Rebirth of Lu Ruping

After Lu Ruping and Lin Feng set the wedding date, they discussed with their parents and decided to adopt a Western-style wedding. First, it is still in wartime, and it is really inconvenient to follow the old wedding customs. Second, both Lu Ruping and Lin Feng prefer Western-style weddings. brevity.

On the day of their wedding, Lu Ruping wore a wedding dress, a flower crown, white gloves, holding red roses in her hands, Lin Feng wore a bow tie and a suit, and instead of a sedan chair was a car covered with flowers. The two were surrounded by relatives and friends, and entered the church. Under the auspices of the priest, they read the oath and exchanged rings one by one. Their best men and women were Shi Lei and Tang Xiyuan, which made Shi Lei couldn't help feeling how fast they were!

After the wedding, Lu Ruping was stunned for a long time holding the freshly baked marriage certificate.

"Congratulations, today's ceremony is just completed, and a good relationship is formed. Poems chanting Guanju, Songs of Linzhi. The fifth generation of Ruiye was prosperous, and the prosperity of the two south. One heart and one mind, suitable for IKEA. Respect each other as guests, and forever enjoy the joy of fish and water. Mutual help and sincerity, the oath of a mandarin duck. This certificate! What a beautiful marriage proposal, it would be great if it can be truly realized." Lu Ruping touched the marriage certificate and thought.

In her previous life, Lu Ruping thought that Du Fei would be a good home for her, but after they got married, they found out that it was not the case in the process of getting along day after day.It is not easy for people who grew up in two different families to live a good life. Only then did she understand how important the so-called "right family" is.How important it is to choose a partner who is roughly equivalent to your family situation. The ancestors said that the right family is right, especially if the man’s family conditions are not good, he will definitely have an inferiority complex. The more serious the inferiority complex, the easier it is to suffer. The criticism from the woman, however, became the beginning of a quarrel between the two.It is also very important for both men and women to have basically the same educational background. If the cultural difference is too great, the value difference will be very large. It is definitely unrealistic for a marriage with different values ​​to last for a long time.

In fact, the end of love is never marriage, and marriage is just a new beginning of married life.To live a good life, the husband and wife must find that balance point, and they must know how to be humble to each other, instead of one party completely refusing to give in, one party completely giving in, and the east wind overwhelming the west wind is never a good way to solve problems.

Love is the foundation of marriage, but daily maintenance is also very important.Husband and wife should communicate frequently, and don't shout and curse at each other.Say only those words that are good, with tenderness and kindness.Take a walk together frequently to exchange feelings, relax, exchange ideas, conceive goals, and eliminate misunderstandings between each other.

Allow your partner to take responsibility for his or her own life.He (she) has the right to decide his own reality and destiny.Respect his (her) choice.Both of you can live your life in your own way--living in harmony; cherishing your differences; doing your best to make life easier and more enjoyable for your partner.grow together.Grow at the same speed and direction—by sharing similar ideas and participating in common activities.When your growth is based on happy memories, your relationship will become closer.

Don't be too possessive.Don't act as if you "possess" your partner; offer mutual support and encouragement with each other's lifestyles and personal interests; be grateful and live in harmony.

Put an end to unnecessary quarrels.Do not quarrel, no matter where or when.Especially when you eat and sleep.Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.Respect each other's point of view, outlook on life and views on life.

Accept each other completely.To be precise, accept the other person's personality, habits, and temper.Don't try to change what's unique about the other person.If and when he (she) wants to change, allow him (her) to change.This promotes lasting peace.

After Lu Ruping and Lin Feng got married, apart from living together, nothing changed much.Lu Ruping still went to the Red Cross to help, and Lin Feng was still busy treating the wounded who came down from the battlefield.The two tacitly busy themselves with what they should do.Although there is no inseparable, no so-called sweet talk, but this way of getting along is the most comfortable.Both of them have careers they love, and they both work hard for their lives. This is the real way for husband and wife to get along.Instead of sitting back and enjoying the success, a family where two people work together will last longer than a family that is easy to come by. Even if there is a little ups and downs in the middle, they will be reluctant to part with the hard-won things that two people have worked hard for, and will cherish this marriage even more.

Two months after Lu Ruping and Lin Feng got married, Lu Yiping also married a classmate she knew when she was studying in a normal school.On the day of the wedding, Lu Ruping saw Meng Xiaorui, Lu Yiping's husband-in-law for the first time. It shouldn't be too much of a problem.Seeing that Lu Yiping did not follow in the footsteps of her previous life, but chose Meng Xiaorui who was more suitable for her, Lu Ruping was really happy for Lu Yiping.Lu Ruping has always felt that the problems between her parents should not continue to their generation. She and Lu Yiping have never been against each other.

"Yiping, congratulations!" Lu Ruping said from the bottom of her heart.

"Thank you!" Lu Yiping said with a smile on her face.

Speaking of which, Lu Yiping and Meng Xiaorui are also destined, and they can meet again in the church after the school is closed.It is said that Meng Xiaorui met when they were teaching children's culture classes together, and gradually came together in getting along day after day.This is much more reliable than when Lu Yiping and He Shuhuan were together.This world is not to say that there is no such thing as love at first sight, but compared with the sudden situation of love at first sight, love at first sight is stronger. Of course, it is best to fall in love at first sight first and then fall in love with time.

After Lu Ruping and Lu Yiping got married, they became much closer than before. The most important thing is that they are no longer single, and now they have to bear more responsibilities, and helping each other has become a common occurrence.It's just that what Lu Ruping didn't expect was that Lu Yiping got married later than her, but got pregnant earlier than herself.But it's normal to think about it carefully. Lu Yiping and Meng Xiaorui's newlyweds are like glue, and they are very affectionate. On the other hand, Lu Ruping and Lin Feng spend less than three hours together every day. The main reason is that there are too many wounded from the front line. Time was spent treating the wounded.

Lu Ruping told Lin Feng about Lu Yiping's pregnancy when she delivered food to Lin Feng.Compared with Lu Ruping's contradiction, Lin Feng was more calm.

"It's okay, the child's affairs are not in a hurry!" Lin Feng smiled and took a bite of the food.

"En!" Lu Ruping nodded.

In fact, it's not that Lu Ruping doesn't want a child, she just thinks it's not good to have a child now, and it's not good for the child to suffer with them, but it will take a long time to wait until the situation stabilizes to have a child, so after much deliberation, it's better to let nature take its course up!

The battle on the front line is intensifying, and the survival rate of the wounded sent recently is very low, which makes Lin Feng and Lu Ruping very worried.

"Ruping, I want to apply to go to the front!" Lin Feng said after thinking all night.

"Lin Feng, I know I shouldn't have such thoughts, but I can't control myself, I don't want you to go, you have seen all the wounded sent here, the injuries are so serious, the firepower on the front line must be very fierce, it was too dangerous for you to go there. "Lu Ruping said worriedly.

"Ruping, it is precisely because of this that I am going. The war is so tense, and the manpower of the doctors must also be very tense. Only by being close to the front line can I save more people. I don't hope that when we are old, I will I regret what happened this time, so please support me!" Lin Feng said while hugging Lu Ruping.

"Lin Feng, it's too difficult for me to support you!" Lu Ruping cried.

"I know, but you will understand me, right? I can't just watch so many people die in the hospital." Lin Feng said, wiping the tears off Lu Ruping's face.

"Then...then you must come back safely, I don't want to be a widow yet!" Lu Ruping raised her head and tightly clenched the skirts of Lin Feng's clothes with both hands.

"Okay, I promise you, I will definitely protect myself and come back to see you unscathed!" Lin Feng said with a smile while hugging Lu Ruping.

"En!" Lu Ruping nodded.

I don't know who took the initiative first, and when Lu Ruping came back to her senses, the two had already kissed together.It was only now that Lu Ruping realized that she had unknowingly fallen in love with Lin Feng who was considerate of her, and got used to the feeling of him being by her side.And the idea of ​​wanting to give birth to a child for the other party prompted her to hug him tightly, as if she could keep the other party in this way.

After the cloud and rain, Lin Feng looked at Lu Ruping who was sleeping next to him, and felt warm in his heart. He thought he had finally won Lu Ruping's heart, but it was a pity that he was going to the battlefield soon.

As a doctor, he can't just watch so many people die in front of him. He has his responsibility. He knows that Lu Ruping will understand and support him, because just like he understands her, she also understands him, that's all!

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