Enemies in the Red Chamber

Afterwards, Jia Min took over everything, and Cheng Cui's side was also made up by Mrs. Cheng, and the two families fought back and forth, ending with the Lin family winning.After all, it was Cheng Cui who started to sow discord against Wu Lin, that girl is also from the Cheng family, and the master has to bear the responsibility if the subordinate commits a crime, the Cheng family cannot stand on reason.Cheng Cui's family is not in a good position, her status in her in-law's family is not high, this time she was almost sent to the Zhuangzi to spend the rest of her life, and she never even thought about going out to socialize, and she will always be inferior to others in her in-law's family.That girl was even worse, she was betrayed far away on the surface, but secretly she didn't know how to deal with her.On the other hand, Wu Lin's reputation was even worse, just like what others said when persuading her, no matter right or wrong, if something goes wrong, she will be implicated, and even the name of the Lin family has been tainted.

Jia Min and Lin Ruhai had a thorough understanding of the world. Whether or not Wu Lin had an outbreak, neither the Lin family nor Wu Lin would be in a good position. In comparison, it would be better to have an outbreak like this so that people would know that it is not easy to bully them.Even if Lin Hai has some complaints in his heart, he still restrains himself. Now that he has reached this point, he might as well take the upper hand in the public opinion. People who understand will naturally see the kindness of the Lin family, and the Wu family must be more dedicated to Brother Liu.

Brother Liu still thinks it doesn't matter, he didn't have such high demands on Wu Lin, and he didn't think that reputation is such an important thing from the bottom of his heart.In his eyes, as long as you are capable enough, no matter how unconvinced others are, you can only hold back.Just like in his previous life, he also knew that some people would say that he doted on his concubine and killed his wife, was ungrateful, cruel and heartless, but since he took power in his hands, who would dare to talk about it?No one dares to be in front of people, and no one dares to be behind people, and life is still prosperous.

In his view, this incident is an opportunity instead. He has always wanted to wait for three years to pass the scientific examination and then release his political achievements to the outside world. Every person is promoted step by step from the grassroots level, and it is inevitable to win outside.It happened to be aware of Wu Lin's shortcomings in advance and let Jia Min teach her well in advance, so it may not be a bad thing.

After Brother Liu told Jia Min and Lin Hai what he thought, Lin Hai knew that Brother Liu was unwilling to be ordinary, and it wasn't outrageous that he could only agree.Jia Min listened to Lin Hai on this matter, so she asked Wu Lin to stay away from social life temporarily according to Brother Liu's advice, and concentrate on teaching her how to be a good housekeeper when she is released.No one knows it by birth. Although a teenager has already married, she can't be too strict and ask her to do everything well.With this kind of mentality, Jia Min can always forgive Wu Lin with a tolerant attitude when encountering Wu Lin in the process of education. When the mother-in-law was alone in front of her, she also took great pains to think about it. Even though she was a slow learner, she couldn't help but work hard, and she did not lose her impression in the hearts of the Lin family.

Nuan Nuan is alive and smart, and she learns things much faster than Wu Lin. Seeing that Jia Min taught Wu Lin more attentively than herself, as the youngest girl in the family, she couldn't help but feel a little uncomfortable.Because of her upbringing since she was a child, she didn't find fault with Wu Lin, but always went to Jia Min to show her presence. Brother Chen couldn't help laughing at her when he saw her, and she was angry with Brother Chen and fought coldly with him.Jia Min pretended not to notice at first, and watched her actions coldly, observing whether she could adjust herself.Later, I didn’t call for advice until I saw her upset, irritable, choking, and even started to shake her face at Wu Lin. Fortunately, Wu Lin didn’t take this seriously, and didn’t take it to heart at all. She thought it was because she was embarrassed after growing up. Noisy.

In Jia Min's mind, a daughter-in-law can be pampered, because she will always belong to her own family and will not suffer under her eyes, while a daughter must not be pampered. The people you are looking for may look good, but they are not so good. It all depends on fate, and you can't get along easily. You must abide by the rules.This kind of thinking may have various shortcomings, but she really thinks that way, who makes this world unfair to women.So through this matter, Nuan Nuan was severely criticized, and then she reasoned with her, and soon after, she finally got rid of her temper.The habit of being strict with oneself and being lenient towards others cannot be said to be good, but it is undeniable that when a housewife does this, it is very beneficial to family harmony.

For example, Jia Min, Mrs. Yang and Tian in Shandong.

Among the three brothers of the Yang family, in addition to the elder brother, Yang Shili also had a younger brother. When Daiyu's child was three months old, the Yang family married again.Yang Sandi's hobby is very strange. He likes the stereotyped essays used in the imperial examinations. He likes not the kind that is used for the imperial examinations for officials, but simply likes to write stereotyped essays, and he dismisses the prose poems of Yang Shili, Daiyu, etc. .I studied at home school since I was a child, and went to the academy to study with my husband when I grew up. Later, I worshiped the head of the mountain as my teacher, and the daughter-in-law I married was the teacher's daughter.

The girl was chosen by Yang Sandi himself. Mrs. Yang thought it was okay after meeting her twice, and after asking people close to her, she agreed. Seeing that Yang Sandi's teacher and mistress were understanding people, she agreed and made a marriage arrangement early. Just marry.The men may not feel it after marriage, but the three women of the Yang family all feel a little bit of disobedience.It's not that the third grandma Huang is bad or incapable of doing things, it's just that she simply feels that she doesn't get along with other people.

The three women in the Yang family, Mrs. Yang is a shrewd and wise headed wife, Mrs. Tian is born open-minded and straightforward in doing things, and Daiyu is indifferent after great ups and downs.The new Huang family always seems to be covered with a veil, and what he does always feels fake, not real at all.To be honest, Daiyu has the highest status among the three sisters-in-law, and Tian and Huang are evenly matched. Tian, ​​the eldest daughter-in-law, has no other ideas when facing Daiyu, but Huang always has a way of twitching. It's not like saying inferiority complex.

It's like everyone discussing books and scriptures together, Daiyu said something out of the way that everyone didn't know, but Tian simply said that he didn't know, and Daiyu explained it and then started again.When she arrived at Mrs. Huang's place, she was speechless at first, but after Daiyu said it herself, she said, "That's the sentence, I can't say it when I put it on my lips, I'm so stupid", or said, "Oh, I also listen to my father. I said it, but it’s a pity I didn’t write it down. I’ll have to write it down after this time.” Sometimes, when I can’t find an excuse, I will say that a woman’s lack of talent is virtue. Anyway, I won’t give up easily , It seems that if you lose once, you will be shorter than others.

After Daiyu had a child, she stayed at home because the child was still urinating, and the three sisters-in-law also spent a lot of time getting along with each other on a daily basis.After a long time, Tian and Daiyu will naturally feel that they won't get close to her in their hearts, and they will play together as two people.If there were too many times, she would cry and cry and say things like ostracizing her in secret. Yang Sandi even asked Yang Shili to intercede once and asked Daiyu to take her to play.I don't know what Tian Shi thinks, anyway, Daiyu held her breath in her heart, and became more and more disliked by her.Daiyu is not the kind of person who would rather suffer a little grievance than hello, me, and everyone. If she doesn't like her, she won't accommodate her, and of course she won't target her, just treat her like an ordinary person.In this way, the servants of the Yang family who were still in the wedding period felt that the second grandmother and the third grandmother were not in harmony.

Mrs. Yang is a fine person, she can see that this daughter-in-law is different from the previous two, and she didn't have any grudges first, so she brought her with her after the three-month wedding period, and she will break the way of doing things. Broke it and told her.Mrs. Yang didn't have a daughter, and Daiyu felt that even if she had a daughter, it would be all right.If Daiyu hadn't experienced many things, seeing Mrs. Yang being so kind to Huang, she might have complained.Fortunately, Tian's temper is not like Daiyu's. She really didn't think there was anything wrong with her mother-in-law bringing her three younger siblings to meet people. Just like when Daiyu came in, the dowry weighed on her head. She never felt jealous or unfair. Didn't even think about the bad at all.Therefore, Mrs. Yang, the eldest daughter-in-law, really chose well.

I don't know if there is a gap between Daiyu and Huang or what. When Mrs. Yang asked Huang to get close to Daiyu, both Tian and Mrs. Yang secretly said that they have done a good job now, but Daiyu still can't feel it. Huang's sincerity, on the contrary, felt that the pretense was getting stronger.Telling Yang Shili behind his back, Yang Shili teased her, "You can be regarded as catching the reason that you are not the one who is in charge of the family, and you really don't feel wronged at all." If you want to make your heart feel blocked, you obviously didn’t need it before. If everyone could live and figure it out from the beginning, now I won’t get into this dead end.”

Yang Shili understood the meaning of her words, but he still persuaded him: "You, you, you also know that you are digging into a dead end, but the family you told me, the kind where everyone thinks carefully, is not the same. Isn't it like this? It's too much, it's just that you don't suffer from words, just pretend that you don't have such a thing and forget it. Besides, isn't mother teaching now, she can always teach well." Then he said with a smile on his stomach: "Didn't you talk about your mother-in-law the day before yesterday? The letter said that I was also teaching your younger siblings, and that the younger sister was feeling unwell and let the mother-in-law have a good lesson, so it can be seen that every family is the same, and it will not always be smooth sailing, our family and Yue's family are considered good." Daiyu thought After thinking about it, I also laughed, "Your words make sense, forget it, it's almost over, if people don't show their sincerity, let's just treat it with a fake, let's take it easy and talk about it."

Since then, Daiyu has changed her attitude. Mrs. Yang and Mrs. Tian have been with Daiyu for a long time, so she can naturally tell the truth from it. Mrs. Yang doesn't think Daiyu is wrong. Now Daiyu is willing to save face and love, so she doesn't say anything, just continue to teach her, I hope she can understand it one day.However, Mrs. Tian was quite kind, so she quietly mentioned a few words, but Mrs. Huang thought that this was the way to respect and value her, so Mrs. Tian didn't want to say any more. Sometimes she even followed Daiyu's example.The relationship between the three sisters-in-law was formally formed, and Mrs. Yang frowned helplessly.

The author has something to say: the transition is so difficult to write.Starting to return from today, those on the vitality list must refuel and update.