Baochai is a happy wife [Red Mansion]

After Lin Daiyu got married, except for her few best friends, many people didn't have much contact with her.

Xue Baochai officially broke off contact with Lin Daiyu. The four big families used to have a good relationship with the Lin family, but that was only in the past.In the generation of Xue Baochai and Lin Daiyu, it is mainly the generation of parents who communicate with each other, and it is basically impossible for them to get close to each other in this generation.

After getting married, women in ancient times were the water thrown out by the married daughters, each married, and their relatives and friends.After getting married, there have been great changes. Xue Baochai and Lin Daiyu broke off contact, which is also a normal thing.

Lin Daiyu is the daughter-in-law of the second son, and she has not moved out of the family.Usually, her sister-in-law is also in charge of those things, and if they invite people, it is naturally impossible to invite more relatives from Lin Daiyu's side, let alone those who are far away.

Even if the Xie family had contacts with Xue Baochai, it was because of Situ Jin's relationship.The Xie family also knew about the relationship between Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai, even if there was no major conflict between the two, they would not deliberately let them get together.

There is an age gap between the eldest wife of the Xie family and Lin Daiyu, and she doesn't like weak women.She has no objection to Lin Daiyu, but she lives under the same roof and rarely sees each other.

According to Mrs. Xie's thinking, if someone is red-eyed, it is whose fault it is.Mrs. Xie's natal family has a girl who was said to have bullied Lin Daiyu.Mrs. Xie has a very good relationship with that girl. She has no objection to Lin Daiyu marrying into Xie's family, but it is impossible to have a good relationship with Lin Daiyu.

Mrs. Xie might not be able to see the behavior of the granddaughters-in-law in the family, and few of them are close to Lin Daiyu.They can't be blamed for this. Two days ago, Lin Daiyu's eyes turned red. As soon as her husband came up, he smiled and said that they were told to speak too loudly, so don't scare people.

Men don't like this, but women feel uncomfortable when they hear it.Especially some women think of those weak and weak concubines, those concubines are used to crying in front of men, often with red eyes, and only half-spoken.

Lin Daiyu is not like this, but her physique is like that.But that doesn't stop others from thinking that way.

"Let them be in the courtyard and live their own lives." Mrs. Xie said that when she talked about this matter with Mrs. Xie, she was old and couldn't control so much.We can't let those daughters-in-law and grand-daughter-in-law insist on communicating more with Lin Daiyu.

"Well, let them young people to toss about." Mrs. Xie nodded.

"At the beginning, you said you wanted to settle the Lin family." Mrs. Xie still babbled, it was not her fault, nor the fault of those granddaughter-in-laws.He can't afford to offend him, so it's okay to stay away, and the fifth grandson is also stupid, it's useless to say it in a joking tone, he cares about it himself, once he says that, others will take it seriously.

"Lin Ruhai's daughter is not bad." Taifu Xie said.

"It's not bad, but it's easy to be misunderstood." Mrs. Xie said, "There are girls from the grandson's wife's family who were misunderstood."

Mrs. Xie only recently found out about this matter. The eldest daughter-in-law is not a big-mouthed person, and it is impossible for her to say such things.Sometimes, I can't blame Lin Daiyu for this matter, but she feels uncomfortable and dare not get too close.

The eldest granddaughter-in-law has always been more prestigious in the mansion, and those granddaughter-in-laws have a very good relationship with her.The eldest granddaughter-in-law didn't talk much, she just talked less to Lin Daiyu, and other granddaughter-in-laws didn't do the same.

In the end, they just felt that the eldest grandson and daughter-in-law were all on the sidelines, afraid of getting involved in something.Then they are even more afraid, after all, the eldest daughter-in-law is a sensible person, and a person with clever handling methods.People like this are closed, so these rookie chickens should pay more attention.

Especially that time, when the fifth grandson said something like that, the grandsons told their daughters-in-law not to make Lin Daiyu cry.

Well, it's even less likely for them to have more contact with Lin Daiyu.

Men are like that, they don't understand the whole story, and they don't meet people with red eyes and tears from time to time.Even if they knew that Lin Daiyu was prone to red eyes and tears, they didn't think that the other party was so prone to red eyes. They only thought that it was his wife who teased Lin Daiyu, or they provoked Lin Daiyu.

In the eyes of a man, it's not a big deal, it's just a casual talk.The speaker has no intention, but the listener does.

This also led to the current situation. Mrs. Xie can't talk about those granddaughter-in-laws.It's just that if it is said, those granddaughter-in-laws must dislike Lin Daiyu even more.

Therefore, there is no way to talk about this kind of thing, only to let them be well.

"It's useless to think about it now." Grand Tutor Xie mainly valued Lin Ruhai, Lin Daiyu's physique is like that, there is no way, as long as the couple lives well.

Mrs. Xie didn't think about separating the family, but just let those people not have to come to pay their respects, even under one roof, it is equivalent to living separately.

Lin Daiyu didn't know what these people were thinking, so she didn't get close to them.It's not good for her to tell her husband, otherwise it will become a complaint.

On the other hand, Xue Baochai didn't know about Lin Daiyu's life after her marriage, and she was about to give birth.In another month, she will give birth.Fortunately, this child did not intend to stay in her belly for three years, otherwise it would be suspected of being a monster.

If that's the case, Xue Baochai can only find a place to hide first.

"After the child is born, I will take him to the south of the Yangtze River." Xue Baochai wanted to take the child around, let him look around, and then work hard to practice.When I was practicing, I seldom came to the secular world, and it was a good time to see it when I was young.

"Okay, let's go together." Situ Jin didn't think there was any problem, so they went together.

"There are still things to do in the capital, you can stay here." Xue Baochai didn't think about going with Situ Jin, she could take her children to hang out for a few years.

A child is fragile, but with her around, the child is not so fragile.

"The child is still young, wait two years to go out." Situ Jin thought, "Even if we go out, it's not like we won't come back, and come back after playing for a few years. We can do some things on the road, so it's not a big problem."

It is impossible for Situ Jin to really not want a little power and not be an official.If you don't have power, you can't protect your wife and children.

So if you want power, it depends on how you do it.

Situ Jin didn't think it was impossible to have both, she had to find a way.

"It will take two years." Xue Baochai nodded, the child is too young, it's not inconvenient, but the child doesn't remember things, so it's useless to take the child out to play, and the child can't remember.

Xue Baochai just talked about it first, so that Situ Jin could make preparations in advance.

Husband is nothing, the important thing is the children.

In this evil ancient feudal society, it is more practical to think more about yourself and your children.If Situ Jin hadn't been so kind to Xue Baochai, Xue Baochai wouldn't have told Situ Jin so long in advance.

"It's good to be more knowledgeable when you are young." Xue Baochai sat down with Situ Jin's support, "When you grow up, you have to worry about other things, so you can't walk around."

"I had to study when I was a child." Situ Jin said, even when I was a child, I couldn't keep walking around.

He and Xue Baochai could walk around more, but they couldn't leave the child with their parents, nor could they leave the child alone at home.Then they can only take the child with them, let the child learn more, and teach him some things on weekdays.

When the child is five or six years old, he can ask for a wife.

"You can go out for a walk every year." Situ Jin thinks that you can take the time to go out every year, otherwise, it may not be good to stay outside all year round.

"Yeah." Xue Baochai nodded slightly, "That's right, if he walks around every year, he has to have a family and children instead of wandering around."

Xue Baochai didn't think about taking the child to wander, but also made the child feel the warmth of home.It's not that a cultivator doesn't have a home, it's just that once he starts to practice, it takes a long time. Sometimes he goes outside to practice for several years.

If you are looking for it in the mansion, please ask for a steady wife. Princess Duan and Mrs. Xue are both looking for it.Fortunately, Situ Jin didn't have too many complicated relationships, no concubines, no so many disputes, and not so many people wanted to assassinate Xue Baochai.

When this woman gave birth, she just walked through the gate of hell. There are many things that need to be paid attention to, and she must not be careless.

Xue Baochai had a big belly, so she didn't go to Duanwang's mansion.Princess Duan occasionally came to have a look at Xue Baochai, and Mrs. Xue often came to have a look.

In Rongguo Mansion, Xiren was lying on the bed with a pale face. She had a miscarriage.

This matter has nothing to do with Shi Xiangyun. Shi Xiangyun was planning to marry, so he didn't come to Rongguo Mansion much.Shi Xiangyun has long disliked Xiren, and it is impossible to give Xiren anything.

The reason why Xiren had a miscarriage was entirely because of her brother and sister-in-law.Xiren's brother and sister-in-law thought that Xiren was pregnant, so sooner or later she would become Jia Baoyu's aunt, and she would inevitably feel a little awkward outside.What's more, they spent more money. How could they have so much money? They asked Xiren for it.

On this day, Xiren's elder brother came.

"Sister, it's only two or thirty taels of silver, it's nothing to you." Brother Hua rubbed his hands.

"I just asked for it a few days ago." Xiren had a headache, and the family asked for money several times.She gave it before, but now she wants it again, and she can't always open her mouth.It can only be said that if you want to eat something, you have to buy it outside, and this is the money you need.

It was because Xiren was talking with her elder brother in the corner, and quietly avoided others.For some reason, Xiren fell down.

But Xiren's bosom is not very good in itself, the fall and fright caused the child to lose.

Even if Xiren wanted to blame others, he couldn't blame others, and he couldn't justify Shi Xiangyun's frame.Shi Xiangyun hasn't married yet, and hasn't been here for many days.

For a moment, Xiren lay listlessly on the bed.

"Why is it gone?" Jia Baoyu originally had high expectations for the child in Xiren's stomach, but the child in Xiren's stomach just disappeared.

The first thing Jia Baoyu cared about was not the attacker, but how the child disappeared.Seeing that the attacker was popular, Mrs. Jia asked people to stop her, saying that she was afraid that Jia Baoyu would be frightened, so she refused to let Jia Baoyu go to see the attacker, and wait a while.

"She said she dropped it to see her elder brother." Yuanyang said, after Mrs. Jia lost Xiren's child, she wanted to let Xiren go back to Hua's house.Yuanyang knew what to say when she received Mrs. Jia's signal look, first she had to let Jia Baoyu know that the Hua family was wrong.