A good wife should raise her from an early age

Right after class, Song Yuhui was called out by Chen Hailing. In a pavilion near the school gate, there were stone tables and chairs. Chen Hailing bought some food and drink and waited for him there.

Still holding two books in his hands, Song Yuhui greeted Chen Hailing outside the pavilion, "Hello, Auntie."

Chen Hailing's attitude became better today, "Xiaohui, come and sit."

Song Yuhui walked over and sat down. Chen Hailing opened the bag and put out the milk tea and cakes that she bought near the school just now, "Are you hungry, eat something first."

Song Yuhui shook his head, "I'm not hungry."

Chen Hailing inserted the straw into the milk tea and handed it to him, "Since you are not hungry, drink some milk tea to quench your thirst."

Song Yuhui took it and said in a low voice, "Thank you."

The atmosphere in the pavilion was a bit strange, and Chen Hailing was always looking for an opportunity to speak.Song Yuhui also probably guessed her purpose of coming here to find him, "Auntie, if you have anything to say, just say it."

Chen Hailing sighed, "Yesterday you were here, and you know the situation. Now Haoxi is dead and wants to be with you. There is only such a son in our family. His father and I cannot accept it no matter what. You also saw it yesterday. , If this continues, I'm afraid that their father and son will eventually sever their relationship. Xiaohui, Auntie always thinks you are a sensible child, and I think you don't want to see our family at odds."

"I understand." Song Yuhui said.

When Chen Hailing heard that he could understand, she breathed a sigh of relief, and tried to continue to persuade, "Haoxi is still young, and it is the most important stage of his life. If he goes the wrong way at this time, he may have to pay for it for the rest of his life. You You are also young, and your family doesn't want you to go the wrong way, right? Auntie doesn't want to be a bad person and insists on separating you. She just hopes that you can think about your future paths and your own families. Don't be impulsive, otherwise In the end, it not only cut off one's own way out, but also broke up the family, so it's not worth it."

Song Yuhui raised his head and listened carefully to Chen Hailing's words. If she said these words to him yesterday, he might still be shaken, but after Lin Haoxi's words yesterday, he was already firm, "Auntie, yesterday Haoxi he I told you something, and I want to tell you too."

Chen Hailing followed his words and asked, "What did he say?"

Song Yuhui recalled Lin Haoxi’s words at the top of the skyscraper yesterday, “Yesterday he told me that he and I are like a person on a cliff leaning on a rope to keep his balance. For his happiness, the other end of the rope is me, as long as I let go, he will fall, and all efforts will be in vain, so I promise him that he will not let go."

Chen Hailing still couldn't accept it, "But, it's too selfish of you to do so."

"I know it's selfish and doesn't take into account the feelings of our parents, but we hope to be understood. Before, I didn't know what homosexuality was all about, but later I realized that, in fact, it is the same. Just like lovers of men and women, they will miss each other, rely on each other, and take care of each other. I can't give Haoxi a child, but I am willing to accompany him as a partner, cook for him, wash clothes for him, and be with him Take care of him when he is sick, and comfort him when he is not going well."

Chen Hailing didn't know what to say for a moment.When Song Yuhui spoke just now, she couldn't refute.

After Song Yuhui finished what he had to say, he stood up and bowed to Chen Hailing, apologetically saying, "Auntie, I'm sorry."

Chen Hailing didn't speak, Song Yuhui said: "I have to go back to cook, so I'm leaving first."

Song Yuhui left the pavilion with the book in his arms, went to the school gate to take the bus, and then took the subway back to the apartment.After exiting the subway, there is a market nearby, where Song Yuhui often buys vegetables.

Walking in the vegetable market, I didn't know what to buy to go back, so I made a call.

"Brother, what do you want to eat tonight?"

The person on the other end of the phone smiled, "I want to eat you."

Song Yuhui's ears turned red. This is a vegetable market. Looking around, no one heard what he just said.Lin Haoxi smiled on the phone, "In the vegetable market?"

"Ah."

"Buy whatever you want, as long as it's made by you, I love to eat it."

Song Yuhui walked to a vegetable stall and picked green peppers, and said to the phone, "How about beef with green peppers, braised eggplant in oil, and a shredded cabbage?"

"can."

"Then I'm going to buy vegetables." Song Yuhui hung up the phone and handed the selected green peppers to the boss, "Boss, please weigh them."

The boss took the chili in his hand, put it in a bag and weighed it on the electronic scale, picked up a chili and put it in, "Add one, two yuan. Do you want anything else."

Song Yuhui asked, "Do you have eggplant here?"

The boss pointed to the other side, "The eggplant is over there."

Song Yuhui made another detour to pick eggplants over there.

A few days after that incident, Chen Hailing never came to see Lin Haoxi or Song Yuhui again.She also understood that it was useless to talk to either of them.

"In psychology, homosexuals are divided into two categories. One is congenital, determined by the genes of one's own body. Physiologically, homosexuals are prone to sexual impulses, and psychologically they will also have a good impression of the same sex. The other is The acquired type, affected by the acquired environment, has aversion or rejection towards the opposite sex, and thus has a yearning for the same sex."

After listening to the psychiatrist Qiao An, Lin Chengde asked in a deep voice, "Can this be cured?"

Joan is a psychiatrist with many years of experience. It is not uncommon for homosexuals to seek help, but it is indeed rare that they can be cured.Joan smiled, "There are indeed domestic and foreign methods for treating homosexuality, but this depends on the situation and attitude of the person involved. If the person's sexual orientation has a congenital variation, the chance of being cured is very small, and drugs or surgery may be needed. correct."

Chen Hailing was surprised when she heard about the surgery, "Surgery? How can this surgery be done?"

"Surgical correction is an unavoidable method. To be honest with Mr. Lin and Mrs. Lin, the method of correcting homosexuality through surgery is similar to the principle of sex change." Qiao An said.

Both Lin Chengde and Chen Hailing's expressions changed, "This, how can this be done."

Joan saw that their faces were not right, so he changed the subject, "What I just said is that if the client has a congenital variation in sexual orientation, if it is an acquired variation, we can actually help the patient correct the sexual orientation through psychotherapy. .Including behavioral therapy, empathy therapy, environmental therapy, etc.”

"Then how do you know whether he is born or acquired?" Chen Hailing asked.

"This is not a question, and the answer can be obtained through psychological tests on the parties involved."

Lin Chengde asked: "If it is acquired, how likely is it to be cured?"

Qiao An replied: "If the person involved is willing to cooperate, there is still a high chance of being cured."

Chen Hailing was still a little uneasy, "Doctor, um, if you take psychological therapy, it shouldn't affect your gender characteristics."

Joan smiled, "Mrs. Lin, you can rest assured that if you correct your sexual orientation through psychotherapy, it will not affect other problems of the patient."

"Oh, that's fine, that's fine."

Lin Chengde looked at the door and asked Chen Hailing who was sitting next to him, "Why hasn't he come back yet?"

"It's coming soon, maybe it's a traffic jam on the road."

Lin Chengde believes that homosexuality is a kind of psychological abnormality, so he invited a psychiatrist to his home today in order to treat Lin Haoxi.Chen Hailing called Lin Haoxi an hour ago to come back, but she didn't explain the purpose.

As soon as Lin Haoxi came back, she found that there was a stranger on her sofa.

Chen Hailing hurriedly stood up, and introduced to Lin Haoxi: "Haoxi, this is Dr. Qiao, a well-known psychiatrist in City G."

When Lin Haoxi heard the term psychiatrist, she almost guessed the purpose of Chen Hailing calling him back this time.

Chen Hailing introduced to Qiao An again: "Doctor Qiao, this is my son Lin Haoxi."

Joan stretched out her hand, "Mr. Lin, hello."

Lin Haoxi shook hands with him politely, "Hello."

Lin Chengde sat on the sofa with a straight face and kept silent.Lin Haoxi glanced at him and called him dad.Lin Chengde responded with a muffled voice.

Chen Hailing signaled to sit down with her hand, "Sit down and talk."

Lin Chengde said to Qiao An: "Doctor Qiao, let's start."

"Okay." Qiao An took out a folder from the briefcase beside him and opened it, looked at Lin Haoxi, "Mr. Lin, I will conduct a psychological test on you later, please answer truthfully."

"Excuse me, may I know what kind of psychological test it is about?"

Joan said: "It's about sexual orientation."

Lin Haoxi smiled helplessly, "I don't need a test for this, I can tell you directly that I am gay."

Qiao An paused, "Actually, this test is not only a test of whether you are gay, but passing this test can also reflect other problems."

"what is the problem?"

"Like, are you born or nurtured?"

"This is not important to me."

"This..." Qiao An looked at Lin Chengde, and Lin Chengde said, "Don't worry about it, just finish the test."

Lin Haoxi asked for opinions: "Before doing the test, doctor, can you listen to my situation first?"

"Yes, please."

Lin Haoxi was silent for a while, and said slowly: "I like a person very much. I have liked him since I met him a few years ago. But the other person is a man. I used to struggle and contradict myself. Should I drag him into trouble? , I chose to let him go, but I regretted it, because I found that without him, life is no longer life to me. So, in the end, I was selfish and dragged him into the water once, leaving him behind. I am by my side. After being with him, I feel very happy, I want to protect this happiness, and I also hope to get my parents' understanding."

After listening to Lin Haoxi's statement, Qiao An was silent for a while, "You should tell your parents these words."

Lin Haoxi smiled wryly, "I know."

After Qiao An learned about Lin Haoxi's situation, she stood up and said to Lin Chengde and Chen Hailing, "I'm sorry, Mr. Lin and Mrs. Lin, but I can't solve your son's problem. Please allow me to leave first."

Chen Hailing stood up with a polite smile, "We are the ones to say sorry for troubling Dr. Qiao for so long."

"No trouble."

"Let me see Dr. Qiao off." Chen Hailing went out to see Qiao An off.

Lin Haoxi got up from the sofa and walked in front of Lin Chengde, "Dad, can we talk alone?"

Lin Chengde said with a straight face, "You don't need to say anything, I won't agree, unless you are not my son."

"You have to do things so terribly?"

"You forced this too."

Lin Haoxi closed his eyes weakly, "Dad, I think if you continue to be paranoid about this matter, it will not only make me feel uncomfortable, but also hurt your mental state. Why can't you understand it in a different way of thinking?"

Lin Chengde turned his face to one side and did not respond.

"Dad, I have never begged you for anything since I was a child. This time, I beg you..."

Before Lin Chengde could finish speaking, a rush of blood rushed to his chest, his pupils dilated, his chest felt tight, and he began to have difficulty breathing.

Lin Haoxi saw Lin Chengde lying on the sofa and covering his chest, short of breath, and hurriedly supported him, "Dad!"

Chen Hailing came back at this time, seeing this situation, her soul was frightened, "Brother De!"

Lin Haoxi turned to Chen Hailing and said, "Mom, call an ambulance!"

Chen Hailing hurriedly walked to the landline to make a call, her hands and voice were shaking.