Siheyuan: Chen Xueru helped me intercept Hu Qin Huairu

"Zhao Qian, Wang Hong, you two take your children to play in that room over there."

Chen Xueru smiled when she heard this. Although she didn't know what Deng Ying said, she felt that the person who came was unkind.

But she was not afraid. Instead, she said to Qin Huairu: "Huairu, go and pour water for the uncles and aunts. By the way, bring the candies from our house to the children, and then come over and listen."

After saying that, Chen Xueru sat on the bedside first and said to Deng Ying and Wang Fang: "Two aunts, please sit down and talk too. We are all one family."

Chen Xueru sat down first, and the atmosphere immediately changed.

But Deng Ying suddenly smiled.

"Just like your man, he doesn't like to suffer."

"It's really not like a family doesn't come into the same house..."

"Relax, we are all a family and this is for your own good."

Chen Xueru looked at Deng Ying's kindness and didn't take it seriously.

If you do a lot of business, you will naturally know that people who exude goodwill tend to eat more people.

He is the kind of person who can hit you with a big stick but still makes you think he is good.

However, Youdao can reach out and not hit the smiling person, and he can also use it on others, so Chen Xueru will naturally not spoil the relationship.

Then let's try to find ways to deal with them.

Chen Xueru stood up with a smile and said, "Aunties, sit down quickly. I'm used to it. I've lost my rules."

"Auntie, if you have anything to say, just say it. We are all a family and we will not suffer any loss, right?"

Deng Ying said helplessly: "What you said really got me."

"Then I won't beat around the bush with you and tell you the truth..."

"The superiors are now stipulating the marriage law. This is our internal information and we shouldn't say more, but for your family's situation, I have to say a few words for Xiao Li's sake."

Marriage law? Chen Xueru immediately cheered up and sat up straight.

Although her man said it, he only said it briefly. It would be difficult for her to deal with it without elaborating.

"Although the marriage law has not yet been drafted, the tone of monogamy has been set."

"The core of this marriage law is to abolish the feudal marriage and family system that is arranged, forced, men are superior to women, and the interests of children are ignored."

"It is a new democratic marriage and family system that implements freedom of marriage, monogamy, equality between men and women, and protects the rights and interests of women and children."

"So one of them, freedom of divorce, is also being considered."

"If one party insists on divorce, they can divorce. At the same time, the husband will receive an equal amount of property in the divorce."

When Chen Xueru heard this, she was so funny that she said, "I think your marriage law is not for everyone, but rather for women."

"And you didn't consider individual cases, such as the man getting married to the woman, or the notarization of pre-marital property."

"If you do this, everyone will get married and divorced, and then run away after dividing the husband's property. Wouldn't it be chaos?"

"Secondly, I don't know what you think about monogamy. Your original core purpose is to encourage freedom of marriage, right?"

"What if a man and a woman are married, but while the man is in love with this woman, he falls in love with another woman?"

"And that woman is willing to love him even though she knows that he has a family?"

"The man got divorced and is with this new woman? Abandoned his original wife?"

"So, this is the protection you give women?"

"Also, let's talk about monogamy. What about the previous polygamous families?"

"Many women have become accustomed to being wives and have lost their labor force. If you force them to divorce, it is tantamount to asking them to die."

"Of course you might say, just share their men's money."

“With this kind of money, it is impossible to starve to death, and you may even live well.”

"But when a bunch of concubines who are ignorant of the world enter the society, most of them end up being defrauded of all their property, and then they walk from one fire pit to another."

"And they don't dare to divorce this time, because without the money to back them up, they can only endure this abyss."

"Otherwise, there is a high chance that they will starve to death while waiting."

"I may be thinking one-sidedly, but this is the truth."

Although Chen Xueru's words were sharp, they immediately brought two or three questions to them. Indeed, Chen Xueru's several rhetorical questions were tenable after careful consideration.

But Chen Xueru hasn't finished speaking yet.

"And have you ever thought about what if both men and women in a polygamous family agree to have a new person step in?"

"For example, my Zao'er, I helped my man get married."

"And Huairu, I also found her for my man."

"Zao'er, did sister force you? Or did she bully you?"

Tian Zao heard this and said quickly: "My sister has never forced me or bullied me, and she is also very good to my brothers."

"By the way, my brothers and I are all orphans, and my sister is planning to help my brothers find jobs."

"You can't frame my sister falsely."

Chen Xueru waved her hands after hearing this.

"When speaking from my own family, there is nothing wrong with making false accusations."

"But my Zao'er said that she is an orphan, so naturally there is no arrangement involved."

"My family is definitely not one where men are superior to women. Auntie, you may not know that I have the final say on most things in my family. I only discuss some major matters with Xiuzhu, and we make decisions together."

"But according to what you said, this is to beat our family to death with a stick and forcefully break up our big, loving family."

"As far as I know, there are many families like ours. The family in Qinfangju also loves each other and has never even blushed with a woman. If this is a divorce, you are equivalent to forcing people to die."

Chen Xueru's words were a bit dense, but every word seemed to hit the point. Deng Ying felt a chill in her heart when she heard it, and suddenly realized the immaturity of their current marriage law.

After a moment of silence, Deng Ying suddenly asked: "What do you think would be better, Xueru?"

Chen Xueru spread her hands and smiled after hearing this.

"I don't know all the contents of the marriage law, how do I know what is unreasonable?"

"But based on what my aunt said, I think we can add a few clauses. For example, if you divorce within three years of marriage, you do not have the right to divide the other party's property."

"If you sign a notarization of pre-marital property, you do not have the right to divide the pre-marital property."

"You are both husband and wife. I think the property does not belong to the joint efforts of the husband and wife, and the other party does not have the right to divide it, right?"

"And this will also allow women who want to divorce to notarize their property when they remarry, so that they will not jump out of one fire pit and fall into another fire pit without the ability to jump out again."

"Or at least it reduces the financial burden."

"Also, divorce should not be granted unilaterally if one wants it, but divorce should be granted voluntarily by both men and women."

"If one party insists on divorce without mutual consent, an investigation should be conducted. If one party abuses and harms the other party, divorce should be granted."