[Red Mansion] Mrs. Lin, the Buddhist family
Chapter 21
The ancients believed that a harmonious intercourse between husband and wife is more conducive to conceiving children, and there is still a scientific basis for this.
Modern people eat a balanced diet and their living conditions are much better than those of ancient times. However, so many people want to have children, and there are still many couples who have been trying to conceive for more than a year and have not been able to conceive. The key is to go to the hospital for an examination and find nothing. fault.
Why?There is nothing wrong with them!
It's just that these couples can't even devote themselves to the intercourse because they remember to prepare for having children all the time.
Psychology will affect physiology, and it is not surprising that you will not be able to conceive in the end.
In her previous life, Jia Shu had seen many couples or couples who had never thought about having children, and took protective measures every time they had a relationship, but in the end they were able to conceive; but she also saw many people who wanted to have children. Too urgent, too nervous, but failed to conceive, and later resented and quarreled with each other, leading to divorce.
But after the divorce, each other quickly had children with their newlyweds, but it happened frequently.
At first, Jia Shu didn’t really understand this situation——
The people around her basically all conceived within one year of marriage, and if they are not afraid of fines, it is basically normal for them to have two children for three years.But seeing the tense state of those couples when they talked about their children, she gradually understood them.
When I first watched Dream of the Red Chamber, Jia Shu had a hard time understanding that Lin Ruhai and Jia Min were pregnant with Lin Daiyu when they were in their 30s. Later, when he discovered that the Lin family had never had many children, he barely had an answer.
But now, Lin's mother's attitude made Jia Shu unable to help wondering whether Lin's mother was like this in the past few years when Jia Min married Lin Ruhai in her previous life, she didn't care about anything, and even helped to promote Lin Ruhai's husband and wife relationship, but the only request , just let the couple conceive a child?
This pressure is too great.
The mother-in-law doesn't set rules for herself, and immediately delegates power to her to manage the backyard after she gets married, and doesn't interfere with her son's husband-wife relationship.
For example, giving his son a maid or something...
For the ancients, such a mother-in-law is really a first-class good mother-in-law.
But Mother Lin's only request to have a grandson early, Jia Min couldn't satisfy her, even though Mother Lin just mentioned it casually from time to time because of her urgency, she didn't have to let them get pregnant within a year or two—
The Lin family has passed down several generations, and most of the cases are middle-aged children. Mother Lin herself got the only seedling Lin Ruhai when she was in her 40s and [-]s. She must have been mentally prepared.
But can Jia Min's guilt and mental tension be alleviated?
The mother-in-law is so kind to her, there is only one request, but I can't do it...
People with a little bit of conscience can't feel at ease, right?
Now that Jia Min has married someone else, what can she do if Jia Shu is the one who bears this kind of sweet pain?of course……
Salad!
The Lin family was doomed to have no heirs, so why did she embarrass herself so hard?
Jia Shu didn't sacrifice himself for others, just because of a request from others that didn't have anything to do with survival, he ended up making himself miserable.
Lin Ruhai was moved by Lin's mother and wanted to send the gift to Jia's mansion by herself.
If he was still asleep in his room when he arrived at Rongguo Mansion, let alone the Lin family, even Rongguo Mansion, which is very conniving to her now, couldn't help but mutter, right?
Thinking of this, Jia Shu quickly flapped his wings and flew back to Rongguo Mansion.
Not long after she arrived in her room, someone came to report that Tanhua from the Lin family had personally arrived at Rongguo Mansion, brought her many gifts, and asked if she wanted to meet him.
Of course we want to meet!
If it weren't for Lin Mu's presence, the dozen or so pieces of jewelry that originally belonged to her might have been reduced to one piece. She was really curious about what Lin Ruhai thought.
Unfortunately, when she arrived at the Huxin Pavilion, Lin Ruhai was not there.
Holding the book full of worry: "The young master's superior sent someone to look for him temporarily, saying that he has something to look for today. In desperation, I have to let the servant wait here for Miss San."
Jia Shu was a little disappointed.
Holding the book, he quickly handed several wooden boxes to Cuiyan, and said at the same time: "This is a gift that the young master personally chose at Ruyifang. I hope the third lady will like it."
Jia Shu took it, and when he thought about what was inside, his mood immediately rose to the peak: "Thank you, young master, for me."
Holding the book, he nodded shyly and smiled embarrassedly.
-
Let's talk about Lin Ruhai.
Because he was too young when he passed the Jinshi examination, and he was outstanding in appearance, he had to get a candidate position, and because of this, he had to stay in the Imperial Academy as an editor.
The editor is just a low-level official, not worth mentioning, but his immediate boss, the Bachelor of the Academy, is a powerful official known as the "inner minister".
The boss wanted to see someone, so he had to drop everything in his hand to meet.
But Lin Ruhai didn't expect that the bachelor in charge of the academy didn't come to him because of business, but because he wanted to be a matchmaker for him.
Of course, he didn't have the courage to fight against Duke Rong, who was in the holy family, and he just wanted to give him a concubine as beautiful as a flower.The identity of this concubine's room is also very good——
One of the concubine's daughters of the head master himself.
Because he will be working under the master of the academy in the future, Lin Ruhai has long entrusted his former classmates and teachers to help him find out about him and the rumors related to him.Among them is the news related to this concubine daughter who was promised to him by the master of the school——
Beautiful as a flower, talented, dignified and virtuous...
In short, no matter what good words have been piled on her, she looks like a "talented woman".
It seemed that she was a perfect match for Lin Ruhai.
But Lin Ruhai's heart was full of turmoil: To be reasonable, before he got married, he would bring home a talented woman who was well-known and seemed to be more suitable for him. The key point was that his fiancée was obviously not a talented woman...
Does he want to die, or does he want to die?
No matter how stupid he is, he knows he can't do this, right?Isn't this really trampling on the face of his fiancée and future Yue's family?
Lin Ruhai was silent for a long time, but still felt that he was still young and didn't want to die young, so he immediately chose to refuse without hesitation.
The bachelor in charge was very upset: "Ruhai, although my daughter is incompetent, she has been studying since she was a child. Could it be that in your heart, she is not as good as a noble daughter with mud legs?"
What I said, if you don't pay attention, you will offend your immediate boss.
but……
In front of him, a noble queen, how did his boss say that Rong Guogong, a super-ranking duke, is a mud leg, and his daughter is not as good as the daughter of a second-rank academy master?
Modern people eat a balanced diet and their living conditions are much better than those of ancient times. However, so many people want to have children, and there are still many couples who have been trying to conceive for more than a year and have not been able to conceive. The key is to go to the hospital for an examination and find nothing. fault.
Why?There is nothing wrong with them!
It's just that these couples can't even devote themselves to the intercourse because they remember to prepare for having children all the time.
Psychology will affect physiology, and it is not surprising that you will not be able to conceive in the end.
In her previous life, Jia Shu had seen many couples or couples who had never thought about having children, and took protective measures every time they had a relationship, but in the end they were able to conceive; but she also saw many people who wanted to have children. Too urgent, too nervous, but failed to conceive, and later resented and quarreled with each other, leading to divorce.
But after the divorce, each other quickly had children with their newlyweds, but it happened frequently.
At first, Jia Shu didn’t really understand this situation——
The people around her basically all conceived within one year of marriage, and if they are not afraid of fines, it is basically normal for them to have two children for three years.But seeing the tense state of those couples when they talked about their children, she gradually understood them.
When I first watched Dream of the Red Chamber, Jia Shu had a hard time understanding that Lin Ruhai and Jia Min were pregnant with Lin Daiyu when they were in their 30s. Later, when he discovered that the Lin family had never had many children, he barely had an answer.
But now, Lin's mother's attitude made Jia Shu unable to help wondering whether Lin's mother was like this in the past few years when Jia Min married Lin Ruhai in her previous life, she didn't care about anything, and even helped to promote Lin Ruhai's husband and wife relationship, but the only request , just let the couple conceive a child?
This pressure is too great.
The mother-in-law doesn't set rules for herself, and immediately delegates power to her to manage the backyard after she gets married, and doesn't interfere with her son's husband-wife relationship.
For example, giving his son a maid or something...
For the ancients, such a mother-in-law is really a first-class good mother-in-law.
But Mother Lin's only request to have a grandson early, Jia Min couldn't satisfy her, even though Mother Lin just mentioned it casually from time to time because of her urgency, she didn't have to let them get pregnant within a year or two—
The Lin family has passed down several generations, and most of the cases are middle-aged children. Mother Lin herself got the only seedling Lin Ruhai when she was in her 40s and [-]s. She must have been mentally prepared.
But can Jia Min's guilt and mental tension be alleviated?
The mother-in-law is so kind to her, there is only one request, but I can't do it...
People with a little bit of conscience can't feel at ease, right?
Now that Jia Min has married someone else, what can she do if Jia Shu is the one who bears this kind of sweet pain?of course……
Salad!
The Lin family was doomed to have no heirs, so why did she embarrass herself so hard?
Jia Shu didn't sacrifice himself for others, just because of a request from others that didn't have anything to do with survival, he ended up making himself miserable.
Lin Ruhai was moved by Lin's mother and wanted to send the gift to Jia's mansion by herself.
If he was still asleep in his room when he arrived at Rongguo Mansion, let alone the Lin family, even Rongguo Mansion, which is very conniving to her now, couldn't help but mutter, right?
Thinking of this, Jia Shu quickly flapped his wings and flew back to Rongguo Mansion.
Not long after she arrived in her room, someone came to report that Tanhua from the Lin family had personally arrived at Rongguo Mansion, brought her many gifts, and asked if she wanted to meet him.
Of course we want to meet!
If it weren't for Lin Mu's presence, the dozen or so pieces of jewelry that originally belonged to her might have been reduced to one piece. She was really curious about what Lin Ruhai thought.
Unfortunately, when she arrived at the Huxin Pavilion, Lin Ruhai was not there.
Holding the book full of worry: "The young master's superior sent someone to look for him temporarily, saying that he has something to look for today. In desperation, I have to let the servant wait here for Miss San."
Jia Shu was a little disappointed.
Holding the book, he quickly handed several wooden boxes to Cuiyan, and said at the same time: "This is a gift that the young master personally chose at Ruyifang. I hope the third lady will like it."
Jia Shu took it, and when he thought about what was inside, his mood immediately rose to the peak: "Thank you, young master, for me."
Holding the book, he nodded shyly and smiled embarrassedly.
-
Let's talk about Lin Ruhai.
Because he was too young when he passed the Jinshi examination, and he was outstanding in appearance, he had to get a candidate position, and because of this, he had to stay in the Imperial Academy as an editor.
The editor is just a low-level official, not worth mentioning, but his immediate boss, the Bachelor of the Academy, is a powerful official known as the "inner minister".
The boss wanted to see someone, so he had to drop everything in his hand to meet.
But Lin Ruhai didn't expect that the bachelor in charge of the academy didn't come to him because of business, but because he wanted to be a matchmaker for him.
Of course, he didn't have the courage to fight against Duke Rong, who was in the holy family, and he just wanted to give him a concubine as beautiful as a flower.The identity of this concubine's room is also very good——
One of the concubine's daughters of the head master himself.
Because he will be working under the master of the academy in the future, Lin Ruhai has long entrusted his former classmates and teachers to help him find out about him and the rumors related to him.Among them is the news related to this concubine daughter who was promised to him by the master of the school——
Beautiful as a flower, talented, dignified and virtuous...
In short, no matter what good words have been piled on her, she looks like a "talented woman".
It seemed that she was a perfect match for Lin Ruhai.
But Lin Ruhai's heart was full of turmoil: To be reasonable, before he got married, he would bring home a talented woman who was well-known and seemed to be more suitable for him. The key point was that his fiancée was obviously not a talented woman...
Does he want to die, or does he want to die?
No matter how stupid he is, he knows he can't do this, right?Isn't this really trampling on the face of his fiancée and future Yue's family?
Lin Ruhai was silent for a long time, but still felt that he was still young and didn't want to die young, so he immediately chose to refuse without hesitation.
The bachelor in charge was very upset: "Ruhai, although my daughter is incompetent, she has been studying since she was a child. Could it be that in your heart, she is not as good as a noble daughter with mud legs?"
What I said, if you don't pay attention, you will offend your immediate boss.
but……
In front of him, a noble queen, how did his boss say that Rong Guogong, a super-ranking duke, is a mud leg, and his daughter is not as good as the daughter of a second-rank academy master?
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