Second Marriage and Pregnancy: CEO?
Chapter 182 The Mother Who Doesn't Love Her Children
I quickly said: "Don't say that, it's because Xuanxuan didn't pay attention, I don't know that Jiang Cheng's health is not good, I want to pay more attention in the future, the two of us can still play happily together, Xuanxuan will be more careful in the future, right?"
"Then Xuanxuan is still willing to play with Jiang Cheng in the future?" Li Wei bent down and looked at Xuanxuan and asked expectantly.
Xuanxuan nodded, "I will definitely pay more attention in the future."
After seeing Jiang Cheng, our family went back.
"It's all my fault. I accidentally pushed Brother Jiang when I was playing with him." On the way home, Xuanxuan blamed himself for his carelessness just now.
Pei Li said while driving: "Xuanxuan, you did something inappropriate in this matter, but it's not your fault, it's just that Jiang Cheng's body is weak, so you have to be careful when playing with him in the future. At one time we were all there to stop things from getting worse."
"Okay, Xuanxuan was frightened today too, so stop preaching." I stopped Pei Li.
Pei Li was a little helpless, "I know you love your child, but when something goes wrong, we still have to explain the reasoning to him as soon as possible. If we just ignore it, Xuanxuan will be ashamed the next time something like this happens. Not knowing how to deal with it, this is a rare educational opportunity."
"But Xuanxuan is already very scared today, can't we wait until another day for education?" I argued unconvinced.
As Xuanxuan's mother, I have raised Xuanxuan by myself these years, but I have taken good care of Xuanxuan, he is too serious, and the fights between children have to be taught as a lesson, Xuanxuan is not ignorant A person who never got into trouble when playing with other children before.
Xuanxuan said timidly from behind: "Mom, don't blame Dad. In fact, I was also very scared today, and I didn't know how to deal with it. Dad was right. He taught me, and I will know what to do in the future."
Pei Li glanced at me, "I'm not as sensible as a son."
Seeing that Xuanxuan was willing to listen to what Pei Li had to say, I really had nothing to say, so I leaned on my seat and said, "Okay, then tell me, let's see what good things you can come up with."
Pei Li then said, "Xuanxuan, let me ask you, what would you think of after seeing Brother Jiang hospitalized today?"
"Brother Jiang, don't touch it casually. Be careful when you play in the future." Xuanxuan said, breaking his little finger.
My son is so sensible. Hearing what Xuanxuan said, I smiled triumphantly, "See, in fact, Xuanxuan knows in his heart that you still have to say something to educate him. He is not stupid. These basic common sense There are still."
"What else?" Pei Li asked.
Xuanxuan thought hard, but couldn't figure it out, and looked at me distressed.
I quickly said: "No more, Xuanxuan already knows, isn't this lesson enough?"
"Of course it's not enough. Let me ask you, what would you do if your parents weren't here today and only you and Jiang Cheng were there, and he suddenly passed out?" Pei Li asked.
Xuanxuan recalled the scene just now, and he still had some lingering fears. His scream scared me and Li Wei. At that time, Jiang Cheng fell to the ground and twitched in pain, and Xuanxuan fell to the side and was about to cry. I don't know how to deal with it at all.
"But I'm so scared. Brother Jiang looked so scary just now." Xuanxuan burst into tears, "I don't know what to do, I'm terribly scared myself."
"Pei Li, Xuanxuan finally calmed down, and you made him cry again. Two such young children are playing, how could the parents not be there? Don't ask him." Seeing Xuanxuan crying, my heart ached immediately, He quickly comforted Xuanxuan, "Xuanxuan, don't cry, you did a great job today."
"You should prop up his head as soon as possible to prevent him from suffocating because the saliva in his mouth turns into foam. The second is to call the emergency number of the hospital immediately, explain your location and his symptoms, and strive for rescue time as soon as possible. If we No, can you do these two things well?" Pei Li said seriously.
Xuanxuan looked at Pei Li blankly.
These two things, as long as adults encounter this situation, they can barely do the second one well. Who would think of cushioning someone's head to avoid suffocation in such an emergency situation.
"I know you are a child, and your mother and I will not put you in such a dangerous situation where you need to save others by yourself, but I hope you can have this awareness, and have this awareness of crisis since childhood, so that in the future you will really If you encounter an unexpected situation, you will not lose your mind due to excessive tension, and you can still keep a clear head. In a panic, you can only save yourself if you are awake, understand?" Pei Li said.
This education is really profound, and I am speechless. Although as a mother, I still feel sorry for Xuanxuan, and I can't bear to let Xuanxuan go through such a thing again, but I don't deny that what Pei Li said is true It makes sense, and if someone told me this truth when I was young, I would be very grateful.
It’s not that children don’t understand everything, it’s just that no one guides them to think deeply in the early stage, to reflect on the consequences of this behavior so as to establish a correct concept.
"Why don't you talk anymore? Didn't you like to argue with me before?" Pei Li teased me again.
I hurriedly stepped forward to beat his leg, "You're very good, I'm convinced, it's amazing."
Pei Li raised his lips and continued to drive.
Xuanxuan also said very courteously from behind: "Dad is amazing, he knows so much, Xuanxuan must learn from him."
"I didn't expect such a well-behaved child like Jiang Cheng to suffer from such a congenital deficiency. This disease should be hereditary, but his mother doesn't have this disease at all. Could it be that his father has this disease?" Thinking of Jiang Cheng who was lying on the hospital bed emaciated and suffering, my heart couldn't help but mention it again.
"It's not necessarily true. Some family genetic diseases are invisible in girls, but they become dominant in boys. Jiang Cheng's mother doesn't have it, but it doesn't mean that Jiang Cheng's grandfather and uncle don't." Pei Li said.
I remembered that when I first saw Jiang Cheng in a foreign hospital, he was still carrying a big schoolbag and had to do so much homework every day. At that time, I was still thinking about what kind of parents are so sick and want their children to learn so much from an early age. Unexpectedly, it was Li Wei.
And when she was abroad, Li Wei clearly told me that she has someone she likes, but the person she likes likes other women. Although she thinks she is no worse than that woman, but the one she loves prefers that woman.
She didn't expect that she would have a child of that age, and she didn't know if this child was the child of her beloved.
In front of Xuanxuan, I didn't say this to Pei Li, I just closed my eyes and meditated.
When I got home, it was still too early, Xuanxuan ate a lot at noon, and started to feel sleepy in the afternoon. After returning home, I washed up and went back to my room to take a nap.
Pei Li sat on the sofa in the living room looking at the documents with a displeased face.
Before, Xuanxuan and I promised him that we would leave after lunch, and the whole family would go out to play together, but Xuanxuan wanted to play with Jiang Cheng after lunch, so Pei Li had to cancel the trip. There was still a romantic trip to the hot spring villa. In the end, a family of three was stuck at home again, Xuanxuan slept comfortably, and Pei Li, who finally had a holiday, was even more depressed.
"Come, eat fruit." I cut up the fruit plate and brought it to his mouth carefully.
Pei Li opened his mouth and took a bite, "Aren't you going to sleep?"
"You don't go to rest, how dare I go?" I sat next to him, hugged him and kissed him, "Don't be angry, we will go out to play again next week."
Pei Li put his arms around me and kissed back, then put his arms around me and said: "Actually, I don't think too much about it. Sometimes I don't go anywhere. As long as the three of us are together, I feel at ease in my heart. It's just that I met Jiang today. After accepting it, I felt inexplicably unable to let it go, obviously I didn’t have any feelings for his mother, this little child looked like a sick rabbit, but after knowing that he was of the same blood type as mine, I felt a little bit of pity unconsciously. "
Hearing him say that made me feel the same way.
Every time I see Jiang Cheng's weak and cowardly appearance, I really want to go up and hug him and tell him not to be afraid.
Both Pei Li and I love children very much, so Xuanxuan is spoiled by us, and everyone around him loves Xuanxuan very much. Lu Xingyi plays with Xuanxuan every day, and buys any toys he wants Yes, Jiang Xiaobei directly became Xuanxuan's godmother, she strongly advocated the snacks that Xuanxuan wanted to eat, and even fought against me several times in order to maintain Xuanxuan's right to eat snacks, Jiangnan also tried her best to make good for Xuanxuan Eat, take him out to play, and give him a lot of interesting knowledge.
Anyone who appeared in Xuanxuan's life, Wuyi did not take good care of him, so Xuanxuan lived a very sunny life.
And Jiang Cheng, such a thin and timid body must have suppressed a lot of grievances.
You can't laugh out loud when you are happy, you have to behave well when you eat, and you have to learn a lot of things since you were a child. It feels like Li Wei is carving an exquisite utensil. She wants to make Jiang Cheng outstanding, but she doesn't want to show him love.
"Do you think it's because the child's father can't be with her, so every time she sees the child, she will have conflicts in her heart, and with hatred for the child's father, she will impose it on the child, and because of her own arrogance, she will not It is allowed to have a failed child, so you deliberately teach him a lot of things, and want to see him perform better?" I leaned into Pei Li's arms and speculated.
Pei Li thought about it: "This Li Wei's family background should not be bad. It seems that she just bought the house not long ago. As a doctor abroad, she can return to China as soon as she comes back, and she quickly took root. A woman lives with a child. It is inseparable from the support of the family to be so comfortable and elegant.”
I nodded. Li Wei looked like the daughter of a rich family, so she handled things neatly and was not afraid of offending anyone. She was outspoken and showed any dissatisfaction directly.
But women who don't need to think about their livelihood at all can spend all their minds on their children.
Mother has always been a great career, only thinking about giving, not thinking about rewards at all.
During the years when I took care of Xuanxuan, all my bad temper disappeared, and every time I saw Xuanxuan, endless joy would be born in my heart.
"Then Xuanxuan is still willing to play with Jiang Cheng in the future?" Li Wei bent down and looked at Xuanxuan and asked expectantly.
Xuanxuan nodded, "I will definitely pay more attention in the future."
After seeing Jiang Cheng, our family went back.
"It's all my fault. I accidentally pushed Brother Jiang when I was playing with him." On the way home, Xuanxuan blamed himself for his carelessness just now.
Pei Li said while driving: "Xuanxuan, you did something inappropriate in this matter, but it's not your fault, it's just that Jiang Cheng's body is weak, so you have to be careful when playing with him in the future. At one time we were all there to stop things from getting worse."
"Okay, Xuanxuan was frightened today too, so stop preaching." I stopped Pei Li.
Pei Li was a little helpless, "I know you love your child, but when something goes wrong, we still have to explain the reasoning to him as soon as possible. If we just ignore it, Xuanxuan will be ashamed the next time something like this happens. Not knowing how to deal with it, this is a rare educational opportunity."
"But Xuanxuan is already very scared today, can't we wait until another day for education?" I argued unconvinced.
As Xuanxuan's mother, I have raised Xuanxuan by myself these years, but I have taken good care of Xuanxuan, he is too serious, and the fights between children have to be taught as a lesson, Xuanxuan is not ignorant A person who never got into trouble when playing with other children before.
Xuanxuan said timidly from behind: "Mom, don't blame Dad. In fact, I was also very scared today, and I didn't know how to deal with it. Dad was right. He taught me, and I will know what to do in the future."
Pei Li glanced at me, "I'm not as sensible as a son."
Seeing that Xuanxuan was willing to listen to what Pei Li had to say, I really had nothing to say, so I leaned on my seat and said, "Okay, then tell me, let's see what good things you can come up with."
Pei Li then said, "Xuanxuan, let me ask you, what would you think of after seeing Brother Jiang hospitalized today?"
"Brother Jiang, don't touch it casually. Be careful when you play in the future." Xuanxuan said, breaking his little finger.
My son is so sensible. Hearing what Xuanxuan said, I smiled triumphantly, "See, in fact, Xuanxuan knows in his heart that you still have to say something to educate him. He is not stupid. These basic common sense There are still."
"What else?" Pei Li asked.
Xuanxuan thought hard, but couldn't figure it out, and looked at me distressed.
I quickly said: "No more, Xuanxuan already knows, isn't this lesson enough?"
"Of course it's not enough. Let me ask you, what would you do if your parents weren't here today and only you and Jiang Cheng were there, and he suddenly passed out?" Pei Li asked.
Xuanxuan recalled the scene just now, and he still had some lingering fears. His scream scared me and Li Wei. At that time, Jiang Cheng fell to the ground and twitched in pain, and Xuanxuan fell to the side and was about to cry. I don't know how to deal with it at all.
"But I'm so scared. Brother Jiang looked so scary just now." Xuanxuan burst into tears, "I don't know what to do, I'm terribly scared myself."
"Pei Li, Xuanxuan finally calmed down, and you made him cry again. Two such young children are playing, how could the parents not be there? Don't ask him." Seeing Xuanxuan crying, my heart ached immediately, He quickly comforted Xuanxuan, "Xuanxuan, don't cry, you did a great job today."
"You should prop up his head as soon as possible to prevent him from suffocating because the saliva in his mouth turns into foam. The second is to call the emergency number of the hospital immediately, explain your location and his symptoms, and strive for rescue time as soon as possible. If we No, can you do these two things well?" Pei Li said seriously.
Xuanxuan looked at Pei Li blankly.
These two things, as long as adults encounter this situation, they can barely do the second one well. Who would think of cushioning someone's head to avoid suffocation in such an emergency situation.
"I know you are a child, and your mother and I will not put you in such a dangerous situation where you need to save others by yourself, but I hope you can have this awareness, and have this awareness of crisis since childhood, so that in the future you will really If you encounter an unexpected situation, you will not lose your mind due to excessive tension, and you can still keep a clear head. In a panic, you can only save yourself if you are awake, understand?" Pei Li said.
This education is really profound, and I am speechless. Although as a mother, I still feel sorry for Xuanxuan, and I can't bear to let Xuanxuan go through such a thing again, but I don't deny that what Pei Li said is true It makes sense, and if someone told me this truth when I was young, I would be very grateful.
It’s not that children don’t understand everything, it’s just that no one guides them to think deeply in the early stage, to reflect on the consequences of this behavior so as to establish a correct concept.
"Why don't you talk anymore? Didn't you like to argue with me before?" Pei Li teased me again.
I hurriedly stepped forward to beat his leg, "You're very good, I'm convinced, it's amazing."
Pei Li raised his lips and continued to drive.
Xuanxuan also said very courteously from behind: "Dad is amazing, he knows so much, Xuanxuan must learn from him."
"I didn't expect such a well-behaved child like Jiang Cheng to suffer from such a congenital deficiency. This disease should be hereditary, but his mother doesn't have this disease at all. Could it be that his father has this disease?" Thinking of Jiang Cheng who was lying on the hospital bed emaciated and suffering, my heart couldn't help but mention it again.
"It's not necessarily true. Some family genetic diseases are invisible in girls, but they become dominant in boys. Jiang Cheng's mother doesn't have it, but it doesn't mean that Jiang Cheng's grandfather and uncle don't." Pei Li said.
I remembered that when I first saw Jiang Cheng in a foreign hospital, he was still carrying a big schoolbag and had to do so much homework every day. At that time, I was still thinking about what kind of parents are so sick and want their children to learn so much from an early age. Unexpectedly, it was Li Wei.
And when she was abroad, Li Wei clearly told me that she has someone she likes, but the person she likes likes other women. Although she thinks she is no worse than that woman, but the one she loves prefers that woman.
She didn't expect that she would have a child of that age, and she didn't know if this child was the child of her beloved.
In front of Xuanxuan, I didn't say this to Pei Li, I just closed my eyes and meditated.
When I got home, it was still too early, Xuanxuan ate a lot at noon, and started to feel sleepy in the afternoon. After returning home, I washed up and went back to my room to take a nap.
Pei Li sat on the sofa in the living room looking at the documents with a displeased face.
Before, Xuanxuan and I promised him that we would leave after lunch, and the whole family would go out to play together, but Xuanxuan wanted to play with Jiang Cheng after lunch, so Pei Li had to cancel the trip. There was still a romantic trip to the hot spring villa. In the end, a family of three was stuck at home again, Xuanxuan slept comfortably, and Pei Li, who finally had a holiday, was even more depressed.
"Come, eat fruit." I cut up the fruit plate and brought it to his mouth carefully.
Pei Li opened his mouth and took a bite, "Aren't you going to sleep?"
"You don't go to rest, how dare I go?" I sat next to him, hugged him and kissed him, "Don't be angry, we will go out to play again next week."
Pei Li put his arms around me and kissed back, then put his arms around me and said: "Actually, I don't think too much about it. Sometimes I don't go anywhere. As long as the three of us are together, I feel at ease in my heart. It's just that I met Jiang today. After accepting it, I felt inexplicably unable to let it go, obviously I didn’t have any feelings for his mother, this little child looked like a sick rabbit, but after knowing that he was of the same blood type as mine, I felt a little bit of pity unconsciously. "
Hearing him say that made me feel the same way.
Every time I see Jiang Cheng's weak and cowardly appearance, I really want to go up and hug him and tell him not to be afraid.
Both Pei Li and I love children very much, so Xuanxuan is spoiled by us, and everyone around him loves Xuanxuan very much. Lu Xingyi plays with Xuanxuan every day, and buys any toys he wants Yes, Jiang Xiaobei directly became Xuanxuan's godmother, she strongly advocated the snacks that Xuanxuan wanted to eat, and even fought against me several times in order to maintain Xuanxuan's right to eat snacks, Jiangnan also tried her best to make good for Xuanxuan Eat, take him out to play, and give him a lot of interesting knowledge.
Anyone who appeared in Xuanxuan's life, Wuyi did not take good care of him, so Xuanxuan lived a very sunny life.
And Jiang Cheng, such a thin and timid body must have suppressed a lot of grievances.
You can't laugh out loud when you are happy, you have to behave well when you eat, and you have to learn a lot of things since you were a child. It feels like Li Wei is carving an exquisite utensil. She wants to make Jiang Cheng outstanding, but she doesn't want to show him love.
"Do you think it's because the child's father can't be with her, so every time she sees the child, she will have conflicts in her heart, and with hatred for the child's father, she will impose it on the child, and because of her own arrogance, she will not It is allowed to have a failed child, so you deliberately teach him a lot of things, and want to see him perform better?" I leaned into Pei Li's arms and speculated.
Pei Li thought about it: "This Li Wei's family background should not be bad. It seems that she just bought the house not long ago. As a doctor abroad, she can return to China as soon as she comes back, and she quickly took root. A woman lives with a child. It is inseparable from the support of the family to be so comfortable and elegant.”
I nodded. Li Wei looked like the daughter of a rich family, so she handled things neatly and was not afraid of offending anyone. She was outspoken and showed any dissatisfaction directly.
But women who don't need to think about their livelihood at all can spend all their minds on their children.
Mother has always been a great career, only thinking about giving, not thinking about rewards at all.
During the years when I took care of Xuanxuan, all my bad temper disappeared, and every time I saw Xuanxuan, endless joy would be born in my heart.
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