[Comprehensive] Mom loves you!

After Jing Hui discovered Ya Liying's psychological shadow, she planned to consult a relevant psychologist for Ya Liying, and found a suitable one to take Ya Liying to see.

Just when she started searching, Sheng Kuo called her and recommended a children's psychological counseling institution.

"This is a children's psychological counseling institution with a good reputation. You can take Ya Liying for consultation." Sheng Kuo left Jing Hui's house that day, worried about Ya Liying, and immediately went online to find many psychological institutions "Ya Liying" Ying's rejection of her father, I briefly consulted them first, and their suggestion is that you take Ya Liying to go in person to understand the situation and formulate a treatment plan. I also think that Ya Liying's problem is not a trivial matter, so sort it out early Ya Liying's psychological shadow is better."

"Thank you!" Jing Hui was a little surprised that Sheng Kuo would actually find a psychological counseling agency for Ya Liying, but he could feel that he was looking for Ya Liying, so he sincerely said thank you.

"Ya Liying's rejection of her new father must have something to do with her biological father. Then Jing Hui, is it because you were hurt by the previous marriage that you don't accept the new relationship?" Sheng Kuo suddenly asked this question on the phone, Jing Hui Hui didn't know how to answer for a while, but Jing Hui's silence made Sheng Kuo on the other side of the phone misunderstand it as acquiescence, and hung up the phone a little annoyed for a while, then walked out of the apartment and drove back to the old house to find Sheng Ying.

"I want to know what happened before Jing Hui." Sheng Kuo said when he saw Sheng Ying.Sheng Ying looked at Sheng Kuo strangely and asked him, "Last time I asked you if you wanted to know about Jing Hui's ex-husband, that scumbag, and you said you didn't want to know from me, why do you want to know now?"

Sheng Kuo did not answer Sheng Ying's question with a cold face, but said, "Are you going to tell me or not!"

"Let me tell you, it's so fierce, no wonder you can't catch up with Jinghui! Hmph" Sheng Ying snorted dissatisfiedly, and then briefly told Sheng Kuo about the disgusting things Yin Zhenxie did to Han Jinghui's mother and daughter.

"Brother, Jinghui treated me as a friend and said something to me. I told you without asking for her consent. I also wanted you to treat Jinghui well. She is a good woman. Even if Jinghui has been hurt by her last marriage He acted very free and easy, but he has been watching alone, maybe he is already a little afraid of feelings." Sheng Ying looked at Sheng Kuo and heard Jing Hui's experience, although he didn't say anything, but seeing his tightly holding hands, because He gripped so hard that the veins were exposed, so he knew that Sheng Kuo was angry for Jing Hui.

"Brother, I know your character. If I'm sure about Jing Hui, I'll keep chasing after you. Whether it's your sister or Jing Hui's friend, I really hope you two can be together and Jing Hui is alone. It is not easy to take care of two children and finish school. Sometimes I see her tirelessly rotating around Ya Liying and Shiying, and I feel that it is not easy for her to take care of two children alone, so bro, can you We have to work harder to marry Jing Hui home and help Jing Hui share the burden..."

"I know how to do it."

When Sheng Ying was still instilling in Sheng Kuo the idea of ​​being good to Jing Hui, Sheng Kuo interrupted and said that he knew what to do, and stood up and left.

When Sheng Ying was interrupted, she stopped talking and watched Sheng Kuo leave, and later realized that it was strange why Sheng Kuo came to her suddenly.

"Hey, what happened to Jing Hui? I didn't see their family in the martial arts gym all day. I went to send flowers and pick them up to the martial arts gym today, but they didn't come?" Sheng Ying nodded her chin and thought, In the end, she couldn't help picking up the phone and calling Jinghui.

"Jing Hui, why didn't you come to the martial arts gym today? What happened to you and my brother?" As soon as the call was made, Sheng Ying asked her doubts.Jing Hui simply told her about Ya Liying.

Sheng Ying felt distressed and blamed herself for a while, "If you know, I won't ask my brother to chase you so impatiently. Ya Liying, Jing Hui, I'm really sorry for irritating you so much."

Jing Hui heard Sheng Ying apologizing on the phone, and immediately said, "This is something that everyone didn't expect. You don't have to blame yourself. It's me, a mom, who didn't notice Ya Liying's problem. This time, Ya Liying It's fine if Li Ying explodes suddenly, otherwise I'll never know what's going on in her heart."

Sheng Ying was relieved to hear that Jing Hui didn't blame the brothers and sisters, and then remembered what she had just said to Sheng Kuo, so she said to Jing Hui, "Jing Hui, my brother just came to ask me about your past, I'm too talkative I have said it all. I matched you and my brother so much because I was afraid that you would not be able to get out of the shadow of the previous marriage. Now it seems that I will do bad things with good intentions and will not help my brother in the future. Can you go together, in the future Let's see fate, the most important thing now is to settle Ya Liying's matter, tomorrow I will accompany you to take Ya Liying to see a psychiatrist."

Jinghui felt warm when she heard that Sheng Ying would accompany her to the psychological institution tomorrow, but she thought that there would be classes in Shengying Martial Arts Hall tomorrow. .But Shengying insisted on going with her.

"Tomorrow I will ask for a day off. Someone will take care of me. You don't have to worry about this. I will accompany you to find out about Ya Liying's current situation, so as to help her get out of the shadows." Sheng Ying insisted on going, and Jing Hui didn't What's more, she regards Sheng Ying as a friend, and so does Sheng Ying, and the two of them are too polite to hurt each other's friendship.

"Thank you then!" Jing Hui said with a smile before hanging up the phone and going to sleep with Ya Liying.

After Ya Liying woke up, she didn't bring up the matter of 'Dad' again, just like the thing she was emotionally excited in the morning didn't happen, and Jing Hui didn't mention it either, for fear of irritating her.

But Ya Liying became a little clingy to Jinghui. Jinghui was going to sleep with her tonight. This decision made Ya Liying very happy. She came to Jinghui's bedroom early with her pillow in her arms. Shiying looked at it What to say, wash up and go back to his bedroom to sleep.

In the evening, Jing Hui watched Ya Liying sleep with one of her arms. Although she knew that her arm would be numb the next day, she still didn't take it out, so that Ya Liying fell asleep as if she had something to rely on.

Ya Liying woke up in the morning, and when she saw Jing Hui, she showed a big smile and said, "Mummy, good morning!"

Jing Hui kissed her and said good morning to her. As usual, Ya Liying got up to wash up happily, and talked to Shiying who also woke up. If it weren't for Ya Liying's fierce screams yesterday, Jing Hui would always be I feel that Ya Liying was raised by her to be a lively and cheerful child.

"Ya Liying, Mommy won't send you to interest classes today, but take you somewhere!" After breakfast, Ya Liying put on her small backpack and asked Jing Hui to send her to learn Latin dance. The exit said today's plan.

Ya Liying asked where she was going, but Jing Hui couldn't say that she was taking her to see a psychological problem. She was afraid of scaring her, so she just said that she would know.For this reason, Ya Liying was curiously urged Jing Hui to take him there quickly, and Shiying heard that Jing Hui would not send Ya Liying to learn dancing, so she naturally knew that he would not go to practice martial arts today, although it was only yesterday. He told Sheng Kuo not to call him a master, but Shiying regretted it after he finished speaking. He still wanted to learn martial arts from Sheng Kuo, and Jing Hui didn’t send him there today. I will send him off, and I am still a little depressed for a while.

It's just that this kind of sullenness disappeared soon after seeing Sheng Kuo who came to the door, and hurried up to greet her, but stopped when she thought of her sister Ya Liying, Shiying looked at Ya Liying carefully, and found that Ya Liying was also staring at her. Sheng Kuo looked at it, thinking of the incident that Sheng Kuo provoked Ya Liying to cry yesterday, Shiying began to wonder whether he would make her sister unhappy in the past.

"Mr. Sheng, why are you here?" Jing Hui opened the door and saw Sheng Kuo, she was a little surprised and subconsciously moved her body, trying to prevent Ya Liying from seeing Sheng Kuo.

"I'll take Ya Liying with you." Sheng Kuo briefly explained why he came, "It's a bit far away, and you're not familiar with that area, so I'll drive you there. And I've consulted Well, it’s not me that Ya Liying is afraid of, so I don’t have to hide and don’t let her see. Yesterday I caused her psychological problems, and today I have the responsibility to accompany you. Just now Ya Liying saw me with her eyes, although she He didn't smile at me, but he didn't break down emotionally either, I think these situations can also be told to the psychiatrist so that they can understand Ya Liying."

When Sheng Kuo said this, Jing Hui was about to say that she didn't want Ya Liying to see him, but she still didn't want Sheng Kuo to accompany her, so she said, "No need..."

Sheng Kuo didn't wait for her refusal to come out and said, "I may also need to cooperate with Ya Liying's psychological shadow. I am not going to give up pursuing you. Then Ya Liying will definitely see me often. I need to know how I can do it." Let her accept me and not reject me. Ya Liying can't reject all men who approach you, it's not good for her growth, I think you know it too."

Jing Hui opened her mouth, but she didn't find any other words to refuse, so she let Sheng Kuo in.

Sheng Kuo came in and saw Ya Liying and Shiying, and nodded to them as before. Shiying was hesitant to call him "Master", but Ya Liying called him "Uncle Sheng" with less enthusiasm than before. He ignored him, but went to hold Jinghui's hand.

Jing Hui noticed that Ya Liying had no special reaction, and felt relieved, so that Kai Ya Liying's problem was not particularly serious.

"Why are you all outside, waiting for me?" Sheng Ying's voice came out, attracting everyone's attention.

"Hey, brother, why are you here!" Sheng Ying was surprised when she saw Sheng Kuo, and then immediately went to see Ya Liying, and found that Ya Liying didn't have any expression, so she said, "Brother, you should go back!"

Sheng Kuo glanced at her, and said to Jing Hui without reason, "Can I go out?"

Seeing Sheng Kuo's insistence on accompanying her, Jing Hui just shook Ya Liying's hand and nodded, "I'll take off my bag and set off."

Sheng Ying was a little confused on the side, and when Jing Hui went to get the bag, she followed up to ask about the situation, and Jing Hui explained the reason for Sheng Kuo's visit.

"My brother is really persistent!" Sheng Ying sighed and didn't know what to say. Her brother made a decision that even ten bulls would not be able to pull him back. Since Ya Liying was not stimulated by seeing Sheng Kuo, There's no harm in going to a psychological counseling institution together. Maybe Sheng Kuo really needs to help Ya Liying get out of the shadows.

When Sheng Kuo drove his car and took Jinghui's family and Sheng Ying to the psychological counseling institution, Jinghui was relieved to see the institution's childlike appearance.

"This is a children's psychological counseling institution. They have fully considered the children's minds and do not want them to think that they are 'unhealthy' children, so this institution adopts psychological counseling for children while playing!" Sheng Kuo walked to the scene. Hui was next to him, and briefly introduced the institution he recommended to Jing Hui.

After hearing Sheng Kuo talk a lot, Jing Hui knew that he must have worked hard to find a suitable tutoring institution for Ya Liying.

"Thank you!" Jing Hui watched Ya Liying lead Shiying and was led by Sheng Ying to run in, played on the slide inside, turned around and thanked Sheng Kuo again.

"I've already made an appointment with a psychological counselor, I'll take you to see her first!" Sheng Kuo first took Jing Hui to meet a 40-year-old female psychologist. The psychologist looked very friendly and chatted with Jing Hui After a few sentences, he professionally asked Jing Hui many questions about Ya Liying.

"When Ya Liying was two and a half years old, his father and I divorced. He had a woman outside and gave birth to a girl with her who was one year younger than Ya Liying. During that time, the family was a bit chaotic. Ya Liying How she behaved? I was so devastated at the time that I didn’t pay much attention to her emotions.”

"So Ya Liying saw the scene where your ex-husband forced you to divorce?" The psychiatrist recorded the information and asked another question.

Jinghui tried her best to recall Han Jinghui's memory, and then said a little angrily about what happened to Ya Liying at that time, "I should have seen it. At that time, Ya Liying's father was trying to force me to divorce. He went home and made all kinds of troubles. Regardless of Ya Liying When Ying was not there, I made trouble directly. I was a little cowardly at that time, and I didn’t want to divorce him, so he would use some threats to smash things. Ya Liying was scared and cried at that time, and I just hugged her and cried together.”

The psychiatrist frowned after hearing Jing Hui's words, and then asked the next question.

"Before you divorced your ex-husband, what was Ya Liying's attitude towards her father?"

"Before my ex-husband forced me to divorce, he was very gentle and loved Ya Liying like a little princess, so Ya Liying has always admired him as a father." Jing Hui recalled Han Jinghui's memory, for Ya Liying felt distressed when she suddenly encountered such a big change at such a young age, and Yin Zhenxie also hated everything Ya Liying did, so he was a little bit cheap at the time.

"Is there anything special about Ya Liying's performance during her arrival in the United States?"

"I came to the United States suddenly from South Korea. Ya Liying was a little afraid of the unfamiliar environment, and often followed me every step of the way. At that time, I was always indulging in the sadness of divorce, and I ignored Ya Liying. Pregnant with my ex-husband's child, I had limited energy to take care of Ya Liying. I was not a competent mother at that time, and I was too hurt by my ex-husband's betrayal, so I was always indulging in sadness. Diagnosed with autism, I was shocked and passed out. I was woken up by Ya Liying's crying and heard Ya Liying's scared voice, which made me realize my previous problems and cheer up. Raise them well. In the next few years, most of them took my younger son to treat autism. Ya Liying has always been a sensible child, knowing about my brother's situation, and has been helping me take care of him."

The psychiatrist asked Jing Hui a few more questions and ended the conversation. Then, with Jing Hui's consent, he went outside to watch Ya Liying play in the playroom built by the psychological institution for a while, and recorded some things, and then Only then did I play with Ya Liying as a friend of Jinghui, during which I talked a lot with Ya Liying.

I don't know if the psychiatrist has professional methods. In just a few hours, Ya Liying trusted the psychiatrist very much. In the end, the psychiatrist wanted to leave, but Ya Liying said goodbye to her sweetly.

Jing Hui followed the psychiatrist back to her office, and the psychiatrist made a preliminary judgment on Ya Liying based on today's records, "Now Ya Liying rejects her father so much, and the strong reaction of rejecting your remarriage is partly due to being rejected by her father at the beginning." Abandonment, partly because of your neglect at that time. Now I don’t want you to find a new father for her, because she is subconsciously afraid of returning to the situation of being abandoned by her father and neglected by you.”

After the psychiatrist finished speaking, he made some notes. He looked up and saw Jing Hui's face was full of self-blame, so he patted her on the shoulder and comforted her, "In Ya Liying's situation, although you are negligent as a mother, after listening to you Talking about the things at that time, during that period, you also had psychological problems. You were too addicted to sadness and couldn’t get out, and you were prone to depression. Fortunately, you have come out, you are already very brave! And Ya Liying’s happiness now is not Pretend, as long as the topic of 'father' is not involved, he is a very happy child."

Jing Hui nodded and thanked the psychiatrist, but she was still not in a good mood, and Sheng Kuo, who had been quietly next to her, took her shoulder upstairs as encouragement.

Seeing the interaction between Sheng Kuo and Jing Hui, the psychiatrist thought of something and said to Jing Hui, "According to what you said before, you have never remarried after divorce, and you have no new relationship. Your family of three lives very happily. It may also potentially affect Ya Liying's definition of "father". Without him, you will live happier. According to some unoptimistic psychological development, Ya Liying now rejects her father, and may develop into a rejection of marriage when she grows up. Repelling men."