I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 40 I would be very happy if I didn't get involved in emotions
"Forgive me for pestering you like a madman, forgive me for looking for you shamelessly, forgive me for causing trouble to you by my presence,
If I didn't like you, who would try so hard to squeeze into your world. "

"It is now 2:14 in the middle of the night. Welcome everyone to the Love Advisor live broadcast room."

"Next is the last live broadcast of the night."

"Please welcome the guests!"

Hey~
"Hello, anchor!"

It's a lady.

Listen to the voice, some experience.

Raymond Lam: "Hello, tell me about your relationship experience."

"I am 38 years old and live abroad. He is one year younger than me. We were together before, but now he has returned to China and I am still abroad."

Raymond Lam: "The ambiguous relationship after the breakup?"

"About the same, because I am unmarried and childless, and I have never lived with anyone. When I first met him, he also told me that he was unmarried and childless, and he had never lived with anyone.

I really like his appearance, he is 1.85 meters tall, handsome, and he doesn't smoke, which is a plus because I am very sensitive to the smell of cigarettes. "

Raymond Lam: "Then why did you break up later?"

"After we were together for a while, he returned to his country. Since we were not in the same place, we just broke up by default."

Lin Feng: "Did he keep in touch after he returned to China?"

"Have!"

Raymond Lam: "Did the other party express the idea of ​​getting back together with you during this period?"

"No, he said he didn't want to get married. Actually, I don't want to get married either. I have always been single."

Lin Feng nodded: "I see, both of us are against marriage."

"Correct!"

Lin Feng: "Then your previous relationship was actually just companionship. To be more precise, it should be temporary companionship."

The woman hesitated for a while and said, "Actually, before him, I had never met anyone I liked."

Raymond Lam: "Even so, you still told the other party that you are not a marriage advocate, right?"

"Correct!"

Raymond Lam: "Sister, let me tell you seriously, if you don't use marriage as a basic guarantee, this kind of relationship can end at any time.

Just like taking the bus,
When we arrive at this stop, people on the bus can get off at any time.

Don't expect love to last forever.

It has no binding force.

This man can have sex with you or with someone else, or even have sex with you while secretly having sex with someone else.

There is no problem at all.

Because love is not bound by law.

At the same time, there is not much moral condemnation.”

The woman was silent.

.........

Young Master Bin: "Straight men: freeloaders. High EQ men: non-marriageists."

XXXX: "I think the man might have a family."

The stream flows: "When you go out, your identity is given by yourself. Don't look at what he says. The main thing is whether you believe it or not. Since you like to hear affectionate words, then I will say one paragraph. If one paragraph doesn't work, I will say two paragraphs. After all, it doesn't cost anything."

Stranger: “Hahaha, nothing wrong.”

Hot Girl: "Actually, it's okay for a woman to not want to get married."

Xiao Wan: "I feel that women are not unwilling to get married, but they are afraid of marriage."

Yaoyao: "How long will it take? I'm already 38, maybe I can get my pension."

Hahahahahaha.

.........

The woman was silent for a long time.

Lin Feng sighed and said, "Sister, you can choose not to get married, but if you express this idea to the other person, then the other person will treat you as a temporary tool.
To put it simply, it means owning it at no cost.

If a new person shows up, that new person could push you out of the car at any time."

Woman: "I think that's the case. After he returned to China last year, he wasn't very responsive to me."

Raymond Lam: "Sister, I guess you may have been hurt in a previous relationship, which has led to your pessimistic thoughts about marriage.

Or maybe it’s because your parents in your original family are not happy.

Whatever the reason,

I can only tell you that your pessimistic attitude towards marriage will lead to bad relationships in the future."

The woman suddenly choked up, as if Lin Feng had revealed her true feelings.

After a moment, he said, "When I was a child, my parents often quarreled and even fought. At that time, I felt that there was no point in getting married."

Lin Feng shook his head and said, "Marriage can be meaningless, but the prerequisite is that you have to have a strong core."

“If you feel lost inside, if you are afraid of being alone, and if you want to talk, what should you do?
How do you address your inner needs?

Unless you consider this person as a companion as well.

Everyone gets what they need.”

Woman: "In the beginning, I asked him if he had a good chat. If he had a good chat with a girl, he should tell me and I would not contact him. But he always said no. But when I sent him a message some time ago, he obviously ignored me."

Lin Feng smiled bitterly and said, "Sister, you are already 38."

Do I need to teach you some truths?

“You feel that you are not binding anyone, but others will not regard your tolerance as understanding, nor will they be grateful to you for it.

It will only make the other party feel that you are cheap.

When you get tired of playing with it, you can throw it away at any time.

The other party will stand on the moral level, and will not tell you even if there is someone.

Because he wants to maintain his perfect image.”

The woman finally couldn't hold it in anymore and started crying.

.........

On the barrage.

Yi Chushan: "She even cried, which means that I am the only one who is not responsible, but you cannot be irresponsible."

Idiot: "Yeah, two people who don't want to get married, what's there to be sad about?"

Miss Cat: "Why are you still in touch after breaking up? Although she is a non-marriage advocate, she is not strong at heart. She cries like a little girl."

Xiao Wan: "Maybe I fell in love without knowing it, and when the other person left, I couldn't stand it."

Ok. . . .

.........

Woman: "If I didn't get involved in love, I would be a very happy person. Before I met him, I was very happy every day."

Raymond Lam: "Then there is no need to continue. If the happiness of two people together is less than the happiness of one person, why not get married?"

"I really don't understand what the meaning of marriage is!"

Ok. . .

Lin Feng thought for a moment and said, "Let me tell you a story."

"One day I came home and was hungry. I wanted to cook a bowl of noodles.
The noodles are cooked.

I'm looking for a plate.

I found the dishes were not washed.
When I was about to wash the dishes, I realized I had run out of dishwashing liquid.

Then I washed the dishes with toothpaste.

What I want to say is,
The meaning of marriage is not to have someone to cook noodles for you, nor to have someone to wash dishes for you.

The point is that after you wash the dishes with toothpaste, you can run over to him and ask, guess what I used to wash the dishes?
younger sister,

Marriage is about companionship and sharing.
Among the thousands of lights, there is one that is lit for you. "

.........

"The meaning of marriage" "It's not about someone cooking noodles for you" "It's about having a light lit for you among thousands of lights". . .

Xiaolu: "Oh my god, the last sentence is so damn good."

Qingqiu: "Sublimation directly."

Yuzu: "How does this kid know so much?"

Hongye: "I thought it was just for fun, but it turns out this guy is really capable."

Xiao Heliu said: "The truth is that you want to cook noodles, and you find a pile of unwashed dishes in the sink. You go to look for detergent, but it's gone. You have no choice but to use toothpaste to scrub a bunch of dishes. After washing them, you don't even want to cook noodles anymore."

Da Lapian: "Wrong, the most realistic situation is that if I'm hungry, I'll open Meituan and Ele.me, and then ask the pig next to me if he wants to eat it."

Hahahaha, so true.

Stranger: "But even if I use toothpaste to wash dishes, I don't want to share it with her. I will just think how awesome I am."

Xiao Wan: "Brother, you are really awesome."

Yaoyao: "Hahaha, you are so strong."

附，
[Military Advisor's Comments: The most suffocating thing about your original family is not that your parents suppress you blindly, but that while they suffocate you, they also make you feel that they truly love you in their hearts.
At this time, you will have a strong sense of guilt in your heart.

This feeling is like a wet cotton jacket. It’s cold when you take it off, and even colder when you put it on…】

(End of this chapter)