ask incense

"Xiao Ning? What's the matter, Xiao Ning?" When Qi Wangshu hurried to the teacher's office, he saw a person with his head bowed in the corner, and came up to check on him. After confirming that he was fine, he breathed a sigh of relief, and then smiled apologetically at the teacher. "Teacher, I'm sorry, it's Xiaoning from our family..." At this point, Qi Wangshu saw the teacher's embarrassed face, so he had to smile and stop.

"Um--"

The teacher didn't know how to explain it to the parent of the student. After all, it was not his child who made the mistake. On the contrary, the child was the victim. However, as the class teacher from the standpoint of the school, he could never admit that there was bullying in the class , and this kid, Xiao Ning, spoke a little unclearly, and he didn't explain exactly what happened when he was bullied. The teacher couldn't catch those suspected students to punish him just by guessing.

But if you don’t do anything, first of all, your conscience will make you feel uncomfortable. Second, looking at this child’s innocent eyes is always unbearable. I have no choice but to call him to the office to stay in the office in the name of counseling between classes. I can't teach many things. This child's brain is like a flower pot. There is a vent at the bottom. As much knowledge is poured into it, as much as it is leaked. However, people grow like flowers. He doesn't understand after talking for a long time, but he is just innocent. Looking at you makes you unable to lose your temper, and you just sigh at the end, and in the end you can only give up the idea of ​​making up lessons for him and keeping up with the progress of work.Just let him come to the office to hide for a while, at least to avoid contact and suffer less damage.

But this method treats the symptoms but not the root cause, and you can’t always stare at this one child. Other parents also have opinions, especially in the name of counseling. Other parents are always unbalanced. From the original victim, this became an endless loop, and the teacher didn't know what to do. In the previous meeting, the director had already hinted euphemistically that the student should drop out of school voluntarily.

"Father Qi, it's like this. As for Xiao Ning, he is very obedient, that's right, he seems to have his own world."

"I'm sorry, teacher, our little Ning is not very good at turning. But, if you teach slowly, he can understand. Really, you just need to slowly..."

"Mr. Qi." The teacher interrupted him with a sigh, "The class I lead is in the second year of high school, and will be in the third year of high school next semester. I can't teach slowly. According to the plan this semester, the teachers of each subject have to complete all the teaching plans and start planning. The preliminary review lays a solid foundation for the general review in the third year of high school, and other parents are very anxious about the learning progress of the students in the class."

Qi Wangshu let out a soft "ah", and then quickly said, "I understand, I understand, you also have difficulties, teacher. Then, teacher, you don't care about his studies, just let him go to school normally, at least let him teach at this stage. It's over, or else...or the mother will be so worried."

"Mr. Qi, it's like this. There is always some truth in the old saying of teaching students according to their aptitude. Xiao Ning is not suitable for this kind of education. Why don't you let him go to a special school?"

"Teacher, Xiao Ning in our family is not autistic. He was ill when he was a child." Qi Wangshu glanced at the person with his head bowed in the corner, "His mother would not agree. I mentioned this problem when I was in the first year of high school. Did you see the fucking agreement?"

"Mr. Qi, sometimes it is the best choice for parents to recognize the reality. At that time, Xiao Ning's mother was stubborn and did not want to recognize the difference between Xiao Ning and other children, which in turn exacerbated Xiao Ning's pain. You ask Xiao Ning, ask him, is he happy going to school in the past two years?"

Qi Wangshu frowned, and turned to ask the person hiding in the corner, "Xiao Ning, are you happy at school?"

The person who had been hanging his head silently raised his head at this moment and looked at Qi Wangshu with teary eyes.Without his answering, Qi Wangshu also understood, picked up his schoolbag from the teacher's desk, just picked it up, but did not expect that the bottom of the schoolbag fell off, and the contents of the bag fell all over the floor.Qi Wangshu looked at the textbooks with wrinkled covers all over the floor. It turned out that every textbook was carefully wrapped by the child's mother, but now it is wrinkled. Only one knife fell to the bottom.

Seeing this, the teacher was very embarrassed, and quickly squatted down to help pick up the books. When Qi Wangshu squatted down slowly, the teacher froze, because he was afraid of being questioned about the situation. To be criticized by name.

However, Qi Wangshu didn't intend to use this excuse to threaten, he just said softly, "Teacher, I know you have difficulties too."

The teacher blames himself endlessly. To be a teacher, teaching and educating people is fundamental, and it is also the ideal that every teacher strives to realize. However, teaching is easy, but educating people is really difficult.

"Papa Qi..." The words I wanted to say choked and choked in my throat, but I didn't say sorry in the end. Sorry is an admission, and you can make a fuss when you admit it. In the end, the teacher can only say, "Xiao Ning is really a good boy. .”

Qi Wangshu smiled, "We know that he has always been a good boy. I don't make things difficult for you. Since Xiao Ning is unhappy at school, I don't want him to stay any longer. It's just his mother's place. I hope you can help hide it for a while. "

After leaving the school, the child named Xiao Ning spoke, "Dad, shall we go home now?"

In fact, it is inappropriate to say that the child is not short, but the innocence and innocence on his face take it for granted that he is indeed a child.

"You can't go home. If you go home now, your mother will know that I dropped you out of school?"

Xiao Ning opened her mouth lazily and replied, "Oh."

Qi Wangshu looked at him, hesitating how to ask him about the school, "But Xiao Ning, the classmates in the school, do you treat you well?"

Xiao Ning was silent.

Qi Wangshu sighed, "If you don't want to talk about it..."

"I went to the wrong toilet."

"You didn't recognize the direction? Why can't you correct your problem of only turning left when you go out?"

Xiao Ning pursed her mouth aggrieved, "I...I only missed one time, and everyone laughed at me. The teacher arranged for the life committee to sit at the same table with me and take care of me."

"A female classmate?"

"Yeah." Xiao Ning nodded, "The female students in the class are all nice and never make fun of me. My deskmate will take me. When she goes to the toilet, she will lead me to the door and show me the direction. However, one time , I went into the toilet, the male students inside said I went wrong, and pushed me directly into the women's toilet. After that, the female students in the class didn't like me anymore, they all said I was pretending to be stupid. In school, they never treated me again Good man, I don't like school."

"Since I don't like it, I won't come to school anymore. Let's go and see the incense materials with my father. Your mother is waiting for me to collect the materials and go home. When the time comes, remember to tell your mother that I came back with the incense materials first. Then I will pick you up after school, understand?"

"Yeah." Xiao Ning nodded vigorously.

The place they were going to was in the suburbs, and when they got there, because they were afraid that Xiao Ning would wander off, Qi Wangshu always took Xiao Ning with him when he was watching.

"I heard that the Tang family is going to hold an incense meeting. Anyone can participate, as long as they bring a rare object to share. The prizes are also very generous. For a sum of money, you can also bring a piece of Laokeng jade. Boss Qi has Not interested in participating?"

They were talking while walking, and when the boss finished speaking, they just finished reading the material and walked out of the warehouse. Once out of the warehouse, Qi Wangshu saw that Xiaoning was turning left regardless of 21, and stretched out his hand to pull him back. Then he turned his head and replied, " I don't have that much free time, I'm too busy raising my family."

"If you win and get a bonus, why worry about your livelihood?"

Qi Wangshu didn't do such high-minded things, he just smiled and talked about the incense materials they had seen just now, and discussed the types of incense materials he wanted.

After ordering the materials, I loaded the car and planned to return.

"Xiao Ning, don't open the car window!" On the way back, Qi Wangshu drove the car, turning his head from time to time to tell Xiao Ning.

Xiao Ning sat upright resentfully, "But, there are flowers outside. There is also a lake."

Qi Wangshu looked at his yearning for the scenery outside. Because of his special constitution, he was afraid that he would be hit by something dirty when he went out, so he was always detained since he was a child. When he was in school, he probably only stayed in the classroom. Although the school There are many people, but it is also a place where ghosts frequently occur, so his mother told him that he should not go to other places except classrooms and toilets, and only wait in the classroom after school, waiting for his family to pick him up.

It's too pitiful to think about it, he can't play at the age when other people's children play like crazy.Qi Wangshu felt distressed, and parked the car on the side of the road, "Go, Dad will take you to play."

"Really?"

"When did Dad stop talking?"

Qi Wangshu really meant what he said, he led Xiao Ning to the lake, bent down and picked up the stone, with a flick of his wrist, he hit the stone horizontally, the stone jumped three times on the lake surface, creating three circles of ripples.

Xiao Ning looked a little eager to try, so Qi Wangshu handed him a stone, and seeing him excitedly took it, he threw the stone confidently, and then with a "boom", the stone sank directly.

Regardless of his puzzled look, Qi Wangshu laughed out loud.

Xiao Ning looked at her father's hand, then at her own hand, and said strangely, "Why can't I?"

Qi Wangshu walked behind him and adjusted his posture, "Let your body lean back a little, not just rely on your wrist, but throw it obliquely with your arm leading your wrist."

Under his guidance, Xiao Ning tossed three times in a row, and finally hit one carelessly, shouting excitedly, "I will, I will!"

Seeing that he was happy, Qi Wangshu was also satisfied and let go of him, letting him try it all by himself. Seeing that he could really make the stone bounce three times on the surface of the water without his own help, Qi Wangshu said with some relief, "Who said my family Xiao Ning is stupid, my family Xiao Ning is smart, and he can learn it as soon as he learns."

Xiao Ning grabbed the stone in Qi Wangshu's hand and echoed repeatedly, "Yes, yes, I'm smart. I can do it as soon as I teach it." After speaking, he hit a few times in a row, and it really became more and more stable, hitting wherever he caught.Qi Wangshu looked at it and secretly sighed in his heart, the accuracy is so good, if the child hadn't had any accidents when he was a child, would he be on the basketball school team or the football school team now?

Xiao Ning hit harder and harder, and within a while all the stones in his hand were hit.Qi Wangshu wiped his hands for him and said, "Okay, I've finished playing, it's time to go back. It's late, your mother has to ask."

With this statement, Xiao Ning's face was broken, and it was obvious that he still had more to say.Qi Wangshu smiled and nodded his forehead, "What? Didn't you have fun?"

Xiao Ning nodded, "It's hard to come out once." He looked back at the ripples on the lake that hadn't disappeared, just like his unwilling heart, laps and laps, rippling and nostalgic, "Going home, but it's not like this. of."

"maybe."

Qi Wangshu pretends to be mysterious, which makes people full of curiosity.

"When I get home, I'll teach you how to draw smoke and draw shapes when you burn incense. That's fun too. Once you learn it, you can draw whatever you want. It's much more interesting than drawing on paper with a pen."

"Really?"

Qi Wangshu thought he was asking if the drawing of Yan Yan was real, but what Xiao Ning asked was that it is really so fun, is it more fun than playing in the water outside?

"Really. Back then, your mother fell for me because of this trick. I made an incense specially for her. When I burned the incense, I drew the smoke to draw a figure, and I drew a slim girl, and then told her that the picture was her, and then I have you."

Xiao Ning became interested, and dragged his father to rush back, "Then let's go home quickly, you teach me."

"Wait, wait." Qi Wangshu who was dragged hurriedly yelled to stop, Xiao Ning turned around in confusion, "Aren't we going home?"

Qi Wangshu bent down unhurriedly, "I'm going home, but it doesn't prevent me from picking flowers for your mother. She always scolded me for wasting money when I bought flowers. The wild flowers on the roadside don't cost money, and they bloom well. And make her happy."

Xiao Ning covered her mouth and smiled, watching his father finish picking the flowers and counting them, he leaned forward in front of his father, scratched his face and coaxed, "Shy, shy."

His father patted his forehead, "It's not for you, your mother will know about you not going to school sooner or later, please make her happy first, and avoid her anger in the future."

It will be a matter of time to be discovered, and it will be a matter of time to bear her mother's anger. Thinking of this, Xiao Ning picked up the corner of her clothes a little uneasy.

After picking the flowers, Qi Wangshu came up and patted his head, "It's okay, isn't there still a father? No matter what, there will be a father standing in front of you, Xiao Ning, don't be afraid."

"I'm not afraid, I just don't want my mother to be unhappy. Recently, my mother is always worried and looks very uncomfortable. I don't want her to be like this. Because of me, my mother is always worried."

"So you don't like talking recently?" Qi Wangshu looked at him, "Xiao Ning, do you like that female classmate?"

"What?" Xiao Ning's eyes widened in doubt, and after thinking about it carefully, she shook her head, "Well, thank you very much for taking care of me, I don't dare to like it."

"Xiao Ning!" Qi Wangshu called his name emphatically, "You are a special child, but in the eyes of your parents, you are also precious. Although I also hope that you will grow up as ordinary as other children, but growing up is not enough. It means pretending to be sensible with silence. You are a special child, and my father hopes that you can express yourself. What Xiao Ning really wants in your heart, at least tell the people you care about and let them know. Just like you The school was so unhappy that I told my mother that although my mother is strict, she will be considerate because she wishes you well; if you are misunderstood by a female classmate, you have to explain, this is the way to truly thank her." Qi Wangshu said, holding the newly picked Handed the flower to him, "Although I don't have it now, if Xiao Ning has someone he likes in the future, Dad hopes that you will be like Dad and spare no effort to let him know that he really likes him. Express love to the person you like I mean, it's not ashamed. Got it?"

Xiao Ning took the flowers thoughtfully, then said with a smile, "Got it, Dad."

Qi Wangshu smiled and took his shoulders and walked back, "Okay, let's go back."

"But, Dad, about dropping out of school, should you tell Mom if you want to go back?"

"Eh... this matter, let's wait."

"Dad, didn't you say that you should show yourself to the person you like without leaving any room?"

"Sometimes you have to be flexible, hahahaha."

The father and son walked side by side, and you walked to the car side by side, after playing around, the dullness you had when you came out of school was gone.