my daughter, and I also feel sorry for me. After being punished, I really can't accept my son becoming a girl, so I can't do it in the future

face him.Those around him who love to gossip can't face him squarely.I know better than anyone how those people will talk about him, he will collapse, and I will also collapse

It’s fine if you think I’m selfish, husband, you don’t need to divorce me: I have to be selfish for nothing, because if I’m not selfish, those selfish people will use all kinds of malice to hurt our mother and child.

The Gu family couldn't say anything more at this time, and they had acquiesced in the child's mother's choice.Xu Weiran didn't care, "You are his mother, his guardian, you have the right to make choices for him.

According to how much the family values ​​and loves boys, perhaps, choosing the first option is the best decision.Although, if it was him, he would prefer to choose the second option, so as not to let the child suffer too much.Every family has its own family style. Instead of choosing the second option in the future, the whole family regrets it in their bones and doesn't know how to treat this child. It's better to make a decision according to their heart.

Xu Weiran patted his daughter's back.Although it's this era, but there are only a few people like the Gu family, he can't care what other people think,

I can only do my best to take care of and raise my daughter well, and resolutely prevent her from meeting a family like the Gu family in the future.

Seeing that they had made a decision, Han Que went over to check the kid named Jun'er again, "I'll prescribe some medicine for him in a while.

Haozhou took him for two injections, and after half a year of treatment, he can adjust the plan at any time after seeing his condition.His food should be strictly controlled, all hormone content

Big food must be avoided, and the intake of estrogen must be strictly controlled. It is best for you to live nearby like you used to protect the baby. I only have time to help him at night.

Needle line. "

"Mr. Han, thank you very much! Really... Dian Yizhi didn't dare to raise his face to look at him.

"It's nothing, take good care of the child, the time will be delayed for a long time, but basically there is no big problem, give him confidence, don't make him feel that there is something wrong

what a special place. "After all, Han Que is willing to accept this complicated treatment because of the pity of the child.

If we are lucky, we hope to cure this child before he enters elementary school.Unfortunately, the family will have to learn more about child psychology

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