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Sure enough, no matter how well-behaved the child was, it couldn't offset the blame for his father's assholes. Chu Ting took the child with him to his grandparents' house. Before the old man saw the child happy for a while, he became angry because of the child's mother.

This old man and the old man of the Chu family belong to the same generation, they are about the same age, and their origins are almost the same, and they have the same concept of right and wrong. The family background is clean, the young couple get along well, talk about marriage, get married and have children, and complete it step by step according to the process that should be followed.

I can't imagine that this kid has not made troubles or made troubles all these years, and he has no desires or desires, and let them make a fuss about him getting married. In the end, he made a fuss like this!

The grandson is so old, he can't just throw the whip and kneel down at the ancestral hall, but the old man is indeed really angry.

He is the same, he can't agree with the messy relationship between men and women of these young people now, even if Chu Ting reassures him again and again that the child's mother is not the kind of girl who doesn't love herself, he still looks coldly.

"Don't be angry, I really didn't think about this matter."

"Grandpa scolded me too, calm down, the doctor said that your blood pressure has been high during this time."

The two old men are not young anymore, if they really get angry because of this matter, it will be a serious crime for them.

Seeing this child who has been cold and indifferent since he was a child so submissively and repeatedly stated that he was wrong, the old man sighed, "You are not an ignorant three-year-old child, why are you so insignificant in this matter? "

Hearing the slightly relaxed tone, Chu Ting breathed a sigh of relief, "It's because I didn't think well."

"Being so impulsive, isn't it just a lack of thoughtfulness?" The old man was still angry, and his tone was extremely serious, "You have a child before you get married, and the name is not right, how will it affect your future family? Child The mother has been physically traumatized by this child. If it is difficult to get married and have children in the future, you cannot escape the blame. The child lives in an unhealthy family, which will inevitably have a considerable impact on his growth and personality. This impact may last for a lifetime. You grew up in a perfectly healthy family, and you have emotional defects of one kind or another, have you never thought about raising another child with your temperament, would it make his temperament too biased?" The old man explained the problems clearly one by one. , let him face up to it.

Chu Xuan nodded, "I have thought about what you said, and I have thought about it."

"Well, let me tell you what you think." Knowing that he was not of that reckless nature, the old man was more annoyed than worried.

"First of all, this incident has already happened. What I can do is to take the responsibility that I should bear first."

The old man nodded, "This is inevitable." For all the problems he mentioned, the responsibility should be at the forefront. The impact on himself, the impact on the child's mother, and the impact on the child cannot be overwhelmed by him. Responsibility.As he himself said, first of all, something has happened, and the first thing is naturally to take on his own responsibilities, which is the most basic bottom line of a man.

"Secondly, I have an unshirkable responsibility for this matter. Even if this child was born without my knowledge, then whether I got married or not, whether the child's name is correct or not, or his birth is not right. No matter how much influence my family will have in the future, it is impossible for me to ignore his existence, and it is impossible for me to shirk the responsibility of raising him."

"nature."

"As for the impact on his mother, I don't think I can make up for it. If he asks in the future, I will do my best to fulfill his request." He may not understand why he chose to have a child.But he thought, even if he didn't have the heart to keep this child, given the environment he was in at the time, he probably couldn't do anything to get rid of this child.Therefore, no matter whether he firmly chooses to keep this child, or he is forced to give birth to this child, he respects him, "As for the impact of the unsound family on the child, I don't have a better solution for the time being. The child's mother can't live with me, and I can't just find someone to marry and give the child the illusion of a complete family. , he also can’t get real love and warmth, so if this is the case, single-parent families should be single-parent families, it’s better than whitewashing peace.” His temperament has never been to whitewash peace for the sake of a so-called “form”.

"You broke the jar." The old man snorted, but his expression relaxed a little.

"In the end, you said that I have such a temperament, whether raising a child will be biased, I can't answer this for you, and I don't know what the child I raise will look like in the future, just like you and grandpa never I never thought that I grew up in a completely healthy family, but I lacked emotions. The environment of the original family may be very important, but the background of a person's character is created by heaven, and the acquired environment can shape part of it, but not all of it. I can't guarantee that the child will be normal under my upbringing, but you can't be sure that he will be abnormal when he is by my side, can you?"

The old man fell silent after hearing his words. He sat quietly on the chair, meditating without saying a word.

Chu Ting didn't bother him either, he knew that although what he said were objective facts, these objective facts were not enough to completely convince the old man, what he said was just a possibility, before the thing happened, none of them knew, the situation how will it develop.

The old man couldn't accept it for a while, and he could understand it. He didn't expect that with just a few words, the old man would happily accept the addition of a little great-grandson, without asking anything.

When a person encounters a problem, a person with a strong mind and a clear mind can quickly sort out his thoughts and distinguish priorities, but no matter how clear-headed a person is, he is always an individual, and every human being has his weaknesses and characteristics. No one person can Be as cold and ideal as a machine.

The Chu family was lively, the whole family gathered together, and there were three tables for the New Year's Eve dinner. The Chu family didn't like such noise, so they greeted the old man early, and brought the children back to the grandfather's place. Here, it is really quiet here, there is no shouting at home, and there are no crazy beatings of children.

The old man of the Ning family is a scholar, he has been quiet all his life, and he doesn't like to make noise. After the old lady left, he refused the younger generation's request to move back to the old house to accompany him. He is used to quietness, unlike the old man of the Chu family who likes to be lively Well, having a large family made him uncomfortable, so even during the Chinese New Year, his yard was quiet and quiet. On the night of the New Year's Eve, a few children who were not involved in official duties came back to accompany him to have a meal. He didn't have the habit of watching the year, so he asked people to go back early, and he only left Chu Ting to accompany him.

Chu Ting also liked this kind of quietness, so he took the children to stay with the old man to celebrate the new year. The old man couldn't bear it anymore, so the grandfather and grandson played two games of chess at night, drank two cups of health-soothing tea, and the old man went to sleep.

The little guy was having a lot of fun in the afternoon, before the family came, he went to sleep, and everyone left, he woke up belatedly, when he fell asleep, the house was quiet, when he woke up, the house was still It was quiet, and because I didn’t see anyone, the elders who came back for the New Year’s Eve dinner knew that he had brought a child back, so he quietly swallowed his questions because of the old man’s unfriendly expression, and prepared the child’s New Year’s red envelope in a hurry It's not easy to take it out.

Therefore, the little guy missed his first New Year's red envelope, and missed his first New Year's Eve dinner. Although he missed it, he was not annoyed, but when it was time to go to bed, he started to toss his father with full energy.

It is rare for Chu Ting to not have a job, so he can relax for a few days. Ava has asked him to leave for something. These days, he needs to take care of the little guy alone. The child clings to him. It is not a big problem for him to take care of the child alone. During the day, the housekeeper and the servants at home You can take care of the belt, and the little guy will not look for others at night, but only look for his father.

After the old man rested, Chu Ting fed the little guy, and took him back to his room to cultivate his sleepiness at night. There was a big carpet on the floor, and the little guy sat on the floor and played with his toys, touching and looking here and there. , It’s so rare, Chu Ting leaned on the sofa cross-legged while reading a book while looking at the child, the book didn’t read a few pages, but caught the little guy stuffing toys into his mouth several times, every time he went to stop the little guy, he would He was going to pick up the content of the book he had read before. After two times, he gave up and continued to read the book and focused on looking at the child.

Seeing that his father stopped reading, the little guy focused all his attention on him, but instead he stopped stuffing the toy in his mouth. When he got tired of playing for a while, he threw the toy in his hand to his father's lap, and went back to I found another toy. When he was just curious about bright colors and the sound of music, toys that can make sounds can attract his attention, followed by brightly colored toys.

Chu Ting is very patient. After raising this little guy, his patience has improved to a higher level. He patiently played with the little guy until he lost interest. He dropped the toy and threw himself on his father's lap. After nibbling the saliva on his father's leg, Chu Ting rubbed his son's little head, carried him to the bathroom, washed his hands and wiped his face, the maid at home had already washed his ass, at this time, all he needed was Just a simple scrubbing is enough. After washing, the little guy hugged his father's neck and rubbed his soft cheek. Chu Ting patted his butt and butt, and led him to bed to start to sleep.

After turning off the light, the little guy was lying beside his father and sharing the same bed with his father for the first time, rolling here and there, he liked this familiar smell, he was so happy, moving around like a little bug.