Xiaohan's red and falling swallows are heavy

There were many people in the lecture hall, which changed from the usual deserted scene.It turned out that everyone was vying to attend the psychology class.

The reality is like this, whichever supermarket has more people at the entrance proves that the goods are genuine at a fair price; whichever restaurant has more cars at the entrance proves that the place is prosperous and prosperous.The same is true in the classroom. Whichever teacher has more people in the classroom proves that he has a unique charm.

The psychology teacher is about 40 years old, with a long round face and parted head. Although he is not handsome, his twinkling eyes are full of wisdom.A gray suit with a white shirt and red tie.Looks very decent.The leather shoes are always so shiny, which is enough to prove that he is a rigorous thinking person.When speaking, speak slowly and firmly, with a kind smile.What he is best at is to use examples from life with humorous language, which will make you laugh after listening to it, and then feel relished and eloquent.He sits there and talks, like giving a lecture, and when he talks to his heart's content, his right hand will dance back and forth in the air.His language, like prose poetry, is vivid and philosophical, which has a profound impact on Chong.

The psychology teacher is talking about people's psychological tendencies in this class.I just heard him say: "Everything in the world has its own yearning, and this will be the driving force for your actions. The squirrel yearned for the pine cones on the tree, so he climbed to the tree to pick them in the cold; the monkey yearned for the moon in the sky, so Unite as one and hang upside down to salvage the moon; handsome guys yearn for beautiful women, so they rack their brains to find ways to get close to them..."

At this point, everyone laughed loudly, and then talked about it in a hurry.At this time, the psychology teacher would take a sip of tea from the water cup, smile slightly, and cough lightly to signal silence.Then he said: "Look, everyone has found a resonance! This kind of yearning is an idea in the heart, a choice, a like and dislike... and these are all psychological tendencies. There are right and wrong tendencies in this tendency. Yes. Seeing someone’s child fall, your mind will send out a love alarm, prompting you to help. And this psychological tendency guides you to become a person who is happy to help others. Seeing other people’s clothes are beautiful, your mind will send out Envy alarms force you to steal, and this tendency helps you become a gangster. So when a psychological tendency appears, it is the prelude to your actions. Be careful thinking, good tendencies develop, bad tendency to be shot."

Everyone laughed again.

"There are standards for the correct inclination. For example, it should be a positive idea, which should bring good results to yourself and others, and you must persist in putting it into action. A handsome guy has a psychological inclination when he meets a beautiful woman. Fetch water, buy food, wash clothes, wash dishes, and patiently work for others. This is altruistic behavior, and at the same time, will the cattle and horses do it for nothing?"

Everyone coaxed: "No!"

"Yes, no one has a heart of stone. In the end, you won the heart of a beautiful woman. Not only will you not be a cow or a horse, but you will also become a prince charming."

I feel that these theories are right for me.

The psychology teacher continued: "Then why don't other beauties remain unmoved? Let's discuss it, and find a classmate to speak later."

Everyone discussed.

After 10 minutes, the teacher listened to everyone's speech one by one.

Zhu stood up and said, "Then continue to be a cow and a horse!"

Hai retorted: "That won't work, let's try something else!"

Xia Dao: "It's outrageous, you can't be in a hurry! I think it's still not hard enough, and we should continue to work hard."

Haidao: "If people don't like you, why bother."

Ling said: "It's not in vain. Whoever throws an olive branch, no matter whether they can accept it or not, should respect and appreciate it, because that is enough to prove that I am a beautiful woman, but beautiful women also have ideological tendencies. Maybe she is also attacking the city! So Love is a multiple-choice question, if you make a wrong choice, you have to correct it and find a suitable partner, because love is a matter between two people.”

Ling's wonderful insights drew warm applause from everyone, but Zhong always believed that Ling's show was for show, and it was aimed at himself.Since you have never loved, why bother to perfunctory.That faint tingling hit my heart again.Hurt, rejected, that is a kind of hatred, how can it be resolved in a few words.

Jing suddenly stood up and went straight to the psychology teacher.Leaning down and lowering his head, he leaned close to his ear, only to see his mouth moved a few times, his drooping hair trembling slightly, but he didn't know what he said.Heavy psychological suspicion, why did Jing act so abnormally, could it be that she is still brooding over my previous letter.Zhong's psychology was a little ups and downs, and today's topic seemed to be more sensitive to him.I also hate myself for putting my psychological tendency into action easily, but in exchange for today's anxiety.

Just now, when the psychology teacher listened to Jing's words, he nodded and smiled, as if he was very excited.What did Jing say?The psychology teacher's question is indeed a bit sharp.If you have been in contact with Yan, Ying, Lei, Yue, Ling, Jing and even Luohong again, don't you just ignore your own feelings?What will happen to me?Some are faded, some are forgotten, some are vague, and some are incomprehensible.Zhong only felt the pain and pain, whether it faded or lingered, it would come like a tide at a certain moment.

Shigeya stood up and said: "Wanting and getting are two different things. The psychological tendency you mentioned is a kind of wanting psychology. If what you want is not yours, you can't get it. No matter how hard you work, It is also futile. Everyone has good wishes, and it is impossible to realize all of them. But you can't give up the pursuit just because you don't get it. If this road doesn't work, just change. Flexibility should be the best policy. You can't love each other, and you can't It hurts. 'When you let go, let go, you have to forgive and forgive'!"

After a round of applause, the psychology teacher concluded: "It is indeed the case. Everyone has the right to pursue beauty, but the right must not be abused indiscriminately. Thought tendency is the driving force behind action, but action and action results are two concepts. If you want to In order to make one's own ideological tendencies come to a good end, one must start correctly, act rationally, and achieve realistic results. There must be no extreme ideas and extreme actions. Now everyone is facing the enrollment of experimental classes at two normal universities in Beijing and Tianjin. It is to go Applying for the exam or studying at our school? Going to Beijing or Tianjin? Everyone wants to go to Beijing, but it’s impossible for everyone to get what they want. If you can’t go to Beijing, go to Tianjin. The best is the second best, and life is not out. The same is true for love. After all, there will be a happy lover to accompany you until old age. I wish all of us can reasonably grasp our love and ideals. If we fail, we don’t have to give up on ourselves, because we You are still young and can afford to lose. As long as you have done your best, you will have no regrets in life."

The applause in the classroom was like thunder, what a handsome teacher, what a wonderful classroom!

Although there is not much contact and communication, although there are no bizarre stories and episodes, the psychological teacher's suave style has been penetrated into Zhong's bone marrow, because he understands what "everyone's demeanor" is!

Rethink: Someone asked me what is the most important thing in life.For a while, there are many important things in life.

As for the most important seems to be a difficult question to answer.Life is the most important thing.Yes, it is life.This is the beginning of life. Without life, how would life unfold?

Family, friendship and love are the most important in life.They are the three eternal themes of life, but which of the three is more important?

Family affection is bred by a beautiful family, it is your safe haven, and it is the place where you heal your wounds, which seems more important.

Friendship is nurtured by close friends, it is the rudder and paddle for advancement.As the saying goes: "It is hard to find a friend in a thousand miles, and it is easy to travel when there are many friends." In times of crisis, friends will extend a warm helping hand to help you tide over the difficulties.Friendship seems to be more important to survival and development.

Love is the crystallization of mutual admiration and mutual affection between men and women.It is a state of "holding the hand of the son and growing old together with the son".Stories and legends about love can be described as ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, and there are countless.In ancient times, Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai were sung about their love for thousands of years.There are Romeo and Juliet abroad, the familiar poignant story.

Love cultivates our hearts and refreshes us spiritually. It is the sail of life and the promise and trust between two people.It was he who disintegrated the loneliness of life and the cruelty of reality.Love enables two people to own the whole world. Love is the paintbrush of life. With it, life will be colorful. It seems that love is the most important thing.

What is the most important thing?I fell into deep thought for a moment.Friendship makes us know each other, and then we have love.Love makes people help each other and integrate perfectly. Only then can there be family and affection.Family affection makes us grow up, and makes us understand the warmth of home and the warmth of love.Natural and warm families will collide with sincere friendship.

From this point of view, family, friendship and love are all important in life, regardless of equality.Life is a short and long process.It requires many elements, as well as health, faith, outlook on life, and even patriotism.They can't be compared, in a word, any one is essential.

Quietly, looking out the window.The willow tree in the distance has loose hair and is old and panting.The poplar trees nearby, with withered and yellow leaves, bid farewell to the mother one after another.

Occasionally, a sparrow, like an arrow, dives from high altitude to the ground.The peaceful picture is shot through.The lively children flocked to the campus with the bell ringing, full of youthful enthusiasm.

There is no lack of vitality in the chill of early winter, see the road under your feet, and forge ahead.

The wind outside is still blowing...

When you can't talk too much, you must not talk too much.Don't complicate simple things.Every move needs to be done carefully.The days are always so reciprocating, it is too late to stay, and I miss a lot of scenery.

Haste makes waste, let nature take its course.Fight for it when it is appropriate to fight for it, and give it up when it is appropriate to give it up.Many things in life are red tape, so keep your eyes open and see clearly.The efficiency of life will increase a lot.

The wind is always blowing so persistently, disturbing the calm of the lake, and stirring your heartstrings.Vitality and vitality are touched by the persistence of the wind.

Pengcao, the end of life, a tragic corpse.I don't know if it is eclipsed, or reborn from Nirvana?

I don't know if the joke was made deliberately or by chance?Some people like to watch jokes, but they don't know that one day they will become jokes too.Bits of life can predict when there will be waves between people.I don't know whether the comedian made the audience laugh or laughed at himself.The comedian is also an artist, who reproduces the good, evil, beauty and ugliness in life, and shows the coldness of the world in his laughter and cursing.

Walking around alone, seeing the vastness of the sea, my heart is brightened.Seeing the shining stars, my heart is quiet.

The butterfly with broken wings is desperately flying to the blue sky, and suddenly realizes that all things have yearning pursuits, just like moths rushing to the flame until death.