Leap past the confused days of life

It was another bright and sunny day, full of joyful atmosphere everywhere, the city construction is changing with each passing day, the old appearance has changed in the turbulent years, the buildings lined up everywhere are magnificent, and the brand-new streetscape is completely bathed in the sunshine Below, the towering halls and halls condense the artistic and architectural style of the nation. How can people walking on such a street be indifferent, how can they not be proud of their nation?Don’t you feel overwhelmed by the vigorous construction and development of the city, all of which vividly show the great crystallization of human wisdom, the incredible speed of construction and the innovation of science and technology, which is everywhere exciting.

The majestic buildings stand erect on the ancient land of this young city, and the buildings will also leave a glorious page for future generations.In the long river of history, human beings have always insisted on creative labor and are omnipotent.

Literati are only disease-free, and their ability to contribute personally is insignificant compared to the world. A few days ago, I saw someone in the news boasting about how he wrote a book and how he experienced a rough life.I think that my works have brought great ideas to mankind, but in fact it is not the case. Such creations are just a matter of effort, but fans are cheering for him, saying that literary creation appeals to the world. Difficulties are regarded as wealth. Everyone will have different experiences of hardships in life, and different perceptions will have different understandings. People should smile at life instead of bowing to the difficulties and hardships of life.

The broadcast of this program made me very emotional. Life is in various forms. How people should live is their own business. Just like the story written in the works of the American writer Hemingway, a guy said to the fisherman lying on the beach As a result, the fisherman's witty answer made the preacher run away in desperation.

Another music producer, a master of songwriting and songwriting of popular songs, most of his works are popular works written in very common language, which have the effect of inciting people's emotions, expressing a deep artistic conception in concise and concise language, resulting in art resonance.The same is true for literary works, as long as you can master a certain concise language, you can fully express your artistic conception.

I have been at my desk for some time, and I am intoxicated in expressing thoughts and feelings of life experience all day long. If I don’t write for a day, I feel that my heart is empty to the extreme, so I have been persisting and writing like this every day, but I have not entered into deep research. The superficial original appearance makes a statement of labor.

After dinner, I was lazy and relaxed. This was the first time I felt overworked, and I wanted to lie down and rest. At the same time, I held a family meeting to discuss issues about study and career. My son said: Life should be about career In his mind, his son took an all-or-nothing gamble, and his son gave an example of the historical figure Han Xin, saying that Han Xin understood Sun Tzu's art of war, but was able to adapt flexibly and diversely. Han Xin violated the story of tactical thinking. Yes, the thinking of the method of warfare that puts the ground to death first and then regenerates.To motivate or explain your determination to do something.

Of course, I don't agree with my son's way of thinking about his career and life. Ordinary people have the thinking of ordinary people, and big people have the thinking of big people. What scares me is that my son has such an attitude towards life and career. It is completely extreme and it is not advisable. of.I want to correct the child's thinking, but I can't persuade him.

At this time, my son told me that he did not want to participate in formal education or school life. Why?My son hesitated and didn’t say it, so I don’t agree with it. I want to tell my child that the enlightenment I got after watching the Animal World program is that the survival rules of sheep and wolves cannot be changed. This is an external reason. In this No one in the world can change the natural cowardice of sheep and the ferocious nature of wolves. That is to say, the creation of heaven and earth is a law that cannot be violated by human ability, but the reality that sheep can survive is to change their philosophy of life. Therefore, people must also learn the rules and methods for sheep to survive in adversity.

It's nothing to be humiliated by a person, it's not shameful, everyone's life is not easy, including me, it's not easy to survive in adversity, this is reality, because in reality there is no such rule, it is set for human nature rules, theory of human nature.Therefore, the law of survival is to learn to endure all unfair treatment. This is the law of survival that must be learned.

The child is very smart, but he is confused by the behavior of the scum in the society, and cannot get out of the predicament for a while. Human scum is everywhere, so it takes a long time to adapt and get to know people, and learn to avoid the bullying of scum.But the most important thing right now is to tell children that learning does not depend entirely on talent, and that they need to persevere.These conversations seem to be language and pale.

Realizing that the biggest problems in future life are children's employment and marriage problems, this time means life choices, how to choose the path of life carefully, but there is no other way to go, and the only way to go is the adult college entrance examination. It is the stepping stone and path of employment. The national educational authority still adopts the strategic thinking of the imperial examination system to select talents for education issues. Under the premise that it has not been improved, this is the only way of life. I am not relaxed, and vice versa. Thinking about it, the possibility of self-taught success is only rare.

So I want to persuade my son to continue to study in the cram school for the college entrance examination. The more anxious I am, the more difficult it is to reach an agreement at a critical moment. I get up and pace, like a bird and beast trapped in a cage. Not being able to impress the child, on the contrary, has strengthened the son’s life of stubbornly walking his own way, stubbornly making mistakes, and not being able to learn from the mistakes, this is the most fatal weakness, nature is hard to change, do not listen to parents’ advice, only resign to fate up.There was nothing I could do, and I felt helpless.

I feel dazed, the compensation for the stupidity of life, is that what you gain must be lost?I thought that God is fair, so my mind was balanced, and I was no longer so depressed.Yes, people are very different. Some people are eye-catching. Some people are naturally beautiful or have extraordinary inner bearing. They are enviable on the street. These people have natural self-confidence and a good sense of self, which is related to life All due to the sense of superiority.And some people are born destined to have to work hard to survive.

I paced back and forth thinking, I don’t have to worry about food and clothing, and I don’t need to sleep in the streets to worry about food, clothing, housing and transportation. I don’t have to bear the suffering physically, but it is really painful mentally.The root cause stems from the setbacks, the lack of full release of the repressed psychology, and the low self-esteem that dare not face life, and usually indulges in fantasies.I, who was not taught by living examples, would never know how to care about the lives of others and the things around me.

My persuasion to my son made the atmosphere even more tense. The father and son had their own ideas, and neither could persuade the other. They tried their best to express their views on life, and launched a heart-to-heart battle with clear statements. In the end, they failed to convince the other party. There was no success, and they did not reach an agreement with each other, so they had to break up unhappy.

People who are pretentious will lose their minds to the point of arrogance, and will put everything aside, regardless of all consequences, causing themselves to fall into unimaginable predicaments, living alone in self-consciousness, what is the life of such a stubborn life? As for the meaning, I thought I couldn't change others, but I could try to change myself. After thinking about it again and again, I had to acquiesce in my son's behavior.