Obviously a passerby, but he made his debut in the forum with real wine

"..."

Jiang Guling's proposal made me a little bit resistant.

Let’s talk, I also regarded myself as a plot tool for the police academy team to connect the cases. For example, Suzuki Sonoko who would often go to the meeting place, and Dr. Ali who would often take children to various camps, connected the cases in the Kansai area. Hattori Heiji and so on.I have a very clear position on myself. With the case of Mr. Chunsen for the first time, I did my best to build a bridge for them to find a relationship.But recently I've figured out something's wrong—it's because when I meet them, I will encounter a case.

The apparently unremarkable case became treacherous and changeable when it encountered them, full of doubts.

I feel the same goes for the case of a middle-aged man who lives alone.

Furutani Rei continued: "If you help me, I can also help you talk to Hiro."

From the perspective of relationship psychology, it is easier for people to believe that they have a better relationship because they have a strong foundation of trust.One of the shortcuts to establishing a trusting relationship with strangers is to make contact with an authoritative identity.For example, if a friend tells you that a certain drink is very healthy, you may not take it seriously, but if it is said on a TV program or by someone with authority, then you will start spreading the word that it is a healthy drink .

It is the power of authority.

When Magellan persuaded the King of Spain to sponsor him to go around the world, he invited the famous geographer Luis Pareilo to go with him.

If I were a psychological counselor and a psychologist, I wouldn't be interested in Jiang Guling's proposal at all.Because I am on the passive side, the plan may be restricted everywhere.But now I am not a layered identity, and Jiang Guling's sentence is like 1+1=2, which simply and directly grasps my psychology of wanting to be friends with Zhu Fu Jingguang.

Anyway, isn't it just another bridge?

Too much to do, that's all.

And one more person, one more method, one more road.

Without thinking for a second, I said, "Then you can't tell Mr. Zhu Fu that I promise you something, otherwise he will think that I am too scheming to get close to him..."

I found that I had only finished half a sentence when Jiang Gu Ling froze.He couldn't help laughing until he heard half of my sentence.After laughing, he suddenly said with guilt on his face: "After what you said, I think I have a bad heart."

"?"

Did he mean to lie to me?Is Jiang Gu Ling a human design?However, now that he suddenly realizes his conscience, he should still help me.

Therefore, I threw his words to my mind and exchanged contact information with him.

In addition, our communication time is not long, and we have the decisiveness of "buying and leaving" and not procrastinating.Instructor Onitsuka went to Fuguya Rei and left, and prepared to leave as well.Before he left, I reminded him not to forget to help me keep an eye out for cases of missing little girls.

After they left, my next step was to contact the police.

I skillfully pressed Officer Megure's phone.

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In the evening, I still went to walk the dog.

Although Zhu Fu Jingguang avoided me in the morning, it doesn't mean he also wants to avoid me at night.Not to mention that he lent me his winter clothes in the morning, and I sent them to the dry cleaners for washing to make his clothes look like new.After washing, I put on a brand new dress and thought, wouldn't it be better to just buy a new one?I have worn them all.However, if I did buy him a new dress, he might feel pressured to lend me clothes.

The night in autumn was as cold as the morning. When Xiaohe was running and jumping beside him, I also stuck my hand into its fluffy fur from time to time.

In others, I should be teasing the dog happily.

The truth is, I'm just warming myself up on puppies who are determined to run off and play happily.

I am standing in the same position as in the morning.It is convenient for them to generate memory points for this location, so that they will know how to find me next time.I was lucky this time, not long after the police cadet left the school, I saw the eyes falling on me in the gaps of everyone, and soon I saw Zhu Fujingguang.When he came to me, he immediately avoided sight.The response left me a little dazed.

If I hadn't known Zhu Fu Jingguang's character, I would have wondered if he was playing hard-to-get psychological tricks with me.If that was the case, I must say, I would be hooked.I know very well that I am on the weaker side now, so I just want to follow Zhu Fujingguang and follow his heart.What should I do if he refuses to meet me?I think I should re-read "Intimate Relationship" and "Social Psychology" to extract some effective behavioral practices.

Or am I an anxious type in interpersonal relationships, once the other party can't do what I think, I will be anxious, overthinking, and overly anxious?

People are really complicated.

Based on the concern of humanism, I think that since Zhu Fu Jingguang is now avoiding me, forcing him to meet me will only increase his psychological burden.It's not the result I wanted, so I plan to try again sometime later, anyway Jiang Gu Ling is already on my thief ship.I made an appointment with him to meet at the scene of the body discovery on Saturday, and by the way, I can also understand what his current state of mind is like.

I decided not to meet and give gifts instead.After a few chats with the security guard at the school gate, I entrusted him with the things I gave to Onizuka class’s Momoku Kagemitsu—except for dry-cleaning winter clothes, a row of bottles of Hokkaido milk for sleep aids, in large packages Milk slices, dried sweet potatoes, a large bag of apples and bananas, linden white honey and a box of chamomile tea.I do not recommend medication, for fear that he may become dependent on the drug.Then I relaxed and started to go shopping in the nearby night market.

Second, when I went to the school gate, I found that Zhu Fu Jingguang only took the coat, and put the other things in the box intact.

The security guard said: "Student, please let me tell you, thank you, but he can't accept it."

"If there's anything I can't accept, I've already taken his coat."

The security guard said: "Maybe you gave too much." He looked at the box next to him, hesitant to say anything.

"Young people don't eat more, how can they be a policeman?" I was very surprised by this remark, but I quickly thought, "Is it because he has a weak stomach?" I like to eat iced watermelon in summer, But recently, the weather has become so cold that I don't even want to drink watermelon juice. My stomach feels chilly after drinking it.Thinking of it, I bought another ten boxes of intestine-regulating medicine for Zhu Fu Jingguang, thinking about it, he can take it with peace of mind, right?

In the end, he still didn't accept it, and the security guard told me that I must have misunderstood what Zhu Fu Jingguang meant.

I study psychology, how can I misunderstand what others mean.

If you can't even figure out other people's ideas, isn't that just learning in vain?

I understand.

Zhu Fu Jingguang must be embarrassed.

First of all, only he has it, and others don't, so he has a feeling that he is being treated differently.In terms of his gentle personality, the feeling of being taken care of by others will actually pull away the feeling of his own group, and he instinctively cannot accept the feeling of being excluded; besides, I directly give him the intestinal medicine, which will make people feel his stomach A weak negative impression is a big disadvantage to his image.The most important point is the overrun effect.Originally, my appearance was a stimulus to him (he didn't even want to see me), but I kept giving him gifts. The stimulus was too much and too strong, which began to cause psychological discomfort.If you continue to give, he may start to become impatient and even hate me, even if I haven't said a word to him.

The solution is only one I should not appear in.

"...Then I'll move back."

The security guard said "ah" and "eh" back and forth, but they didn't give me any advice.Fortunately, I turned around and waited for him to say a few words, waiting for a lonely.

Because there are too many things, I usually don't eat something.Yes, I sent things to the research institute and put them in the staff lounge of the research institute for them to take as they please.In the process of arranging things, I met Tadabin Kashimura, the father of Hiroki Kashimura (the kid seriously took Hawking's "A Brief History of Time" as a mind map to teach me how to learn it), and we met.

He asked me why I bought such things and put them in the research?

I told him about Zhu Fu Jingguang, but it is inconvenient for me to tell him who he is, so I can only talk about my recent situation with a vague identity.

He asked me why I gave up after less than three days of persistence, and I only gave gifts twice. Doing interpersonal relationships is the same as doing experiments and theories. You must persevere and become more courageous as you get frustrated.

I think empirical theory is different from human beings, but I think I'm too sharp to say it directly. I asked Kashimura Tadabin whether he succeeded? (As far as I know, he doesn't have many friends.) The euphemism has already pointed out a lot

Tadabin Kashimura patted me on the shoulder and said, "I have a wife and a smart son. Recently, my son has become more and more cute and cute. We plan to give him another brother or sister. Kazu-kun, do you think I have succeeded? ?"

As soon as the sentence fell, I felt that I was shocked!

Among human relationships, romantic relationships are the most unstable.The relationship between two people should take into account the perfect balance between family, friends and partners, but Zhongbin Kashimura grasped it accurately.Not only does he have a wife, but he also has children who love him, and will have an even younger baby, which is enough to prove that he is an expert in successful relationships.

Tadabin Kashimura is the authority!

I understand.

"Mr. Kashimura, please teach me, what should I do now?"