Jia She of the Red Chamber

Jia Min gave birth to a son, and his whole person has changed. He is more calm than before. He doesn't care about the family affairs, and he watches over his son all day long. He wakes up for fear of starving, and sleeps for fear of cold. with.

Not to mention those idle things, even Lin Ruhai, her husband, she didn't care much about. Later, after Shi Shi's advice, she put her energy on her husband.

Fortunately, Lin Ruhai himself was always staring at his son, and he didn't think there was any big problem with his wife's behavior. Now his son is the most important thing, and he is the heart and soul of the Lin family. If there is something troublesome about him, The whole family can't count on An Sheng, so Lin Ruhai thinks there is nothing wrong with his wife doing this.

It was precisely because of this that although Jia Min ignored her husband for a while, there was no major problem in the relationship between husband and wife. This can be regarded as the different styles of different families.

It was easy to talk between Jia Min and Lin Ruhai. The most important thing was that although Lin's mother loved her precious grandson very much, it was not an exaggeration to treat her as an eyeball, but she had a complicated expression on her grandson's mother.

Although this Jia Min is impeccable in terms of family background, appearance and temperament, but if a person looks at you and is not pleasing to the eye, then it must be in every possible way. No matter how good you are, she can be picky Be picky for a while, not to mention that there is no perfect person in this world, and no one can be 100% satisfactory.

These different growing environments and living habits have created differences between Jia Min and the Lin family in some areas. These can be the reason for Lin's mother to pick on her daughter-in-law. Jia Min thinks that if this is the case, then I will not please you. How useful it is, with that time, she might as well spend more time with her precious son.

Now, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is more delicate, and even Lin Ruhai can find the spark in it.

But now Lin's mother doesn't have many places to control her daughter-in-law. Shi's brainwashing, although this scholarly family is noble, what does being noble mean?

Poor!

Even after she got married, she found that the Lin family was not as poor as her mother said, but after having such preconceived ideas, she still looked down on the family background of the Lin family, and she was not so concerned about the general affairs of the mansion.

Now that she has a son, she is even less interested in things outside of her body. She is really a bit innocent, anyway, she doesn't have to worry about food and drink. The child will live comfortably on his own dowry for the rest of his life. What about his future? , of course there is his father, no matter how bad it is, there is also his mother's family.

His father is the Duke of the State, and his elder brother is also a student of the imperial examination. As long as he does not risk his life, the Rongguo Mansion and his elder brother will become his reliance for the rest of his life, and even his children's reliance, so Jia Min became more open-minded and calm. .

Lin's mother has to be busy with these trivial matters at home, and also loves her grandson. It's okay for a day or two, but after a long time, she really can't bear it.

At this time, the elder brother of the Lin family, Xiao Shuanzi, was already half a year old. The old lady thought about what she had heard a few days ago about the behavior of Jia's natal Shi family, and she felt that she could also imitate a cat.

What did Smith do again?

She just brought her one-year-old third sister, Yuan Chun, into her own house to raise. This reason is ready-made. After all, a daughter-in-law has to take care of both her son and her granddaughter, and she is always too tired. She is a mother-in-law. How can you bear it?

As for the two of the big house, they have already gone to their natal family to enlighten, what else can Shi Shi say?

The only child in this house is Yuan Chun, the second daughter. The third girl was also named by Shi Shi. She wants to adopt a granddaughter. No one in this house will oppose her.

Dai Shan and the head of the house had an indifferent attitude, but Jia Zheng wished his mother would do this. The only one who had an opinion was Mrs. Wang. Unfortunately, she was facing her mother-in-law and her husband. Odds.

Wang hugged her mellow daughter and cried all night. On the second morning, after breakfast, she carried her to the wife's yard.

Looking at her red and swollen eyes, her haggardness that couldn't be covered by makeup, Shi Shi thought of her past.

The eldest was also taken away by that old man when he was one year old. Since then, the mother and son have never been close. Even now, there is a deep gap between the mother and son.

"Don't worry, I'll look after Miss Yuan for you. Come and see her after you're done. She's a piece of meat that fell from your body, and no one can take it away."

Listening to her mother-in-law's kind comfort, Wang Shi did not show any gratitude. If it is really impossible to take it away, then why is the uncle in the mansion not close to his wife?

Isn't it because the uncle didn't grow up beside his wife, but was raised by the old lady who passed away?

She is actually a little lucky now, thanks to her son's enlightenment, whether it is father-in-law, uncle or husband, they attach great importance to his son's education, so this old man can't get in his hands, otherwise, who knows if his son will He was also drawn away by this old man, and at that time, he would not be able to find a place even if he cried.

Thinking about it this way, Mrs. Wang felt a little bit lucky. Although it only happened for a moment, this kind of thought did exist.However, Mrs. Wang also knows that this kind of thought can't be revealed at all.

"Look at what the old lady said, this is not what a daughter-in-law should do. Sister Yuan should have been sent here long ago. Think about our aunt's demeanor. If Sister Yuan can learn the three-point demeanor of Aunt Min, I will And just laughed."

"Look at your small mouth, you will coax the sparrows on the tree down, but my Min'er is indeed extraordinary, raised with gold and jade, alas, you know your master has something for Min'er I love you so much, if the stars don’t give the moon, you will know my Min’er..."

Listening to "Min'er" and "Min'er", Mrs. Wang was about to spit out in disgust. Who cares about listening to the crap about "shit Min'er"?But at this moment, Mrs. Wang didn't interrupt Mrs. Shi's showing off, and listened with a smile on her face, echoing a few words from time to time.

After this conversation, the relationship between Shi Shi and Wang has grown by leaps and bounds. One intends to show off, while the other intends to flatter. It would be strange if the relationship is not good.

After Jia Min heard about her mother's adoption of her granddaughter, she sent someone back to persuade her mother that there was really no need to do this. The mother is getting old, and she just needs to take good care of her body in the future. Why do you have to suffer? Tired?

But it's a pity that since Shi Shi did it, she naturally wouldn't listen to her daughter's persuasion. She hugged a granddaughter to her side just to pass the time. Who knows her suffering?

Although the yard and the house were full of people, and people were calling for servants to come in and out, unfortunately, she still often felt that the whole yard was empty like a cemetery, without any life.

Now that Yuan Chun is brought over, even though he is only one year old, it is different after all, there is a child chirping, the room is a bit lively, and it will not be as empty as before.

My daughter is young, how can she realize how she feels now?But her daughter is filial to herself, she is also happy and satisfied, so Shi Shi sent people to send many things to her daughter and grandson.

Although the little man is the blood of the Lin family, because of Jia Min, Shi's impression of the little man is good, and he will send things over from time to time.

It was precisely because of this contact that Lin's mother knew what Shi was doing. Since Shi could do it, so could she. After all, Xiao Shuanzi was also his own grandson, the eldest grandson of the Lin family.

In addition, the uncle of the Rongguo Mansion, wasn't Jia's elder brother also brought up by the old matriarch of the Guogong Mansion?

Thinking about it this way, Lin's mother became more and more anxious. She was not only worried about Jia's disapproval of adopting the child, but she was most afraid of her son's disapproval.

How could she not understand Lin Ruhai's temperament when she raised the grown-up child by herself?That is a silly boy, now being coaxed by his daughter-in-law, Lin's mother feels a little sad when she thinks about it.

She pulled the older child with one hand, and now it belongs to another woman, and she is thinking about his wife all day long, and she doesn't kiss herself anymore.

This makes Lin Mu, who lost her husband in her early years and endured hardships and humiliation to raise her son to grow up, how can she be reconciled, one can imagine the bitterness in her heart.

Since Jia Min snatched her son away, so she took her child to raise, is this also a reasonable thing that can be said in the past?Anyway, that's how it should be settled.

Lin's mother's strong logic and mind are also admirable.

Lin Ruhai, who went back to the government office, was very embarrassed when he heard his mother's words. He knew better than anyone else that Jia Min attached great importance to his son. Taking the child away from Jia Min's side, didn't it cost her half his life?

But looking at the hope on his mother's face, the words of rejection jumped on the tip of his tongue several times, but every time he could only swallow it.

"Mother, that's it, I'll go back and discuss it with Min'er..."

Lin Ruhai had no choice but to use dragging formulas in the end. He must give himself and his wife a buffer.

Although she could understand her son's embarrassment, Mother Lin still couldn't help but feel a little disappointed. This is her son, why would she be snatched away by another woman?

After Lin Ruhai left, Mother Lin's complexion was not very good, and she only showed a bit of sadness after driving everyone out.

Sure enough, just as Lin Ruhai thought, it was too whimsical for his mother to think that way. Just as he made a statement, Jia Min's face was already covered with tears. Don't mention others, Lin Ruhai's child alone is reluctant to bear it.

In the Yamen during the day, whenever he thinks of his fat son, he can't help but smile, let alone after returning home, hugging his son and making him babble, Lin Ruhai only feels that he The fatigue of the day dissipated completely.

"Oh, I know you are reluctant, and I am also reluctant. But mother... Forget it, let me talk to mother, she should be able to understand us. "

After a while, Lin Ruhai made up his mind and said to Jia Min.

"Will this embarrass my husband too much? But I really don't want to part with Xiao Shuanzi. Just thinking about him leaving me, I feel like I'm going to die of pain."

The pretty Jia Min has done a good job in showing weakness to men. You can tell by looking at her elder brother. Men are almost all virtuous.

So at this moment, Lin Ruhai has already jumped out on his own initiative.

"Well, I have to try it anyway. After all, my mother is getting old. Let's take it easy and take more children to accompany her. How about that?"

"No problem, you also know that I never stopped my mother from seeing her son..."

Jia Min hugged his son with a smile on his face.

Lin Ruhai sighed silently in her heart, try anyway.

Listening to her son's words, Lin's mother felt ashamed again from the bottom of her heart. This is her own son. That woman Jia Min is also very powerful, and her son was snatched away by her.

"Okay, I'm tired and need to rest, you go back."

Mother Lin didn't say anything, and directly kicked her son out. Lin Ruhai felt uncomfortable in her heart, and was in a dilemma. The man in the crack was so pitiful.

"In the future, you will take over the general affairs of the mansion and let your mother rest more. When you are busy, send your son to your mother's yard and let her take care of it. How about that?"

After thinking hard for several days, Lin Ruhai finally came up with a compromise solution. Although there is no way to have the best of both worlds, at least it can take care of both.

"Let's wait until the son is one year old. He will be considered an adult at that time. Send him to his mother as a filial piety. At that time, I will take over from my mother. How about this? After all, the child is still too young and his body is too weak. Don't worry. Besides, if there is any movement in him, it will disturb the mother so she can't rest, right? The most important thing is, I don't want to embarrass you..."

But he didn't want to, his wife gave him such a big surprise and touch, Lin Ruhai didn't know what to say for a while, he felt his throat was tight, his heart was agitated, and no words seemed to be able to express his feelings.

After hugging his wife for a while, Lin Ruhai reluctantly let her go, and strode out to find his mother to announce the good news.

Jia Min looked at his back, expressionless for a long time, but then smiled slowly.

It seems that sister-in-law is right, man...

Mother Lin was really happy after hearing her son's plan. She counted with her fingers how long it would take for her grandson to catch up with him. Taking advantage of this gap, her house can be reorganized to ensure that her precious grandson can live comfortably Only when it is done.

From this moment on, Jia Min finally let go of her girlish heart and those illusory thoughts, and began to develop towards a qualified mistress.

The grievance and suffering here are probably only known to her.

Mrs. Zhang thought about those innocent and beautiful girls, and then looked at Jia Min today, and felt very sad.

But Jia She felt that the daughter-in-law was too free and full of energy, that's why she had the spare time to worry about this and that.

She couldn't even see such a living person like herself in front of her, so it was unreasonable to have to worry about others, she had to teach her a lesson so that her memory would improve.

The sadness in Zhang's heart dissipated quickly, and Jia She on the bed was always vicious, like a hungry wolf who couldn't get enough to eat.

The sweet talk between the husband and wife, the maids serving outside endured their shame, and they couldn't walk away, because the inner room will definitely ask for hot water later.

Jia She is too lazy to worry about the affairs of other people's family, he only wants his own family to be safe and happy.

Touching his wife's smooth back, Jia She said with a smile,

"Otherwise, you have another one. The two of our family are grown up, and it's not fun at all. Let's have another girl. She's a good girl, so she won't be worrying like a naughty boy."

"What nonsense are you talking about? My daughter isn't naughty yet? She's just about to demolish Zhang's mansion."

Thinking about her boss, Mrs. Zhang felt annoyed for a while. Her daughter has grown into such a lawless temperament. All of this is her husband's fault. If he hadn't pampered her all the time, how could her daughter go to heaven and earth to mess around?

"Uh, look, it's all the fault of the father-in-law and the mother-in-law. They love the younger generation..."

Seeing his daughter-in-law's half-smile, Jia She really couldn't say that.

"My daughter is so good, she is so brave and heroic, and she will definitely be a woman who is not inferior to a man in the future."

In the end, Jia Amnesty said proudly.

"It's right not to lose to a man. I don't know what our daughter is good at, but you have thought that if you don't raise her heart as high as you are now, what about the future? Is my daughter willing to marry and have children? Willing to be like other people Do those girls care for their husbands and children?"

Zhang Shi didn't expect it to be so far-reaching, it was his mother's reminder.

She also dotes on her daughter and hopes that everything goes well for her, but as a parent, she can't just look at the front, but take a long-term view.

Now that the girl is still young, she should be stricter, and her temperament can still be overcome, but what if it takes a few more years?At that time, even if I cried, I couldn't find the grave.

"Oh, that makes sense. Don't worry about getting angry. Let me think about it. After all, my daughter is still young and she is too restrained. I believe in my daughter."

After hearing Mrs. Zhang's words, Jia She came back to his senses after a long while, and said with a forced smile.

Seeing that he realized the seriousness of the problem, Mrs. Zhang stopped talking and shut up.

In the days that followed, it was Jia Shen's turn to worry. Sure enough, his daughter was different from other people, and also different from his younger sisters.

But every time he saw the radiant face of his daughter, Jia She could only swallow the words that came to his lips. Such a daughter is really good, very good!

Mrs. Zhang also knows that such a girl is very good, she is very free, she can do whatever she wants, this kind of freedom has created such a beautiful girl.

Coupled with her father's teachings, the daughter is even more amazing, but if this continues, can she return to the back house?Can you still be willing to help your husband and teach your children?

Mrs. Zhang has never tasted this kind of freedom, but she is enviable looking at her daughter, let alone a daughter who is enjoying this kind of life now. She is definitely not willing to have her wings broken, and then return. The back house is such a palm-sized world.

The relationship between the daughter and her husband is the best, and the daughter has grown into what she is now, which has a lot to do with her husband's connivance, so Mrs. Zhang handed over the decision-making power to her husband and let him make the decision.

Jia Amnesty observed for a lot of days, but she still couldn't open her mouth. In the end, Jia Na found out that something was wrong with her father, so she took the initiative to find Jia Amnesty.

Although the girl will keep her head, Jia She never treats her as a child, so he told his wife and his own troubles and worries to his daughter,

"...So have you thought about your future? Do you have any plans?"

This is the first time that my father has talked about such a heavy topic with me so seriously, and Jana herself is also a little heavy.

If she is a man, then such qualifications will definitely be vigorously cultivated by the family. In the future, it will be no problem whether she becomes an official through the imperial examination or becomes an official with grace.She can indeed rely on her ability to lead the family forward and keep Jia's glory.

It's a pity that I am now a daughter, and as a daughter's family, chastity is the main priority, and I don't pay attention to talent, and even appearance is not the most important thing.In the future, relying on my own posture and the love of my parents, I will be able to marry a good person, and then I will support my husband and teach my children all my life, and manage the housework, just like my own mother.

But this kind of life is not what she wants. She never thought that she would be like her mother, dealing with mother-in-law and sister-in-law, staring at the account books, and making people deal with all kinds of affairs in the house with the right cards .

"I don't know for the time being. I have to say, father, you mentioned it too suddenly. I'm not prepared at all, but I'm pretty sure that I don't want to live like my mother for the rest of my life..."

What he said was a bit rebellious, and it sounded like a fantasy, but Jia She did not reprimand his daughter for such rebellious words, he also sighed heavily,

"It doesn't matter. After all, you are still young. No matter what, the superficial effort should be done, which is to reassure your mother. Is that good?"

Jia She doesn't want to force his daughter to do things that she doesn't like, but in life, what he fears most is other people's tongue, no matter what, his daughter must not be the object of gossip.

"Okay, I will listen to my father."

Jana naturally understands the fearful truth of people's words. She is not very old now, and her grandpa and parents pamper her, so she can always use her age as an excuse, but how many years later?

She also doesn't want her parents to be criticized, it's obviously her own fault, there's really no need for others to talk about her parents.

"It's good to understand. As for the future, let me think about it again. There is always a way..."

Both father and daughter knew that this was just an excuse. Obviously, Jia She has no way to solve this problem at present, but it is indeed like what Jia She said, anyway, it can be delayed for a few years, so take your time.

Although Jana has returned to her previous lawlessness on the surface, she has also started to follow her mother to learn what a daughter should learn, housekeeping, communication...