Leap past the confused days of life

Self-taught people are rare, and I ruined my son's youth by not stopping him in time, what a horribly stupid thing to do.Because I am an example of failure. Take myself as an example. I persuaded my son to study cultural courses well so that he will have a bright future and be able to eat well and drink spicy food. Don’t be like me and engage in literature and art. Those things are all illusory things, but my son just doesn't listen to persuasion, which makes me regret it for the rest of my life.

When my son was preparing to take the college entrance examination, at the critical stage of reviewing cultural lessons, he did not attend the college entrance examination cram school, nor did he put all his eggs in one basket and worked hard to study cultural lessons, but let the so-called self-study, the result was that he failed the college entrance examination again, only a few points away from the admission line , And once again missed the opportunity to go to college.

My son stayed at home alone under the guise of thinking that he was capable of self-study, studying literature and art, writing and playing music. To be precise, these things have no clear goals and directions. I only create intermittent literature, read books and play music based on impulse or willfulness, and play games in the rest of the time. When I found my son like this, I was so heartbroken. These are all my faults, and there is no way to discipline them.

This year's family members were once again devastated spiritually, and new wounds were added to the wounds that could not heal. It seemed that the road to the single-plank bridge was going to be ruined. of time is wasted in reading idle books and playing games.

If I had known, why bother now? In fact, my son didn’t work hard at all, but his self-control was poor. I knew that my son’s study performance was good all the time. Later, he was too playful to delay his study, and he completely blamed me. At the key point of the critical stage of learning, either buying a guitar or a computer for the child, and using the child’s time to learn other skills, how can they learn cultural knowledge with peace of mind? No, it delays the opportunity to learn, and also delays If the future is lost, this is called self-inflicted.

My wife's complaints were not unreasonable. It made people feel breathless, but I couldn't say anything. I was desperate for a while, and I had no choice. There was no way to solve the problem of continuing to go to school.

I usually do not do business, but I got into the so-called literature. I was unwilling to make friends in my life. I have never made friends who can help at critical moments. I have nowhere to look for people who are looking for help. I don’t know what to do. I am lost. I also lost my humanity in the direction of my life, and my helpless and helpless sadness made me start to hate myself for living in this world for nothing.

When I don’t encounter problems, I don’t know how to think. I usually don’t make sharp turns. I just bury my head in doing irrelevant things. I’m extremely clumsy. I don’t think about interpersonal relationships, and I don’t want to get anything from them. At this moment, it seems It is a very wrong idea. This society needs the ability of interpersonal relationships, not self-abilities. On a good platform, people who are not capable can also appear very capable. But I am pretentious, self-admired, and put on a proud face. Powerless when human connection is needed.

I was selfish to the extreme and only cared about my own work. I was often negligent in caring for my children's education and family members, and I didn't take it seriously.It can be said to be karma, really God began to severely test and punish me, and made a joke of life with me, and the blow of reality almost crushed me.

This incident made me feel like a rooster who was defeated in a fight. I finally lost my energy and confidence. I lost face and confidence in front of people. I expected it to go well, but this result happened. Really In the dilemma where there is no solution at all, the child has no bright future in work. As a social distribution principle of the single-plank bridge system, as a father, he can only bleed psychologically. What can I say? wise mind.

However, the stubborn personality is passed on to the children. The stubborn personality is crushed in the reality of the constant pursuit of personal dreams. He loses confidence and the courage to work hard. He knows that his obsession also affects the children, but he does not tell him. Children should study cultural lessons well, give themselves a bright future, and adapt to the society instead of just being stubborn and stubborn and going their own way. As a result, they didn’t seize the opportunity and lost their reputation again. Bitter wine to drink by itself.

The child is stubborn and insists on doing arduous things. I want to tell the child that this is not good, it is so ambitious, it is better to be more realistic and set short-term goals.Don’t be like me when I was young and wanted to be a writer in a whimsical way, instead of being an ordinary laborer honestly, but hiding in an ivory tower daydreaming.

I wove a large invisible net for myself, and a well-behaved person in it spent all his energy on absurd reading and writing except for work, wasting youth and good times, what to do? It is an absurd dream to break through ten thousand books and write like a god.

The passage of time proves that no matter how hard you work, you can’t do it without talent. This business is not a problem that can be solved by hard work. I persuade scholars that as long as you work hard, you can grind an iron rod into a needle. It can only be a propaganda of theory and preaching , It is impossible to realize such an ideal at all, and the children don't listen to me, and continue to write about their own suffering and practice.

I can't control my children, so I have to blame myself.Take care of yourself. Recently, I have been so angry that I have to vent my personal anger. I am unlucky enough to drink cold water, and I turn on the TV to broadcast economic information. The current world economic situation has the risk that the economy will continue to decline.

At this critical moment, people must have confidence and courage. How can a living person be suffocated to death by urine.

I felt sorry for myself and continued to be myself. I read the popular books about fate today, saying that details determine fate, character determines fate, whoever has his own destiny, and current situation determines a person’s destiny. Whether it is a historical figure or a modern successful man Times are closely related, successful people will be stamped with the imprint of the times, and those whose policy orientation at that time coincides with their own ideas will change their destiny entirely by the opportunities given by the times.Sometimes people's ability is unable to fight against the times and destiny. Only those who succeed can capture the pulse of the times, and then they will succeed.Opportunity is the stage for those who are prepared.

A recent piece of news said: The president of China Investment Corporation reacted too hastily to overseas investment, and the entire army of overseas investment was wiped out. They once swore that they would never invest overseas.This kind of retaliatory bottom-hunting bet is not advisable. It turned out that billions of dollars were lost.

From this move, it seems that I understand what it means for the stock market. The stock market has a peak signal, foreign capital is no longer buying a large number of stocks, and the stock market will naturally fall due to capital outflow.

Although the stocks I hold are still on the way to continue to fall, I still have the confidence to think that this business will become the new leading industry in society, so some people can eat this bowl of rice, so how can I get the first pot of gold?

Really, by precept and example.If there is a cause, there must be an effect.