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(8) Symptoms that can be cured

Yu Kurita's death was not directly attributed to the counseling room.After all, she had only been at school for less than two weeks.The management of the police academy in this regard was also in place in a timely manner. When the police intervened in the investigation, there were no students causing trouble, and there were no rumors of strange powers and chaos.

The next day, Teacher Chunsen held another meeting because of this incident, mainly considering the issue of psychological crisis intervention.Most of the police school students have relatively good psychological quality, but there are also some who are relatively poor.The occurrence of suicide among students may cause negative emotions such as physical or psychological fear and tension, especially if it happens to involve past experiences, some people need help.Just because the other party is a policeman, one cannot stereotype that the other party will not have psychological problems.

This is the plan of the psychology department, but the school is also afraid that if it is done too seriously, it will make other people pay too much attention to this issue and increase unnecessary burdens, so everyone is discussing how to balance the work of the psychology department with the requirements of the school .

I originally planned to be a green plant in the meeting, but Mr. Chunsen kept hinting me to express some ideas with his eyes and words.I opened my mouth and said, "Individual therapy may take more manpower and time, and develop into an extension line of this thing that people want to suppress. I think we can do group therapy."

The simple understanding of group therapy is similar to group attack, which is helpful for solving the common psychological problems of patients.Patients can share their own experiences, develop an inner group, and achieve the purpose of mutual help.

"Outside, we don't need to say that the psychotherapy is prepared for this suicide case. We can wrap this group therapy with a game session, let the participants know that this is a stress-relieving activity prepared by the psychological room. Afterwards, we can make key breakthroughs based on the performance and reactions of the participants in the session.”

Teacher Chunsen nodded, and praised me: "This is indeed a good idea. This activity can not only be aimed at this incident, but also help most students who want to come but dare not come to the psychological room and who are lingering on individual therapy. It helps a lot. After all, some students are not in a condition that requires individual therapy. Simple group therapy-oriented activities can help them relieve stress.”

Most importantly, everyone's workload has been reduced.

Teacher Chunsen said: "Since He Jun proposed it, then He Jun will be in charge of the first week's activities. What do you want to do?"

In the future, I will definitely only engage in theoretical and experimental work.

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I thought about it and asked, "When are you going to start?" It's also good for me to start early so that I won't repeat what others have done.Others also have freshness.

Teacher Chun Sen raised his finger and said with a smile, "How is this Sunday?"

I had no objection, and continued: "...Then can I apply for the cost of buying props?"

Teacher Chunsen laughed: "Have you come up with an idea so soon?"

"Fortunately."

In short, start by buying a large batch of white candles.

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The police investigation did not take long, and the results were reached before Sunday.

This is similar to my previous thoughts. Yu Kurita's death was influenced by his friends.

Before Kurita Yu committed suicide, she received news that her high school friend Akiko Chiaki had hanged herself.

Kurita Yu and Chiaki Akiko have been good friends since childhood.

Chiaki Akiko is a cheerful and lively girl, while Kurita Yu is relatively quiet. Whatever Chiaki Akiko does, she will follow suit.The two people moved and remained silent, and their relationship was like that of sisters.When she was in high school, Akiko Chiaki had a car accident because of Yu Kurita, and Akiko Chiaki underwent amputation on the operating table.The physically disabled Qianqiu Akiko never recovered from the fall.Although Yu Kurita studied hard to help Chiaki Akiko, and helped her study for a long time after repeating her studies for a long time, Chiaki Akiko finally chose to give up her studies and open a shop with her parents.

It is said that Qianqiu Akiko's dream from the beginning was to be a policeman, but her body was disabled, so this dream was naturally shattered.The reason for hanging himself was that Chiaki Akiko heard that Kurita Yu was admitted to the police academy.

It can be seen from this that Yu Kurita originally regarded his friend Chiaki Akiko as his spiritual support, and he was very dependent on his friend, so he was in a passive position in terms of friendship.As for Qianqiu Jingzi's strong guilt and pain because of her injury, she felt a need to bear all the responsibilities and obligations.Therefore, after Kurita Yu reversed her friendship position, Chiaki Akiko, who was originally in the dominant position, had to bear pressure from various aspects, especially the test of self-esteem and self-confidence.In addition, she didn't want to drag Kurita Yu down, causing a rift between the last two people.

Correspondingly, Yu Kurita, who has gradually become excellent, does not mean that she has matured inwardly.After her friend had an accident, her body and mind grew distortedly. She took imitation of Chiaki Akiko as her philosophy of action, and she was still a sensitive and fragile person in her heart.When Qianqiu Jingzi committed suicide, her spiritual pillar collapsed, and the long-term pressure made her also commit suicide.

It's not complicated either.

A tragedy in which two friends torment themselves and each other, consciously or unconsciously.

Rei Fuguya put a lot of energy into this matter, and even went to Kurita Yu's hometown, so I just chatted with Momo Jingguang about this embarrassing friendship, and let him and Falling Valley Zero explains the situation.

Since it was an indisputable suicide, the funeral was not delayed too long.

According to Japanese customs, funerals are generally held on the third day after death.

It happened to be Saturday.

I am going to attend.

Now that I know it, there is no reason not to give it a ride.I can't explain this feeling, maybe I'm thinking that if I unfortunately die in this world in the future, someone can come to see me off, even if the person who comes to see me off just happens to meet, it's better than leaving alone.

I didn't intend to tell Zhu Fu Jingguang about this, but before he finished chatting with me, he suddenly asked me if I wanted to attend Kurita Yu's funeral.

"Are you going too?"

My first reaction was that Zhu Fu Jingguang wanted to go to the funeral?

The two of them had never even met face to face.

"When I heard you say that, I always felt that the two parents might fight, and it would be too embarrassing."

I don't know the characters of Qianqiu and Kurita's parents, but if it's really like what Zhu Fu Jingguang said, the scene is really unbearable.If they stand in a situation where they don't understand each other, or love their daughter eagerly, the Qianqiu family will definitely think that Kurita Yuu killed their daughter, and the Kurita family will naturally think so.

If revenge is involved, this kind of thing will be endless.

"Of course..." Zhu Fu Jingguang said, "I made the worst guess."

This kind of speculation is indeed the worst, and the probability of occurrence is not high.

Compared with Zhu Fu Jingguang and his force to stop them, I seem to be useless at all.

I said awkwardly: "If this happens, I seem to be unable to do other work except to call the police."

Zhu Fu Jingguang smiled and said: "If the two sides fight, the relatives and friends at the funeral will have already rushed up, and you don't have to show it."

I nodded: "You are right."

He made a lot of sense.

Zhu Fu Jingguang quickly made an invitation: "See you at eight o'clock on Saturday morning?"

"..."

"What's the matter? I just feel that we have gotten closer, which is pretty good." Zhu Fu Jingguang touched the tip of his nose, looking embarrassed and said, "So if you want to go, we can go together. I think so. "

"..."

Well, the nature of the matter has left me to think.

Because the consultation itself will build a relationship of trust, if Zhu Fujingguang mixes this up, then his emotions towards me are also brought about by the empathy during the consultation process.

Empathy is one of the important concepts of psychoanalysis proposed by Freud. It refers to the counseling process in which patients will put past needs on some people (most commonly parents and family members) who play an important role in their lives. The emotion is transferred to the counselor, and the counselor is used as a substitute for the corresponding role.Therefore, some patients hope to gain the trust and friendship of father, mother, and friends from the counselor, and even feel that the counselor is their indispensable partner in their life, and they will develop love and dependence on it.

This is an important reason why counselors should not interfere too much with patients' lives.The behavior and standpoint of the counselor can easily confuse the patient's grasp and cognition of the relationship with each other.

Strictly speaking, it may be a sign of empathy that the help-seeking party begins to show an excess of counseling relationship or closeness to the counselor outside of good intentions.This is a symptom that can be cured.But when I think about it carefully, it is impossible for me to be regarded as a father or mother by Zhu Fu Jingguang who lost his parents when he was young, right?

So I nodded.

"Okay, then I'll wait for you at the school gate."