[Group Wearing Song Dynasty] The Glory of the Sky

The reason why people hold weddings and funerals is for the sense of ceremony.

The sense of ritual has many functions, including but not limited to gaining group acceptance and identity, self-suggestion and psychological comfort, and conducting transactions under the guise of this name.

But more importantly, these ceremonies cannot be removed easily. If all the genocide is strictly prohibited, it will not only arouse people's rebellious psychology, but also turn these ceremonies into underground activities, which will cause more troubles.

Weddings in the Song Dynasty were far more complicated than imagined.

Once the marriage contract is confirmed, the man and the woman must set a date through a matchmaker, and the man will prepare jewelry, wine vessels, etc. to send the engagement gift. The wedding paper must be gold colored paper, and it must be packed in red and green goldfish bags. Painting should also be quite particular.

After the woman receives the ceremony, she must place the ceremony in the hall of the main house. Not only do she have to offer sacrifices and pray, but she also needs to send back half of the ceremony.

In addition to the fixed ceremony, the man also has to purchase the 'three golds' and prepare another generous dowry, which also costs a lot.

The betrothal gift is the betrothal gift, and the betrothal gift is the betrothal gift.

After these three things are delivered, there is also a "makeup reminder" before marriage. The man needs to send various jewelry and clothes to the woman's home for the bride to dress up. .

On the day before they can finally get married, the bride's family will go to the man's house to "spend a room", which means that they will set up a small tent with them to sleep temporarily for one night, and give a part of the dowry in advance.

The meaning of the shop itself is to activate the communication and emotions between the two families, but in the middle and late Southern Song Dynasty, it became one of the ways to show off wealth.

From the beginning, they only gave all kinds of handicrafts, and later they also sent chickens, ducks, cattle and sheep, which was like buying new year's goods.

After careful calculation, just from engagement to marriage, there were four or five excuses for repeated transactions, and now the limelight is even more popular, a group of people are smashing their teeth and swallowing, pretending to be rich.

The people from the Senate Council went through the documents for a long time, and asked the familiar old Yangzhou people about the process carefully, and finally came up with a solution.

Since it is necessary to guide people to enter the new etiquette and customs, it is necessary to make the link attractive.

Moreover, it is best to add six or seven times to the link of "giving" and "rewarding" to create a sense of ritual.

Then the most suitable viewing venue is naturally the Guangling Auditorium.

It has been three years since the mutation started. In these three years, no girl from Jiangyin has ever chosen to marry a young man from Yangzhou. , All kinds of conflicts came out, and in the end they were all nothing.

After all, their parents can't accept their daughter-in-law showing their faces outside, sitting in such revealing clothes, maybe they can say anything ugly.

However, there are three or four examples of Jiangyin men marrying Yangzhou girls, and they are very easy to negotiate on things like dowry.

Whether those married people are sincere or dishonest, they all know that people from the Civil Affairs Bureau are watching this matter. There are a small number of electronics that are no longer available.

Those women's families are naturally elated when they get such a treasure, wishing to show it off to everyone.

And precisely because of the intermarriage of the man and woman, the families of those women gradually realized various benefits through door-to-door visits, and began to agree to install electrical wiring at home and let professionals install electric lights at home.

The girls from Yangzhou city are naturally a model of diligence and filial piety. The disadvantage is that they have no personality of their own and are as docile and obedient as servants in everything they do. However, this will not arouse the resentment of their in-laws. On the contrary, everyone will feel sorry for such a girl .

The love and marriage stories in it can be told for three days and three nights.

Now that things are happening suddenly, it is impossible to temporarily win over a pair of strangers to get married. The people in the meeting slapped their heads and decided to arrange for two interns to hold a wedding and have a performance-style public culture class.

In order to make Yangzhou people have a sense of substitution, they rejected same-sex weddings and arranged for a pair of opposite-sex interns to be actors.

Li Luan was dozing off next to him, but half asleep he was picked up to paint the wedding venue.

The young man who was a writer next to him was typing on the keyboard, constantly listening to other people's suggestions to make revisions.

The ultimate goal they want is to use the Guangling Auditorium as a long-term and sacred wedding venue, so that those married people can perform ceremonies in this special venue, and at the same time, let the people from the Civil Affairs Bureau use this as an opportunity to drive the whole society. The cultural development of the city.

First of all, a progressive ladder should be designed, on which a white carpet symbolizing the path of life should be laid.

Various ivory white sculptures should be placed nearby. It is best to cover some tulle with pearls on the sculptures to increase the sense of mystery.

The gift of giving and giving back was designed several times, but in the end it was decided to use red and white roses that can be mass-produced in the agricultural garden, and naturally filled with various symbolic poems and chanting words.

The first link is naturally that the couple walk up the stairs under the watchful eyes of the elders in the clan, and stop for a moment after walking ten steps, accepting the flowers presented by the elders of both parties.

If you want to wear a temporary wedding dress, you can rent it, and if you don’t want to wear it, you can use your own wedding dress.

People still have a talent for making up stories and messing around.

They designed a whole set of cost-effective and very pretentious links, and decided to permanently decorate the left and right halls on the first floor as wedding venues, and planned to build some arches, suspended corridors and other things to increase the viewing effect.

In addition to curtains, white gauze, and fake petals, reflective things should be hung from the sky, and how to arrange lighting projections and so on.

The most important thing is that they will send the staff of the Civil Affairs Bureau as representatives to present a pair of rings to the newcomers who take the initiative to contact the new ceremony as a testimony and recognition.

The ring and the stones inlaid on it are naturally worthless, but judging from the color and texture, it can only be said that there is no sense of cheapness. The cost is about 50 yuan a pair.

But as long as this ring is officially authorized and has the name of 'Eternal Ring', it will have another layer of expensive nature.

It's as if no matter how ugly a slipper T-shirt is printed with 'supreme' or 'dior', the price can be doubled dozens or even hundreds of times.

Sometimes what people want is not the slippers themselves, but the psychological satisfaction given by the certification.

The entire project took only five days from planning to execution.

It took more than a few years for the entire wedding customs to slowly change.

"Following the trend will still be of positive significance to society."

Many years later, when Liu Xi found out that he wanted to get married and had to make an appointment, he felt a little pain in his head.