Leap past the confused days of life

The corridor was quiet, I didn't hear footsteps, but the sound of unlocking the door, startled me, felt it was too sudden in a trance, maybe it was because I was too focused.At this time Mei entered the room, and habitually glanced at the kitchen to see if there were any cut or fried dishes on the cutting board. It will burst out with a high-spirited expression, which is even more radiant. If the cutting board is empty, Mei's eyes will naturally become dull, showing a little disappointment, but this is only a momentary expression.

No matter what kind of situation Mei sees in the kitchen, she will naturally throw the small white bag on the shoe cabinet at the door, and walk into the living room or bedroom to rest for a while before coming out. It seems that the only way to recover is to take a breath like this. Physical strength, and then take off the leather shoes and put on slippers.This is entirely due to Mei's poor health and the fact that her work is intense and tiring.

The action habits of life are not completed in a series. It takes a long time to wait. At this time, my heart will be shocked. All this is caused by an incompetent man like me. Of course, Mei is not the kind of unreasonable person. When the food is placed on the table, Mei, who opens her mouth when the meal comes, will be full of spring breeze and smile.

After understanding Mei's thoughts, she will naturally follow what she likes, and live a better life more diligently and economically. A man has to undertake the trivial housework. There is nothing for a man to do, but the housework is a bit of a mother-in-law, and it takes a long time to do it. Work carefully, patiently and slowly, spend time in housework, and gain the happiness of the family.This is what men have to bear.

In fact, this kind of happiness that satisfies the needs of life and soul is the real life. Knowing such a happy life should be regarded as a person becoming mature. What a happy thing this is, so I have persisted for decades. Saying that life can start all over again, I will continue to do so.

To be a lover requires selfless dedication, and put it into action, stick to the unshirkable responsibility, and what I do motivates me to do this often.Sometimes Mei also pays more attention to practicality. She doesn’t like me spending all day studying like an ascetic monk. She feels that my life lacks interest. She should learn from others. On rest days, she can take the whole family out for a trip, or make a change lifestyle.

Of course, Mei’s suggestion is good. In order to cater to Mei, I also want to free up time from the laborious writing to do more housework and spend more time with my family, so that I can relax, but I still am the same Write down.

The reason why I didn't change myself was that the toad wanted to eat swan meat, was whimsical, and worked hard to write good works as soon as possible and become a successful person.In the end, wishful thinking and a waste of time.

In fact, Mei doesn’t really object to my literary creation, but she just doesn’t want to see her husband work so hard without any result. His heart is hit, and whether there is any result, he must combine work with rest and pay attention to actual results. .

In this way, I did not give up hope, and still completed housework as fast as possible every day, waiting until the dead of night to continue my dream of literary creation.

People are not sages, how can they be without fault, sometimes self-willed, stubborn and persistent efforts, the result is just the opposite, often this is a great challenge and test for human nature, I clearly understand the pros and cons, still do not give up, immersed in it.

Seeing that winter is approaching again, the weather changes abnormally, and it may be cold and freezing that day. This season is the time to store winter vegetables. It is also the farmers who drive horse-drawn carts or drive modern vehicles to bring the hard-growing vegetables to the urban area. It is a good season for hawking in the streets and alleys of the country, which reduces the link of changing hands, can sell more money, and maximize profits.

But earning money like this is also very hard work. You have to endure hunger and freezing, and you have to bear psychological pressure. If you can’t sell the vegetables in the city, they will rot. Naturally, he was reluctant to waste food and drink, otherwise a year's hard work would be in vain.At this time, although there is the joy of a good harvest, there is also the difficulty of taking risks. It seems that it is not easy to do anything, or eat the dry food that comes with you, and you are reluctant to pay for board and lodging, so you have to sleep in the open.

The farmers hawking on the street are kind and honest. As long as the buyer proposes to deliver the goods home, they will spare no effort to transport the goods to any place that the customer is most satisfied with.

Mei did something that surprised me and made me tearful. She actually stored winter vegetables for the first time, which proved that Mei began to care about her little family. Little things can reflect tacit cooperation and true care. It seems trivial. But let me taste the love of mutual understanding and tacit cooperation. Handling trivial matters is also related to the happiness and harmony of the family.

Mei took the initiative to do the housework, which immediately made me a little flattered. As a productive laborer of the working class, Mei was exhausted after returning home from such intense labor. Mei's housework moved me even more.

Although Mei is less organized, she always has a front hand and no back hand, and things that have been moved are rarely seen in their place, especially if they don't keep the cleansed hygiene. It's life. If the family is spotless, it will be a hotel.Not to mention that there is some truth to it, but you are stubborn, and you don't want to spend your energy and mind on fighting with it. With a tolerant and humble attitude, you can only smile and don't care too much, so you can get along better.

Tolerating others is also tantamount to comforting oneself. It is often correct from the weakness of human nature. Personal cultivation and character determine the attitude towards life.

After all, Mei is a girl, she likes to control other people's will for fun, she always likes to play clever tricks to pick and control me, and there are always enough reasons to refute me, which pot is not open, mention the pot: "Every day is like this. , can't make any tricks? You don't feel tired." It sounded a bit harsh, but there was no malice.

There is no problem with the relationship between husband and wife, but only when a woman can occupy the top will she be happy, satisfy Mei's willfulness, and indulge appropriately, it is also a glorious glory in life, and only then can she live a good life without worrying about basic necessities of life.

Although I work hard, I am a little clumsy in my mind, and there is a big gap in income. It is difficult to meet the financial requirements of my family and Mei, and I am often in a tight and tight situation.But I don't think this is the main contradiction in life. If we can be perfect both materially and spiritually, what a wonderful life it would be.

It is of course very important to deal with good-neighborly and friendly relations. With the neighbors, we should look up and see each other. Once the relationship gets awkward, it will be a panic, so we should try our best to avoid intensifying conflicts with neighbors.

In this regard, Mei has performed quite well. She has moved houses several times, and Mei has done very well in this regard. She has never had a quarrel with her neighbors for decades.I think that women play a decisive role, and it requires selfless giving or dedication and humility from both parties to improve the relationship between neighbors.