The Growth System Comes at the Age of Thirty

Chapter 58 No one understands family education

After dinner, Chen Jingle went back to his home.

Get ready for a nap.

Unexpectedly, my sister-in-law followed.

"Why are you running so fast?" My sister-in-law asked with a smile.

Chen Jingle also laughed, but he was a little helpless: "Aren't you going to run away and wait to be scolded?"

"Your grandparents are also here for you..."

"stop!"

Chen Jingle's smile faded a bit: "It's the holiday today and it's rare that I'm in a good mood, so don't talk about those unhappy things."

"Okay." My sister-in-law could only sigh.

At this moment, Chen Xiuyun's voice came from outside the door: "Classmate Chen Jingle! Open the door! I know you are hiding inside!"

Chen Jingle went out and looked around and saw that it was Chen Xiuyun and Lin Yaoheng.

He said, "Why are you here too? The door is not locked, just push it open and come in by yourself."

Lin Yaoheng replied with a smile: "I just finished eating, so I just walked around to eat."

Chen Xiuyun put her hands on her hips and strode across the yard into the house like a fool: "Where is your snack cart? Push it out quickly!"

"Aren't you just full?" Chen Jingle was speechless.

"Rice is rice, and snacks are snacks. Besides, even if you don't eat it, it's good to look at it."

Chen Xiuyun was deeply impressed by the snack cart she saw when she came here last time, and she was very greedy.

Chen Jingle had no choice but to push the snack cart out of the room.

"Look, you really enjoy it!"

Chen Xiuyun clicked her tongue and said to Lin Yaoheng, "Let's get one later."

"Okay." Lin Yaoheng nodded in agreement.

Whatever my wife says is whatever she says.

…

"By the way, what were you talking about just now?"

Chen Xiuyun asked.

"Sister Xiu, you came just in time. I wanted to ask for Li Wenhui."

My sister-in-law is a little sad: "She is now in her third year of high school, but your uncle and I have no idea how to go in the future. You know, we are not highly educated and don't understand many things. You college students know better. Please help me with some ideas." ”

Li Wenhui is my sister-in-law's eldest daughter.

Chen Jingle looked at Chen Xiuyun first.

Since it was business, Sister Xiu's expression suddenly became serious. After thinking for a while, she asked, "How are Wenhui's grades now? How high can she be ranked in the monthly mock exam for the whole grade?"

"80-100 is not very stable."

"Okay, the science score is basically guaranteed to be above the first grade in Jiangbei No. 1 Middle School. But 985 and 211 are more difficult. While there is still more than one semester, we will finally check for any leaks and fill in the gaps, and raise the scores higher. , if it can be stable in the top 50, then 211 outside the province can still count on it.”

Chen Xiuyun is a high school student in Jiangbei No. 1 Middle School, and relatively speaking, she has more say.

"Can we only go abroad?" My sister-in-law looked hesitant.

Chen Xiuyun nodded: "It can only be said that the application for out-of-province applications is relatively stable, and it will depend on the specific results and rankings. If it is said to be from outside the province, you can actually fill in the two provinces next to us that are also in the Lingnan region, so that it does not count as out of the province!"

"That's right." My sister-in-law felt relieved.

"The key now is to raise the score first. I remember she chose materialization, right?" "Yes!"

"Has she ever thought about what industry or job she will work in after graduation?"

"I just never thought about it!"

My sister-in-law clapped her hands and said with some distress: "She has always been busy studying, and she would not tell us what was on her mind."

Chen Xiuyun shook her head: "I'm afraid it's not that I don't want to tell you, but that you won't be able to solve it if I tell you. It will only increase my troubles. Over time, I don't want to tell you anymore."

"How do you know we can't solve it if you don't tell me?" My sister-in-law frowned.

Chen Xiuyun smiled: "She probably said it, but you didn't take it seriously. Parents' thinking is different from that of their children, and everyone thinks from different perspectives."

"It's like if I tell my mother that graduate school is very tiring, she will say, 'What's so tiring about studying?'"

"Among other things, boarding students in Jiangbei No. 1 Middle School wake up at 6 o'clock, arrive at the classroom at 6:30, eat for half an hour at noon, rest for an hour, and study in the evening until 10 o'clock. Some people will study at 10:30 or even 11:12 Point. Wen Hui lives at home, so it’s probably about the same. This kind of intense study will last for three years, how can he not be tired?”

"But my mother can't understand it. She just thinks that you can sit indoors without being exposed to the sun or rain, and just read a book. I don't know how comfortable it is. As for my sister-in-law, I don't know if you can understand it."

Sister Xiu didn't give any face at all and complained about her mother in front of everyone.

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A trace of embarrassment flashed across my sister-in-law's face: "I know she studies hard, and I try to find ways to feed her and drink well every day."

"Look, look, I'll just say you don't understand."

Chen Xiuyun spread her hands helplessly and frowned: "In a critical stage of life like the senior year of high school, what a child wants is not food and drink at all, but spiritual companionship and encouragement. Working hard alone and working hard with someone to accompany her are completely different things."

Chen Jingle didn't want to talk much and drank tea silently.

Although my sister-in-law is a little girl, she only started doing so in the past two years, and she focused more on her son Li Wenrui. She didn’t understand many of her daughter Li Wenhui’s early educations, and adopted an autocratic and authoritative education.

In addition, Li Wenhui spent her primary and secondary school years at her grandparents' house. It is conceivable that children who grow up in this environment are not close to their parents at all.

Even after starting high school, my sister-in-law's family bought a house in the city and the family lived together, which more or less made up for it, but the influence of childhood is there and cannot be easily eliminated.

To put it bluntly, Chen Jingle felt that among so many relatives and elders around him, none of them understood family education.

The first generation thought that as long as they were given enough food to keep them from starving to death, that would be enough.

The second generation thinks that as long as they can eat well and read good books, it will be enough.

As for the third generation represented by him and Chen Xiuyun...either they don't want to get married, or they don't want to have children even if they get married.

What went wrong?

…

"Don't just drink tea and say a few words!"

Chen Xiuyun knocked on the coffee table.

Chen Jingle put down the water glass: "Sister-in-law, what goals and requirements do you have for Wenhui? Talk about both short-term and long-term."

My sister-in-law did not hesitate: "As parents, of course, we hope that our children will become successful and have a better life in the future."

"Do you have any specific ideas?"

"Oh, I just don't understand, so I came to ask you."

Chen Jingle pondered for two seconds: "To get promoted and make a fortune, you have to have a general direction, right? I think you don't have to be so anxious. You can discuss it with Wen Hui first after you go back and respect the child's own ideas. After all, it all depends on her intentions in the end. , If she is not interested in a certain major or industry, even if you think it is good and help her choose it, you may not be able to help her live a good life. "

"I know this. I must respect her opinion. I have no clue right now. I want to hear what you have to say before I can talk to her."

My sister-in-law frowned: "Then tell me, what is the specific situation of getting promoted and getting rich and learning?"

I’ll start with one chapter, and half of the second chapter is still unfinished.

(End of chapter)