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Mo Hongying looked at them with calm eyes and said, "Yuan Zhen's first love is very famous. Do the heroes and heroines Zhang Sheng and Cui Yingying in "The Romance of the West Chamber" know about it?"

"I know, the theater sings every day!" They nodded in unison.

Mo Hongying looked at them with her dark eyes and continued, "The prototype of this pair of talented scholars and beautiful ladies is the story of Yuan Zhen and Shuang Wen. Before Yuan Zhen got the honor, he met the beautiful girl Shuang Wen and fell in love with her. The sea of ​​love. However, Shuangwen did not accept his confession at first, and Yuanzhen went on a hunger strike to express his love. In the end, Shuangwen was moved, and Yuanzhen got what he wanted. For the sake of fame, the two got along for less than a year, and Yuanzhen set off to take the exam. Yuanzhen set out to take the exam. Zhen was outstanding in literature, and soon after he gained fame, high-ranking officials were willing to take him as his son-in-law. For the sake of fame and wealth, Yuan Zhen abandoned his first love and married Wei Cong, the daughter of Wei Xiaqing, the new Jingzhao Yin. After hearing the news, Shuangwen was heartbroken and married to someone else. Wife. Not only is Yuan Zhen not ashamed of himself, but he even ungentlemanly and smugly said that I had obtained biliteracy before others. This is not only heartless, but even a bit dirty."

"Is this... so despicable and shameless? Chen Shimei!" Fan Erhu shouted.

"Now you know! Deep feelings can be written down, it's just the readers' feelings. It has nothing to do with the author." Mo Hongying looked at them with raised eyebrows and said.

"Can it still be like this?" Fan Erhu looked at her dumbfounded and said.

"You can read the stories behind them, and you will find that the filters are shattered." Mo Hongying looked at them with a smile and said, "Of course, we have to admit our talent, no one can match it."

"Human ethics are normal." Guan Baode looked at her with cloudy eyes and said.

A trace of surprise flashed in Mo Hongying's eyes, "It's true that food and sex are important, but without emotions, it's no different from animal mating. It's just a beast in heat everywhere. The reason why people are called people is that they can restrain themselves. Love is restraint, not I hope to hurt my lover." Then he added, "If you lose your wisdom and morality because of love, this is not true love, it is lust, animal lust, and the wantonness of sexual desire!"

"Love is beautiful. It's like flowers before the moon and under the moon, loving each other. It's right to pursue love, because we are pursuing hope, which is always a hope in life. Marriage is like the collision of pots and pans, the immersion of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, and the quarrel. And patience." Mo Hongying looked at them with bright eyes and said, "For your parents, how did your mother call you dad?"

"The child's father."

"devil."

"The one who killed a thousand swords."

"That enemy of mine!"

"Haha... Even though it's called that, how should we live our lives?" Mo Hongying chuckled, "There is a lot of pain in marriage, which comes from the misunderstanding of romantic love. I think that everything will be fine after getting married. Yes, that's wrong. Whether you live well or not depends on endogenous improvement, that is, self-improvement. No matter whether men or women have higher expectations for their partners, the greater their disappointment in marriage." Then he added, "The person who makes you miserable is not that person. It’s your expectation of that, your persistence in your ideal partner, which is a disaster in marriage! After all, no one is perfect.”

"As Rousseau said: Desire is the world of your imagination, and your real situation is the real world. The world of desire has no boundaries, but the real world has a ceiling. The difference between the two causes all your troubles and pain." Lin Hansheng looked at her with his deep and bright eyes and said.

"That's right." Mo Hongying looked at them with a smile and said, "There is a heartbreaking truth in this world, that is, no matter who you marry, you will regret it. Because the essence of human beings is a ball of burning desire, desire When desires are satisfied, people feel bored; when desires are not satisfied, people feel pain, and people oscillate between pain and boredom.”

"Ah! According to you, why are you still getting married?" Chen Jingzhe asked in surprise.

"Because at your age, your parents think it's time for you to get married, start a family, and have children." Mo Hongying said truthfully, "There is no perfect lover in this world, and there is no perfect marriage. The wisest attitude is to be content and happy. Those who are happily married do not find the right person, accept each other from the heart, and see each other's strengths and advantages. A happy marriage is based on understanding and accepting each other's flaws. Only with a Only with a tolerant heart can you complete the practice of marriage. There is no perfect partner in the world, only a heart that goes on firmly. True love is not a momentary touch, but a long-term commitment. Deciding to marry someone only requires a moment of courage. Protecting a marriage requires the best efforts of both men and women throughout their lives."

"When it comes to celebrity divorces in the newspapers, they are all middle-aged men who have become famous and abandoned their useless wives to marry women much younger than themselves." Mo Hongying looked at them with her deep and penetrating eyes and said, "Mr. Young couples all rely on conscience. When passion fades, marriage has just begun. The essence of marriage is companionship and responsibility, while mature love relies on conscience. The second half of life depends entirely on responsibility." He looked at it firmly. They said, "Love is so simple. What is not simple is the continuation of love. Love is an art, an ability, and a responsibility. A mature marriage may be that even if the marriage is full of crises, it is still used happily. Love protects marriage.”

"Is it so difficult?"

"You think getting married is easy! It's not like once the wedding is held, everything will be fine. The real practice of living has just begun." Mo Hongying looked at them with bright black eyes and said.

"It seems we still have a lot to learn."

"Regardless of men and women, those who smoke porn, gamble, or have other people outside don't have to live this life." Mo Hongying looked at them deeply and said, "Of course if you are willing to live in this situation, then Respect, bless, and don’t yell at others.” Suddenly I remembered and said very sternly, “Don’t hit women.”

"No, no, why would I hit a woman?" Shen Qingshan waved his hand and said.

"It's hard to say. A man is a good person outside and is praised by everyone, but when he comes home, he beats a woman. Or he is frustrated outside and beats a woman when he comes home to vent his anger." Mo Hongying looked at them sternly and said, "Don't let me know, I will beat you up."

"You beat us up?" Zhang Linghai looked at her in disbelief and said, "Is that okay?"

"Territory sea? Haven't you heard of Sister Kui's name?" Hu Tiewa looked at him in surprise and said, "That's a real sword and a real gun, and it's always on target."

Mo Hongying clenched her fist and coughed twice, "Please ask Teacher Shen to give a lecture!"

"Sister Kui's great achievements, I will tell you when we are lying on the kang, study now, study." Hu Tiewa said softly.