Shanshan is here sequel Shanshan is here

Under Xue Shanshan's repeated demands, Feng Teng has no choice but to return the power of educating the child to the child's mother.

Xue Shanshan bought Xiao Xiaofeng some decent clothes, and thought to herself: If I say I can't teach children, isn't that just teaching children to endure hardship?What's so difficult about it?We rural people will suffer the most.

After eating, all the vegetarian dishes are placed in front of the small cover, and the meat dishes are put aside.

"Our Eggy has to learn to bear hardships since childhood, and eat more vegetables to grow well!

As a result, Xiao Xiaofeng can only eat green vegetables every day, Feng Teng is very anxious when he sees him, he reminds Shanshan to pay attention to the child needs nutrition when he is still young, but Xue Shanshan just doesn't listen.

She said she grew up eating vegetables.

So Feng Teng secretly feeds Xiao Feng eggs and drinks milk... because eggs are born of chickens, they have the nutrition of a whole chicken, and so does milk.

I just don't know what to do if this is not the case?Eggy won't get sick, right?Feng Teng thinks about it.

In winter, every morning at [-]:[-], Shanshan calls Xiaofeng up to exercise.

Feng Teng said that he was afraid that Xiao Xiaofeng would suffer from the cold, Xue Shanshan said that other athletes are like this, practicing in winter and summer in summer.

Feng Teng has no choice but to exercise with Xiao Xiaofeng.

Every day, Xiaofeng has to read, write, and do housework within his ability, and he is not allowed to play. It is said that he has strict requirements on Xiaofeng since he was a child.

If Xiao Xiaofeng is disobedient, he will hit him.

Usually, he said to Xiao Xiaofeng with a cold and serious face that he wanted to be a teacher.

Xiaofeng went to kindergarten. Once, during an activity held by the kindergarten, Xiaofeng fell while running and dragged down the class.

The injured Xiao Xiaofeng cried guiltily.

Xue Shanshan frowned and said dissatisfiedly to him: "What's the use of crying, usually you are required to exercise seriously and you don't exercise seriously, and now you have made a mistake! You don't have the guts to cry if you don't reflect on yourself?"

Xiao Xiaofeng cried even more when he heard this.

The teacher and classmates couldn't stand it anymore, and they all came to comfort Xiao Xiaofeng.

But Xue Shanshan said: "He just suffers less, I just want to educate him so that he will have a long memory!"

After returning home, Shanshan gave Xiaofeng the medicine.

After Feng Teng knew about this matter and Xue Shanshan's attitude, he sighed and said: "Even if the child does not succeed, we should give him the necessary praise and affirmation to help him build up strong self-confidence, so that he Have the courage to face the ordeal again."

"There are many hardships in life, so it's good to learn to endure hardships since childhood, but we can't impose our own ideas on our children, deliberately do things that make him uncomfortable and we can't force him to endure hardships, let alone Leave him alone in the face of difficulties, ignore and ignore him. Otherwise, when the child really encounters hardships, he will feel lost, alone and overwhelmed, thinking that he has been abandoned by us, which will lead to insecurity and lose confidence in yourself.

Therefore, when we are educating children, we must first change some of our own ideas. Don’t always take it for granted that children obey our ideas. We should give children more choices and freedom, and try to let him do what he likes and is interested in. We should also pay attention to the child's actions, and give him timely help and support when he needs it, and let him know that we are always by his side and are his reliable "backer". The desire to really generate the strength to get up after falling. "

Xue Shanshan opened her mouth wide after hearing this.

"It's not what I said, it's what is said in the book, how is it? I did my homework well, right?" Feng Teng laughed.