Baochai is a happy wife [Red Mansion]

After Xue Baoqin married into the Mei family, she felt that the Mei family had a lot of things to do, especially Mrs. Mei's first daughter, Mei Ermei.

The second girl Mei likes to get things from Xue Baoqin, even if she was rejected by Xue Baoqin several times, she still asked later.She is very thick-skinned, if Xue Baoqin doesn't give it, she will go to Mrs. Mei and say it.

Xue Baoqin is not stupid either, naturally it is impossible to give all those things to Miss Mei Er.What kind of thing is Miss Mei Er, how can she want her things casually.

It’s okay to give a little, but to give so much, when someone else’s dowry makes money by yourself, how much will you change yourself?

Even if Xue Baoqin has a shop in her hand, it does not belong to the Mei family, but to Xue Baoqin herself.Even her husband is not allowed to ask more questions, what is the second girl Mei asking.

"Mother." Xue Baoqin said right in front of Mrs. Mei, "My husband and I are also going to have children, and those things are always reserved for your grandson. It's not that the daughter-in-law doesn't give it to the younger sister. There really aren't that many things to give."

Mrs. Mei of course hoped that Xue Baoqin would give something to her daughter, but when she thought of her unborn grandson, she hesitated.

"My daughter-in-law often goes out, and people outside also see what pearl hairpins her daughter-in-law is wearing on her head. If I give them to my younger sister, what will people outside think?" How could Xue Baoqin not know Mrs. Mei's thoughts, and this one also loves to take advantage of her? Otherwise, she would not have raised such a daughter.

Are other people's things so easy to get? Xue Baoqin doesn't like Miss Mei Er.

Other people's things are other people's, not theirs.

Xue Baoqin smiled, "If my sister is not afraid of people talking, it's okay to give her a few, but I can't empty my dowry. My husband is still a scholar, don't let her reputation be ruined."

It's about his own interests, Xue Baoqin's husband naturally can't let Xue Baoqin always give things to Miss Mei, and Miss Mei will always marry off in the future.Young Master Mei knew in his heart that Xue Baoqin was a girl from the Xue family, and he had some money in his hands, so he could manage it for him in the future.

Young Master Mei is not stupid enough to want to use other people's things, but it is not good for others.If he didn't treat Xue Baoqin better, how could Xue Baoqin help him wholeheartedly.They are a husband and wife, and they are one body, so they can't just use it lightly.

If the husband and wife only use it, it won't last long.

It can be said that Master Mei really has plans, as long as the Xue family does not fall, it is impossible for Master Mei to treat Xue Baoqin badly.And as long as Xue Baoqin is his regular wife, no matter whether the Xue family has fallen or not, he can't treat Xue Baoqin badly, he still cherishes his feathers very much, as for the second girl Mei.

Young Master Mei felt that his younger sister was too capable of messing around with things, and always wanted to take advantage of it. How could there be such a good thing in the world.

Where is that younger sister taking advantage of Xue Baoqin, she is also taking advantage of his elder brother, and taking advantage of his unborn child.The relationship between brother and sister is no better than the relationship between husband and wife, father and son, father and daughter.

Especially the relationship between the young master Mei and the second girl Mei is not so good. The reason why the relationship between the two of them is not so good is mainly because the second girl Mei is spoiled.Second Miss Mei also liked to ask young master Mei about things before, but he didn't have that much money, and those jewelry were more expensive.

After coming and going again and again, Master Mei also felt that the second girl Mei was very annoying.

After Xue Baoqin said those words to Mrs. Mei, Young Master Mei also went to find Mrs. Mei alone.

"Mother, are you going to ruin your son's future?" Young Master Mei asked Mrs. Mei like that, "Man, how can you cheat your wife's dowry money all the time? My sister is getting married too, is she going to use her sister-in-law's dowry to get married?" ? You don’t need to care about your future granddaughter, what about your future grandson? What about my son? "

Master Mei directly asked Mrs. Mei who was more important.

Of course, Mrs. Mei cannot say that her daughter is more important, and she will have to rely on her son in the future.

"Baoqin, she..."

"It's not what she said to her son." Young Master Mei said, "Before my son got married, don't you know how much my sister asked for from my son? It's like an elder brother caring about his sister, but he didn't cut down on food and money himself When I went out to socialize, I bought her jewelry. Some of my son’s classmates have less contact with each other. Isn’t that because my son has no money to go out?”

"This……"

"When my son was having tea with his classmates, my younger sister asked him to bring something for her. How could my son say no?" Young Master Mei was particularly disgusted by his younger sister's behavior. She deliberately said those things in front of others. He had to agree.

Young Master Mei thought he wanted to give it away, so that's okay.The key is that I don't want to give it away, but my sister still does it, saying that when others are around, making it hard for me to get off.

He has always done a good job on the surface, and he can't behave badly in front of people outside.His younger sister took advantage of this, and of course it was impossible for Young Master Mei to give up all his previous efforts because of his younger sister.

It's been a long time and the number of times has increased, how could it be possible for Young Master Mei to love his sister as much as before.

"Why didn't you say it before?" Mrs. Mei especially hoped that her son would be successful, and when she heard her son say such things, she became very anxious, for fear that her daughter would affect her son's future.

"That's because you love her, and she is my younger sister, so how can I say that?" Young Master Mei said, "If she has so many now, how will she marry in the future? Do we still want our family? Is it okay for my son to flatter her like that?" , your daughter-in-law can too, but we can't let our children lose their things."

Seeing the bleak expression on her son's face, Mrs. Mei cried out inwardly.In order not to let her son separate from her, she could only ask her daughter to restrain herself a little.

It's just that the second girl Mei could restrain herself, it's impossible, she thought that Xue Baoqin was speaking ill of her in front of Mrs. Mei and Young Master Mei, and went to find Xue Baoqin, almost starting a fight.

This matter was known by Mei Hanlin, and Mei Hanlin was very angry, but he didn't dare to touch Xue Baoqin. Xue Baoqin was from Xue's family, so he could only lock up his daughter and let her reflect.

Before the Mei family left Beijing, the Mei family wanted to marry the second girl Mei in the capital, so as to gain some connections.

However, Mrs. Mei and Mei Hanlin are not willing to marry the Mei family, and those people are not optimistic about the second girl Mei.And those families who came to ask for marriage are all crooked. Mei Hanlin is not willing, he still thinks that his future son-in-law can use it a little.

In the end, when the Mei family left Beijing, the second girl Mei was not engaged.Originally, there was a man who agreed verbally, but the family didn't know where they learned about Miss Mei Er's true character, so they didn't come to propose marriage, and directly engaged a girl from another family, saying it was the girl The grandfather made a baby kiss, and their parents didn't know it.Even so, it's not good to ruin the baby.

It can be said that Miss Mei's marriage is not so easy to talk about. When Mei Hanlin came out of Beijing to be the magistrate, he would be the magistrate in a relatively remote and not so rich place.

Wuzhou is where Mei Hanlin went, and Mei Hanlin became the prefect of Mei.This place is to the northwest, and the place is relatively poor.

The Mei family themselves came from a poor background, so when they met with sending money to their door, they would inevitably be tempted.Young Master Mei was not tempted, so he went to tell his father not to be fooled, if he got corrupted, this matter would be difficult to handle.

As long as my father doesn't get involved in corruption and becomes the magistrate safely, there will always be a time when he can be promoted.

Just because Mrs. Mei doesn't do it, doesn't mean Mrs. Mei doesn't do it.

The second girl Mei also urged Mrs. Mei to accept the gift, but they still had to tell Mrs. Mei, because Mrs. Mei was in charge.Mrs. Mei explained that those people should not show favoritism, and Mrs. Mei and the second girl Mei are both people in the inner house, so how can they do so many things.

When Mrs. Mei knew what Mrs. Mei and Miss Mei had done, she was very angry.As the son analyzed, as long as he is a stable official, the Mei family and the Xue family are related by marriage, and the Xue family has various relationships, the life of the Mei family will not be bad.

"Confused!" Mrs. Mei said coldly.

Later, Miss Mei Er was married off.

It is impossible for Mr. Mei to tolerate the second girl Mei ruining his future, and Mrs. Mei was also frightened by Mrs. Mei's cold expression.

After the second girl Mei got married, her husband's family was not particularly rich, and she was a scholar, how could she know so much about making a living.Miss Mei Er felt that her husband was not as competitive as her husband's brother. She liked to fight when she was at her husband's house, and she liked to collect things when she came to her mother's house.

Xue Baoqin didn't pay much attention to this second aunt. She was already married, so it was even more impossible for her to give him things at will, and she wanted to leave those things to her children.

Mrs. Mei was kind to her daughter, and she still gave her something.

It's just that the hearts of the people are not enough to swallow the elephant. After the second girl Mei got married, she always complained when she returned to her natal family, and sometimes said that Mrs. Mei was stingy.This made Mrs. Mei very speechless. How could she be stingy, because the family really didn't have that many things. Although she was in charge of Zhongfu, she didn't have as much money as Xue Baoqin.

Xue Baoqin said that Mrs. Mei spoiled her daughter too much.

Mei Hanlin, the prefect of Mei, is not a particularly capable person, so he has been a prefect all his life.The second girl Mei was almost divorced by her husband's family, and Mrs. Mei took Xue Baoqin there, so to put it bluntly, they didn't divorce the second girl Mei. After that, the second girl Mei restrained a lot.

Which sister-in-law would tolerate a younger brother and sister who caused her to have a miscarriage? Miss Mei Er and her husband were separated.Mrs. Mei didn't bother with her daughter's affairs anymore, and knew she couldn't just indulge her.

Later, Xue Baoqin's husband won the Jinshi examination, sought an official position, and became a county magistrate.Xue Baoqin also went to other places with her husband. Although her husband didn't climb to a high position and didn't have an extreme official, he treated her very well.

How could Xue Baoqin not know that it was because of the Xue family's ability, but there are not so many selfless things in this world.

Life can be stable and smooth, so why bother to think about what the other party originally thought.

A little bit of confusion is not necessarily bad.

"Mother." Xue Baoqin's son went to the bamboo forest to look for Xue Baoqin, "It's time to go back."

"Okay." Xue Baoqin likes bamboo forests and the tenacity of bamboo. She wants to be so tenacious.

People don't need to compare with others, and they don't necessarily need deep love. The important thing is whether they can see clearly, and whether they can grasp this family.Only when you understand it, grasp it, and relax your heart, can you be happier and sweeter.