[Comprehensive] Mom loves you!

After Hualan received the confirmation call from the company, she was completely relieved and took care of Xiao Taijing wholeheartedly.

During the day, if Huang Jingshi was not at home, Hua Lan would carry the baby back to her bedroom, take a nap with her, or let him sleep on her bed, and she would use the computer to do something in the room.

When the weather is nice, Hualan sends the babysitter away, pushes the stroller by herself, and takes Xiaotaijing for a walk in the villa complex where they live to bask in the sun.

Most of the time is spent on Xiao Taijing every day. After feeding him, let him lie on the carpet in the nursery, holding some brightly colored toys to tease him.Thinking of Huang Tae Kyung's poor sense of direction in the original plot, Hua Lan consciously began to cultivate his sense of direction.

Every time he lay on the blanket, Hua Lan walked to the side where he couldn't see, and made a sound to make him slowly turn his head to look for it.Mother and son had a lot of fun playing this game.

When Xiao Taijing was sleeping, Hua Lan would go online to make plans, watch songs sent by the company, and most of the time, he would look up many parenting books to read.Mu Hualan didn't have these things in her memory. Hualan was also a mother for the first time, and many things were ambiguous or even unknown. In order to take good care of Xiao Taijing in the future, Hualan had learned a lot of professional parenting knowledge.Then I found out that parents have a great responsibility to let their children grow up healthily and happily.

Time flies quickly, and Xiaotai has been in Beijing for two months.During this period, his grandparents would come to the villa to see him every few days, and they stayed for dinner when Huang Jingshi came back.

Hualan saw that they loved Xiao Taijing very much, but she was worried that she didn't come to the door very often, and wanted to ask them to stay and take care of the baby together, but thinking about her current status, it was not appropriate to say these things, so they came When looking at the baby, she automatically avoids people and leaves more space for them to get along with Xiao Taijing.

When Huang Jingshi came home this month, Hualan took care of the baby in front of him, letting him see her virtuous side, so that he could fight for Xiao Taijing's custody in the future.

Hualan knew that Huang Jingshi was an international conductor by profession, so he didn't think it was strange that he didn't see others for a few days, but seeing that he often came home at night, and then looked at the rhythm of Xiao Taijing returning to the bedroom, Hualan thought about it Still made a suggestion to him.

The growth of a baby cannot be separated from the mother, nor can it be separated from the father.

Although Hualan wants to fight for Xiao Taijing's custody, she doesn't want Xiao Taijing to lose her father's love.According to Hualan's observation, Huang Jingshi also loves Xiaotaijing, but he is strict and indifferent, and he doesn't know how to get along with the baby. Every time he meets him, he mostly hugs him and talks to him when he is alone.There is no other interaction.

For this reason, Hua Lan ordered several books online about how fathers get along with babies, and then asked the helper who cleaned Huang Jingshi's study to put them on his desk.

That day, Huang Jingshi had already eaten out when he came back, so he went to see Xiao Taijing directly, asked the nanny about today's situation, and went back to work in the study.

But an hour later, Huang Jingshi came out and walked into the baby's room again.

Hualan was on the carpet at that time, teasing little Taijing with a rattle, and when he saw him coming, he knew that he must have seen the book she sent in.

"Take care of the baby when you come, I'll go back to the room to get something." Hua Lan stood up and handed the rattle in his hand to Huang Jingshi, and before he could reply, he walked out of the baby room and closed the door behind him, leaving father and son alone.

Because every time Hualan gets along with the baby, she will let the nanny who takes care of the baby go down to rest.So now the nanny is not waiting outside.

Hua Lan went back to her bedroom to stay for half an hour before going back, but within 10 minutes there was a knock on her room door.

When Hualan opened it, he heard Xiao Taijing's crying, and Huang Jingshi who was a little embarrassed holding Xiao Taijing.

"He's crying." After Huang Jingshi said these words, he held up Xiaotaijing and handed it to Hualan.Hua Lan didn't answer immediately but asked him.

"He was full just now, is he crying now or something?"

Huang Jingshi was stunned. He teased Xiao Taijing to play rattles. After playing well, Xiao Taijing suddenly cried.He was eager to hug and coax him, but it didn't work. His first reaction was to bring it to his mother.

Seeing that he was stunned, Hua Lan asked him to carry the baby back to the baby room together, and then carried the baby over and put it on the soft couch. "Babies usually cry for a few reasons. They are hungry and want to breastfeed, and they feel uncomfortable when they urinate or stinky. If it is not these, it means that they are not feeling well."

While speaking, Hualan checked whether Xiao Tae-kyung had peed or had a bad smell.

When he took off his diaper, he could smell the stench, Hualan smiled and patted Tae Kyung's butt, and then talked to Tae Kyung who was looking at him. "Xiao Taijingla stinks really stinks, doesn't it?"

"Go and get the wet tissue over there." Hualan directed Huang Jingshi who was watching to do something, Huang Jingshi didn't say anything and went to get it, and then Hualan told Huang Jingshi next to him while cleaning up Xiaotaijing How to deal with this situation in the future.

Hua Lan took off Xiao Taijing's stinky and soiled diaper, and let him throw it away, ignoring the disgust on Huang Jingshi's face.Huang Jingshi looked at the stinky diaper in front of him, and really wanted to throw it out immediately.But seeing that Hualan was still cleaning up the poop on Xiao Taijing's butt with a wet tissue, compared with the things in his hands, he felt that there was nothing to throw into the trash can in front of him. wet wipes.

Cleaned little Tae-kyung's butt with a wet tissue, Hualan didn't change Tae-kyung into a clean diaper, but carried her into the bathroom with the baby room.

"It's not too early now, let's give Xiao Taijing a bath." Hua Lan went in after speaking, and Huang Jingshi followed.Then I saw Hualan skillfully bathing Xiao Taijing, and Xiaotai Jing behaved like an angel during the whole process.And he was just a servant throughout the whole process, Hua Lan instructed him to take that.

"Look at it a few more times, you can also wash Xiao Taijing." Hua Lan hugged Xiao Taijing with a big towel, and told Huang Jingshi about it.

Huang Jingshi didn't reply, but looked at his big hands, the baby is so fragile, can he be competent to bathe him?

"You help the baby put on the diaper." Huang Jingshi hadn't figured out the last question yet, and another unopened diaper was stuffed in his hand.

"You open the diaper first, and then tuck it up to your waist under the baby's buttocks." Hua Lan saw Huang Jingshi standing in a daze, and directed him directly. Huang Jingshi thought of the books he saw in the study just now, so he was dull and approached Xiao Taijing, who was already lying on the soft couch with a towel.It's the first time for my son to wear diapers.

"Now you hold one end of the diaper with one hand, and with the other hand you unroll the tape, yes, and pull it forward, sticking the front, parallel to the top edge here. Yeah, now that's done, use the same How to glue the other side. Okay, you are asking if the diaper is close to Tai Jing’s legs, and don’t twist it to one side.” Hua Lan’s pleasant voice kept directing Huang Jingshi, Huang Jingshi basically held his breath do these.

Xiao Taijing's small arms and legs, so immature and fragile, he didn't dare to use any more strength.After dressing Xiao Taijing, Huang Jingshi stood up straight and let out a sigh of relief.

Hualan picked up Xiao Taijing, took his hand and waved to Huang Jingshi, and said with a smile, "Xiao Taijing thank you dad, dad's performance today can score 100 points."

Huang Jingshi was startled when he heard this, and seeing Tai Jing, who was looking at him with wide eyes, felt a sense of accomplishment for a moment.He used to think that it would be fine as long as someone took good care of Xiao Taijing, but after reading the parenting books of the father and the child on the table today, he realized that he usually neglects the child's growth.

It turns out that if the baby's growth has his father involved, it will be good for his development.I asked the helper who sent the book, and he knew it was 'Mu Hualan'. Huang Jingshi knew that it was the other party's kind reminder to him not to miss the child's growth.So after reading those books, Huang Jingshi took the initiative to come out and prepare to spend more time with his son.

In the following days, Huang Jingshi obviously spent more time going home, and was willing to spend time with Xiao Taijing.Although he didn't talk as much as Hualan, he talked a lot more than before. Holding Xiaotaijing's toys, he imitated Hualan and teased him.

Seeing that Xiao Taijing didn't like his hug very much before, and became dependent on him every day, Huang Jingshi gradually felt the pride of being a father in his heart.

Feelings really get along more and more, getting closer and closer.Now Xiao Taijing relies on Hualan the most, followed by Huang Jingshi, and then the nanny who usually takes care of her.

The reason why she doesn't rely on the nanny so much is because Hualan basically takes care of Xiao Taijing during the day, and the nanny is basically useless. At most, she takes care of Xiaotaijing to sleep at night, and regularly feeds him the breast milk that Hualan prepared in the bottle.So relatively speaking, the number of hugs to Taijing is not as many as that of Huang Jingshi who is behind.

Hualan has always felt that if the baby is more dependent on others than the parents, it is the parents' dereliction of duty and regret.It is understandable that there is no time to take care of the baby personally if the conditions do not allow it, but it is really a pity to let the outsider handle it if the conditions are not allowed, and it is not good for the growth and development of the baby, and the child's growth is inseparable shared by parents.That's why Hualan spent all her time guiding Huang Jingshi to take care of Xiao Taijing.

Since parents choose to bring their child into this world, they have an obligation to let him grow up healthy and happy.A baby is not just born with parents who satisfy his material conditions, but also needs to meet his spiritual needs.

"Yi Yi Ya Ya" The weather was fine that day, and Huang Jingshi was resting at home again, so Hua Lan suggested that he take Xiao Taijing out to bask in the sun.

After Huang Jingshi agreed, Hualan put the little Taijing, who was babbling and speaking in alien language, into his baby carriage, saying 'Ah!ah! ' the voice responded.

After loading all the things that Xiao Taijing needed into the car, Hua Lan handed the car to Huang Jingshi, and then prepared to go upstairs.This has happened several times. Hualan spends a lot of time with the baby every day, so Huang Jingshi has time to take care of the baby. Hualan always makes room for father and son to cultivate their relationship.

But today Huang Jingshi looked at the back of Hualan who was about to leave, frowned and called to her.

"Let's take Tae Kyung out to bask in the sun together."