Baochai is a happy wife [Red Mansion]

It is very difficult for Lin Daiyu to change this kind of physique. There are girls who play with her, but everyone is married, and there are only a few who have a good relationship.Not to mention, even when those girls were not married, there were fewer and fewer people hanging out with Lin Daiyu.

The main reason is that Lin Daiyu's red eyes shed tears. Once or twice is okay, but if the number of times is too many, people will think whether she is sentimental and whether her reputation will be ruined, saying that they bullied Lin Daiyu.

Haven't you noticed that Xue Baochai and Lin Daiyu don't get close to each other very much? Even Princess Ninghe is not very close to Lin Daiyu now.Of course, it can be said that these two people were married, so they didn't get close to Lin Daiyu much, but when they were not married, they didn't get very close either.

Don't look at how Ning and the princess were close to everyone at the beginning, but didn't Ning and the princess keep Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai away from each other.Those girls now feel that it is because of Lin Daiyu's body that is prone to tears, especially when the men see it, they feel that they have bullied Lin Daiyu.

Even some sympathetic women feel that others have bullied Lin Daiyu.

Lin Daiyu was also melancholy, she didn't say that others bullied her, what did those people say.This also led to the fact that after Lin Daiyu grew up, she did not have as many friends as before, and more of them were nodding acquaintances, and those in this circle, everyone needed to meet and attend a banquet.

"Be at ease." Jia Min didn't think of a good solution at the moment. She couldn't let Lin Daiyu speak loudly, so she should refute loudly. It's useless.

With Lin Daiyu's physique, coupled with her soft and weak voice, it is more like being bullied, but she still wants to speak well of others.

Jia Min sometimes feels melancholy about this, if her daughter doesn't have such a physique, it would be great.A man's sympathy and a woman's affectionate expression, placed in the main room, sometimes make people feel petty.

Even if you are grand, but when people look at your expression, they think you are weak, you don't look like a wife, you are pitiful, you are innocent, you...

Anyway, people might think: Come on, come on, I can't afford to mess with it, I can always hide it.

"En." Lin Daiyu nodded slightly, and now that's all she can do.

On New Year's Eve, Xue Baochai and Situ Jin had a good time, and the cook cooked pretty good meals.Xue Baochai would also eat a few meals in private and eat more spiritual fruits, so he didn't tell Situ Jin about it.

On the second day of junior high school, Xue Baochai and Situ Jin went to Xue's house.

Xue Baochai's clothes were a bit bulky. She didn't want to wear them so thick, but Situ Jin was worried that she would catch a cold.She had no choice but to wear it.

"Is the elder brother's marriage settled?" Xue Baochai sat and chatted with Mrs. Xue, while Situ Jin went to talk to Patriarch Xue.

"It's settled." Mrs. Xue said with a smile, "the two have already agreed that she is a girl from the Hu family. The Hu family is a merchant, and the girl from the Hu family has also managed several shops and has some business sense. You It is impossible for my brother to take care of the business anymore, someone has to take care of it, and the child who is born must be taken care of by someone."

It is impossible for the Xue family to give up doing business, and they still have to give the emperor money.The emperor of this generation has given it, and the next generation has to continue, so it is safe.

It's just that there is more money, and it is impossible for generals to achieve too high a position.After all, it is easy for the higher-ups to suspect that you have so much money, and when the time comes, you will gain the morale of the army, whether you can rebel if you want to rebel.

The Xue family all thought clearly. As for Xue Pan, Mrs. Xue felt that this son's brain was not very good.As parents, they have to think more about their sons and arrange these things properly.

"I have been inquired about." Mrs. Xue said, "I can't be a person who only cares about my mother's family."

Some women only care about their natal family and move things from their husband’s family to their natal family bit by bit. It doesn’t mean that they can’t help their natal family, it depends on the situation.

For a family like the Xue family, as a young wife, she can help her mother's family a little, but not more.It has to be a clear-headed one, they still have to give the emperor money, and then they can't say that there is so much money to the emperor, why can't they give a little to her natal family.

For this reason, Mrs. Xue was very careful when she was looking for a wife for Xue Pan.The Hu family is also sensible and understands the meaning of the Xue family. The Hu family is a Confucian businessman. The girls have read a lot of books, and some have learned to do business. The whole family is more open and has a way of teaching their children.

It was precisely because of this that after Madam Xue had inquired about it, she met the girl several times before she made a decision.

Mrs. Xue was also afraid that Miss Hu would act like the concubine of Prince Duan's mansion, who behaved well at the beginning, and waited for all kinds of troubles later.Mrs. Xue just took a look around and learned about the situation of the Hu family. The rest of the Hu family must also be clear-headed, otherwise they will have to make a lot of trouble.

But many things are not so perfect, everyone will have some excellent relatives.The Hu family also has it, which is not a big deal.

"Yeah." Xue Baochai nodded. In fact, as a child, you will think about your biological parents, and you will also take care of your brothers and sisters. , "Is it Miss Hu San?"

"Yes, that's her." Mrs. Xue nodded with a smile.

"I've seen it before." Xue Baochai thought of that slightly fat girl, she couldn't say she was fat, she should be called plump.That girl really knew how to do business and opened a makeup shop, but Miss Hu San was different from Xu Jiayue, she didn't go to frame Xue Baochai's shop, but took an unreasonable route.

Xue Baochai's place is mostly high-quality goods, and there are few cheap ones. They are mainly sold to high-ranking officials and nobles, and some of them are limited.

There are many dignitaries in the capital, but there are also many ordinary people.It is naturally impossible for Miss Hu San to keep an eye on those high-ranking officials and dignitaries. There are still ordinary cosmetics sold, and those who take the high-end route are those pearl hairpins.

Xue Baochai didn't do anything with the pearl hairpin, and Miss Hu San made a special effort to study the pearl hairpin, and bought rouge and gouache from Xue Baochai's shop, saying that she wanted to see what kind of hairpin it would match.It can be seen that Miss Hu San is a brainy person who will also study the market.

Miss Hu San is bound to show her face when she does business, and she is not afraid of what others say, but she has a strong temper and can hold her back.Although Miss Hu San is not the eldest daughter, her ability to handle affairs is better than her own sister and cousin.

Such a girl is not particularly popular, if she is really popular, it is some dudes who want her to be in the family.Those who are well-matched more or less still feel that it is not good for Miss Hu San to show her face outside, even if she is also a merchant, she thinks it is not very successful.

That's why Miss Hu San didn't get engaged so quickly, and the Hu family didn't look down on those who came to talk about marriage, so this delay will be delayed.Such an age is considered too old for some girls, and it is impossible for the Hu family to keep anyone, so they still have to make a decision.

At this time, the Xue family came to visit, and the Hu family also asked people to inquire about Xue Pan's affairs. The two families felt that they were good to each other, so they could settle down.

Of course, they have just verbally agreed now, and after this year, or a few years, they will let a matchmaker come to the door to make a final decision.

"She's a nice girl." Xue Baochai said, "It's just right for my brother."

Xue Pan can't manage those businesses, so he needs a stronger wife who can manage the business.This can be regarded as complementary and can live in peace.

"It's just that brother has to be nice to others." Xue Baochai said directly, "When the time comes, sister-in-law will be busy with the family, brother, don't go to a gentle village, then how can I be worthy of my sister-in-law. I have to let my sister-in-law earn money to support him The sons and daughters of concubines? Don't say that the money belongs to Xue's family, and don't say that Xue's family has so much money, it makes people feel uncomfortable."

"This has also been taken into consideration." Mrs. Xue said, "Tell the Hu family that you can only take a concubine if you have no children at forty."

"Well." Xue Baochai thought that Xue Pan was not so lustful now, and he didn't think about those young and beautiful girls all day long, so he hoped that Xue Pan could live a good life. If the mistress can stand, that's it."

If it weren't for the era in which men are superior to women, Xue Baochai would say that it is not bad to have a daughter.But she can't change this era, and she can't live for others.

Don't just talk about it yourself, it's of no use.

"Isn't that the case." Mrs. Xue thought the same way, "You too, don't think about it. Just because you are pregnant, you can't give your husband a maid. If he wants it, he can ask for it himself."

Mrs. Xue doesn't care if her daughter is virtuous or not, some women just give their husbands a housemaid when they are pregnant.As a result, some house maids became pregnant at this time, and some house maids took this opportunity to get on good terms with the woman's husband, and later challenged that woman.

Women, sometimes it's hard.When she is pregnant, if she does not give her husband a maid, some people say that women are jealous; if she gives her husband a maid at this time, it will be herself who is sad.

"No." It was impossible for Xue Baochai to give it, "If he dares to ask for it himself, then try!"

Then you can prepare for Situ Jin's sudden death, not to mention that she is unreasonable, she is such a ruthless person.

It's just that after coming to this world, it's been a long time since I had blood on my hands.She doesn't mind coming to a husband-killer to testify. Although she is not walking in the ruthless way, she can also kill her.

"..." Mrs. Xue felt that her son-in-law would not dare to ask for it after hearing her daughter's tone.

If Situ Jin heard about their conversation, he would be very speechless, he didn't want any housemaid at all, don't think about it, he is being obedient.

At this time, Situ Jin came out of Patriarch Xue's study and chatted with Xue Pan.

"It's time for you to settle down." Situ Jin said, "My child will be older than yours."

Situ Jin is very proud. She found her other half early on, and she still likes her.As for Xue Pan, after waiting for so many years, it was still a marriage arranged by his parents, not chosen by Xue Pan himself, so he could only cultivate his relationship later.

"Yes, that's my nephew." Seeing Situ Jin's complacent look, Xue Pan was speechless. There was nothing to be proud of.It's just that the Xue family didn't keep their daughter for a few more years, "Back then, I should have asked my sister to marry later, anyway, you didn't have children earlier."

"..." Situ Jin thought that maybe he should have a discussion with Xue Pan again. After a few days, when these five days have passed, they can have a good discussion.Let the other party understand how cruel it is, and how hard his Situ Jin's fist is!