The hero of the female supporting role in fast time travel is highly poisonous

I shook my head and said, "How can this be put aside? Although I care about the relationship with him, it doesn't mean that I will give up my own principles for the sake of feelings. If she influences me to make friends with others, I will also I will consider whether I will continue to be with him, although I will not choose others, but I will also not choose him, I will live my life with myself, that's it."
Chen Jiaming said with a smile, "Why are you so hard on yourself! Don't you want to think about me? How about me? It's not a bad choice to be with me, not to mention that I always think about you If we are together, this kind of thing can be avoided, and I will not suffer, because I know that I am good enough, you will not choose others, unless I have a problem, you will leave me, but I will do it myself Reflect on myself, if I have any problems, I will try my best to correct them actively, instead of complaining about myself and others, so after we are together, we will never be separated, we are the most suitable. Believe me Lin Sheng, stay with me, you will get what you want, we can live and fly together, we will never worry about other things from now on, even if your boyfriend comes to you, you have enough reasons, because He doesn’t care about you. The reason why he wants to restrict your friendship is because he has low self-esteem on the one hand, and it means that this is a sign that he doesn’t love you. If he really loves you, even if you want to communicate with other people, He will also trust you enough, and if he really loves you, he will let you do what you like to do, unless this kind of thing will put you in danger, otherwise he will never interfere with it, but he does not Instead of doing this, he has been interfering with you. I don’t think he has such a deep love for you. On the contrary, he always wants to possess you. For him, you are just a plaything for him. If you leave Without you, he can continue to live, but you are different, you can get a new life without him, as for you, he always wants to control you and treat you as his own plaything, never thinking about you, It would be absolutely, very lucky for you if you were able to leave him."
Listening to Chen Jiaming's words, some soft places in my heart were touched.
For some reason, I feel that what Chen Jiaming said makes sense, and it seems to touch the side of me that has always been shadowed.
I don't know why, but I always feel that what Chen Jiaming said seems to win my heart, as if this is what I have always thought about.
But I feel that doing this seems to be sorry for Xie Yan, Xie Yan is not as inferior as he said, and he loves me very much.
It's just that due to his own reasons, he can't tolerate me having a little bit of intimacy with other people, so she stops me.
But this only makes me feel withdrawn.I know it's not Xie Yan's fault, but I can't forgive him for it.
Maybe both of us should calm down. Only when we seriously think about our past can we really keep our feet on the ground and think about whether we should continue to walk. There are indeed mistakes between Xie Yan and me, but there is no one who is right and who is wrong If you choose to go on together, you can each make a concession to correct your own shortcomings and tolerate each other's shortcomings, so that you can continue to be together beautifully.
The two parties who really love each other are not necessarily perfect, but they must be tolerant to each other. Everyone can't be perfect. The important thing is to see if the two parties in love can tolerate themselves?
If it can be tolerated, no matter how big the defect is, it is not a defect, but the embellishment of the love between the two parties. If the other party cannot tolerate it, no matter how small the defect is, even the defect that is not a defect may become the fuse of the love between the two parties. Their love point people go to the final grave.
This grave is not yet a marriage but a real rupture.Between the two parties, not only is there no love, but there may also be hatred because of love. This kind of relationship is the most frightening.
If there is no love between couples, I don’t know why they can continue to be together, just because of that promise, just because they don’t believe in making a request, separate, if that’s the case, it’s too selfish, just because they dare not take responsibility, just leave If you want to stay together reluctantly, it is not good for yourself or others. It is better to separate resolutely, so that you and the other party can find a good home again. Perhaps the sooner you separate, the possibility of finding a good home again will be greater. bigger.
It's just that between me and Xie Yan, neither of us can leave the other. It's impossible for Xie Yan to leave me, because I'm married to him, and we are destined to be together forever, and I can't leave him, I know I really fell in love with him. If I leave him, I am destined to never fall in love with others again. I can only die alone. I don’t want to live a day without love. Even if it is like this now, I I am not with him all the time, but I do know that we are heart-to-heart. I think of him, and he also thinks of me. There is always someone who thinks of me all the time.
Everyone in this world is lonely, and people are born lonely, so they are so eager to find their other half and want to find a spiritual destination.
What is love? Love is tolerance and understanding. Although Xie Yan has countless shortcomings, it is not something I cannot tolerate. I should learn to tolerate him. Besides, he is jealous because he cares too much about me and loves me too much. There are such words and deeds.
Xie Yan really loves me very much, I felt it from the very beginning, unlike Chen Jiaming who has been hiding for a long time before revealing it, making it impossible for me to guess his thoughts, such erratic, will be true Makes me feel uneasy.
I am naturally no exception. When I was with Xie Yan, at first it was because of Xie Yan's insistence on his dominance and strength, which made me afraid at first, but later I could feel that he really paid for me. It is because I care too much about me that I am so hesitant and eager, and then I fell in love with her. That kind of love comes from the heart. I am a person who does not give love easily. Once I give love , That is vigorously, it means that I have given my heart to this person, no matter how he treats me, I will not let him down, unless he no longer loves me.
But even if he betrays me, I will not betray her, because I will only hold one person in my heart for the rest of my life. If I want to fall in love with another person, it is absolutely impossible, because I have love and cleanliness, Mental cleanliness, once there is someone in my heart, there will no longer be another person, even if I forcefully love, I will not love happiness, on the contrary, I will feel very painful because of this.
Love is beautiful, but if you force yourself to love, this kind of beautiful love will often become a sharper weapon, hurting people invisible, and the first to hurt is your own heart.
The deeper the love, the deeper the hurt. If a person has given too much love, then once this kind of love hurts him, it will be more unforgettable.
Naturally, I don't want to get hurt, but I won't let go, because I know how difficult it is to love someone. Do you want to overcome difficulties and obstacles?Eliminate all kinds of resistance, and finally choose to confess to the other party. This will risk being rejected by the other party. When the other party met, they couldn't lift their heads at all.
Xie Yan's position in my heart is unshakable, just like my position in his heart. You must know that it is not easy for two people to love each other sincerely. Now that we are together, we need to cherish and understand each other.
The person who takes the initiative is often humble, because he knows that if he wants to get the love of the other party, he must lower his attitude, but this will often encourage the other party's arrogance, because he is confessed, so he is born With an advantage, you can do whatever you want?Even if it is direct, it doesn't matter if you say no to the other party, because if the other party loves you, the other party will definitely use all kinds of means to cater to yourself. He can get the other party's love without paying anything, and the other party wants to get his love. It is even more necessary to lower your posture.
So falling in love is a game, if you want to get love, you have to pay face and your own self-esteem.Of course, this is before falling in love. Once the two lovers enter the stage of love, they must be equal and respect each other, otherwise they will never be happy. Happy love is based on equality. Without equality, there is no happiness at all.
Although there is a crisis in the relationship between Xie Yan and me, it doesn't mean that I will choose someone else, let alone Chen Jiaming.
The emotional crisis can be resolved. There is no one who is right or wrong in love. I can only think that I will also have problems. I can’t attribute all the mistakes to Xie Yan, that would be very unfair to him.
When Xie Yan and I had conflicts because of Chen Jiaming at the very beginning, I said that I would never have anything to do with Chen Jiaming, so I naturally had to stick to my promise.
Although now, Xie Yan misunderstood me, because I have nothing to do with others, but I will not really give up because of this. What does the choice have to do with Chen Jiaming?That would further prove that Xie Yan was right, he suspected that I was right, because I really had that motive.
If I want to become white or want to get rid of this state, I have to let myself behave properly, instead of really being depraved, and doing what he thinks, that can only represent me, not trustworthy.
I know that although Xie Yan is a bit stingy, he is not born out of nothing. If it is not because I am indeed too close to Chen Jiaming, Xie Yan will not be so suspicious.