extremely abnormal

Jing Miao did not continue to go to school after graduation.

He likes mathematics and learning, he likes the process of proof, he likes the joy of seeing questions and seeking answers, he likes numbers and patterns.But I just don't like doing research.

Because of Xi Siyan's current occupation, he has a natural resistance to academic research. This is like a galaxy between them. If both of them do research, will this galaxy be wider?

Xi Siyan also agreed that he would not continue studying.

He didn't have any unconstrained ideas, all his judgments were based on the actual situation.

Mathematics is a broad and endless subject, which is applied in all aspects. Senior researchers in the School of Materials also have special talents in the Department of Mathematics.

However, Jing Miao’s liking for mathematics is obviously more than Plato’s. His limited cognition prevents him from putting this subject into other research, and his personality also prevents him from staying in school forever: Postgraduate doctoral lecturer, associate professor and Professor... His limit in this process can only reach doctoral students.

At the beginning, Xi Siyan still wanted to encourage him to be a teacher. Jing Miao was very patient, and he was very clear about the process of expressing mathematics. He had his own unique way to explain a difficult problem in a simple and easy-to-understand manner.

But when there were more than ten college students under the podium, Jing Miao couldn't move his legs. It was useless to persecute and reason. He was still very uneasy getting along with adults.

The whole family is worried about Jing Miao's future career path. Of course, he doesn't need to work or continue to study, but Xi Siyan doesn't want him to go back to this kind of life again.

The person who was involved in this matter couldn’t explain why, Jing Miao was very unfamiliar with the profession, and he even asked Xi Siyan: “Brother, can I go to school for another four years, I will study my brother’s material science, and I will be with my brother in the future.” ,May I?"

Of course it can't be like this... neither objective nor subjective.

Xi Siyan said earnestly: "Miao Miao, you have graduated and can't go back to study. For things you don't like, forcing study will only be counterproductive."

Jing Miao lowered her head, not very happy: "But the matter related to my brother is not forced."

Xi Siyan patted his head: "Good boy, it's okay, we're not in a hurry."

Regarding Jing Miao's future life plan, Xi Siyan still took him to see a psychiatrist.

Although it has been a long time since he came here, Lin Song remembers Jing Miao's situation very clearly. He was shocked to know that Jing Miao not only married Xi Siyan but also graduated from university.

After several hours of communication, Lin Song obviously felt that this was a big trouble.

He and Xi Siyan said: "Jing Miao's current cognition is already an adult, but unfortunately, he has been at this stage for a long time. From my observation of him just now, it is necessary to let his thinking mode continue to grow. I'm afraid I have to live alone without you for a long time. But this is impossible for him and you, right?"

Sis was puzzled: "Why did you leave us?"

Lin Song sighed: "Mr. Xi, Jing Miao's intelligence has stopped growing, and there are pathological factors. But the main reason why his thinking and behavior are never mature is the living environment you created for him. His understanding of the objective world There are adults' judgments and cognitions, but the subjective way of thinking is still a child's way of thinking, which is caused by you."

Xi Siyan felt speechless.

Xi's family is almost like stretching out their clothes and opening their mouths to Jing Miao. He can study and live smoothly in a university full of adults. independent adult.

Xi Siyan rubbed his forehead in annoyance.

He didn't talk about it himself, the increasing age and Jing Miao's better and better mental state didn't change Xi Siyan, some habits had been carved into his bones, and these years not only didn't improve, but became more and more excessive.

Jing Miao was used to many problems by him.

For example, watching movies must be done continuously, playing games, and writing math problems. As long as he is in the mood, he can't stop screaming, eating, sleeping, and taking a bath can't delay him.

The first was Haidao's marriage proposal three years ago. That was probably the first time Xi Siyan made a mistake. He didn't ask him to correct himself when he played games and skipped meals. Instead, he fed him bite by bite.

Later, it became a habit. As long as Jing Miao cried, Xi Siyan would not refuse, and he would willingly serve beside him, and he was very happy to serve.

For Su Wan, because of her mistakes in the early years, her maternal love for Jing Miao is also tolerant without a bottom line.

Jing Miao seldom asks for anything. His life needs are only what kind of food he wants to eat, 10 minutes less walking, some dessert ingredients, and an extra game card...

These are too easy and too small, in Su Wan's eyes it is almost as if they are nothing, so she is on Jing Miao's side for all big and small matters.

For a while, Jing Miao always liked to do Sudoku while taking a bath. Combined with his previous bad habit of not being able to stop whatever he did, if Xi Siyan didn't pay attention, he could soak until the water was completely cold before coming out.

He is not in good health and his immunity is too weak, so he always catches colds frequently.Xi Siyan was angry and distressed, so he severely educated him to stop such behavior.

"Miao Miao, if you do this again in the future, I won't hug you again when you come out of the shower."

Jing Miao did not refuse to listen to his words, so she agreed aggrievedly: "Brother, I'm sorry, Miao Miao will change."

After Su Wan found out, he installed a mini hot spring for his home without saying a word, and even installed one in their own villa, saying that Jing Miao could soak as long as he wanted.

Xi Siyan quarreled with her: "Mom! It's not good to soak in hot springs for a long time, skin, heart, you read so many health encyclopedias every day, can't you see this?"

Of course Su Wan refused to accept it: "It's not like having sex every day, you just have to keep an eye on it and stop having it all the time!"

The only person in this family who is not doting on Jing Miao is Xi Yucheng. He is very busy and can hardly get involved in taking care of Jing Miao, but he is afraid of guilt and has no place to speak at all.

Lin Song is really unbelievable. In such an environment where the whole family is almost perverted and spoiled, Jing Miao is still obedient, sensible and kind. It is amazing that he has not been raised with strange bad habits.It seems that the only downside is that it limits his ability to think independently.

Although he is an adult, no one treats him as an adult, so he continues to be a child happily.Leaving aside the macro psychology, there is nothing wrong with this. The family is willing and able to create a utopia for him for a lifetime.

But the consequences are also tricky, for example in the matter of choosing a career.

Lin Song basically judged that if Jing Miao wanted to independently choose a career that he liked and could do, he had to be separated from the Xi family for a period of time, until his spirit was completely independent and mature, before he could take any responsibility for things other than Xi Siyan. Make preference judgments.

He also knows that this is impossible, so he can only suggest that he can use exhaustive methods to judge the jobs he is suitable for or likes, and try them one by one.

Xi Siyan's mood was complicated, even more complicated than last time.

They seem to have spoiled Jing Miao, but they don't seem to have any, and there is no turning back when they open their bows, and they cannot be reversed.

He couldn't make up his mind to let him be independent, Jing Miao's physical condition made him unable to let go.This is the extremely selfish part of Xi Siyan, Jing Miao may not know what he likes, but Xi Siyan knows it.

He loves that, pampers him forever.

After returning home, Xi Siyan communicated the result to his parents. Like Xi Siyan, they fell into complicated moods.

Su Wan first yelled and refused: "No! I don't accept it! Miaomiao can't leave home! Why does she have to work? People work to make money and make money to live. He doesn't need to make money or live! What is normal and what is abnormal , the standard is set for others, not for us! How good my child is, we spoil him so much, he doesn't even have a little bit of a young master's temper, and he is very good every day! What is the value of life! That is your life belief It’s not Miao Miao! I disagree, Xi Siyan, if you don’t want to take care of him, I’ll come! I’ll take care of him for the rest of my life!”

Look...it doesn't work at all.

Xi Yucheng tried his best to think from the perspective of rationality and an outsider. This is his habit of decades of politics, but when it comes to Jing Miao, he is rarely confused: "Si Yan, I understand that you want Miao Miao to have more A good life is not about staying at home every day, but you have to combine his previous life considerations. It seems that when he chooses a major, he chooses mathematics that he likes. He is not interested in other things. The only thing he is interested in It’s you. But if we let him do academics all the time, we can only let him get a Ph. D. This is still an endless loop.”

Xi Siyan had a headache, he didn't have to force Jing Miao to grow up, he wished he wouldn't grow up.

He thinks too far, and he is afraid that after 30 and 40, Jing Miao will still be confused about this society and the world.

"I didn't say I want to separate from him. It's impossible for me to separate from him. Don't get excited. I'm just repeating what the doctor said to you. This road is dead for me. Even if you two force me to choose, I will Will not choose."

Only then did Su Wan calm down and calm down to discuss this matter again, but the result of the discussion was to no avail.

Can only give up temporarily.

At night, Xi Siyan hugged Jing Miao and was about to go to bed. He lay on his chest and played Sudoku on his mobile phone. The screen was very close to his eyes. Xi Siyan picked him up and sat up straight before pulling him away.

Jing Miao let him fiddle with the whole process.

He found some problems.He hardly communicates with Jing Miao about such trivial matters.

Xi Si took the trouble to help him directly with actions. When they were together, all his attention was on Jing Miao, holding his collar to make him sit upright, passing the water glass to let him drink water, and moving his legs. I knew it was numbness and needed to rub it, and I hugged him back to the room to sleep after yawning... Doing these things is as simple as breathing, all out of subconscious and conditioned reflex, so he didn't bother to talk.

"Miao Miao." Xi Siyan thought, at least reason with him, and this can be changed slowly, "You cry a lot, and your eyes are prone to pain. If you always play with your phone on your stomach like this, it is very close to the screen of the phone. , the eyes will be short-sighted, and they will not be able to see clearly, including me."

Jing Miao looked at Xi Siyan, turned off the phone decisively and hugged him: "I won't lie on the bed and play with my phone from now on brother."

Xi Siyan's heart softened again: Fuck the reason, he is willing to take care of him like this for the rest of his life.

Lin Song thinks it's incredible that Jing Miao was not taken care of by their perverted way of raising children, but he doesn't think so.

Jing Miao is too obedient, too sensible and obedient, this is the profoundness brought to him by his lost life.

Growing up in a difficult environment, he must be obedient and sensible. To survive his poor social skills, he can only be obedient and honest.He has grown from a child to an older child, taking care of the old dean, and then together with the old dean to take care of other children... Jing Miao is naturally caring, soft-hearted and willing, even Wang Song and the others will subconsciously use coaxing during their long-term relationship. The way a child communicates with him, his living environment has long been unable to change.

"Good baby, you can play, but you can't play on your stomach like this." He stroked his face and kissed his forehead.

Jing Miao thought for a while, then whispered: "I don't want to play anymore, I don't want to lose sight of my brother, and mobile phones are not very fun."

Xi Siyan let out a sigh of relief, just be raised by him.Su Wan was right, anyway, at the very beginning, they all thought that he would be a seven-year-old child for the rest of their lives, and they all made plans to take care of him for the rest of their lives.

It's just "keep it straight".

"Brother." Jing Miao called him, "Are you in a bad mood because I can't go out to work?"

His baby is vague about the world, but always sensitive to people's emotions.

Xi Siyan denied: "No, baby, don't think too much."

"I want to teach children." He said suddenly.

Xi Siyan didn't hear clearly: "What?"

"I can teach children, and I like to get along with children." Jing Miao said seriously, "I discovered it when I was teaching my mother-in-law's granddaughter."

Aunt Jiang's daughter and son-in-law entrusted her to take care of her granddaughter for a few days due to work reasons. She was an eight-year-old girl in the second grade of elementary school.

She still has to work in the villa every day, and after obtaining Xi Siyan's consent, she brought the little girl to the villa, let the little girl do her homework somewhere during the day, and took her away at night.

Jing Miao seems to have a natural attraction and affinity for human cubs. Those high school students used to like to stick to him and play games, let alone little girls.

The little girl, who was originally obedient, pounced on Jing Miao when she saw Jing Miao, asking her employer to teach her homework and play with her.

He had difficulty getting along with his peers, but he had a lot of patience with children. In the past few days, he was very handy in teaching the little girl's second-grade elementary school courses. At night, he happily asked Xi Siyan for a reward in bed.

Xi Siyan didn't pay attention to this issue before, obviously this is the result of Jing Miao's serious thinking.

He remembered that after he grew up in the orphanage, he often took care of the young orphans, which was almost another behavior pattern carved into his DNA.

"I can also help my brother with thesis translation, and help my brother's colleagues with thesis translation." He added, "I can also make desserts. My brother said it was delicious, and my mother said it was delicious. My aunt and mother-in-law both said it was good. Eat. Brother, I can do a lot of things, maybe I didn’t do it very well at first, but Miao Miao can learn, brother, don’t be unhappy.”

Xi Siyan listened to him in a daze.

"Baby." He spoke again with strong desire, pressing her into his arms and kissing non-stop, "My Miao Miao, my good baby, I love you, I love you so much."

What Professor Jin said is right, he really burnt the incense in his previous life, and Yuelao gave him such an obedient darling in this life.He is not a waste, can do a lot, is willing to learn, and is willing to improve.

Jing Miao is the most mature child and the most innocent adult in the world.

"Brother is not unhappy, I'm just struggling." He said to him, "I want to keep you in my arms for the rest of my life, but I'm afraid that you will blame me for raising you after many years."

He didn't know if Jing Miao could understand, but he still told him the truth.

"If Miao Miao wants to be only by my brother's side forever, my brother can't wait for it. But do you feel bored with such a life?"

This assumption is beyond the scope of Jing Miao's thinking. He knows that Xi Siyan can't be with him all the time, and he also has his own things to do.

When he was in college, he hated the winter and summer vacations the most, because he had something to do in class, and during the holidays, he could only wait for Xi Siyan at home dryly, and he would miss him more than when he was in school.

If Xi Siyan was with him 24 hours a day, how could he feel bored.

But Xi Siyan can't, he will be bored, irritable and sad in the endless waiting.

Jing Miao honestly told him what was in her heart.

Xi Siyan felt even more distressed, it was not Jing Miao who didn't want to go to work at this moment, but himself.

"It's okay baby, let's take it slowly, okay?" He comforted Jing Miao to sleep, and hugged him tighter.

It happened to be the summer vacation, so Xi Siyan found some children of relatives and friends through Su Wan to come to "classes" at home.

Jing Miao is very good, he can teach almost everything except for subjects that are too subjective like Chinese.Occupation was a difficult matter, and it was resolved quickly. Not only did he do a good job, but these school-age children aged 7-12 became very interested in learning because of his class. Jing Miao also benefited from it. Find great satisfaction.

During the one-month vacation, he excitedly talked to Sis about how happy he was today and how good he was. He carefully read the textbooks, prepared lesson plans, and even accurately measured the weaknesses and upper limits of this group of children, and made a A set of test questions that even the teachers of the top elementary schools in the capital admired. Some of the questions in it were modified by him from other supplementary books, and some of the questions were created by himself.

Su Wan got another capital to show off.

The side hall of Xi's house and Xi Siyan's study became his work places, and they were forced to live with their parents for a long time.Jing Miao is well-known in the Zhengyuan community, and they all want to stuff their own leather monkeys into Xi's house.

——The teacher is good-looking and gentle, and smells good, and the lectures are also very good. You can take the trouble to tell me many times about the topics you don't understand.Teacher Jing is the best teacher in the world.

This is a compliment written by a certain child in his composition.

Their worries were easily resolved in this way. Su Wan was even preparing to apply for his registration and set up a formal school. She asked Jing Miao to prepare to take the teacher qualification certificate examination at various stages.

Only Xi Siyan was upset.

He looks at those children every day, the oldest one is twelve or thirteen years old, he hugs Jing Miao and does not let go when he disagrees with him.

Xi Siyan felt his teeth itch, how do parents teach their children now, all of them talk sweetly, are used to coaxing people, and when they grow up, they will be the queen of the sea, a scumbag!

One tipping point was a little girl in the sixth grade of a certain elementary school who hugged Jing Miao and said that she would marry him when she grew up.

Upon hearing this, the other children couldn't sit still, the boys wanted to marry, and the girls wanted to marry, as if they were fighting over apples.

Xi Siyan was completely blown up. He rushed into Jing Miao's "classroom" like a psychopath, and sternly refused: "This is my wife, this is my wife, you can't marry him, and you can't marry him! You find yourself Wife goes by her own husband! Today's class is over early, go home and play games and play football online! Don't be so enthusiastic about studying!"

Then I sent a few children away...

For the first time, Su Wan and Xi Yucheng felt that their excellent son had really disgraced their Xi family.

Before they had time to scold Xi Siyan properly, the youngest son went back to the room crying with a soft heart, saying on the left that brother should not be angry, and saying on the right that Miao Miao loves his brother the most.

Xi Siyan, who was acting like a baby, was stunned for a while, hugging him and coaxing tenderly: "Oh, okay, don't cry, my brother won't be angry, and I love you the most."

Su Wan: "Isn't it a long way for Xi Siyan to go to Huada to work every day? Can he go back and live by himself?"

Xi Yucheng: "Second."

Su Wan: "It's really embarrassing for me to be so clingy to my daughter-in-law at such an adult. Why did I give birth to such a thing? I get annoyed when I see him!"

Xi Yucheng: "I can't agree more, can we have only one child?"

The trial school was really over for the time being, and the school was not completed.Half of it was because Xi Siyan was jealous and crazy, and the other half was because Jing Miao had a new idea.

He wants to teach in a charity primary school for the children of migrant workers in the capital.

When Su Wan thought it was really caused by Xi Siyan's madness and wanted to hit him with high heels, Jing Miao seriously expressed her thoughts.

"I want to teach in that elementary school."

Xi Yucheng's eyes lit up: "Why, Miao Miao?"

He calmly explained: "I saw the news that my father was interviewed on TV, saying that there are many migrant workers in the capital, and their children are very pitiful. They study in their hometown and cannot see their parents all year round. The cost of education is too high to study here. The government has established several such primary schools, and said that this year the city hall allocated another 4650 million yuan to primary schools." He is sensitive to numbers, and he will keep them in his mind after listening to them.

"But why do you always say that there is a shortage of teachers after so much money has been allocated?" Jing Miao was puzzled, "I feel that those children are very pitiful. There are so many children in a school and only a dozen teachers, but every year the capital and surrounding prefecture-level cities There are hundreds of thousands of normal graduates..."

If it was Jing Miao in the past, he would definitely understand, but the current Jing Miao can't.

He doesn't have much concept of material desires and money. He has the best food, clothing, housing and transportation. He doesn't understand why no one is willing to teach in primary schools for children of migrant workers.

Naturally, it was because of bad conditions.

In a materialistic metropolis, the conditions of this kind of public welfare school are very poor.Compared with public schools, the five social insurances and one housing fund are not good. Compared with expensive private schools, they are even worse. Few young people are willing to go.

This is not indifference, but forced by life.

It is not easy to gain a foothold in the capital with a high standard of living.

Jing Miao said seriously that he wanted to go.

He doesn't need money, he just cares about those children, and the point is that there is an elementary school next to Huada.

The few children in the family seem to be unable to satisfy Jing Miao's overflowing love.

Xi Yucheng almost burst into tears: "Our family really has accumulated virtues, so we have Miao Miao. Then Miao Miao prepares to take the teacher qualification certificate exam."

Su Wan was stunned for a moment, and didn't realize that some time ago, the psychiatrist said he was a spoiled child, and now he showed his heart.

So Lin Song misjudged another place.

There is nothing wrong with being completely independent from the Xi family and passively thinking about what else he likes besides Xi Siyan, but Jing Miao obviously chose a different path to choose life.

Because I want Xi Siyan to be happy, not to worry about his affairs, so I take the initiative to think, what else do I like besides Xi Siyan?what else can i doWhat can I do to be by his side all the time.

Here's the condition the doctor missed: Love can change people.

Su Wan shook her hand and posted on Moments: From now on, our family will not accept private education, he will go to a charity primary school to be a teacher.

Seeing that Mom and Dad didn't seem to object, Jing Miao said happily, "Brother! Did Mom and Dad agree? Is Brother happy?"

Sisi smiled, took his hand and kissed his palm: "Well, is the baby happy?"

"happy!"

"That brother is also happy."

Since I have you, I have never been unhappy, because an angel has come to me.

The author has something to say:

We are little angels, we were little angels before, and we are still little angels after we wake up.