(6) forget it
The result of the first consultation with Zhu Fu Jingguang was not satisfactory.
Because it didn't meet my expectations.
This made me want to flip through the comics to confirm Zhu Fu Jingguang's performance in the police academy chapter, but I was afraid of making preconceived notions, so I was tied up.After all, I am in the situation at the moment, and the things summarized from God's perspective are not more comprehensive than personal perspective.In addition, the content of the comics will be relatively rigid and one-sided, especially—for me, the current Zhu Fu Jingguang is not a paper man, but a living person.
Paper people must have a standard rescue formula, but people don't.
Or for me, the paper man is an objective problem, while the human is a subjective problem, and there is no easy way to solve it.
Although Zhu Fu Jingguang made me very concerned, I couldn't help but focus only on Zhu Fu Jingguang.I also made appointments with people from other classes.
A week passed, and basically everyone's reports were written.
Everyone has different problems.
Among the sixteen people, not all of them had to receive counseling.I arrange all the time, and the consultation time is concentrated in the students' spare time or after-school time every time, and the time is generally controlled between half an hour and one hour.Because some students are not willing to disclose that they have received psychological counseling, such as Zhu Fujingguang.
Really, you can't see that he is very soft and easy-going on the surface. Among the people who are finally determined to receive long-term consultation, he is the most soft and hard, and he doesn't take oil and salt.
"I'm just slightly insomnia, please don't worry."
I still remember that when he came to the consultation room for the first time, he was very vigilant.At the time when Zhu Fu Jingguang said these words, he was not sitting on the chair, and his toes were still pointing out the door.You know, the farther the body part is from the brain, the harder it is to control the truest subconscious mind in your heart.He was cooperative on the surface, but actually wanted to leave.Even if I improve the chat atmosphere, he is willing to talk about some past things, but his attitude seems to be telling other people's stories-generally, in this case, he is either completely put down or fully armed.
Zhu Fu Jingguang is obviously the latter.
Of course, I am not a loyal fan of Freud's psychoanalysis, and I don't think that childhood plays a fundamental role in the whole life, but now the psychological crux lies in childhood, and I think this needs to be solved.
However, from his point of view (after all, I still know Zhu Fu Jingguang's character), I naturally feel that he doesn't want people to know that he accepts counseling because he is afraid that Ling will worry about his serious situation.Likewise, he didn't have enough trust in counseling, thinking he could figure it out on his own.In this matter, he exaggerated the seriousness of psychological counseling, and he also did not understand the connotation of psychological counseling.
In any case, if he doesn't say anything, these inferences of mine can only be regarded as unfounded subjective conjectures.
Consultation is usually done once a week, and there is no need to deliberately see each other every day.
After staying in school for ten days and making a summary for Mr. Chunsen, I suddenly remembered that I hadn't thought about "whether I will become a murderer" at all during this time.
When doing a weekly report, I also told Mr. Chunsen the progress of all the students.Speaking of Zhu Fujingguang, Teacher Chunsen suggested to me while reading the report that since Zhu Fujingguang didn't want to go to the psychological counseling room, he couldn't be forced to come.
I care too much about Zhu Fu Jingguang...
"Hejun, you made a rookie mistake."
I thought I would never make such a mistake myself.
When it was placed on me now, I realized that I really couldn't let go.
Mr. Chunmori did not continue the discussion on this matter, turned to the next page, and said, "How is Kurita-san?"
Kurita is a student at the girls' school next door.Her insomnia is mainly due to family anxiety.I said: "Her parents kept putting pressure on her after she entered the school because they wanted her to leave the police academy and become a civil servant in other fields. She and her parents used to have a good relationship, but now they are rigid because of this matter, which makes her feel It’s very uncomfortable, so I have insomnia.”
When I was chatting with Yu Kurita, she was always asking me what to do and whether I should listen to my parents, but psychological counselors are not the ones who make decisions for other people’s future, but more often they help others to recognize themselves and improve themselves , People who encounter the same problems and setbacks on the road in the future, and can also rely on their inner strength to overcome difficulties.Counseling is a process of leading thinking, sorting out logic, and enhancing immunity to negative emotions.
I asked her why she chose the police academy and why her parents rejected her as a police officer.
"She is very clear about her parents' considerations, but her answer to why she chose the police academy is very templated. For example, she believes that it is her responsibility to protect the citizens. I don't think she is willing to tell me. When she talks about the reasons, the actual The attitude was painful, even evasive. Likewise, she was unwilling to tell me the contents of her nightmare."
"I think I should understand why she wants to stay at the police academy. She didn't want to talk to me, and maybe she didn't make it clear to her parents, which caused a gap in communication between them."
After listening to my report, Mr. Chunsen smiled and said, "Although the consulting time is not long, it is the first time to do consulting work, but I have obtained a lot of information and have corresponding plans. I think you have done a good job."
"Thank you."
No matter how old people are, they still like to be praised.
Teacher Chunsen continued: "You may be able to take the initiative to approach her daily life. Didn't the psychologist Charonci mention the exposure effect? The more familiar people are with others or things, the easier it is to have a sense of intimacy? After trust is generated, for Solving the problem is also beneficial."
"..."
That's what it says...
It may be that the thinking of men is different from that of women, or that Mr. Chunsen and I have different personalities. I don't think that counselors can take the initiative to join the counselor's life.Moreover, perhaps it might work in a police academy where there is not much personnel flow and a relatively closed environment. Anyway, you can look up and down at any time five days a week, but when it comes to society, using this method to win the trust of consultants, This all means an overloaded workload.
It was the first time for me to practice in practice. Mr. Chunsen also came from a famous school and has excellent knowledge and skills.I believe that when she raised it, she also had her own considerations.
Because I didn't reply, Teacher Chunsen said, "What's wrong? Do you find it difficult?"
"…A little difficult."
If I have the role of a consultant, for me personally, I don't think it is difficult to get along with others.But it is difficult for me to take the initiative to make friends with others in daily life.I would subconsciously want to analyze them, resulting in the inability to control the appropriate degree.
Teacher Chunsen smiled: "It is said that people who do psychological counseling also have psychological hidden dangers. This is true. The process of counseling is a two-way healing process. You can experience it well."
I didn't know how to answer, so I just smiled and changed the subject: "Teacher, I'm going to Shinjuku to buy some things to decorate the consulting room, do you need anything to buy?"
"Buy me some hyacinth fragrance."
"Is there a brand you are used to?"
"Most people would say they like it?" Teacher Chunsen smiled, picked up the fragrance on her desk, and said, "Just buy this kind." The design of the brand name is very simple, with a painted cherry blossom on it. brand name.
I used my mobile phone to write down the brand she used. This is not my field of concern, and it is not an international brand, so I am afraid that I will not be able to explain it to the shopping guide.When I left the teaching building, I happened to meet Jiang Gu Ling and Zhu Fu Jingguang.It was the end of the day's class, and they were about to leave school in civilian clothes.Because I just discussed Zhu Fu Jingguang with the teacher, now I see him in person, but I am a little evasive.
However, when I was about to take the train to Shinjuku, I saw the two of them again.
Zhu Fu Jingguang spotted me first, and greeted me: "Long time no see."
I've been busy recently, and I haven't seen him except the day of consultation.I also calmed down and said, "Where are you going?"
"Let's go to the nearby commercial street to buy some daily necessities. What about you?" Zhu Fu Jingguang chatted with me very naturally. It seemed that he didn't dislike my persistent chat with him in the consulting room.
I said: "I'm going to Shinjuku to buy some things to put in the consultation room." I'm going to put some green plants and dolls, and if conditions permit, I actually want to buy a puppy.But it’s not only the school’s regulations, but I’m also afraid that if I come to Ke Shijie so suddenly, I will leave suddenly, so what if the dog loses its owner?
"Then let's go together." Zhu Fu Jingguang said with a smile.
"it is good."
Standing in the tram, I was sandwiched between Jiang Gu Ling and Zhu Fu Jingguang.This is generally a way of taking care of non-friends, emphasizing his presence and keeping him from being marginalized, but I want to play with my phone on the tram.I was hesitating whether to start a topic, and found that the two people on the left and right were looking at their phones, so I took out my phone too.
I was too busy before, and I had to sort out more than a dozen reports. I just brushed the forum for a while every day and put it aside. After finishing the report today, I can finally play it again in a fair and honest manner.I didn't pay too much attention to my likes on the prediction post before, after all, it was just one or two increases per day.And the post I posted has long since sunk due to time constraints.
This time, as soon as I logged into the forum, I saw an explosive number of likes, which directly exceeded 352 in the background.My followers have increased from 1889 in the last post to [-].When I got back to the main post, I found out that my reply was almost the same as the mental magic mentioned in the manga of Conan Police Academy Group. After hearing the news, all the people who came here came to join in the fun and liked it by the way, which pushed me up. .
At the bottom of the forum are a string of "God prophesied" messages, and some people joked that I must have a script.In addition, twice the number of netizens invited me to participate in the next round of prophecy of "Mirror and Lamp (1)".
[Prophecy post: The first deceased appeared in the fourth chapter of the manga, jumped off the building and died, guessing the murder method blindly]
I couldn't help laughing when I saw the title.
How can I guess? I haven't read the manga yet, how can I know who the murderer is?
I think some people blindly call me a great god.
Now let you see the great master step down from the altar, I unceremoniously edited an answer [I guess it was suicide].
Just after finishing the response, the comments below popped up all of a sudden.
[Among all the reply methods, this answer is the most perfunctory. 】
[If it is really suicide, I will live broadcast and eat the toilet in the toilet. 】
【Dr. Chu answered this time very carelessly. 】
[How could he commit suicide? 】
【Doctor Chu, you have lost my trust in you. 】
I smiled and said nothing, and opened another sharing post [Police Academy Group in Physical Fitness Class]. When I was editing, I looked around and posted the photos I took last time.I informed them that the five people dared to use it, and I just posted it not long ago, and there are a lot of comments below.
[Mrs. Immortal is drawing pictures again! 】
[My wife is really good at drawing, is it really worth it?My money is ready. 】
[Mazda is so beautiful, I like it so much! ! ! 】
【So young, when I think about what will happen next... Light a cigarette.jpg】
[Come here, pull out the one who wants to send a knife! 】
I was reading, and when I saw the reply [Doctor Chu, have you thought about your modus operandi, I still remember the hole you dug], I was immediately choked up.
You better forget it.
The result of the first consultation with Zhu Fu Jingguang was not satisfactory.
Because it didn't meet my expectations.
This made me want to flip through the comics to confirm Zhu Fu Jingguang's performance in the police academy chapter, but I was afraid of making preconceived notions, so I was tied up.After all, I am in the situation at the moment, and the things summarized from God's perspective are not more comprehensive than personal perspective.In addition, the content of the comics will be relatively rigid and one-sided, especially—for me, the current Zhu Fu Jingguang is not a paper man, but a living person.
Paper people must have a standard rescue formula, but people don't.
Or for me, the paper man is an objective problem, while the human is a subjective problem, and there is no easy way to solve it.
Although Zhu Fu Jingguang made me very concerned, I couldn't help but focus only on Zhu Fu Jingguang.I also made appointments with people from other classes.
A week passed, and basically everyone's reports were written.
Everyone has different problems.
Among the sixteen people, not all of them had to receive counseling.I arrange all the time, and the consultation time is concentrated in the students' spare time or after-school time every time, and the time is generally controlled between half an hour and one hour.Because some students are not willing to disclose that they have received psychological counseling, such as Zhu Fujingguang.
Really, you can't see that he is very soft and easy-going on the surface. Among the people who are finally determined to receive long-term consultation, he is the most soft and hard, and he doesn't take oil and salt.
"I'm just slightly insomnia, please don't worry."
I still remember that when he came to the consultation room for the first time, he was very vigilant.At the time when Zhu Fu Jingguang said these words, he was not sitting on the chair, and his toes were still pointing out the door.You know, the farther the body part is from the brain, the harder it is to control the truest subconscious mind in your heart.He was cooperative on the surface, but actually wanted to leave.Even if I improve the chat atmosphere, he is willing to talk about some past things, but his attitude seems to be telling other people's stories-generally, in this case, he is either completely put down or fully armed.
Zhu Fu Jingguang is obviously the latter.
Of course, I am not a loyal fan of Freud's psychoanalysis, and I don't think that childhood plays a fundamental role in the whole life, but now the psychological crux lies in childhood, and I think this needs to be solved.
However, from his point of view (after all, I still know Zhu Fu Jingguang's character), I naturally feel that he doesn't want people to know that he accepts counseling because he is afraid that Ling will worry about his serious situation.Likewise, he didn't have enough trust in counseling, thinking he could figure it out on his own.In this matter, he exaggerated the seriousness of psychological counseling, and he also did not understand the connotation of psychological counseling.
In any case, if he doesn't say anything, these inferences of mine can only be regarded as unfounded subjective conjectures.
Consultation is usually done once a week, and there is no need to deliberately see each other every day.
After staying in school for ten days and making a summary for Mr. Chunsen, I suddenly remembered that I hadn't thought about "whether I will become a murderer" at all during this time.
When doing a weekly report, I also told Mr. Chunsen the progress of all the students.Speaking of Zhu Fujingguang, Teacher Chunsen suggested to me while reading the report that since Zhu Fujingguang didn't want to go to the psychological counseling room, he couldn't be forced to come.
I care too much about Zhu Fu Jingguang...
"Hejun, you made a rookie mistake."
I thought I would never make such a mistake myself.
When it was placed on me now, I realized that I really couldn't let go.
Mr. Chunmori did not continue the discussion on this matter, turned to the next page, and said, "How is Kurita-san?"
Kurita is a student at the girls' school next door.Her insomnia is mainly due to family anxiety.I said: "Her parents kept putting pressure on her after she entered the school because they wanted her to leave the police academy and become a civil servant in other fields. She and her parents used to have a good relationship, but now they are rigid because of this matter, which makes her feel It’s very uncomfortable, so I have insomnia.”
When I was chatting with Yu Kurita, she was always asking me what to do and whether I should listen to my parents, but psychological counselors are not the ones who make decisions for other people’s future, but more often they help others to recognize themselves and improve themselves , People who encounter the same problems and setbacks on the road in the future, and can also rely on their inner strength to overcome difficulties.Counseling is a process of leading thinking, sorting out logic, and enhancing immunity to negative emotions.
I asked her why she chose the police academy and why her parents rejected her as a police officer.
"She is very clear about her parents' considerations, but her answer to why she chose the police academy is very templated. For example, she believes that it is her responsibility to protect the citizens. I don't think she is willing to tell me. When she talks about the reasons, the actual The attitude was painful, even evasive. Likewise, she was unwilling to tell me the contents of her nightmare."
"I think I should understand why she wants to stay at the police academy. She didn't want to talk to me, and maybe she didn't make it clear to her parents, which caused a gap in communication between them."
After listening to my report, Mr. Chunsen smiled and said, "Although the consulting time is not long, it is the first time to do consulting work, but I have obtained a lot of information and have corresponding plans. I think you have done a good job."
"Thank you."
No matter how old people are, they still like to be praised.
Teacher Chunsen continued: "You may be able to take the initiative to approach her daily life. Didn't the psychologist Charonci mention the exposure effect? The more familiar people are with others or things, the easier it is to have a sense of intimacy? After trust is generated, for Solving the problem is also beneficial."
"..."
That's what it says...
It may be that the thinking of men is different from that of women, or that Mr. Chunsen and I have different personalities. I don't think that counselors can take the initiative to join the counselor's life.Moreover, perhaps it might work in a police academy where there is not much personnel flow and a relatively closed environment. Anyway, you can look up and down at any time five days a week, but when it comes to society, using this method to win the trust of consultants, This all means an overloaded workload.
It was the first time for me to practice in practice. Mr. Chunsen also came from a famous school and has excellent knowledge and skills.I believe that when she raised it, she also had her own considerations.
Because I didn't reply, Teacher Chunsen said, "What's wrong? Do you find it difficult?"
"…A little difficult."
If I have the role of a consultant, for me personally, I don't think it is difficult to get along with others.But it is difficult for me to take the initiative to make friends with others in daily life.I would subconsciously want to analyze them, resulting in the inability to control the appropriate degree.
Teacher Chunsen smiled: "It is said that people who do psychological counseling also have psychological hidden dangers. This is true. The process of counseling is a two-way healing process. You can experience it well."
I didn't know how to answer, so I just smiled and changed the subject: "Teacher, I'm going to Shinjuku to buy some things to decorate the consulting room, do you need anything to buy?"
"Buy me some hyacinth fragrance."
"Is there a brand you are used to?"
"Most people would say they like it?" Teacher Chunsen smiled, picked up the fragrance on her desk, and said, "Just buy this kind." The design of the brand name is very simple, with a painted cherry blossom on it. brand name.
I used my mobile phone to write down the brand she used. This is not my field of concern, and it is not an international brand, so I am afraid that I will not be able to explain it to the shopping guide.When I left the teaching building, I happened to meet Jiang Gu Ling and Zhu Fu Jingguang.It was the end of the day's class, and they were about to leave school in civilian clothes.Because I just discussed Zhu Fu Jingguang with the teacher, now I see him in person, but I am a little evasive.
However, when I was about to take the train to Shinjuku, I saw the two of them again.
Zhu Fu Jingguang spotted me first, and greeted me: "Long time no see."
I've been busy recently, and I haven't seen him except the day of consultation.I also calmed down and said, "Where are you going?"
"Let's go to the nearby commercial street to buy some daily necessities. What about you?" Zhu Fu Jingguang chatted with me very naturally. It seemed that he didn't dislike my persistent chat with him in the consulting room.
I said: "I'm going to Shinjuku to buy some things to put in the consultation room." I'm going to put some green plants and dolls, and if conditions permit, I actually want to buy a puppy.But it’s not only the school’s regulations, but I’m also afraid that if I come to Ke Shijie so suddenly, I will leave suddenly, so what if the dog loses its owner?
"Then let's go together." Zhu Fu Jingguang said with a smile.
"it is good."
Standing in the tram, I was sandwiched between Jiang Gu Ling and Zhu Fu Jingguang.This is generally a way of taking care of non-friends, emphasizing his presence and keeping him from being marginalized, but I want to play with my phone on the tram.I was hesitating whether to start a topic, and found that the two people on the left and right were looking at their phones, so I took out my phone too.
I was too busy before, and I had to sort out more than a dozen reports. I just brushed the forum for a while every day and put it aside. After finishing the report today, I can finally play it again in a fair and honest manner.I didn't pay too much attention to my likes on the prediction post before, after all, it was just one or two increases per day.And the post I posted has long since sunk due to time constraints.
This time, as soon as I logged into the forum, I saw an explosive number of likes, which directly exceeded 352 in the background.My followers have increased from 1889 in the last post to [-].When I got back to the main post, I found out that my reply was almost the same as the mental magic mentioned in the manga of Conan Police Academy Group. After hearing the news, all the people who came here came to join in the fun and liked it by the way, which pushed me up. .
At the bottom of the forum are a string of "God prophesied" messages, and some people joked that I must have a script.In addition, twice the number of netizens invited me to participate in the next round of prophecy of "Mirror and Lamp (1)".
[Prophecy post: The first deceased appeared in the fourth chapter of the manga, jumped off the building and died, guessing the murder method blindly]
I couldn't help laughing when I saw the title.
How can I guess? I haven't read the manga yet, how can I know who the murderer is?
I think some people blindly call me a great god.
Now let you see the great master step down from the altar, I unceremoniously edited an answer [I guess it was suicide].
Just after finishing the response, the comments below popped up all of a sudden.
[Among all the reply methods, this answer is the most perfunctory. 】
[If it is really suicide, I will live broadcast and eat the toilet in the toilet. 】
【Dr. Chu answered this time very carelessly. 】
[How could he commit suicide? 】
【Doctor Chu, you have lost my trust in you. 】
I smiled and said nothing, and opened another sharing post [Police Academy Group in Physical Fitness Class]. When I was editing, I looked around and posted the photos I took last time.I informed them that the five people dared to use it, and I just posted it not long ago, and there are a lot of comments below.
[Mrs. Immortal is drawing pictures again! 】
[My wife is really good at drawing, is it really worth it?My money is ready. 】
[Mazda is so beautiful, I like it so much! ! ! 】
【So young, when I think about what will happen next... Light a cigarette.jpg】
[Come here, pull out the one who wants to send a knife! 】
I was reading, and when I saw the reply [Doctor Chu, have you thought about your modus operandi, I still remember the hole you dug], I was immediately choked up.
You better forget it.
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