After graduation, I went home to keep bees
Chapter 205
The old lady of Qingshan threw out the condition of "marriage" as soon as she opened her mouth. I have to say that for the current Lang Ying, it is indeed quite tempting.
Isn't it because her family has never had a man to rule the place, so Jiang Erming's family bullied her over and over again?
And those matchmakers who bullied her as a divorced woman without a family to rely on, what kind of messy men did they introduce to her?
What's more, if she married into an ordinary family, the man would definitely ask Lang Ying, a daughter-in-law, to live in the man's house with her two children.
Feeling dependent on others, Lang Ying has had enough in this life, and she doesn't want her two daughters to live like this again.
To use a hot word on the Internet to describe, the current Lang Ying is "sealed with cement"!
The word "man" is an absolute forbidden word for her, and it needs to be spoken.
Therefore, there are so many matchmakers in these four miles and eight villages, but none of them captured Lang Ying. This is definitely a reason.
But now, this forbidden word was broken by that wise old lady in Qingshan.
Her old man knew very well why Lang Ying refused to marry.
As a widow, she understands the importance of children in the mother's heart better than anyone else.
Don't they know that after they get married, there is a man to rely on, and they can make money together to support the family, so they can relax?
of course I know!
However, if the price of getting married is to let one's own children depend on others to live a life that needs to be looked at by others to survive, which mother would be willing to do so?
After thinking about this point clearly, Qingshan's old lady immediately got the "cheat book" to attack Lang Ying!
That is to let the son leave home and marry into Lang Ying's house.
As the saying goes, if the mountain does not come, it will be me, and if I come, it will be the mountain.
Isn't Lang Ying most worried that her two daughters will be wronged and stared at when they marry into other people's homes?
Then let's get married in another way~
And in this way, the family no longer has to build a new house for their son alone.
The old lady in Qingshan has already decided to save the money for building a new house and give it to her son as a "dowry". I can go to the county to study.
There might be a college student in their family.
Isn't it better than letting your son and daughter-in-law nest in Laoshan?
When meeting such a clear-headed mother-in-law who knows how to make choices, Lang Ying really has nothing to do.
Qingshan's family is full of sincerity, and there is also the ex-husband's family hiding in the dark and watching. Looking at Qingshan's anxious and expectant eyes, Lang Ying smiled and readily agreed to Qingshan's family proposal.
What Lang Ying didn't tell them was that in her heart, as early as the moment when Qingshan risked his life to put on protective clothing in order to deliver food and vegetables to the people on the other side, he was no longer that worry in her heart. I am irresponsible brat...
Whether a man is a responsible man does not depend only on his age.
For example, her ex-husband, who is obviously several years older than Qingshan, has no manly responsibility when encountering things. He either goes home to find his parents, or simply turns off his phone and hides.
Lang Ying has been married to him for so many years and had two children, but she still doesn't feel a sense of security in this man.
However, the moment Qingshan disappeared from the boat and walked off the boat with a sloppy beard, she felt a sense of security from this boy.
The sense of security is that even on the day of the end of the world, this man will smile and say to you: Don't be afraid!Even if it is death, I will stand in front of you.
However, Lang Ying's character has always been restrained, and she has clearly rejected Qing Shan once before, and now she is asked to take the initiative to court him, she will never take that step.
Fortunately, Qingshan never seemed to give up on her...
Both families were very sincere about this marriage, and Qingshan wished he could bring nothing with him and come here on the same day.There is no such thing as a traditional wedding where you have to break the bride price and dowry. It is convenient for both parties to make an appointment. After the first month, the eighteenth day of the first month will be a good day.
At that time, we will hold a party at Laoshan'aozi first, and Lang Ying will pick up his son-in-law, and then we will have a wine party at the foot of the mountain, so that relatives on both sides can have a good time.
The most important thing is that Qingshan's old lady and eldest sister are used to "leave the father and keep the son" in their marriage. They are afraid that Qingshan will also be abandoned by Lang Ying, so they simply hold a serious wedding ceremony and let Qingshan marry him to do it. The door-to-door son-in-law.
Marriage at the foot of the mountain is more formal than theirs, and young people are willing to get a marriage certificate. That's good. With this marriage certificate as a guarantee, my son will definitely not be abandoned...
Because it is a marriage, the Qingshan family does not need to prepare a wedding room and bride price, and according to the old rules, the family that recruits a son-in-law has to give the man's parents a sum of pension money.
Lang Ying has been well-off in the past two years, and she is not short of this money.
The most important thing was that Jiang Erming's family didn't dare to pester her anymore since there was a man in the family. In this way, the money in her hands could be safely kept.
Therefore, Lang Ying offered to give Qingshan old lady 6 yuan of pension money from her side. According to their Langshan rules, she gave this old-age pension money. From now on, Qingshan old lady's old-age pension will be the same as that of her husband. It doesn't matter son.
6 yuan is definitely not a small amount for the family in Laoshan'aozi.
Qingshan's old lady agreed with a smile, and then turned around and pointed out that Qingshan and Shanyan have made a lot of money in the past few years. Originally, the family saved the money for him to marry a wife.
Now that it is no longer needed, Qingshan's old lady simply took out the money and planned to buy Qingshan a small truck that can pull goods, which is counted as a "dowry" for her son.
And in the eyes of rural people, buying a small truck is much more cost-effective than a car. Among other things, just delivering goods to people in the town can earn a lot of money a month.
"That's a good relationship! It just so happens that our two cooperatives often hire cars to help pull goods. From now on, we'll just use Qingshan's cars. This is called keeping the fat and water out of the field!" Jiang Xiaoman said with a smile.
As the major shareholder of the two cooperatives, he can still decide on such a small matter.
In this way, the 6 yuan pension money Lang Ying sent out was equivalent to going around and returning to her home.
Unexpectedly, her mother-in-law would be so open-minded and generous in the future. Lang Ying was grateful and secretly decided that even if she was married, she would often accompany Qingshan back to visit her mother-in-law during the new year and holidays. It is not convenient for them to buy things at Laoshan'aozi, so they should often Buy more things for the elderly to send back.
This is probably the smoothest time that Aunt Huiying, a matchmaker, has been in the business for so many years.
The man is full of sincerity, and the woman is also generous and humble. If the marriages in the world are so smooth, how many lawsuits will they save in the matchmaking industry?
Lang Ying is already married for the second time, and she doesn't plan to make a big fuss. She has long passed the age of pursuing romance. Now, she would rather save the money for the wedding and buy some practical furniture and appliances for the family.
The reason for holding a banquet was mainly because Qingshan was married for the first time, and she was married into her family. If she didn't even hold a wedding banquet, she would be too sorry for her.
After discussing the marriage, Qingshan's family left. Although Qingshan really wanted to stay, say a few sweet words to Lang Ying, and secretly express his loyalty, but the young man was thin-skinned and was stared at by his wife and matchmaker. I was really ashamed to stay at Lang Ying's house, so I could only reluctantly leave, stepping back and forth.
Jiang Xiaoman and Jiang Yu stayed behind.
Lang Ying didn't have much contact with her natal family anymore, and she didn't even intend to inform her natal family about such an important matter as her second marriage, which shows that she really broke her heart.
As her friends, Jiang Xiaoman and the others couldn't just watch her get married in such a poor way.
Jiang Xiaoman suggested that they could set up a "Langying wedding preparation team".
You don't have a mother's family, do you?
Then set the standard higher, directly lead by the three major shareholders of the cooperative, set up a special working group, and treat this marriage as a major event of the cooperative!
It happened that they had nothing to do during the Chinese New Year, and Lang Ying and Qingshan were the backbone of the cooperative. Helping them with lifelong events was the first happy event after the establishment of the cooperative.
"Then it's settled. Sister Yingzi, you should stay at home and prepare to be a bride during this period of time. Leave the wedding ceremony to me and Xiaoman. Don't worry, it will definitely be a splendid event for you!" Jiang Yu looked More excited than Lang Ying himself.
But it's no wonder that when he was with Shanyan, because his family didn't agree, he went directly to the mountains to make mature rice with Shanyan's uncooked rice. Moreover, when two men form a bond, they usually don't hold a big wedding.This is also one of Jiang Yu's most regrettable things.
Lang Ying's eyes turned red, and she opened her mouth, wanting to say thank you, but felt that the thank you was too thin, and she didn't know what to say for a while.
"Okay, I still have three maids waiting to serve, so I'll go back first, Miss Yingzi, you go ahead, I'll ask Shan Yan in the evening, which master chef in our town is the best at making rice noodles, turn around Invite him to serve you the spoon!"
With that said, Jiang Yu also left in a hurry.
Jiang Xiaoman was the last to leave.
He still has something to discuss with Lang Ying.
The homestead that Jiang Erming's family compensated to Lang Ying before was not large, and it was just right for the three of them to live in, but if Qingshan was added, and perhaps one or two children would be born in the future, it would not be enough at all.
He suggested to Lang Ying that Qingshan could move her household registration to Langshan Village.
Anyway, no one wants to give away the homestead at Laoshan'aozi, and it's meaningless to put the household registration there. It's better to move to the village, the couple get together, and let the village approve a bigger homestead.
Homesteads in the village are much more valuable than those in the mountains.
Jiang Xiaoman didn't dare to say this before, but now he said it without guilt.
Since he and Jiang Yu started live streaming and established two cooperatives, the per capita annual income of Langshan Village has collectively increased, and the price of homesteads in the village has also risen accordingly.
Given Lang Ying and Qing Shan's contribution to the collective economy of the village, it is not difficult to grant them a larger homestead.
Lang Ying listened quietly, and after listening to Jiang Xiaoman's analysis, she nodded gratefully in agreement.
"Xiao Man, thank you!"
"Thank me for what? If Qingshan's household registration has been moved to the village, the homestead should have been granted to him."
"I'm not talking about this...Xiao Man, you don't know how unpopular a divorced woman with two children is on our side."
"If you didn't bring me to open an online store to do business together, on my condition, it would be too late for people to hide from me. How could you protect me as a mediator?"
At this moment, Lang Ying realized soberly that as a woman, only by making yourself valuable can you be worthy of pleasing in the eyes of others.
Otherwise, the status of a woman in marriage will become a bird attached to a cage. The owner is happy and will feed you something.If you are not happy, you can starve to death at any time...
She doesn't want to be a bird whose life and death are in the hands of others.
Fortunately, when she resolutely escaped from that cage, Jiang Xiaoman and Jiang Yu gave her an entire forest to shelter her from the wind and rain!
Here, maybe every brick and tile has to be built with your own hands, and no one will pay you for no reason. However, Lang Ying loves this kind of life where you can rely on labor and hands to eat.
Now, she is about to enter another marriage. That young and handsome boy has his own eyes in his eyes. The future mother-in-law is not as selfish and mean as the former mother-in-law. Her words are full of respect and love for her...
And all of this started after she met Jiang Xiaoman.
Lang Ying felt that if her natal family must be present at her wedding, then no one in the world is more qualified than Jiang Xiaoman.
Isn't it because her family has never had a man to rule the place, so Jiang Erming's family bullied her over and over again?
And those matchmakers who bullied her as a divorced woman without a family to rely on, what kind of messy men did they introduce to her?
What's more, if she married into an ordinary family, the man would definitely ask Lang Ying, a daughter-in-law, to live in the man's house with her two children.
Feeling dependent on others, Lang Ying has had enough in this life, and she doesn't want her two daughters to live like this again.
To use a hot word on the Internet to describe, the current Lang Ying is "sealed with cement"!
The word "man" is an absolute forbidden word for her, and it needs to be spoken.
Therefore, there are so many matchmakers in these four miles and eight villages, but none of them captured Lang Ying. This is definitely a reason.
But now, this forbidden word was broken by that wise old lady in Qingshan.
Her old man knew very well why Lang Ying refused to marry.
As a widow, she understands the importance of children in the mother's heart better than anyone else.
Don't they know that after they get married, there is a man to rely on, and they can make money together to support the family, so they can relax?
of course I know!
However, if the price of getting married is to let one's own children depend on others to live a life that needs to be looked at by others to survive, which mother would be willing to do so?
After thinking about this point clearly, Qingshan's old lady immediately got the "cheat book" to attack Lang Ying!
That is to let the son leave home and marry into Lang Ying's house.
As the saying goes, if the mountain does not come, it will be me, and if I come, it will be the mountain.
Isn't Lang Ying most worried that her two daughters will be wronged and stared at when they marry into other people's homes?
Then let's get married in another way~
And in this way, the family no longer has to build a new house for their son alone.
The old lady in Qingshan has already decided to save the money for building a new house and give it to her son as a "dowry". I can go to the county to study.
There might be a college student in their family.
Isn't it better than letting your son and daughter-in-law nest in Laoshan?
When meeting such a clear-headed mother-in-law who knows how to make choices, Lang Ying really has nothing to do.
Qingshan's family is full of sincerity, and there is also the ex-husband's family hiding in the dark and watching. Looking at Qingshan's anxious and expectant eyes, Lang Ying smiled and readily agreed to Qingshan's family proposal.
What Lang Ying didn't tell them was that in her heart, as early as the moment when Qingshan risked his life to put on protective clothing in order to deliver food and vegetables to the people on the other side, he was no longer that worry in her heart. I am irresponsible brat...
Whether a man is a responsible man does not depend only on his age.
For example, her ex-husband, who is obviously several years older than Qingshan, has no manly responsibility when encountering things. He either goes home to find his parents, or simply turns off his phone and hides.
Lang Ying has been married to him for so many years and had two children, but she still doesn't feel a sense of security in this man.
However, the moment Qingshan disappeared from the boat and walked off the boat with a sloppy beard, she felt a sense of security from this boy.
The sense of security is that even on the day of the end of the world, this man will smile and say to you: Don't be afraid!Even if it is death, I will stand in front of you.
However, Lang Ying's character has always been restrained, and she has clearly rejected Qing Shan once before, and now she is asked to take the initiative to court him, she will never take that step.
Fortunately, Qingshan never seemed to give up on her...
Both families were very sincere about this marriage, and Qingshan wished he could bring nothing with him and come here on the same day.There is no such thing as a traditional wedding where you have to break the bride price and dowry. It is convenient for both parties to make an appointment. After the first month, the eighteenth day of the first month will be a good day.
At that time, we will hold a party at Laoshan'aozi first, and Lang Ying will pick up his son-in-law, and then we will have a wine party at the foot of the mountain, so that relatives on both sides can have a good time.
The most important thing is that Qingshan's old lady and eldest sister are used to "leave the father and keep the son" in their marriage. They are afraid that Qingshan will also be abandoned by Lang Ying, so they simply hold a serious wedding ceremony and let Qingshan marry him to do it. The door-to-door son-in-law.
Marriage at the foot of the mountain is more formal than theirs, and young people are willing to get a marriage certificate. That's good. With this marriage certificate as a guarantee, my son will definitely not be abandoned...
Because it is a marriage, the Qingshan family does not need to prepare a wedding room and bride price, and according to the old rules, the family that recruits a son-in-law has to give the man's parents a sum of pension money.
Lang Ying has been well-off in the past two years, and she is not short of this money.
The most important thing was that Jiang Erming's family didn't dare to pester her anymore since there was a man in the family. In this way, the money in her hands could be safely kept.
Therefore, Lang Ying offered to give Qingshan old lady 6 yuan of pension money from her side. According to their Langshan rules, she gave this old-age pension money. From now on, Qingshan old lady's old-age pension will be the same as that of her husband. It doesn't matter son.
6 yuan is definitely not a small amount for the family in Laoshan'aozi.
Qingshan's old lady agreed with a smile, and then turned around and pointed out that Qingshan and Shanyan have made a lot of money in the past few years. Originally, the family saved the money for him to marry a wife.
Now that it is no longer needed, Qingshan's old lady simply took out the money and planned to buy Qingshan a small truck that can pull goods, which is counted as a "dowry" for her son.
And in the eyes of rural people, buying a small truck is much more cost-effective than a car. Among other things, just delivering goods to people in the town can earn a lot of money a month.
"That's a good relationship! It just so happens that our two cooperatives often hire cars to help pull goods. From now on, we'll just use Qingshan's cars. This is called keeping the fat and water out of the field!" Jiang Xiaoman said with a smile.
As the major shareholder of the two cooperatives, he can still decide on such a small matter.
In this way, the 6 yuan pension money Lang Ying sent out was equivalent to going around and returning to her home.
Unexpectedly, her mother-in-law would be so open-minded and generous in the future. Lang Ying was grateful and secretly decided that even if she was married, she would often accompany Qingshan back to visit her mother-in-law during the new year and holidays. It is not convenient for them to buy things at Laoshan'aozi, so they should often Buy more things for the elderly to send back.
This is probably the smoothest time that Aunt Huiying, a matchmaker, has been in the business for so many years.
The man is full of sincerity, and the woman is also generous and humble. If the marriages in the world are so smooth, how many lawsuits will they save in the matchmaking industry?
Lang Ying is already married for the second time, and she doesn't plan to make a big fuss. She has long passed the age of pursuing romance. Now, she would rather save the money for the wedding and buy some practical furniture and appliances for the family.
The reason for holding a banquet was mainly because Qingshan was married for the first time, and she was married into her family. If she didn't even hold a wedding banquet, she would be too sorry for her.
After discussing the marriage, Qingshan's family left. Although Qingshan really wanted to stay, say a few sweet words to Lang Ying, and secretly express his loyalty, but the young man was thin-skinned and was stared at by his wife and matchmaker. I was really ashamed to stay at Lang Ying's house, so I could only reluctantly leave, stepping back and forth.
Jiang Xiaoman and Jiang Yu stayed behind.
Lang Ying didn't have much contact with her natal family anymore, and she didn't even intend to inform her natal family about such an important matter as her second marriage, which shows that she really broke her heart.
As her friends, Jiang Xiaoman and the others couldn't just watch her get married in such a poor way.
Jiang Xiaoman suggested that they could set up a "Langying wedding preparation team".
You don't have a mother's family, do you?
Then set the standard higher, directly lead by the three major shareholders of the cooperative, set up a special working group, and treat this marriage as a major event of the cooperative!
It happened that they had nothing to do during the Chinese New Year, and Lang Ying and Qingshan were the backbone of the cooperative. Helping them with lifelong events was the first happy event after the establishment of the cooperative.
"Then it's settled. Sister Yingzi, you should stay at home and prepare to be a bride during this period of time. Leave the wedding ceremony to me and Xiaoman. Don't worry, it will definitely be a splendid event for you!" Jiang Yu looked More excited than Lang Ying himself.
But it's no wonder that when he was with Shanyan, because his family didn't agree, he went directly to the mountains to make mature rice with Shanyan's uncooked rice. Moreover, when two men form a bond, they usually don't hold a big wedding.This is also one of Jiang Yu's most regrettable things.
Lang Ying's eyes turned red, and she opened her mouth, wanting to say thank you, but felt that the thank you was too thin, and she didn't know what to say for a while.
"Okay, I still have three maids waiting to serve, so I'll go back first, Miss Yingzi, you go ahead, I'll ask Shan Yan in the evening, which master chef in our town is the best at making rice noodles, turn around Invite him to serve you the spoon!"
With that said, Jiang Yu also left in a hurry.
Jiang Xiaoman was the last to leave.
He still has something to discuss with Lang Ying.
The homestead that Jiang Erming's family compensated to Lang Ying before was not large, and it was just right for the three of them to live in, but if Qingshan was added, and perhaps one or two children would be born in the future, it would not be enough at all.
He suggested to Lang Ying that Qingshan could move her household registration to Langshan Village.
Anyway, no one wants to give away the homestead at Laoshan'aozi, and it's meaningless to put the household registration there. It's better to move to the village, the couple get together, and let the village approve a bigger homestead.
Homesteads in the village are much more valuable than those in the mountains.
Jiang Xiaoman didn't dare to say this before, but now he said it without guilt.
Since he and Jiang Yu started live streaming and established two cooperatives, the per capita annual income of Langshan Village has collectively increased, and the price of homesteads in the village has also risen accordingly.
Given Lang Ying and Qing Shan's contribution to the collective economy of the village, it is not difficult to grant them a larger homestead.
Lang Ying listened quietly, and after listening to Jiang Xiaoman's analysis, she nodded gratefully in agreement.
"Xiao Man, thank you!"
"Thank me for what? If Qingshan's household registration has been moved to the village, the homestead should have been granted to him."
"I'm not talking about this...Xiao Man, you don't know how unpopular a divorced woman with two children is on our side."
"If you didn't bring me to open an online store to do business together, on my condition, it would be too late for people to hide from me. How could you protect me as a mediator?"
At this moment, Lang Ying realized soberly that as a woman, only by making yourself valuable can you be worthy of pleasing in the eyes of others.
Otherwise, the status of a woman in marriage will become a bird attached to a cage. The owner is happy and will feed you something.If you are not happy, you can starve to death at any time...
She doesn't want to be a bird whose life and death are in the hands of others.
Fortunately, when she resolutely escaped from that cage, Jiang Xiaoman and Jiang Yu gave her an entire forest to shelter her from the wind and rain!
Here, maybe every brick and tile has to be built with your own hands, and no one will pay you for no reason. However, Lang Ying loves this kind of life where you can rely on labor and hands to eat.
Now, she is about to enter another marriage. That young and handsome boy has his own eyes in his eyes. The future mother-in-law is not as selfish and mean as the former mother-in-law. Her words are full of respect and love for her...
And all of this started after she met Jiang Xiaoman.
Lang Ying felt that if her natal family must be present at her wedding, then no one in the world is more qualified than Jiang Xiaoman.
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