President of the Buddhist Department: A loving wife must be teased

Life goes slowly, life goes slowly, don't compare your life with others, don't lose your temper casually, although the world is vicissitudes, the wind and rain change, but the flowers bloom for more than one season, the beautiful scenery is always on the road, I missed the spring flowers If we miss the quiet beauty of autumn leaves, we will also welcome the swaying snowflakes in winter.There is no right or wrong in life, there is no good or bad, it is just a choice, life is very difficult, and time is very short. On the road of life, encounter kindness, learn to give, encounter ups and downs, learn to be brave, life is difficult, if you have the ability to laugh at life, you will have The ability to enjoy life, if the heart is bitter, life will become a sea of ​​bitterness, but if the heart is sweet, life will be full of beautiful scenery.

Zhen Hua's time is running out, so he is still on the road, although no one knows what lies ahead on the road, whether it is thorns, twists and turns, or a broad road, no one can make a conclusion, Zhen Hua is just driving blindly , there was only one such stupid person at first, but now there is another Lu Jing. This is helpless, but it is also his own choice. It will all disappear, no matter the vicissitudes of the world, you should restrain the desire for unlimited expansion in your heart, let nature take its course, and be at peace with the situation, so that your heart can return to itself. If you have time and opportunity to cry freely, it is always good. If you can shed tears very quickly, It means that the heart is not dry.Perhaps Zhen Hua was just looking for a place where he could cry hysterically. Honor and disgrace don't matter anymore, he just wanted to prove that his heart was not dry.

Life is a kind of state of mind. When you are distracted, look down on the pain of life, indifferent to fame and fortune, have a positive and balanced attitude, ask for something but don't ask for it, do something but don't do it, don't deliberately cover up yourself, don't Snobbery caters to others, just being a simple and true self, so and so, even if you are frustrated, you will not care about gains and losses, open and frank, really calm and happy.This is a very high artistic conception. Originally, at Zhen Hua's age, he would not feel these things, but Zhen Hua has a deep understanding, and has even practiced it. There is no other reason, but because he is still alive. This kind of mentality, if his mentality of being alive is exhausted, maybe he will rest in peace completely, and even the traces of struggle will gradually disappear.

Maybe no one knows where their own road is, most people are just walking blindly, and walking, maybe they see their own road, and behind them is the road stepped out of thin air, without the guidance of others , he forged his own way, Zhen Huaben is such a person.So he went to different places, saw different scenery, knew different things, and felt a different life.And the life that Zhen Hua understands may be something that many people can't understand in a lifetime. There are not many things that a dying person thinks of when he is dying, but they are also the most precious. , his memories have naturally become life insights. Unlike ordinary people, his indifferent life and death is because his life and death have already been doomed, and there is no possibility of change, so he can only let nature take its course. This is a kind of helpless Choice, and what he feels and understands are all negative.

It is precisely because of his extreme negativity that he can achieve a desireless state that many people cannot imagine. It is precisely because he will lose it eventually, so he does not care about gaining it. It doesn't matter, so the road ahead is tortuous and open, and it has nothing to do with him. Whether life or death ahead, he can also go with the flow. He has no destination, he is just on the road, and what he wants to prove seems to be only him now , is still alive, maybe he also wants to travel with his heart and look at everything with a peaceful mind. Text, painting, and music seem to be done by the eyes and ears, but they are actually the feelings of the inner world.It is enough to feel with the heart and settle down with it; to listen to the good news with the ears and eyes is very beautiful, which is the gospel; to carry a spoonful of the language of flowers, pick a song of flowers, and let the heart feel relieved, it is already a relief.It's a pity that this is not him, and he can't do it at all. He is just an ordinary person, but he is just a dying person. It has nothing to do with him.

Lu Jing sat in his co-pilot, this seat belonged to her 17 years ago, and now she just took this seat again, but there is one thing she doesn't know, that is this seat, besides her, only Zhen Wenxin sits However, even Wen Zixin has never sat in this seat. It seems that the co-pilot position has been occupied by her all the time, and she is also legitimately occupied, because legally, she had a relationship with Zhen Hua. Marriage, so this position has been reserved for her until today, and when she sat in this position and looked at Zhen Hua again, she understood that it was actually no different from 17 years ago, the only difference was that guilt. And it was precisely because of that guilt that Zhen Hua would not reject him.She is not a selfish person, but now, she has to admit that she has to take advantage of Zhen Hua's guilt, and she has to be selfish for her love, even though she knows that nothing has changed at all, but at least she got .

However, what Zhen Hua thought was only traveling alone. Traveling alone is closer to his heart. He really stops and enjoys the moment of self-experience. What is the experience?Maybe real death.But maybe it's just a fleeting moment, and even though I have traveled through so many cities, I still can't help being curious about the unknown scenery.And for his travels, he only needs to backpack alone, travel alone, and witness the scenery along the way alone. He does not need to take pictures as a souvenir, but only needs to imprint what he sees in his heart, and he can meet for a while when he is dying. Satisfied, the existence of Lu Jing is really a burden, but he has no possibility of refusing, and he himself feels guilty towards Lu Jing, maybe there is hidden love in the guilt, but no one has noticed it, right? Maybe so, but no one wants to know the answer, because no matter what the answer is, it will only hurt Lu Jing in a different direction.

And life is like a journey. There are both touching and sad, exciting and frustrating, beautiful scenery and unsightly scenery. windy place.Life is to feel the beautiful, the kind, the ugly and the sick.And only in the journey of life full of hardships, always adjust your mentality of viewing the scenery, can you feel and enjoy life while you are on the journey.Zhen Hua also hoped that the road he took in the end would be so beautiful, but in fact, he was just wandering blindly, without a goal, and did not stop at any place, so he could not be happy with the situation, so he What have you been doing all this time?Desperate in your own way?Kill yourself in your own way?Maybe so, anyway, in the eyes of others, he is just wasting his life.

So Zhen Hua doesn't need to think about where he is going. What he needs to know is what exactly he wants to do?Originally, what he wanted to do was to visit old friends, but over the years, he had already met all the friends he really cared about. His social circle was not extensive, it could even be said to be narrow, with only a few close friends. They have all been together alone, and he seems to have nothing to do.By the way, he remembered, the reason why he left in the first place was that he hoped to regain the lost youth, find the original love, and repeat the love that started at that time, but time flies, he can't go back long ago, It is also impossible for him to return to the original state. The youthful impulsiveness and youthful enthusiasm at that time are gone. He can't do it, and even if he does, he has lost his heart, so whether he can do it or not , In fact, it doesn't matter anymore, he himself is not a qualified lover, so it's better to bury that love in the bottom of his heart, maybe those memories before death are more profound.

People can never know what they want, because people only live once, and they can neither compare it with the previous life nor modify it in the next life.There is no way to test which alternative is good, because there is no comparison.Everything is experienced at once, only this time, and cannot be prepared.That's why people become confused, so people have to go through some roads before they know how hard it is; One knows experience; one knows experience after reading some people; one knows wealth after reading some books; one knows happiness after a lifetime.A little more happiness, a little less trouble, go to sleep when you are tired, smile when you wake up, how is your life, put your own seasoning.

In fact, life goes by very quickly, the wobbly life is over, Zhen Hua's life is coming to an end, so he doesn't care where it will end, but Lu Jing cares, Zhen Hua is the most unforgettable moment in her life Man, so she attaches great importance to every decision Zhen Hua makes, but it has been three hours since she got in the car, but she still doesn't know where she is going with Zhen Hua, but she didn't ask any questions.Not knowing what kind of trust it was, she just sat quietly.

In life, there will be flowers blooming every season. Time can experience many things and understand many reasons; it can prove many things and see through many people; it can collect a lot of dust and wash away a lot of dust.Time can seal the dust of many years and open up many memories; it can heal a lot of suffering and wash away a lot of pain;After so many years, maybe it is really destined to love someone with scars and blind optimism, and she looks back on the past because she has not experienced too many vicissitudes in life, and this kind of looking back has some romantic and vanity elements.After really tasting the ups and downs of the world, you probably don't bother to look back.

She is not strong, but she is good at disguising.Some people are not weak, but they have really experienced too much, held back for a long time, and like to be alone for a while, and then cry a good time, and they don’t even know why they cry.After going through time and world affairs, I suddenly realized at a certain moment that this life will experience many ups and downs and choices, and every step you take is closely related to the future.