technical type

Obviously it won't be good in the future.

Because this was the first time that Ji Mo participated in a relatively grand manner, and because he knew the previous situation, Ji Mo inevitably paid attention to it, wanting to see a complete ending.

Estimating the time when the talisman water was drunk, Ji Mo inquired deliberately, but the Yang family didn't know the ending. In the middle, they hurriedly finished drinking the talisman water for the boy for the last time, and they found a reason to send him back .

On the way, for some reason such as frightening the horse, the specially borrowed carriage for "showing his identity" overturned, and the person inside, the boy, naturally hit his head. In the countryside, it is inconvenient to get medical treatment. Those who were sent back could only be sent back as soon as possible, so that they could quickly find a doctor. As for whether it will be okay afterwards, obviously it cannot be said to be the fault of the Yang family.

On the other side, the boy's mother was busy seeing a doctor for the child, so she didn't have time to come to her mother's house to argue about right and wrong, and besides, this matter didn't seem unreasonable.

Yes, it is too extravagant to have a horse-drawn carriage in the countryside, but I heard Yunyun borrowed it from her natal family to make her face look better. Unexpectedly, there was an accident. The driving skills are not proficient, or the horse is afraid of strangers. In short, this kind of accident happened. No one wants to, so what can be done?

If you do bad things with good intentions, what should you do to that kind person?

This kind-hearted person is also her mother's family, what should I do?

It is estimated that even if the woman saw that her son was stupid, she could only sigh why her family was so unlucky, and at most she would scold her mother's family for her vanity twice, and there was nothing she could do.

After getting married, the completely falling out with the natal family is a modern story. In ancient times, the husband's family would be the first to beat the daughter-in-law to death.

The mother's family who raised her can fall out, so what else can't?Could it be that she has some deeper blood relationship with her husband's family?

Therefore, this kind of thing can only be rotten in the stomach and cannot be pursued.

This is not the first time Ji Mo has stayed in ancient times, so he can figure out the reason behind it, but he thought that the woman would have to go to her mother's house to cry twice, at least to get some compensation and sympathy. Come on, this matter is ordinary and often stumbles over, and no one knows whether her son is well or not.

Thinking about this matter, Ji Mo scratched his head, wishing to go directly to see what the real situation was like.

In front of Qin Jiuyin, he still maintains his senior brother's poise and doesn't show it. The incense candles are also well made, which is very good.

But in front of An Jing, he has less cover-up. Jing Jing has always been quiet, and he can be ignored as a background board at every turn. Ji Mo once made a joss stick and said to himself unintentionally: "What happened, the woman didn't say anything." Go back to your mother's house and say something?"

"The ugliness of the family must not be publicized."

Jing Jing suddenly made a sound, which startled Ji Mo. He turned to look at her, only touched her malnourished hair, then retracted his gaze, "What did you say? Ah, this, what are you..."

Ji Mo was a little confused, it was really unprecedented for Jing Jing to talk to him suddenly, and she spoke so old-fashioned, who taught her?

Seeing him like this, Jing Jing thought he didn't believe it, and said: "She is still waiting for her child to grow up and marry a wife, why would she go around saying that her child is a fool, and she might not tell the truth to her natal family, thinking that her natal family doesn't know .”

"How do you know this?"

Unexpectedly, Ji Mo came to Qin Jiuyin's place quietly, basically under the noses of the two of them. After being taught by the woman, at least let her know how to change clothes and how to use tools to eat correctly, why now...

It's not that he can't see her well, it's just that he suddenly "opened up", as if he had been transported through time, Ji Mo couldn't help but be a little vigilant.

An Jing glanced at him, her wrinkled face was expressionless, with her face, any expression could be ridiculed by others, in order to avoid "ugly people make more trouble", she has always been expressionless.

"It's like this in the village. I've heard of it before."

It's not that she can't speak at all. Before her parents died, she didn't really have a good life. Maybe she didn't care much about the things she heard when she was a child, but she can always feel the emotion when she touches the scene. Think of one or two things when the occasion is right, such as things like the Yang family.

Over the years in the village, there are many women who marry out, and some women who marry out marry well, and they will also support their own families. Men dislike their wives for giving too much to their natal family. It is definitely not because they dislike giving them too much, but simply because they dislike giving them too much.

It is a question of quantity here, not a question of action whether to give or not.

This principle is also the same in reverse. A man can make money to help his younger brothers and sisters start a family and start a business. The wife can’t say much.

The difference between modern and ancient times, the biggest difference is similar things caused by ideology.

The difficult living environment and the poor ability to resist pressure caused the ancients to have a very good "helping idea". Not to mention the help between relatives, it is people from the same hometown who can help, as if Helping this is like fertilizing the fields for one's own water and soil.

If you turn this corner and look at some things again, you will have a different perception.

For example, Jingjing mentioned a similar case where the son of a married woman in the village became disabled. Instead of telling her natal family, she said she wanted to help her natal family. She made a marriage agreement and married the daughter of her natal brother’s brother. This marriage is logical. To put it bluntly, it's the daughter cheating on her mother's family.

But from a practical point of view, it may really be a little bit of help. Among other things, there are a lot of dowry gifts. These will not be returned with the dowry, which is enough to make the natal family rich.

Not to mention that the natal family didn't know that her son was disabled, even if they knew, they might agree to this marriage, because it was also helping.

In ancient times, sons were favored over daughters. A good daughter was no better than a disabled son. The son had to have a queen. Only in this way was the credit for the kindness of the family, and it could be regarded as help outside of money. .

On the one hand, "family ugliness should not be publicized", on the other hand, "helping" each other, so there are not too many marriages that come from blind marriages.

Unlike the TV dramas that Ji Mo watched in modern times, there are almost no dumb wives, but there are dumb husbands, and there are many ghost husbands. In short, no matter how disabled a husband is, even if he is completely useless , you can have a good wife, so that the inheritance will not be lost. As for the wife, hehe, the world is picky, and they are inherently flawed, and they still want to marry a good family, what a dream.

Being a concubine is annoying, and what's more, she is sold directly by her family before she becomes an adult.

In case one or two of them are successful, maybe it is the help from relatives. Seeing that his parents love their daughters, they specially gave up a worthless son/relative, nephew, etc. for a match, regardless of the man. How bad is it? In order to balance the man's psychology, the woman's natal family must also marry a large sum of property to smooth out the favor, otherwise, it is really not enough to take advantage of it.

In this regard, even if a woman is beautiful, she cannot be frugal.

In ancient times, there was another saying, that is, the theory of reconciliation, which is not limited to the reconciliation of yin and yang, and the interdependence of the five elements. When it comes to marriage, even if the man is not disabled, he has all kinds of disappointments. A better wife to match, in order to achieve a certain balance, or simply let the next generation have hope, not to be dragged down by a father who is incompetent.

This kind of marriage standard that seems a bit weird in modern times, Ji Mo can occasionally think of it, turning this corner, most of the time, if you don't make a deliberate turn, you can't think of it.

After being reminded quietly, it was only then that I realized, yes, that's how it should be, otherwise how could there be regrets after the blind marriage?

Aren't there many, ahem, unethical things caused by inappropriate marriages?Look at Wu Dalang, look at Song Jiang, and then look at Princess Gaoyang... It seems that something strange has been mixed in, er, in short, it makes sense.

Wanting to understand this point, Ji Mo no longer worried about it, he just felt a little bit disappointed.

"Brother doesn't believe in Master?"

Quiet asked suddenly.

Ji Mo was shocked by this question. Looking at An Jing, he thought she was setting him up, "How is it possible? I believe everything Master said, and I also believe that the man will never get better. Isn't this just curiosity? Well, to be a fool, or..."

Just talking about fools, there are several forms, those who go crazy and beat people, those who are autistic and silent, those who laugh all day long, and those who torture and kill small animals... In short, let alone what the spell is, it depends on the result of practice Let's take a look.

In case it is a harmful spell, after Ji Mo learns it, is it possible that he will specifically harm individuals to increase practice points for the sake of professional knowledge points?There are ready-made ones, and it can be considered practice after seeing them.

This is also a tricky way.

He may not necessarily do everything that the master has done, but he will still learn this "experience".

Here, when it comes to different things, there are different ways of giving points, for example, how many points are simply seen, and how many points are consciously able to do, and feel that you can do better, or even improve to become more common. How much is sex or uniqueness.

In the beginning, the professional knowledge points were given so inexplicably. Why is this one point of knowledge and the other one is two points?Hey, what did you say just now, there is nothing, why did you suddenly give a little more?This is, when did it increase by two points?

Problems like these always affect Ji Mo, making him used to revisiting the previous knowledge over and over again. Later, when he had an idea, he discovered that this professional knowledge point is given in layers. He can learn all the theories as before. Practice complements the last knowledge point, and you can also learn the same theory and do the same practice, maximize the wool, and thoroughly study one knowledge point before moving on to the next one. The efficiency is a bit slower, but the learning will be more refined.

In terms of pros and cons, Ji Mo prefers the former, because the system is more comprehensive. The latter is too easy to dismantle, and usually one knowledge point cannot be practiced. If a few are combined, it is almost the same, and it belongs to the former.