The Reincarnation of the World of Red Mansions

But soon Aunt Shao's attention to her daughter was greatly reduced, because a local man pursued Aunt Shao.

The conditions of that local man are very good. If they are in the Central Plains, if Aunt Shao is not married, the two are barely a match.But now, it can be said that Aunt Shao is a high climber.

But that man is a Mosuo, and in Lugu Lake, women are in charge of the house.The closest relatives of a child born are the mother and her sisters and brothers, while the biological father is relatively distant, with no necessary connection, and no clear support and support responsibilities and obligations.

The man had been to the Central Plains region when he was a teenager, and he stayed in the Central Plains region for nearly ten years before returning.He was influenced by Han culture, but the influence could not make him resist the education and influence he received from childhood.

So this man has always been entangled. If Aunt Shao hadn't moved over, then he might have overwhelmed his thoughts and only thought of them occasionally.However, the arrival of Aunt Shao gave him hope. Aunt Shao received authentic girls' education in the Central Plains. Even if Aunt Shao was a little bold, she couldn't hide the education she had received since she was a child.

If she was with Aunt Shao, Aunt Shao would definitely teach the child to be close to herself.He can also intervene in the education of his own children, and the man becomes excited when he thinks that he can educate his own children with his own hands.

If she was with Aunt Shao, Aunt Shao would definitely teach the child to be close to herself.He can also intervene in the education of his own children, and the man becomes excited when he thinks that he can educate his own children with his own hands.The two can raise their children together and live together.Except for the higher status of women in their hometown, they are no different from those in the Central Plains.

In fact, there are two ways for Mosuo people to marry by walking: one is called "Azhu" settled marriage; the other is called "Axia" alien marriage. "Axia" alien marriage is easy to understand, that is, walking marriage, men do not marry women do not marry. "Azhu" settles down and gets married.After the "walking marriage" ceremony, Mosuo young men and women move out from the homes of both men and women to live together, or the man lives in the woman's home, and some women live in the man's home. They stay together for many years, live together, and raise the next generation .

In fact, the man originally wanted to find someone in his hometown who was willing to have a "Azhu" permanent marriage with him, but after all, he was that old.In modern times, the age of 27 or [-] is just right, but in ancient times, children could see each other and get married.

At his age, it is not easy to find someone. After all, most people of the same age have already found someone to be with.Of course, some of the remaining ones expressed their affection for him, but most of those women just wanted to be with him for a while, and didn't think about long-term things.There are those who want to maintain a long-term relationship with him, and he doesn't like them very much.

Those who are younger than him, of course, have good ones.Even if he is considered a very good person, those who have just grown up don't see him much.If he really wants to chase, he can still catch up.But after all, he is also an experienced person, and he also knows that young people may not be suitable for him.Just as he was debating and preparing to make a decision, Qin Keqing and his party came.

Now he decided to observe it before making a decision. Anyway, it has been so long, and he doesn't care about the time.After several months of observation, he found that Aunt Shao was very suitable for him.After considering all aspects, he decided to take the initiative.

After all, that man has been hanging out for so many years, and he knows how to read people's eyes and figure out people's thoughts.In addition, when Aunt Shao and Zhou Lan just moved to the local area, he helped a lot.He is capable and reliable, and soon Aunt Shao was tempted.

After all, it is not easy for a woman to live with a child, and she is still away from home.Even if this place is still "matriarchal".Aunt Shao's family is seriously short of labor force, and even their daily life is more than inconvenient.

As for inviting people, in the Central Plains, you are afraid of the gossip of the people around you, but here you are unfamiliar with the place.Besides, Aunt Shao wanted to save more dowry for Zhou Lan.Not to mention finding ways to make money, no matter what you have to save in your life.

Of course Qin Keqing didn't know about Aunt Shao's mental activities, and of course she could guess the general situation.Seven months after arriving at Lugu Lake, one day when Zhou Lan was leaving after studying, she struggled at the door for a while, and quickly revealed the news that her mother was going to remarry.

It is said that they have already discussed it, and the wedding etiquette will be done according to local customs.Just hold an ancient ceremony called "Zangbala".

In Zhou Lan's view, this wronged her mother.The ceremony was held in the middle of the night, and neither guests nor gifts were given, and friends did not participate, which made Zhou Lan somewhat unacceptable.And these days, Zhou Lan's mother is still busy learning how to weave Mosuo linen.Because on the day of the ceremony, the man will get the flower belt with Mosuo characteristics carefully woven by the woman from Mosuo linen.

These things were intertwined, which made Zhou Lan very uncomfortable. When she told Qin Keqing the news, Zhou Lan's mouth kept pouting, looking sullen.In Zhou Lan's view, why can't it be done according to the customs of the Central Plains.But Zhou Lan is sensible after all, knowing that it is better to follow the local customs, but she is still a little depressed.

Qin Keqing looked at Zhou Lan with her emotions on her face, amused.In fact, Qin Keqing also knew that Zhou Lan actually understood and supported her mother's remarriage.For the etiquette of the wedding, I also know that it cannot be changed.

As for Zhou Lan's emotions, there was dissatisfaction with the simplicity of the wedding, but more of a worry about her mother's life after her remarriage.I am worried about my future life. Although I have lived in the local area for so long, I know the local customs and habits, and I probably know who my mother will marry in the future.Knowing that her future life should be good, Zhou Lan still can't forget the years when her father died in the Central Plains. Those people scolded her and those malicious words, and she couldn't forget the panic at that time.

I can't forget the deepest worry hidden in my heart, fearing that I am a drag.Mother will be like those people said, when she can't bear it, she will give up on herself.At the same time, I was a little worried that after my mother gave birth to younger siblings, she would care less about herself and love her less.

After all, Qin Keqing called Zhou Lan into the room for a detailed discussion after going through the world, and finally explained Zhou Lan.Qin Keqing stroked the green snake on her wrist, and watched Zhou Lan walk away resolutely.

Just like what my master said, the fact that my mother remarried cannot be changed, so face it positively.

Zhou Lan cheered for herself from the bottom of her heart, besides, her mother's remarriage is good for both herself and her mother.

Besides, my mother cares so much about me, and I also hope that my mother will have an easy and happy life in the future.And as long as I get along well with them, that uncle should treat me well!

Even if he is pretending to be nice to himself now, it doesn't matter if he stops being nice to himself after he gets married to his mother.Just like the master said, I can treat myself twice as well.And I don't have power like before, if that uncle wants to do something to me, I want him to look good.

As for the issue of her mother's love for herself decreasing after she had a child, Zhou Lan had also thought about it carefully.Zhou Lan believes that her mother loves her. Even if she focuses more on her younger siblings in the future, her mother's love for her will not change.

Besides, when my mother remarried, I was already ten years old.Even if the mother becomes pregnant immediately after marriage, she will marry late, and when she gets married, her younger siblings will only be five or six years old at most.What can I and my little dolls earn? They are young and spend more time.

Zhou Lan thought that her mother would give birth to younger brothers and sisters after marriage, and thought of the cuteness of the children, Zhou Lan's resistance was not so serious in her heart.After all, Zhou Lan has been alone since she was a child, and she still envies those who have brothers and sisters.

And during the years of keeping filial piety in his hometown, the words of those people were still buried in Zhou Lan's heart.I heard grandma and the others say that if only I was a boy, my mother would not suffer so much.

The people of the clan clamored that she was a girl, and sooner or later she belonged to another family, so what right did she have to hold things from the Zhou clan.But the things at home are all slowly accumulated by the father and mother bit by bit, so what does it matter to the clan?He also said that he and his mother were both sinners, and did not leave a son for his father to inherit the incense.

And those neighbors who kindly helped their own family at the beginning also said that if there is a male in your family, the situation will be much better, and you also have hope.

Now, through Qin Keqing's indirect influence and the influence of local customs and customs, Zhou Lan no longer thinks that girls are inferior to boys.But there is still a secret hope in my heart that my mother will give birth to a younger brother for herself.

After Aunt Shao saw Zhou Lan coming back from Qin Keqing, her expression relaxed a lot, her tone and actions showed that her daughter had already looked away.He breathed a sigh of relief, thinking that he had to prepare something and bring it to Qin Keqing when his daughter went to Qin Keqing's place next time, as a thank you gift for enlightening her daughter.

After Qin Keqing knew the exact wedding date of Zhou Lan's mother, she still prepared a gift and sent it in advance.After all, after acquaintance, Zhou Lan has followed her to learn.

When Qin Keqing was still feeling relieved that Zhou Lan worked harder in her studies, she never thought that Zhou Lan's mother would cause a little trouble to herself not long after she got married.