"It will not bring you any substantial help and on the contrary, it will only make you go further and further into the endless darkness.

"I am sinking deeper and deeper into this painful quagmire. I cannot extricate myself at all, and I cannot break out at all."

So no matter what time you do, you must be fully prepared.

Only in this way can we guarantee that no matter what the result is, it will be what we thought it would be.

"I won't let myself panic, nor will I let myself become so passive."

Of course, maybe you haven't realized how bad it feels to be passive.

Moreover, when you really get to that step, you will find yourself surrounded on all sides.

"The feeling of being alone and helpless. So if you can, never experience this feeling."

This feeling is really very bad, and the impact he has on you will never be, it is just a temporary impact.

It will also cause various subsequent effects on you, and will bring some indelible scars to your psychology.

"So that when you face the same thing in the future, the first thing you will consider is these injuries."

In the same way, the way you deal with it may be somewhat negative.

It could have been a very beautiful thing, but under this negative way of handling it.

"It won't produce any good results. So although it may make you spend a little more energy to make these preparations."

But you have to believe that all your efforts will be rewarded in equal proportion, of course.

If things can develop in the direction you imagined, that would be a better thing.

"But what you have to consider is in case things develop beyond your control, or even completely different from what you imagined."

What should you do when the time comes? You need to be fully prepared at this time, and you will not let yourself be so passive.

So in fact, for many things, if you have to be prepared in your heart, if and when it really happens.

"I won't panic you. Of course, that doesn't mean you can accept everything."

It can only be said that there is a preparation, and when the time comes, it will not be so hasty to accept it.

Not to mention, because when the time comes, it will be so unbearable for me.

"This will cause some inevitable embarrassment. In fact, if you want to think clearly about many things by yourself, then you have to face them."

He will find that it is not as difficult as you think, of course, that is not to say.

“There is no difficulty at all, it’s just that the difficulty is much simpler than what you imagine.

And you also need to understand that there are some things that you have to face, not that you can avoid it by just escaping.

There are some things that you have to choose to give up, because you are also destined, because you can't say this kind of thing.

"If you don't believe it, you can't say that he is that accurate, because there are many times when you can't accomplish anything by relying on fate alone.

But sometimes, if you don't believe in fate, there are still some things that you can't explain.

"Many things, before they happen, will follow the path they will take, as well as the impact and consequences they will cause."

Everything is already destined. Even if you don't believe that he exists, he does exist like this.

Even if you don't believe him, in many cases, you can only choose to believe it.

"Because if he develops along that trajectory, it will be very different from what you imagined."

Even if you don't believe it, or you don't accept his words, he still exists like this.

If you just do this and blindly deceive yourself, what's the use?

"In the end, it's only you who gets hurt, and it won't have any physical impact on others."

In other words, it is interference. It may be said that some people will be kind to you out of common consideration.

But most importantly, what can you accomplish if you rely solely on the sympathy of others?

"And just relying on other people's sympathy is completely useless. It just brings a little comfort to your painful heart.

In fact, it cannot solve any problems at all. On the contrary, sometimes these so-called experiences will make you fall into an even more painful abyss.

You can't help yourself. Sometimes you will think that the choice you made is the right one because of the sympathy of others.

"Therefore, I will continue to persevere on this road of no return, even if I know that this is a road with no results."

But I will choose to continue to persevere, so sometimes, I can't value other people's opinions too much.

In other words, it is other people's evaluation of you. Because many times, you have to do things according to your own heart.

"Because you live this life for yourself, not for others, even for the choices you make.

In the eyes of others, it seems very stupid, or it makes others unable to figure it out at all, but so what.

The choices you make are only for yourself and are not responsible for others.

"As long as you feel sorry for yourself, as long as you feel that this is right, then that's fine."

Why should we impose other people's ideas, or opinions, on ourselves.

In that case, it will only make yourself more uncomfortable and painful, and it will also make you live as if you are carrying countless shackles and burdens.

"You make your life miserable, so most of the so-called pain and suffering are all inflicted on yourself."

So everyone can actually choose to live a more relaxed and happy life.

It's just that many times, it adds various burdens to oneself invisibly, making it difficult for one to breathe.

"In the end, the burden on yourself will become heavier and heavier. So you also need to understand these principles.

Of course, it may be said that these truths actually lie with you, and you are very clear in your heart.

"It's just that when these things happen to you, or when you want to solve them."

You will feel how painful and embarrassing it is, and then it will be difficult to make a decision, but these are stages that you must go through. This is inevitable on the road to growth. .

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