The Dream of the Condor
Chapter 23
? Meng'er was startled, and said, "It's nothing, I'm just a little emotional."
Wan Yankang said: "I'm sorry I was on the street that day, I didn't mean it, so don't be angry."
Meng'er smiled, like a hundred flowers blooming, Wanyan Kang was stunned.
Wan Yankang came back to his senses and 'coughed' to hide his unease.
Meng'er said: "I know, you just don't want to be deceived by others, and Ouyang Ke's attitude also annoyed you, so
You will vent your dissatisfaction indiscriminately.But have you thought about one thing? "
Wan Yankang said: "What's the matter?"
Meng'er said: "You are well-clothed and well-fed in the king's mansion. You have a high status and are favored by the King of Zhao, so those people will only desperately support you."
Knot you.But Ouyang Ke is different. His uncle is Ouyang Feng, one of the five masters of the West, and he is the young master of the White Camel Villa who dominates the Western Regions. He has no shortage of gold, silver, treasures, and beauties of all colors. He has no reason to curry favor You, flatter you, he does things according to his preferences, you have to be clear about this, so don't treat him with the tone you treat your subordinates, and don't vent your anger on him.Otherwise, if you encounter trouble in the martial arts, your master cannot save you.
Let's talk about your master, as a monk, it's okay to go for fame and death to save face, and you don't know right from wrong, don't use your head to think about problems, and fight and kill at every turn. What do you think he looks like a Taoist priest except for his clothes?
He came to you and taught you martial arts just to make a bet with the Seven Monsters of the South of the Yangtze River, not for you. Besides, besides Wang Chongyang, only Zhou Botong can do it in the Quanzhen Sect, so you should think more about yourself think about it. "
Wan Yankang thought for a while, then asked: "Thank you for your guidance, may I ask the girl's name?"
Meng'er said: "Call me Miss Meng'er."
Wanyan Kang nodded.
Meng'er said: "I'm very bored today, I want to tell a story to pass the time, do you want to listen?"
Wanyan Kang smiled and said, "Okay, I'm willing to listen."
"Once upon a time, there were two monks who lived in temples on two adjacent mountains.
There is a stream between the two mountains, so the two monks would go down the mountain to fetch water from the stream at the same time every day, and they became good friends over time.In this way, five years have passed unknowingly carrying water every day.
Suddenly one day the monk on the mountain on the left did not go down to carry water, and the monk on the mountain on the right thought to himself: He probably overslept.I don't care.I don't know that the monk on the mountain on the left still did not go down the next day, and the same on the third day.After a week, it was still the same, until a month later, the monk on the mountain on the right finally couldn't take it anymore. He thought to himself: My friend may be sick. I'm going to visit him and see what I can do to help.
So he climbed up the mountain on the left to visit his old friend.When he arrived at the temple on the mountain on the left, he was surprised when he saw his old friend, because his old friend was doing Tai Chi in front of the temple, and he didn't look like a person who hadn't drunk water for a month at all.He asked curiously: "You haven't gone down the mountain to carry water for a month, don't you need to drink water?" The monk on the mountain on the left said: "Come, come, I will show you."
So he took the monk from the mountain on the right to the backyard of the temple, pointed to a well and said: "For the past five years, I have taken time to dig this well every day after finishing my homework. Even if I am busy sometimes, I count as much as I can dig." .Now that I have finally dug out the well water, I don't have to go down the mountain to carry water, and I can have more time to practice my favorite Tai Chi. '
This story tells us that we should seize the time to dig a well for ourselves while we are young. In the future, when we are older and physically weaker than young people, we will still have water to drink, and we can drink it leisurely. "
Wanyan Kang was thoughtful.
Meng'er took a sip of tea, and then said: "Once upon a time, two hungry people got a gift from an elder: a fishing rod
And a basket of fresh and huge fish.Among them, a person to a basket of fish, another person to a rod, so they parted ways.
The person who got the fish built a bonfire with dry sticks and cooked the fish on the spot. He wolfed down the fish, but before he could taste the meaty aroma, he turned to eat the fish.
In an instant, he ate up all the fish and soup, and soon he starved to death beside the empty fish basket.
The other person continued to suffer from hunger and hunger with a fishing rod, and walked towards the sea with difficulty step by step, but when he had seen the water not far away,
In the blue ocean, the last bit of strength in his body was exhausted, and he could only helplessly pass away with endless regrets.
There were two hungry people. They also got a fishing rod and a basket of fish from the elders.It's just that they didn't go their separate ways, but they agreed to find the sea together. They only cooked one fish at a time. After a long journey, they came to the seaside. Afterwards, they built houses, had their own families, children, and fishing boats they built, and lived a happy and healthy life.
This story tells us that a person who only cares about immediate interests will end up with short-term happiness; a person has high goals, but he must also face the reality of life.Only by organically combining ideals and reality can one become a successful person.Sometimes, a simple truth is enough to inspire people with meaningful life. "
Wanyan Kang thought for a while, then continued to listen.
Meng'er took another sip of tea and continued: "A student of Confucius found something dirty fell into the pot when he was cooking porridge. He quickly scooped it up with a spoon and was about to throw it away. At that time, it suddenly occurred to me that every porridge and meal are hard-won.
So he ate it.It happened that Confucius walked into the kitchen and thought he was stealing food, so he taught the classmate who was in charge of cooking.After explaining, everyone suddenly realized.Confucius said with emotion: "The things I saw with my own eyes are not true, let alone what I heard and heard?" '
This story tells us that from time to time we hear words that are difficult to distinguish between right and wrong, which often confuses right and wrong and affects confidence.Therefore, to find out the truth of the matter, don't easily believe in rumors, so that the career you have worked so hard to build will not be ruined overnight. "
Meng'er continued: "A scholar came to Beijing for the third time to take the exam and lived in a shop where he often lived.
Two days before the exam, he had three dreams. The first dream was that he was planting cabbage on the wall. The second dream was that he was wearing a bamboo hat and an umbrella on a rainy day. The third dream was that he was with his beloved. cousin lying together, but back to back.These three dreams seemed to have deep meanings, so Xiucai hurried to find a fortune-teller to interpret the dreams the next day.
When the fortune teller heard this, he slapped his thigh and said: "You should go home. Think about it, isn't it a waste of effort to grow vegetables on a high wall? Isn't it superfluous to wear a bamboo hat and an umbrella? I'm lying on the same bed with my cousin, but back to back , isn't there no play?"
When Xiucai heard this, she was disheartened, and went back to the store to pack her bags and prepare to go home.The store owner was very surprised and asked: "Isn't the exam tomorrow? Why did you go back to your hometown today?" After the scholar said this, the store owner was amused: "Yo, I can also interpret dreams. I think, You must stay this time. Think about it, isn’t it a good idea to grow vegetables on the wall? Doesn’t wearing a bamboo hat and an umbrella mean that you are prepared for this time? Lying back to back on the bed with your cousin doesn’t mean that it’s time for you to turn over ?"
When the scholar heard it, it made more sense, so he took the exam with high spirits, and unexpectedly won a prize.
This story tells us that a positive person is like the sun, where it shines brightly, and a negative person is like the moon, the first and fifteenth day of the new year are different.Ideas determine our lives, what kind of ideas we have, what kind of future we have. "
Meng'er continued: "A man caught a young eagle in the eagle's nest on the top of the mountain, and he took the young eagle home and raised it in a chicken coop.
This young eagle and chicken peck, play and rest together.It thought it was a chicken.
The eagle gradually grew up and its wings were full. The owner wanted to train it to be a falcon, but because it was mixed with chickens all day long, it had become exactly like a chicken and had no desire to fly at all.
The owner tried various methods, but to no avail, and finally took it to the top of the mountain and threw it out.The eagle fell straight down like a stone. In a panic, it flapped its wings desperately. Just like that, it finally flew up!
This story tells us how to hone the power to summon success. "
"After the rain, a spider struggled to crawl towards the fragmented web on the wall. Due to the dampness of the wall, it climbed to a certain height and then fell down. It climbed up again and again, and fell down again and again...
The first person saw it, he sighed, and said to himself: "Isn't my life just like this spider? I'm so busy that I don't get anything." So he became depressed day by day.
The second person saw it, and he said: "This spider is really stupid, why don't you go around and climb up from the dry place next to it?"I can't be as stupid as it in the future.So he became wiser.
The third person saw it, and he was immediately moved by the spirit of the spider's repeated defeats.So he became strong.
This story tells us that people with a successful mindset can find the power of success everywhere. "
"The old monk and the young monk were traveling, and they encountered a river on the way; they saw a woman who wanted to cross the river, but dared not.
The old monk took the initiative to carry the woman across the river, then put down the woman and continued on the road with the young monk.
The little monk couldn't help muttering all the way: What happened to Master?How dare you carry a woman across the river?I walked all the way, thought all the way, finally couldn't bear it anymore, and said: Master, have you violated the precept?How did you carry a woman on your back?
The old monk sighed: I have already let go, but you still can't let go!
This story tells us that a gentleman is magnanimous, and a villain is always concerned; broad-minded, open-minded, able to afford and let go of things, can always maintain a healthy state of mind. "
"Anyone who has been to the temple knows that when entering the temple gate, Amitabha Buddha greets visitors with a smiling face, and to the north of him is Wei Tuo with black mouth and black face. But according to legend, they were not in the same place a long time ago. Temple, but are in charge of different temples.
Mi Le Buddha was enthusiastic and happy, so many people came, but he didn't care about anything, he was careless, he didn't manage the accounts properly, so he still couldn't make ends meet.Although Wei Tuo is a good hand in account management, he has a gloomy face all day long and is too serious, which makes fewer and fewer people, and finally the incense is cut off.
The Buddha discovered this problem when he was checking the incense, so he put the two of them in the same temple, and Mi Le Buddha was in charge of public relations, welcoming all guests with a smile, so the incense was very prosperous.And Wei Tuo is stern and selfless, and every penny counts, so he is asked to be responsible for the finances and strictly control them.In the division of labor and cooperation between the two, the temple is thriving.
This story tells us that in the eyes of master employers, there is no useless person, just like martial arts masters, who can hurt people by picking flowers and flying leaves without expensive swords, the key depends on how to use them. "
"There was a man from the state of Lu who was good at weaving straw sandals, and his wife was good at weaving white silk. He wanted to move to Yue.
A friend said to him, "If you go to Yue, you will be poor."
"why?"
"Straw sandals are used to wear and walk, but Yue people are used to walking barefoot; white silk is used to make hats, but Yue people are used to disheveling their hair. With your strengths, go where you are not needed, Is it possible, then, not to be poor?"
This story tells us that if a person wants to develop his expertise, he must adapt to the needs of the social environment.If it is separated from the needs of the social environment, its expertise will lose its value.Therefore, we should decide our own actions according to the needs of the society, and make better use of our expertise. "
"King Wen of Wei asked the famous doctor Bian Que: "The three brothers in your family are all good at medicine. Which one is the best?
Bian Que replied: "The eldest brother is the best, the middle brother is the second, and I am the worst.
King Wen asked again, "Then why are you the most famous?
Bian Que replied: "The eldest brother treats the disease before the onset of the disease. Since most people don't know that he can eradicate the cause in advance, his reputation cannot be spread; the middle brother treats the disease when the disease begins. Most people think that he can only treat minor diseases, so his fame is only in this town. And I treat diseases when they are seriously ill. Most people have seen me threading needles on meridians to bleed blood, applying medicine on the skin and other major operations. , so I thought that my medical skills were brilliant, and my fame spread all over the country.
This story tells us that control after the event is not as good as control during the event, and control during the event is not as good as control before the event. "
"A guest came to someone's house and saw that the chimney on the stove of the owner's house was straight, and there were a lot of wood beside it. The guest told the owner that the chimney had to be bent and the wood had to be removed, otherwise there might be a fire in the future. The owner After listening, he didn't make any expression.
Soon the owner’s house caught fire, and the neighbors around rushed to put out the fire. At last the fire was extinguished, so the owner cooked sheep and slaughtered cattle, and entertained the neighbors with a banquet to reward them for their efforts in putting out the fire. The person who changed the tune.
Someone said to the host: "If you had listened to that gentleman, you would not have to prepare a banquet today, and there would be no fire damage. Now you will be rewarded for your merits. The person who gave you the advice is not grateful, but the person who put out the fire is a guest." , What a strange thing! The host suddenly realized, and hurriedly invited the guest who gave the suggestion to have a drink.
This story tells us that prevention is more important than cure, and it is better to prevent problems before they happen than to cure chaos after it has been completed. "
"In ancient times, there were two brothers who each carried a suitcase on a long journey. Along the way, the heavy suitcases weighed both brothers out of breath. They had to change their left hand when their left hand was tired, and change their left hand when their right hand was tired. Suddenly, the eldest brother stopped, bought a shoulder pole on the side of the road, and hung two suitcases on the shoulder pole, one on the left and one on the right.
This story tells us that on the road of our life, we will definitely encounter many difficulties.But do we all know that on the way forward, removing the stumbling blocks of others is sometimes just paving the way for ourselves? "
"There was a fisherman with first-class fishing skills, who was honored as the 'Fisher King'. However, the 'Fisher King' was very distressed when he was old, because his three sons had mediocre fishing skills.
So I often tell people the distress in my heart: "I really don't understand, my fishing skills are so good, why are my sons so poor? I have taught them fishing skills since they were sensible, starting from the most basic things. I taught them how to weave a net to catch fish the most, how to row a boat without disturbing the fish, and how to lower the net to invite fish into the urn. When they grow up, I teach them how to know the tide and fish season. . I have passed on to them all the experience I have accumulated through years of hard work, but their fishing skills can't catch up with the sons of fishermen who are less skilled than me!"
After hearing his story, a passer-by asked, "Have you been teaching them hand in hand?"
"Yes, I taught them very carefully and patiently in order to let them acquire first-class fishing skills."
"Have they been following you?"
"Yes, in order to avoid detours for them, I have always asked them to learn from me."
A passer-by said: "In this way, your mistake is obvious. You only taught them the technology, but did not teach them the lesson.
This story tells us that as far as talents are concerned, having no lessons is the same as having no experience, neither can make a person great! "
"An old monk, surrounded by a group of pious disciples. On this day, he asked his disciples to go to Nanshan to collect a load of firewood and come back. The disciples hurried to the river not far from the mountain, and everyone was dumbfounded. Seeing the flood rushing down from the mountain, there is no way to cross the river to collect firewood anyway. After returning in vain, the disciples were a little downcast. Only one young monk faced the master calmly. When the master asked why, the young monk took out a I handed an apple to the master and said that I couldn't cross the river and couldn't get firewood. I saw an apple tree by the river, so I picked the only apple on the tree. Later, this little monk became the successor of the master. .
This story tells us that there are endless roads and rivers that cannot be crossed in the world.It is also a kind of wisdom to turn around the river that cannot be crossed.But true wisdom has to do one more thing by the river: fly the kite of thought and pick an apple.Looking through the past and present, those who hold on to such a belief in life have finally achieved breakthroughs and surmounting in life. "
"A farmer rescued his wife from the flood, but his child was drowned.
Afterwards, people talked about it.Some said he was right, because a child can have another child, but a wife cannot die and come back to life.Some said he was wrong, because the wife can marry another, but the child cannot die and come back to life.
I listened to people's arguments, and felt puzzled: If only one person could be saved, should I save the wife or the child?
So I went to visit the farmer and asked him what he thought at the time.
He replied: "I didn't think about anything. When the flood came, my wife was beside me. I grabbed her and went swimming to the nearby hillside. When I returned, the child had been washed away by the flood."
On the way home, I thought about what the farmer said, and said to myself: If the farmer hesitated at that time, none of them might be saved; this is the case with many choices in life.
This story tells us that there is no right or wrong in many things, and you are not allowed to think about right and wrong. If you hesitate too much or care too much about what others think, you may not be able to do anything. "
"Two traveling angels lodge with a wealthy family. The family is unfriendly to them and refuses to let them spend the night in their comfortable guest bedroom, finding them a corner in the cold basement instead. When they make their beds One day, the older angel found a hole in the wall and repaired it. The younger angel asked why, and the older angel replied, "Something is not as it seems. "
On the second night, the two went to a very poor farmhouse to spend the night again.The host and his wife were very warm to them. They entertained the guests with what little food they had, and then gave up their own beds to the two angels.Early the next morning, two angels found the farmer and his wife crying, their only source of livelihood - a cow died.The young angel was very angry. He questioned the old angel why it was like this. The first family had everything and the old angel helped them repair the hole in the wall. The second family even though they were so poor still entertained the guests, but the old angel did not stop the cows. death.
"Something is not as it seems," replied the old angel. "When we spent the night in the basement, I saw through the hole in the wall that the wall was full of gold nuggets. Because the master was deluded by greed and did not want to share His wealth, so I filled the hole in the wall. Last night, the god of death came to summon the farmer's wife, and I put the cow in her place. So some things are not as it seems.
This story shows us that sometimes things are not what they should be.If you have faith, you just need to believe that the hard work will always pay off.You probably won't find out until later..."
"There was an old lady who sat on the side of the road and looked at a high wall not far away. She always felt that it would collapse soon. Go away.The person who was reminded looked at her in puzzlement as she walked along the bottom of the wall in a big way-the wall did not fall down.The old lady was very angry: "Why don't you listen to me?! Another person came, and the old lady gave advice. Three days passed, and many people walked past the wall without any danger. On the fourth day, the old lady Feeling a little strange and a little disappointed, he couldn't help but go to the base of the wall to take a closer look. However, at this moment, the wall collapsed, and the old lady was buried in the dusty bricks and died.
This story tells us that it is often easy and sober to remind others, but it is difficult to remind ourselves soberly at all times.Therefore, many dangers come from themselves, and the sorrow of the old lady was born because of this. "
"Isn't it absurd that a small pillar and a thin chain can hold an elephant weighing a thousand catties? But such absurd scenes can be seen everywhere in Qin State. Those mahouts, whether elephants or When the baby elephant was young, it was tied to a concrete or steel pillar with an iron chain. No matter how hard the baby elephant struggled, it could not break free. The baby elephant gradually got used to not struggling until it grew into an elephant and could easily break free When chaining, there is no struggle.
The tiger tamer was as successful as the elephant tamer. He made the little tiger a vegetarian until he grew up.Tigers don't know the taste of meat, so naturally they won't hurt people.The fatal mistake of the tiger trainer was that he let the tiger lick his blood on the ground after he fell down.
Baby elephants are bound by chains, while elephants are bound by habit.
The tiger was once bound by habit, and the man who tamed the tiger died of habit (he had gotten used to his tiger not eating people).
This story tells us that habit can bind almost everything, but not chance.Like the tiger that accidentally tasted blood. "
"The horse used to roam freely in the mountains, drink some spring when thirsty, and sleep on the ground basking in the sun when tired, carefree. But since Bole, the fate of the horse has changed. Put on the bridle, place saddles on its back, and tie it. The death rate of the horse is already two to three out of ten. Then force it to transport things, force it to travel thousands of miles a day, and nail its feet. With iron palms, the death rate of the horse is more than half. The horse is a useless animal with no rules. Let it absorb the essence of the sun and the moon, the aura of the heaven and the earth, useless and inaction, and you can live out its life and educate it. Let it know the etiquette, but it will kill its life.
What does this story tell us about human beings?Under the constraints of the rules, do we also lose our self, follow the etiquette and righteousness set by others all day long, and force ourselves to do things we don't want to do? How much of our limited life is left? "
"A wandering mouse made a home on top of the stupa.
Life in the pagoda is really blissful. It can travel freely between layers and enjoy rich offerings.It even enjoys unimaginable privileges, those unknown secrets, it can chew at will; Buddha statues that people dare not face up to, it can relax freely, and when it rises, it can even leave some excrement on the head of the Buddha statue .
Whenever devout men and women burn incense and kowtow, the mouse always looks at the intoxicating smoke rising slowly. It sniffs its nose and laughs inwardly: "It's ridiculous that human beings have such soft knees. Kneel down!"
One day, a very hungry stray cat broke in and caught the mouse.
"You can't eat me! You should bow down to me! I represent the Buddha!" protested the noble captive.
"People bow down to you because of the position you occupy, not because of you!"
sneered the wild cat, and then it broke the mouse in half.
This story tells us that in life, when many people are proud, we should think about it objectively. When others respect you, is it because of your own personality, knowledge, kindness, or because of your temporary position. "
"There once was a small country that paid tribute to three identical golden men. The emperor was very happy. But this small country was not kind, and asked a question at the same time: Which of these three golden men is the most valuable?
The emperor thought of many ways, and invited a jeweler to check, weigh them, and see that the workmanship was exactly the same.What to do? The envoy is still waiting to go back and report.Such a big country doesn't even understand this little thing, does it?
Finally, an old minister who abdicated said he had a way.
The emperor invited the envoys to the main hall, and the old minister was content to hold three straws and insert them into the ears of the first golden man, and the straws came out from the other ear.The straw of the second golden man fell out directly from the mouth, but for the third golden man, the straw fell into the stomach after going in, and there was no sound at all.The veteran said: The third golden man is the most valuable! The messenger was silent and the answer was correct.
This story tells us that the most valuable person is not necessarily the person who can say the most.God gave us two ears and one mouth, so we should listen more and speak less.Being good at listening is the most basic quality of a mature person. "
"There is a kid from a rich family who loves dumplings very much, and eats them every day. But he is also very naughty, he only eats stuffing, and throws the sharp ends of the skin into the small river behind him.
The good times didn't last long. When he was 16 years old, a fire burned his whole family, and his parents died of illness one after another in anger.Now he is penniless and embarrassed to beg for food.The neighbor's sister-in-law is very nice and gives him a bowl of batter for every meal.On the other hand, he studied hard, and when he came back after three years to obtain an official position, he must thank his neighbor's sister-in-law.
The sister-in-law said to him: Don't thank me.I didn't give you anything, but I collected the tip of the dumpling skins you threw away back then, dried them and packed them in sacks, originally to prepare them for emergencies.If you need it, I will return it to you.
The senior official thought for a long time, for a long time. . . .
This story tells us that time is the most affectionate and ruthless thing, everyone has the same, very fair.But those who own resources do not necessarily succeed, and those who make good use of resources will succeed. "
"Father and son live on the mountain, and every day they drive an ox cart down the mountain to sell firewood. The father is more experienced, driving in a small town, the mountain road is rugged, and there are many curves. The son has good eyesight, and always reminds when he wants to turn: "Father, turn the corner." La! "
Once the father did not go down the mountain due to illness, and the son drove alone.When it came to the bend, the cow refused to turn no matter what. The son tried all kinds of methods, got off the cart, pushed and pulled, and lured him with green grass, but the cow didn't move.
what is going on?The son was puzzled.In the end, there was only one way. He looked left and right to see if there was no one there, and leaned close to the cow's ear and shouted loudly: "Father, turn the corner!"
The cow moved in response.
This story tells us that cattle live by conditioned reflex, while people live by habit.A successful person knows how to develop good habits to replace bad ones. When good habits accumulate, he will naturally have a good life. "
"A big solid lock was hung on the gate, and an iron rod wasted a lot of effort, but it still couldn't be pried open.
When the key came, his thin body got into the keyhole, and with only a slight turn, the big lock opened with a "snap".
The iron rod asked strangely: "Why can't I open it with so much effort, but you open it easily?"
The key said: "Because I know his heart best."
This story tells us that everyone's heart is like a locked door, no matter how thick you are with an iron bar, you can't pry it open.Only caring can turn oneself into a delicate key to enter the hearts of others and understand others. "
Meng'er picked up the cup and took a sip of tea, and asked Wanyan Kang: "I have talked so much, what do you think?"
Wanyan Kang shook his head, then nodded again.
Meng'er asked, "What do you mean?"
Wan Yankang said: "My mind is messed up, I feel that the world is so big, what you said is both simple and profound, I am a little confused.
Can't take it. "
Menger said: "The road of life is bumpy and bumpy, and the world of mortals walks through ups and downs. Walking on the road of life, there will be joy of success and pain of failure. There will be clear blue sky, rain and mud, and the fragrance of birds and flowers." Influenced, there will also be declining scenery, life is full of understanding, you must learn to walk lightly, love and treasure in your heart, and you will be content when you are at ease. Flowers bloom in four seasons and love is always there. Looking at the sky brightly and beautifully, open the doors and windows of the four seasons, spring There is the abundance of spring, the splendor of summer in summer, the abundance of autumn in autumn, and the storage of winter in winter. The fleeting years are thick or light, which is the witness of time. The changing years, the wind and frost will be deep or shallow, just like life The thick and heavy, engraving and walking through life all the way, flowers wither and wither, people have ups and downs, those scattered in the cold and warm, are finally precipitated by time, there is always a person who thinks among thousands of people, you are not early Meet not too late, stay together in the ordinary, support each other in the wind and rain, accompany in the time, know your warmth, understand your heart, understand your joys and sorrows, know your feelings, love you as you like, think of you If you want to be a real beauty, you will tolerate your shortcomings, tolerate your willfulness, accompany you when you are lonely, comfort you when you are sad, hold an umbrella for the pain of life, share that meter of sunshine, and integrate love into time and love into you Life, give you the warmth of the heart, there are some scenery in life, can calm the wind and rain together, appreciate your bit by bit, unexpected beauty, relax your mood, people must be active in planning things, and work hard in the sky to make things happen.
The journey of life is long, never stopping is the footsteps, in the wind and rain, never giving up is life, life is alive, life in the wind and rain, life, always makes people exhausted, but they still don't give up, obviously feel tired, but can't say tired, often want to Sleeping, but there are unfinished trivialities, because I have responsibilities on my shoulders, so I have no complaints or regrets, because I have longings in my heart, so I keep chasing after them. Since I came to this world, I have to live beautifully. Walking stubbornly, time changes everything, everything changes us, what we were not used to, now we are used to it, what we once wanted very much, but now we don’t need it, at first we were very persistent, then we became very free and easy, loss happened, and also Strongness is forged, experience has paid a price, and growth has also been tempered. No tears, it doesn’t mean no tears, it doesn’t matter, it doesn’t mean no regrets, life works hard, no matter success or failure is admirable, life is not easy for anyone, cherish yourself Live a better life, cherish your own life, enjoy your own life, let the past become the past, hope is always in the future, and work hard to achieve it.
Life is full of troubles, looking for a shortcut to life, revealing the original meaning of life, achieving your own life, a life without shortcomings is just a fairy tale, if you elevate yourself too high, others may not look up to you, if you set yourself too low, others may not Respect you, no one is perfect, there is no need to cover up your own shortcomings, you must be able to raise your head, and you must be able to bow your head, between looking up and down, instead of blaming the world, it is better to change yourself, take care of your heart, and be yourself Things are better than anything else, life is not perfect, twists and turns are also scenery, don't take loss too seriously, giving up is another kind of possession, no one in life is smooth sailing, life is always going with wind and rain, those who can endure loneliness, for sure A thoughtful person, a person who can endure loneliness, must be a person with ideals, a person who can bend and stretch when things happen, must be a person with a heart, a person who handles things calmly, must be a calm person, with ideals in his heart, and a dream in the world of mortals .
Life is alive, and every road is a kind of understanding. The road of wind and rain is muddy and dignified. The road of life has hard work and hard work. The road of love has sadness and affection. There is no way to go, and there is no way to go. The road is still under our feet and in front of us. Although it is rough, we are still moving forward, because we must face it in life, because we must walk because of responsibility; because we must be persistent in harvesting, Looking back on the road we have traveled is a kind of understanding of life, a kind of precious experience, and a kind of no regrets in life. Only after loving, can we know how to own and cherish, and only after suffering, can we know how to care and bitterness. Only when you let go can you understand open-mindedness and tranquility. After experiencing it, you can understand feelings and choices. How many times you are moved and shed tears, how many times your feelings turn back and forth. Choose to do your best, have no regrets in your heart, have no regrets in the present, have a broad heart and have a smooth sailing boat, and you are not afraid of difficulties after going through hardships.
Life is a long journey, the road has flatness and ups and downs, a person knows the pain only after being hurt, and grows only when he falls, life is sometimes frustrating, life always feels hopeless, always cares about what others say, right and wrong In the past, I was always competitive. In fact, it was because my vanity was too strong. In fact, life is so simple. Be more happy and less troubled. Go to sleep when you are tired, smile when you wake up, and talk to friends when you are free. To be the simplest person and to walk the happiest road, many times I don't care about myself, I hide the little bit of care in my heart, I always want to
Wan Yankang said: "I'm sorry I was on the street that day, I didn't mean it, so don't be angry."
Meng'er smiled, like a hundred flowers blooming, Wanyan Kang was stunned.
Wan Yankang came back to his senses and 'coughed' to hide his unease.
Meng'er said: "I know, you just don't want to be deceived by others, and Ouyang Ke's attitude also annoyed you, so
You will vent your dissatisfaction indiscriminately.But have you thought about one thing? "
Wan Yankang said: "What's the matter?"
Meng'er said: "You are well-clothed and well-fed in the king's mansion. You have a high status and are favored by the King of Zhao, so those people will only desperately support you."
Knot you.But Ouyang Ke is different. His uncle is Ouyang Feng, one of the five masters of the West, and he is the young master of the White Camel Villa who dominates the Western Regions. He has no shortage of gold, silver, treasures, and beauties of all colors. He has no reason to curry favor You, flatter you, he does things according to his preferences, you have to be clear about this, so don't treat him with the tone you treat your subordinates, and don't vent your anger on him.Otherwise, if you encounter trouble in the martial arts, your master cannot save you.
Let's talk about your master, as a monk, it's okay to go for fame and death to save face, and you don't know right from wrong, don't use your head to think about problems, and fight and kill at every turn. What do you think he looks like a Taoist priest except for his clothes?
He came to you and taught you martial arts just to make a bet with the Seven Monsters of the South of the Yangtze River, not for you. Besides, besides Wang Chongyang, only Zhou Botong can do it in the Quanzhen Sect, so you should think more about yourself think about it. "
Wan Yankang thought for a while, then asked: "Thank you for your guidance, may I ask the girl's name?"
Meng'er said: "Call me Miss Meng'er."
Wanyan Kang nodded.
Meng'er said: "I'm very bored today, I want to tell a story to pass the time, do you want to listen?"
Wanyan Kang smiled and said, "Okay, I'm willing to listen."
"Once upon a time, there were two monks who lived in temples on two adjacent mountains.
There is a stream between the two mountains, so the two monks would go down the mountain to fetch water from the stream at the same time every day, and they became good friends over time.In this way, five years have passed unknowingly carrying water every day.
Suddenly one day the monk on the mountain on the left did not go down to carry water, and the monk on the mountain on the right thought to himself: He probably overslept.I don't care.I don't know that the monk on the mountain on the left still did not go down the next day, and the same on the third day.After a week, it was still the same, until a month later, the monk on the mountain on the right finally couldn't take it anymore. He thought to himself: My friend may be sick. I'm going to visit him and see what I can do to help.
So he climbed up the mountain on the left to visit his old friend.When he arrived at the temple on the mountain on the left, he was surprised when he saw his old friend, because his old friend was doing Tai Chi in front of the temple, and he didn't look like a person who hadn't drunk water for a month at all.He asked curiously: "You haven't gone down the mountain to carry water for a month, don't you need to drink water?" The monk on the mountain on the left said: "Come, come, I will show you."
So he took the monk from the mountain on the right to the backyard of the temple, pointed to a well and said: "For the past five years, I have taken time to dig this well every day after finishing my homework. Even if I am busy sometimes, I count as much as I can dig." .Now that I have finally dug out the well water, I don't have to go down the mountain to carry water, and I can have more time to practice my favorite Tai Chi. '
This story tells us that we should seize the time to dig a well for ourselves while we are young. In the future, when we are older and physically weaker than young people, we will still have water to drink, and we can drink it leisurely. "
Wanyan Kang was thoughtful.
Meng'er took a sip of tea, and then said: "Once upon a time, two hungry people got a gift from an elder: a fishing rod
And a basket of fresh and huge fish.Among them, a person to a basket of fish, another person to a rod, so they parted ways.
The person who got the fish built a bonfire with dry sticks and cooked the fish on the spot. He wolfed down the fish, but before he could taste the meaty aroma, he turned to eat the fish.
In an instant, he ate up all the fish and soup, and soon he starved to death beside the empty fish basket.
The other person continued to suffer from hunger and hunger with a fishing rod, and walked towards the sea with difficulty step by step, but when he had seen the water not far away,
In the blue ocean, the last bit of strength in his body was exhausted, and he could only helplessly pass away with endless regrets.
There were two hungry people. They also got a fishing rod and a basket of fish from the elders.It's just that they didn't go their separate ways, but they agreed to find the sea together. They only cooked one fish at a time. After a long journey, they came to the seaside. Afterwards, they built houses, had their own families, children, and fishing boats they built, and lived a happy and healthy life.
This story tells us that a person who only cares about immediate interests will end up with short-term happiness; a person has high goals, but he must also face the reality of life.Only by organically combining ideals and reality can one become a successful person.Sometimes, a simple truth is enough to inspire people with meaningful life. "
Wanyan Kang thought for a while, then continued to listen.
Meng'er took another sip of tea and continued: "A student of Confucius found something dirty fell into the pot when he was cooking porridge. He quickly scooped it up with a spoon and was about to throw it away. At that time, it suddenly occurred to me that every porridge and meal are hard-won.
So he ate it.It happened that Confucius walked into the kitchen and thought he was stealing food, so he taught the classmate who was in charge of cooking.After explaining, everyone suddenly realized.Confucius said with emotion: "The things I saw with my own eyes are not true, let alone what I heard and heard?" '
This story tells us that from time to time we hear words that are difficult to distinguish between right and wrong, which often confuses right and wrong and affects confidence.Therefore, to find out the truth of the matter, don't easily believe in rumors, so that the career you have worked so hard to build will not be ruined overnight. "
Meng'er continued: "A scholar came to Beijing for the third time to take the exam and lived in a shop where he often lived.
Two days before the exam, he had three dreams. The first dream was that he was planting cabbage on the wall. The second dream was that he was wearing a bamboo hat and an umbrella on a rainy day. The third dream was that he was with his beloved. cousin lying together, but back to back.These three dreams seemed to have deep meanings, so Xiucai hurried to find a fortune-teller to interpret the dreams the next day.
When the fortune teller heard this, he slapped his thigh and said: "You should go home. Think about it, isn't it a waste of effort to grow vegetables on a high wall? Isn't it superfluous to wear a bamboo hat and an umbrella? I'm lying on the same bed with my cousin, but back to back , isn't there no play?"
When Xiucai heard this, she was disheartened, and went back to the store to pack her bags and prepare to go home.The store owner was very surprised and asked: "Isn't the exam tomorrow? Why did you go back to your hometown today?" After the scholar said this, the store owner was amused: "Yo, I can also interpret dreams. I think, You must stay this time. Think about it, isn’t it a good idea to grow vegetables on the wall? Doesn’t wearing a bamboo hat and an umbrella mean that you are prepared for this time? Lying back to back on the bed with your cousin doesn’t mean that it’s time for you to turn over ?"
When the scholar heard it, it made more sense, so he took the exam with high spirits, and unexpectedly won a prize.
This story tells us that a positive person is like the sun, where it shines brightly, and a negative person is like the moon, the first and fifteenth day of the new year are different.Ideas determine our lives, what kind of ideas we have, what kind of future we have. "
Meng'er continued: "A man caught a young eagle in the eagle's nest on the top of the mountain, and he took the young eagle home and raised it in a chicken coop.
This young eagle and chicken peck, play and rest together.It thought it was a chicken.
The eagle gradually grew up and its wings were full. The owner wanted to train it to be a falcon, but because it was mixed with chickens all day long, it had become exactly like a chicken and had no desire to fly at all.
The owner tried various methods, but to no avail, and finally took it to the top of the mountain and threw it out.The eagle fell straight down like a stone. In a panic, it flapped its wings desperately. Just like that, it finally flew up!
This story tells us how to hone the power to summon success. "
"After the rain, a spider struggled to crawl towards the fragmented web on the wall. Due to the dampness of the wall, it climbed to a certain height and then fell down. It climbed up again and again, and fell down again and again...
The first person saw it, he sighed, and said to himself: "Isn't my life just like this spider? I'm so busy that I don't get anything." So he became depressed day by day.
The second person saw it, and he said: "This spider is really stupid, why don't you go around and climb up from the dry place next to it?"I can't be as stupid as it in the future.So he became wiser.
The third person saw it, and he was immediately moved by the spirit of the spider's repeated defeats.So he became strong.
This story tells us that people with a successful mindset can find the power of success everywhere. "
"The old monk and the young monk were traveling, and they encountered a river on the way; they saw a woman who wanted to cross the river, but dared not.
The old monk took the initiative to carry the woman across the river, then put down the woman and continued on the road with the young monk.
The little monk couldn't help muttering all the way: What happened to Master?How dare you carry a woman across the river?I walked all the way, thought all the way, finally couldn't bear it anymore, and said: Master, have you violated the precept?How did you carry a woman on your back?
The old monk sighed: I have already let go, but you still can't let go!
This story tells us that a gentleman is magnanimous, and a villain is always concerned; broad-minded, open-minded, able to afford and let go of things, can always maintain a healthy state of mind. "
"Anyone who has been to the temple knows that when entering the temple gate, Amitabha Buddha greets visitors with a smiling face, and to the north of him is Wei Tuo with black mouth and black face. But according to legend, they were not in the same place a long time ago. Temple, but are in charge of different temples.
Mi Le Buddha was enthusiastic and happy, so many people came, but he didn't care about anything, he was careless, he didn't manage the accounts properly, so he still couldn't make ends meet.Although Wei Tuo is a good hand in account management, he has a gloomy face all day long and is too serious, which makes fewer and fewer people, and finally the incense is cut off.
The Buddha discovered this problem when he was checking the incense, so he put the two of them in the same temple, and Mi Le Buddha was in charge of public relations, welcoming all guests with a smile, so the incense was very prosperous.And Wei Tuo is stern and selfless, and every penny counts, so he is asked to be responsible for the finances and strictly control them.In the division of labor and cooperation between the two, the temple is thriving.
This story tells us that in the eyes of master employers, there is no useless person, just like martial arts masters, who can hurt people by picking flowers and flying leaves without expensive swords, the key depends on how to use them. "
"There was a man from the state of Lu who was good at weaving straw sandals, and his wife was good at weaving white silk. He wanted to move to Yue.
A friend said to him, "If you go to Yue, you will be poor."
"why?"
"Straw sandals are used to wear and walk, but Yue people are used to walking barefoot; white silk is used to make hats, but Yue people are used to disheveling their hair. With your strengths, go where you are not needed, Is it possible, then, not to be poor?"
This story tells us that if a person wants to develop his expertise, he must adapt to the needs of the social environment.If it is separated from the needs of the social environment, its expertise will lose its value.Therefore, we should decide our own actions according to the needs of the society, and make better use of our expertise. "
"King Wen of Wei asked the famous doctor Bian Que: "The three brothers in your family are all good at medicine. Which one is the best?
Bian Que replied: "The eldest brother is the best, the middle brother is the second, and I am the worst.
King Wen asked again, "Then why are you the most famous?
Bian Que replied: "The eldest brother treats the disease before the onset of the disease. Since most people don't know that he can eradicate the cause in advance, his reputation cannot be spread; the middle brother treats the disease when the disease begins. Most people think that he can only treat minor diseases, so his fame is only in this town. And I treat diseases when they are seriously ill. Most people have seen me threading needles on meridians to bleed blood, applying medicine on the skin and other major operations. , so I thought that my medical skills were brilliant, and my fame spread all over the country.
This story tells us that control after the event is not as good as control during the event, and control during the event is not as good as control before the event. "
"A guest came to someone's house and saw that the chimney on the stove of the owner's house was straight, and there were a lot of wood beside it. The guest told the owner that the chimney had to be bent and the wood had to be removed, otherwise there might be a fire in the future. The owner After listening, he didn't make any expression.
Soon the owner’s house caught fire, and the neighbors around rushed to put out the fire. At last the fire was extinguished, so the owner cooked sheep and slaughtered cattle, and entertained the neighbors with a banquet to reward them for their efforts in putting out the fire. The person who changed the tune.
Someone said to the host: "If you had listened to that gentleman, you would not have to prepare a banquet today, and there would be no fire damage. Now you will be rewarded for your merits. The person who gave you the advice is not grateful, but the person who put out the fire is a guest." , What a strange thing! The host suddenly realized, and hurriedly invited the guest who gave the suggestion to have a drink.
This story tells us that prevention is more important than cure, and it is better to prevent problems before they happen than to cure chaos after it has been completed. "
"In ancient times, there were two brothers who each carried a suitcase on a long journey. Along the way, the heavy suitcases weighed both brothers out of breath. They had to change their left hand when their left hand was tired, and change their left hand when their right hand was tired. Suddenly, the eldest brother stopped, bought a shoulder pole on the side of the road, and hung two suitcases on the shoulder pole, one on the left and one on the right.
This story tells us that on the road of our life, we will definitely encounter many difficulties.But do we all know that on the way forward, removing the stumbling blocks of others is sometimes just paving the way for ourselves? "
"There was a fisherman with first-class fishing skills, who was honored as the 'Fisher King'. However, the 'Fisher King' was very distressed when he was old, because his three sons had mediocre fishing skills.
So I often tell people the distress in my heart: "I really don't understand, my fishing skills are so good, why are my sons so poor? I have taught them fishing skills since they were sensible, starting from the most basic things. I taught them how to weave a net to catch fish the most, how to row a boat without disturbing the fish, and how to lower the net to invite fish into the urn. When they grow up, I teach them how to know the tide and fish season. . I have passed on to them all the experience I have accumulated through years of hard work, but their fishing skills can't catch up with the sons of fishermen who are less skilled than me!"
After hearing his story, a passer-by asked, "Have you been teaching them hand in hand?"
"Yes, I taught them very carefully and patiently in order to let them acquire first-class fishing skills."
"Have they been following you?"
"Yes, in order to avoid detours for them, I have always asked them to learn from me."
A passer-by said: "In this way, your mistake is obvious. You only taught them the technology, but did not teach them the lesson.
This story tells us that as far as talents are concerned, having no lessons is the same as having no experience, neither can make a person great! "
"An old monk, surrounded by a group of pious disciples. On this day, he asked his disciples to go to Nanshan to collect a load of firewood and come back. The disciples hurried to the river not far from the mountain, and everyone was dumbfounded. Seeing the flood rushing down from the mountain, there is no way to cross the river to collect firewood anyway. After returning in vain, the disciples were a little downcast. Only one young monk faced the master calmly. When the master asked why, the young monk took out a I handed an apple to the master and said that I couldn't cross the river and couldn't get firewood. I saw an apple tree by the river, so I picked the only apple on the tree. Later, this little monk became the successor of the master. .
This story tells us that there are endless roads and rivers that cannot be crossed in the world.It is also a kind of wisdom to turn around the river that cannot be crossed.But true wisdom has to do one more thing by the river: fly the kite of thought and pick an apple.Looking through the past and present, those who hold on to such a belief in life have finally achieved breakthroughs and surmounting in life. "
"A farmer rescued his wife from the flood, but his child was drowned.
Afterwards, people talked about it.Some said he was right, because a child can have another child, but a wife cannot die and come back to life.Some said he was wrong, because the wife can marry another, but the child cannot die and come back to life.
I listened to people's arguments, and felt puzzled: If only one person could be saved, should I save the wife or the child?
So I went to visit the farmer and asked him what he thought at the time.
He replied: "I didn't think about anything. When the flood came, my wife was beside me. I grabbed her and went swimming to the nearby hillside. When I returned, the child had been washed away by the flood."
On the way home, I thought about what the farmer said, and said to myself: If the farmer hesitated at that time, none of them might be saved; this is the case with many choices in life.
This story tells us that there is no right or wrong in many things, and you are not allowed to think about right and wrong. If you hesitate too much or care too much about what others think, you may not be able to do anything. "
"Two traveling angels lodge with a wealthy family. The family is unfriendly to them and refuses to let them spend the night in their comfortable guest bedroom, finding them a corner in the cold basement instead. When they make their beds One day, the older angel found a hole in the wall and repaired it. The younger angel asked why, and the older angel replied, "Something is not as it seems. "
On the second night, the two went to a very poor farmhouse to spend the night again.The host and his wife were very warm to them. They entertained the guests with what little food they had, and then gave up their own beds to the two angels.Early the next morning, two angels found the farmer and his wife crying, their only source of livelihood - a cow died.The young angel was very angry. He questioned the old angel why it was like this. The first family had everything and the old angel helped them repair the hole in the wall. The second family even though they were so poor still entertained the guests, but the old angel did not stop the cows. death.
"Something is not as it seems," replied the old angel. "When we spent the night in the basement, I saw through the hole in the wall that the wall was full of gold nuggets. Because the master was deluded by greed and did not want to share His wealth, so I filled the hole in the wall. Last night, the god of death came to summon the farmer's wife, and I put the cow in her place. So some things are not as it seems.
This story shows us that sometimes things are not what they should be.If you have faith, you just need to believe that the hard work will always pay off.You probably won't find out until later..."
"There was an old lady who sat on the side of the road and looked at a high wall not far away. She always felt that it would collapse soon. Go away.The person who was reminded looked at her in puzzlement as she walked along the bottom of the wall in a big way-the wall did not fall down.The old lady was very angry: "Why don't you listen to me?! Another person came, and the old lady gave advice. Three days passed, and many people walked past the wall without any danger. On the fourth day, the old lady Feeling a little strange and a little disappointed, he couldn't help but go to the base of the wall to take a closer look. However, at this moment, the wall collapsed, and the old lady was buried in the dusty bricks and died.
This story tells us that it is often easy and sober to remind others, but it is difficult to remind ourselves soberly at all times.Therefore, many dangers come from themselves, and the sorrow of the old lady was born because of this. "
"Isn't it absurd that a small pillar and a thin chain can hold an elephant weighing a thousand catties? But such absurd scenes can be seen everywhere in Qin State. Those mahouts, whether elephants or When the baby elephant was young, it was tied to a concrete or steel pillar with an iron chain. No matter how hard the baby elephant struggled, it could not break free. The baby elephant gradually got used to not struggling until it grew into an elephant and could easily break free When chaining, there is no struggle.
The tiger tamer was as successful as the elephant tamer. He made the little tiger a vegetarian until he grew up.Tigers don't know the taste of meat, so naturally they won't hurt people.The fatal mistake of the tiger trainer was that he let the tiger lick his blood on the ground after he fell down.
Baby elephants are bound by chains, while elephants are bound by habit.
The tiger was once bound by habit, and the man who tamed the tiger died of habit (he had gotten used to his tiger not eating people).
This story tells us that habit can bind almost everything, but not chance.Like the tiger that accidentally tasted blood. "
"The horse used to roam freely in the mountains, drink some spring when thirsty, and sleep on the ground basking in the sun when tired, carefree. But since Bole, the fate of the horse has changed. Put on the bridle, place saddles on its back, and tie it. The death rate of the horse is already two to three out of ten. Then force it to transport things, force it to travel thousands of miles a day, and nail its feet. With iron palms, the death rate of the horse is more than half. The horse is a useless animal with no rules. Let it absorb the essence of the sun and the moon, the aura of the heaven and the earth, useless and inaction, and you can live out its life and educate it. Let it know the etiquette, but it will kill its life.
What does this story tell us about human beings?Under the constraints of the rules, do we also lose our self, follow the etiquette and righteousness set by others all day long, and force ourselves to do things we don't want to do? How much of our limited life is left? "
"A wandering mouse made a home on top of the stupa.
Life in the pagoda is really blissful. It can travel freely between layers and enjoy rich offerings.It even enjoys unimaginable privileges, those unknown secrets, it can chew at will; Buddha statues that people dare not face up to, it can relax freely, and when it rises, it can even leave some excrement on the head of the Buddha statue .
Whenever devout men and women burn incense and kowtow, the mouse always looks at the intoxicating smoke rising slowly. It sniffs its nose and laughs inwardly: "It's ridiculous that human beings have such soft knees. Kneel down!"
One day, a very hungry stray cat broke in and caught the mouse.
"You can't eat me! You should bow down to me! I represent the Buddha!" protested the noble captive.
"People bow down to you because of the position you occupy, not because of you!"
sneered the wild cat, and then it broke the mouse in half.
This story tells us that in life, when many people are proud, we should think about it objectively. When others respect you, is it because of your own personality, knowledge, kindness, or because of your temporary position. "
"There once was a small country that paid tribute to three identical golden men. The emperor was very happy. But this small country was not kind, and asked a question at the same time: Which of these three golden men is the most valuable?
The emperor thought of many ways, and invited a jeweler to check, weigh them, and see that the workmanship was exactly the same.What to do? The envoy is still waiting to go back and report.Such a big country doesn't even understand this little thing, does it?
Finally, an old minister who abdicated said he had a way.
The emperor invited the envoys to the main hall, and the old minister was content to hold three straws and insert them into the ears of the first golden man, and the straws came out from the other ear.The straw of the second golden man fell out directly from the mouth, but for the third golden man, the straw fell into the stomach after going in, and there was no sound at all.The veteran said: The third golden man is the most valuable! The messenger was silent and the answer was correct.
This story tells us that the most valuable person is not necessarily the person who can say the most.God gave us two ears and one mouth, so we should listen more and speak less.Being good at listening is the most basic quality of a mature person. "
"There is a kid from a rich family who loves dumplings very much, and eats them every day. But he is also very naughty, he only eats stuffing, and throws the sharp ends of the skin into the small river behind him.
The good times didn't last long. When he was 16 years old, a fire burned his whole family, and his parents died of illness one after another in anger.Now he is penniless and embarrassed to beg for food.The neighbor's sister-in-law is very nice and gives him a bowl of batter for every meal.On the other hand, he studied hard, and when he came back after three years to obtain an official position, he must thank his neighbor's sister-in-law.
The sister-in-law said to him: Don't thank me.I didn't give you anything, but I collected the tip of the dumpling skins you threw away back then, dried them and packed them in sacks, originally to prepare them for emergencies.If you need it, I will return it to you.
The senior official thought for a long time, for a long time. . . .
This story tells us that time is the most affectionate and ruthless thing, everyone has the same, very fair.But those who own resources do not necessarily succeed, and those who make good use of resources will succeed. "
"Father and son live on the mountain, and every day they drive an ox cart down the mountain to sell firewood. The father is more experienced, driving in a small town, the mountain road is rugged, and there are many curves. The son has good eyesight, and always reminds when he wants to turn: "Father, turn the corner." La! "
Once the father did not go down the mountain due to illness, and the son drove alone.When it came to the bend, the cow refused to turn no matter what. The son tried all kinds of methods, got off the cart, pushed and pulled, and lured him with green grass, but the cow didn't move.
what is going on?The son was puzzled.In the end, there was only one way. He looked left and right to see if there was no one there, and leaned close to the cow's ear and shouted loudly: "Father, turn the corner!"
The cow moved in response.
This story tells us that cattle live by conditioned reflex, while people live by habit.A successful person knows how to develop good habits to replace bad ones. When good habits accumulate, he will naturally have a good life. "
"A big solid lock was hung on the gate, and an iron rod wasted a lot of effort, but it still couldn't be pried open.
When the key came, his thin body got into the keyhole, and with only a slight turn, the big lock opened with a "snap".
The iron rod asked strangely: "Why can't I open it with so much effort, but you open it easily?"
The key said: "Because I know his heart best."
This story tells us that everyone's heart is like a locked door, no matter how thick you are with an iron bar, you can't pry it open.Only caring can turn oneself into a delicate key to enter the hearts of others and understand others. "
Meng'er picked up the cup and took a sip of tea, and asked Wanyan Kang: "I have talked so much, what do you think?"
Wanyan Kang shook his head, then nodded again.
Meng'er asked, "What do you mean?"
Wan Yankang said: "My mind is messed up, I feel that the world is so big, what you said is both simple and profound, I am a little confused.
Can't take it. "
Menger said: "The road of life is bumpy and bumpy, and the world of mortals walks through ups and downs. Walking on the road of life, there will be joy of success and pain of failure. There will be clear blue sky, rain and mud, and the fragrance of birds and flowers." Influenced, there will also be declining scenery, life is full of understanding, you must learn to walk lightly, love and treasure in your heart, and you will be content when you are at ease. Flowers bloom in four seasons and love is always there. Looking at the sky brightly and beautifully, open the doors and windows of the four seasons, spring There is the abundance of spring, the splendor of summer in summer, the abundance of autumn in autumn, and the storage of winter in winter. The fleeting years are thick or light, which is the witness of time. The changing years, the wind and frost will be deep or shallow, just like life The thick and heavy, engraving and walking through life all the way, flowers wither and wither, people have ups and downs, those scattered in the cold and warm, are finally precipitated by time, there is always a person who thinks among thousands of people, you are not early Meet not too late, stay together in the ordinary, support each other in the wind and rain, accompany in the time, know your warmth, understand your heart, understand your joys and sorrows, know your feelings, love you as you like, think of you If you want to be a real beauty, you will tolerate your shortcomings, tolerate your willfulness, accompany you when you are lonely, comfort you when you are sad, hold an umbrella for the pain of life, share that meter of sunshine, and integrate love into time and love into you Life, give you the warmth of the heart, there are some scenery in life, can calm the wind and rain together, appreciate your bit by bit, unexpected beauty, relax your mood, people must be active in planning things, and work hard in the sky to make things happen.
The journey of life is long, never stopping is the footsteps, in the wind and rain, never giving up is life, life is alive, life in the wind and rain, life, always makes people exhausted, but they still don't give up, obviously feel tired, but can't say tired, often want to Sleeping, but there are unfinished trivialities, because I have responsibilities on my shoulders, so I have no complaints or regrets, because I have longings in my heart, so I keep chasing after them. Since I came to this world, I have to live beautifully. Walking stubbornly, time changes everything, everything changes us, what we were not used to, now we are used to it, what we once wanted very much, but now we don’t need it, at first we were very persistent, then we became very free and easy, loss happened, and also Strongness is forged, experience has paid a price, and growth has also been tempered. No tears, it doesn’t mean no tears, it doesn’t matter, it doesn’t mean no regrets, life works hard, no matter success or failure is admirable, life is not easy for anyone, cherish yourself Live a better life, cherish your own life, enjoy your own life, let the past become the past, hope is always in the future, and work hard to achieve it.
Life is full of troubles, looking for a shortcut to life, revealing the original meaning of life, achieving your own life, a life without shortcomings is just a fairy tale, if you elevate yourself too high, others may not look up to you, if you set yourself too low, others may not Respect you, no one is perfect, there is no need to cover up your own shortcomings, you must be able to raise your head, and you must be able to bow your head, between looking up and down, instead of blaming the world, it is better to change yourself, take care of your heart, and be yourself Things are better than anything else, life is not perfect, twists and turns are also scenery, don't take loss too seriously, giving up is another kind of possession, no one in life is smooth sailing, life is always going with wind and rain, those who can endure loneliness, for sure A thoughtful person, a person who can endure loneliness, must be a person with ideals, a person who can bend and stretch when things happen, must be a person with a heart, a person who handles things calmly, must be a calm person, with ideals in his heart, and a dream in the world of mortals .
Life is alive, and every road is a kind of understanding. The road of wind and rain is muddy and dignified. The road of life has hard work and hard work. The road of love has sadness and affection. There is no way to go, and there is no way to go. The road is still under our feet and in front of us. Although it is rough, we are still moving forward, because we must face it in life, because we must walk because of responsibility; because we must be persistent in harvesting, Looking back on the road we have traveled is a kind of understanding of life, a kind of precious experience, and a kind of no regrets in life. Only after loving, can we know how to own and cherish, and only after suffering, can we know how to care and bitterness. Only when you let go can you understand open-mindedness and tranquility. After experiencing it, you can understand feelings and choices. How many times you are moved and shed tears, how many times your feelings turn back and forth. Choose to do your best, have no regrets in your heart, have no regrets in the present, have a broad heart and have a smooth sailing boat, and you are not afraid of difficulties after going through hardships.
Life is a long journey, the road has flatness and ups and downs, a person knows the pain only after being hurt, and grows only when he falls, life is sometimes frustrating, life always feels hopeless, always cares about what others say, right and wrong In the past, I was always competitive. In fact, it was because my vanity was too strong. In fact, life is so simple. Be more happy and less troubled. Go to sleep when you are tired, smile when you wake up, and talk to friends when you are free. To be the simplest person and to walk the happiest road, many times I don't care about myself, I hide the little bit of care in my heart, I always want to
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