small fish catching cat

"Excuse me, can I borrow a cigarette? I forgot to bring it." Tang Jinyu said politely.

The other party looked at his pale face, thinking that he must have encountered something troublesome, took out the cigarette case, handed it to him, and handed him the lighter.

Tang Jinyu took out a cigarette, lit it, thanked her and found a quiet place.

Song Weiyan also noticed Tang Jinyu's abnormality, and had a brief chat with the doctor just now.When he found the terrace, he saw Omega's thin back wearing only a suit, standing in the cold winter sun, looking into the distance, with a half-lit cigarette between his slender fingers.The sun shines on his pale face, making people clearly see his helplessness and fear, making him even more vulnerable.

Putting on the coat in his hand, Song Weiyan's tall body looked into the distance side by side with him.

Song Weiyan didn't speak until Tang Jinyu's eyes were drawn out, "Did something bad happen to you, Tangtang, when you were in college? Someone bullied you at school?"

Song Weiyan discussed several possible speculations with the doctor just now, and the doctor suggested that he try to ask.

Tang Jinyu shook her head, "No."

"Is that love being hurt by Alpha?"

Omega smiled and turned to look at Song Weiyan, "It's not that you don't know how attractive I am, as long as I want, Alpha will always obey me. As long as I don't fall in love, how can Alpha hurt my heart? "

"Is that a fight with your father?"

Still shaking his head. "Song Weiyan, don't ask, I don't want to talk about it." He clearly refused.

Alpha frowned, "Tangtang, you actually know that the thing you don't want to talk about is probably the cause of your mental disorder. But after such a long period of psychotherapy, you haven't confessed to Dr. Zhou."

Omega lowered his head, looked at the toe of the leather shoe, and acquiesced.

"If you think I'm not trustworthy, let's invite your father over..." Before he could finish the three words "accompany you", he was interrupted by Omega.

Tang Jinyu raised his head in a panic, and couldn't control his volume, "Don't, don't let my father know!" Immediately realizing that he was overreacting, he quickly cleaned up his emotions and tried to calm his voice, "I don't want to let my father know!" He worries."

Song Weiyan had a panoramic view of the Omega's expression just now, and he frowned, "What you don't want to say actually has something to do with your father, doesn't it? He raped you?" Alpha had to speculate on some extreme situations.

Tang Jinyu's eyes widened in disbelief, and then he said angrily, "Song Weiyan, what nonsense are you talking about! How could my father do such a thing!"

Song Weiyan knew that he had guessed wrong, but he also quietly breathed a sigh of relief, and quickly apologized.

Omega sighed, "It's my problem, don't ask me, I don't want to talk about it. I'm tired, I'm going to say hello to the doctor, let's stop here for today."

Back in the consultation room, Professor Xing began to summarize today.

"Mr. Tang, based on the information we have so far, we infer that your psychological barrier is mainly caused by a lack of security and trust. Your pursuit of security is defined according to the standard of a father's sense of security for a child. And this At present, you think that only your father can give you the ultimate sense of security and trust. So when you are looking for a partner, you unconsciously use your father as the benchmark. This is a very typical Electra complex in psychology, and it is also common in society Exist. It's just more severe and more extreme in you."

Professor Xing looked at Song Weiyan and continued, "From your evaluation of Mr. Song, we can also find similarities between him as a good father and your father."

Tang Jinyu listened quietly, biting his lip, as if he had been stripped naked and exposed on the street. He wanted to escape, but there was nowhere to escape, and a sense of powerlessness swept over his body.

Song Weiyan stretched out his big hand, covered his cold hand, and clenched it tightly.

"I'm sorry..." Tang Jinyu murmured softly.

Alpha just kissed him on the side of the cheek, not minding what the doctor said just now, and not shying away from the presence of others.

Song Weiyan's sexy and calm voice sounded like the bell of redemption, "Professor Xing, since I am very similar to his father, why does he still resist me?"

"Trust and security have not reached the threshold in Mr. Tang's heart. That is, they have not met his father's standard. Moreover," Professor Xing looked at Tang Jinyu and continued, "The thing that Mr. Tang is unwilling to reveal should be Another knot. But there is no way to deduce and analyze it at present.”

"Then what should we do to cultivate trust and security?" Song Weiyan continued to ask.

"Everyone has a comfort zone and a private zone. Trust is allowing others to touch your private zone, and the willingness to match another person's preferences, challenging yourself to push yourself out of your comfort zone. Security is I am allowed to explore other people's private areas. Of course, these have to be done step by step and practiced repeatedly consciously. Strengthening this cognition will form a stronger sense of trust and security.

In addition, in the case of Mr. Tang, emotional transfer or copying can also be tried.The trust and sense of security in his father can be transferred or copied to Mr. Song through some similar events.For example, if Mr. Tang's father cooks for him, and if Mr. Song does similar things, his emotions will be transferred unconsciously, strengthening his trust and sense of security for Mr. Song.

However, I must emphasize that these trainings can only improve the trust and security of the two together to a certain extent, and will not necessarily solve the problem of Mr. Tang's trust in other Alphas as partners.

As for how to train in life, there is no written method, which needs to be discussed and decided by the two according to the actual situation.In addition, in the Electra complex, the father's authority over the child still exists, and Mr. Song can be a little stronger when formulating practice rules and implementing them.In the subconscious mind of patients with Electra complex, the father will regulate and control the behavior of the child to a certain extent, and the child's obedience to the father is also an expression of trust.On the premise of being fully respected, Mr. Tang should trust the rules set by Mr. Song as much as possible. With the accumulation of practice effects, passive trust will turn into active trust and enhance the sense of security.Build a stronger relationship between the two of you. "

"Okay, I will cooperate." Tang Jinyu felt the warmth of his hands, and the Alpha beside him really wanted to help him.

At the end, Dr. Zhou said to Tang Jinyu earnestly, "Mr. Tang, your physical examination report shows that due to long-term use of inhibitors, you have developed resistance and serious side effects. Try to choose a natural way to spend the estrus in the future. Insufficient genital cavity development can be improved by combining with Alpha, because the high concentration of pheromone in Alpha semen can promote the development of genital cavity. If you still cannot accept the natural way of sex, you can consider sending semen into the genital cavity with the help of medical equipment. Only You will only get pregnant when Alpha bites your glands and injects pheromones at the same time, so you don't have to worry about this problem."

Tang Jinyu frowned slightly and shook his head weakly, "Thank you, Dr. Zhou, I still can't accept it. I can't accept Alpha entering me, let alone his semen entering my body. However, I will work hard to cooperate with the level of trust. I hope it will work out.”