Reborn in that autumn

So in the beginning, although the man was very diligent, very cute, and very reassuring.But as time goes by, the man's true face will gradually be exposed.If a woman discovers that her man is one of these types of men during the relationship, don’t expect anything else. Think about whether you can change him. If you still can’t change him after trying hard, let it go!Even if you have reached the point of talking about marriage, don’t feel regretful. Compared with the pain after marriage, it is better to break up now and leave early!

Don't want a man who is too conceited

Confidence is a good quality. It is a good thing for a person to be confident, but it is not good to be overconfident to the point of arrogance.Because the more knowledge you have, the more you see the world, and the more things you experience, the more humble you will be, because you know that there are people outside the world and there is heaven outside.

Therefore, arrogant people have either never seen strong people and have poor vision; or they think they are much stronger than the person they are facing (that is, you), and there is no need to be humble in front of you.No matter which one it is, it will become a stumbling block to your happiness after you marry him.

A man who has no vision, no ability, but is still conceited. God is the boss and I am the second child. Such a man has no chance of success and may experience many failures.Ever heard a saying?Poor and lowly couples suffer from all things!This sentence is not unreasonable. The cornerstone of two people's relationship is true love, but the basis of their lives is material things.

So if you try your best and still can't make him realize his shortcomings, just get together early and leave early, unless you are ready to endure the hard life after marriage and the fact that he looks down on you in his heart.

A man with no sense of responsibility

When you get along, he will naturally show all his own strengths.But a man without a sense of responsibility will not perform satisfactorily in certain things. For example, when encountering something, his first reaction is not to stand in front of you, but to think about escaping or hiding.As you become more and more familiar with each other, if you can tell that this man is not so responsible, he is not so responsible.Then I still advise you, let’s go!

If you are unwilling to give up your emotional investment for such a long time, you can try to cultivate his sense of responsibility, but what is your identity at this time?Your "training" may not result in his change, but his disgust.If you're not married yet, just worry about this and that. If you're married, you'll be fine!So if the "training" fails, it's better to give up on this man cruelly.

If you are reluctant, you may have to bear the burden of the family after marriage, such as housework, childbirth, and raising a family. Can you bear it?Is he, a man, worth so much from you? .

A man made of lies

In life, no one can say that he will never lie, but a man who piles up lies cannot be trusted, no matter how beautiful the future he depicts!

If you find that your man has become a habit of lying to you, then he must be unreliable.Although he could always make you happy and make you giggle.But think about it, if you get married to such a man, will he keep making you laugh in the days to come?Can you tell which of his words are true and which are false?I think the most basic thing for a man who can be trusted for life is to be honest, even if it is only honest to you.

Love is fire and men are wind.If you choose the right man, the fire of love will make you feel unparalleled warmth.If you choose the wrong man, this fire may dry your heart out!

So no matter how rich this man is or how handsome this man is, if he cannot give you a sense of security and cannot use his actions to protect your happiness for the rest of your life.Then leave decisively. This is not ruthless, but responsible for yourself.If you are not responsible for yourself, then who do you expect to be responsible for you?

If birth is a woman's first life, then marriage is her second life.Although the first life is destined by God, it will basically be happy.The second life is yours to choose. If you choose these three types of men, there is a high probability that you will be in dire straits for the rest of your life.

"Similarly, sons, men can't be too selfish. You may think that I talked a bit too much while drinking today." Li Zichen's father said to several young people.

But I do it all for your own good. Anyway, I have said it, so I will continue to say it. There is a saying that goes well:

Men should not be too conceited, but men should not be too selfish. Your selfishness will make women feel depressed.

But men are like this. When they are in love, they are always affectionate, but after marriage, they often ignore the needs of women and only focus on their own interests, making women feel suffocated.

When a person is too selfish, it will make people feel indifferent and lonely. You only consider your own ideas and interests, but ignore the feelings of others. This approach is bound to make the people around you leave you.

Men's selfishness often makes women feel tired and frustrated, and they gradually lose trust in men.

Men's feelings are mostly cold, and their selfishness makes it even harder for women to trust them.

selfish

When men only care about their own interests and ignore women's feelings and needs, women will start to get bored.

No matter how deep the relationship is when you are in love, it is difficult to last, because what women need is cherishment and mutual understanding, not unilateral dedication.

Some men rely on women's love and blindly pursue their own interests, even ignoring women's needs.Such selfish behavior only leaves women feeling miserable and helpless.

The harm caused by selfishness is not just a loss.

Women no longer trust men easily, and even begin to have reservations about men.A man's selfishness destroys the relationship between two people, and it is difficult to recover!

indifferent

No woman likes a cold man.

Women need to be loved, cared for, and supported and encouraged by men.

But when a man becomes indifferent and has no care or concern for a woman, the woman will feel breathless and gradually alienate the man.

A cold man cannot see his lover's contribution and does not cherish each other's feelings.

A relationship requires mutual maintenance, mutual understanding and support, rather than indifference and indifference.

Some men become cold and indifferent to women after getting married. They no longer care or care about women, so much so that women choose to leave.

inconsiderate

A home requires men and women to exert their strength and build it together.

Women need to be considerate, need to be supported, and need to be cared for and taken care of by men.

When a man is not considerate of a woman and only cares about his own business in the world and does not care about things at home, the woman will feel isolated and helpless and gradually lose trust in the man.

No woman likes an irresponsible, inconsiderate man.Such a man will only make women feel helpless and tired, and make the family full of loneliness and indifference.