salted fish marriage

There is no way, he is already 27 and has not been in a relationship yet.

Sometimes Tong Beibei envies Min Heng.

Min Heng lives a self-styled and bold life, chasing whoever he likes, kicking if he doesn't like it, and his ex-boyfriend immediately becomes a friend with benefits if his job is good.

Unlike Tong Beibei, sometimes I don't even bother to DIY when I am salted, but at this age, there must be some needs...

Tong Beibei glanced at Qin Ling again, seeing that Qin Ling had pulled out the cork of the red wine, he quickly put away those inappropriate thoughts in his mind.

But because of this, Tong Beibei observed the appearance of this blind date seriously for the first time.

Qin Ling reached out and took out two glasses from the cabinet—he was tall, had long legs, and liked to wear shirts. When he raised his arms to open the cabinet, his shoulders bulged, and the muscles under the clothes bulged like hills.

Taking down the glass, Qin Ling rolled up his cuffs, took the two cups that had accumulated dust in the cabinet all year round, washed them under the tap, and then wiped them dry with a paper towel—his forearm under the cuff was strong, and when he turned his wrist, The arm muscles are smooth and powerful.

Qin Ling stood in front of the cooking table, shoulders slightly bowed—shoulders were broad, and the fabric was pressed against his back shoulders, and he could vaguely feel the strong muscles under the clothes.

Going down, the waist is narrow and the buttocks are tight, and the legs are slender.

Tong Beibei looked at it calmly, and then looked away calmly.

cough.

Externally, he is quite satisfied.

Qin Ling was also satisfied when eating.

Tong Beibei's cooking is delicious. The home-cooked food is very delicious. He even asked him about his taste in advance, which is what he likes to eat.

Not only that, but the two of them also had a relaxed and pleasant chat when they ate—even if they had known each other for a short time, the common topics were relatively limited.

Qin Ling quickly discovered that Tong Beibei had a unique temperament: he talked less and listened more, but every time he opened his mouth, he made people want to continue talking.

He has a warm aura and a slow temper. He is very serious when listening to people, has a high degree of concentration on the topic, and responds promptly. Whoever sits opposite him will want to talk.

Qin Ling couldn't help asking him: "Does this happen when you sit with anyone?"

Tong Beibei reacted unhurriedly, realizing what Qin Ling meant, without even thinking about it, she replied: "No, sometimes what other people say sounds boring to me, and I also get distracted."

Qin Ling: "Isn't that boring?"

Tong Beibei: "No."

Qin Ling began to recall what they had just talked about.

Tong Beibei explained unhurriedly while eating, "It's mainly about people."

See people?

Qin Ling raised his eyebrows, meaning that the same topic, others say it's boring, "Isn't what I'm talking about boring?"

Tong Beibei smiled: "You are a blind date. Focus on it."

Qin Ling laughed at this honest and playful answer.

It really is.

In fact, it's not just Tong Beibei who treats him, he treats Tong Beibei as well.

——Blind date, blind date for the purpose of marriage, when they find out that the other party is not bad after contact again and again, they attach great importance to each other.

Since you value it, of course you will show your good side either subconsciously or deliberately or unconsciously.

But obviously, if married, there is more than good in married life.

Qin Ling deliberately chatted about the possible bad things in the future: "I travel a lot, if it takes a long time, I may not come back for ten days and half a month."

Tong Beibei nodded.

Qin Ling looked over: "Will you be angry then?"

Tong Beibei thought for a while, then shook her head: "Probably not."

Explain, "I'm a homeboy, and I'm a bit lazy. It's true that I'll be lonely after a long time alone, but I'm pretty good at finding something to do for myself to pass the time."

Qin Ling: "For example?"

Tong Beibei: "For example, in a few days, I will send those thirteen guinea pig brothers and sisters to be sterilized."

Qin Ling laughed.

Tong Beibei imagined her married life when she was free and her husband was not at home: "I practice yoga regularly, and when I have free time, I can arrange one or two classes every day. I also have some friends who don't want to stay at home. Come out and meet for tea."

"To pass the time, you can study recipes, plant flowers, be in a daze, sleep, whatever."

Listening to this, Qin Ling couldn't help but think of the one he broke up with before.

That person also described her married life alone at home like Tong Beibei, and she said something similar, even far more colorful than Tong Beibei's - as if a person can live a whole world.

But listening to it at that time, Qin Ling felt that it was very fake, knowing that the predecessor was just trying to cater to him, and deliberately said these things in an exaggerated way.

But now that Tong Beibei said this, Qin Ling felt very real.

Qin Ling continued: "We may have some conflicts."

"Ah?" Tong Beibei immediately said, "Will there be a fight?"

Qin Ling raised the corners of his lips, remembering that Tong Beibei said before that he was lazy, not good at and didn't like to quarrel with others.

Qin Ling: "Not arguing, just talking about conflicts."

Tong Beibei said slowly: "That's normal. My left and right feet are not stable and I will trip over each other, let alone a husband and wife."

"Sit down and talk calmly if you have any conflicts, and just resolve them."

"If it is resolved, either we reach a consensus, or you take a step back, or I take a step back, or compromise with each other."

Talking here, Tong Beibei thought about it seriously: "However, it may not be resolved smoothly. It may be that when we didn't live together before marriage, we felt that we were quite suitable for each other, but when we really lived together, some conflicts would be resolved. It becomes impossible to resolve and compromise.”

Qin Ling followed the words: "If the time comes and there is really no solution or compromise, what will you do?"

"I..." Tong Beibei shrugged and said generously, "I might choose to divorce."

After a pause, he looked at Qin Ling and asked, "Can you accept the divorce?"

Qin Ling smiled: "I think so too."

Tong Beibei: Great.

Everyone has the same idea, and if they really get to the point of divorce in the future, it won't be so ugly if one wants to leave and the other doesn't want to pull each other.

And at this point in the conversation, the two of them have confessed to each other frankly and clearly enough.

After returning home that day, Qin Ling thought about it seriously, and sent a message to Chu Huaiyan: "How much do you know about Tong Beibei?"

Chu Huaiyan made a phone call: "What's wrong?"

Knowing Qin Ling, he immediately said: "It's only been a few days? You don't think he's not bad, so you want to mention the 'to be confirmed' seat to him right now?"

——Before Chu Huaiyan teased Qin Ling, saying that his marriage is a six-step process-blind date, contact, in-depth contact, pending (think suitable), preparation (considering marriage), and marriage.

The one that Qin Ling broke off before, from blind date to in-depth contact, started in six months, and got along with him for several months as if to investigate, how did he get to Tong Beibei...

Before Qin Ling said anything, Chu Huaiyan quickly said: "Is that right? I said that Tong Beibei is very suitable for marriage, right? I have seen countless people in my life, and he is definitely the most down-to-earth and most suitable for marriage!"

Qin Ling: "I just want to ask you how much you know about him."

Chu Huaiyan: "Understood, I must understand. Just wait, give me two days."

Two days later, after taking Min Heng's sleep, Chu Huaiyan sent a document to Qin Ling, and then called Qin Ling specifically, telling him: "Some of these are from my inquiries, and some are from my special inquiries. You can have a look."

Qin Ling clicked on the document.

On the other side, Min Heng contacted Tong Beibei: "Chu Huaiyan forced me to inquire about you. I thought about arranging a blind date for him. Now he is inquiring about you again, probably for that golden turtle of yours."

Min Heng was very curious: "Tell me about where you have developed now?"

"He went to your house for dinner two days ago. Did you drink? Did you drink? Did he kiss you?"

Tong Beibei: "...None."

Min Heng felt bored to death, why Tong Beibei was a salted fish, and the golden tortoise was also slow.

Min Heng: "Then, have you started holding hands?"

Don't you ever hold hands?

Whoops!

Tong Beibei ignored the words: "What did Chu Huaiyan ask you about me?"

Min Heng: "What else can there be, all of them."

Tong Beibei knew it in his heart - he and Qin Ling had talked about everything they needed to talk about, Qin Ling asked him, probably thinking about the next step of development.

Sure enough, not long after, Qin Ling sent Tong Beibei a "file" of himself.

Qin Ling: [Let's have a look, if you have any doubts, you can ask. 】

Tong Beibei opened the "file".

After reading it, there is nothing to ask.

Because that "file" is full of Qin Ling's life and personal introduction.

These are "facts", Tong Beibei felt that as long as he knew it, he didn't need to wonder.

That week, Qin Ling was on a business trip, and the two did not see each other, so they contacted each other by mobile phone.

On Sunday, Qin Ling came back from a business trip.

On the night when I came back, I met Tong Beibei for dinner.

When they sat face to face, Tong Beibei could still feel the busyness and haste of the other party from the cold frost on Qin Ling's coat, or——

urgent?

Tong Beibei wondered if she had read it wrong.

After taking a few mouthfuls of food, Qin Ling cut to the chase and said, "Have you read all of mine?"

"file"?

Tong Beibei nodded.

Qin Ling: "Is there anything you want to ask?"

Tong Beibei shook her head: "No."

After a pause, "Do you have any?"

——He believes that with Qin Ling's strength and ability, as long as he thinks about it, the eighteen generations of his ancestors can "investigate" clearly.

Qin Ling also shook his head.

That being the case—

Qin Ling: "Let's get married."

Tong Beibei's pupils dilated slightly.

Qin Ling said calmly: "You know, I'm 32 this year, for some reason," he wrote in the "file" for this reason, "I want to get married and start a family as soon as possible."

Qin Ling stared at Tong Beibei: "You are very good, and we are very compatible in all aspects. Instead of meeting for dinner in a leisurely manner before marriage, it is better to get married, leave time for after marriage, and leave the running-in for marriage."

Qin Ling: "Of course, this is just my unilateral proposal, if you..."

Tong Beibei suddenly laughed, and didn't let Qin Ling continue his long speech, but responded decisively: "Okay, let's get married."