A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

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After hanging up the phone, Zhang Lan shook his head. He could understand Li Chaoyang's thoughts. Zhang Lan had the same feeling at the beginning.

After working outside for a long time, when I return to my hometown, I always feel out of tune with the surrounding environment. I unconsciously want to return to the familiar environment and escape from the social interactions.

Only when people are calm can they come up with better countermeasures. When they encounter something that they cannot handle, they should learn to accept their own shortcomings and temporarily put aside their anxiety. Only then can they see things clearly and perhaps find a way out.

Avoiding difficulties does not necessarily mean being a deserter. Avoiding things that are beyond your ability is actually a clear understanding of yourself. In reverse terms, it is also a kind of growth.

It is a skill to withstand the storm; if you can't bear it, escaping is a strategy. People have to live for a long time, and maintaining one's sustainable development is a wisdom. It is easy to break if you are too tense.

People who are under great social pressure should reduce interpersonal interactions as much as possible and free up time to do what they are really good at; when communication with parents is not going well, you can just walk away and not communicate; when you encounter something that you can't handle, just don't try to solve it and let it go.

No matter what we do, the ultimate goal is to make our lives more quality. There is no need to deviate from this track. Life is not about leveling up and fighting monsters. If there are no difficulties, we should create them and face them head-on.

A weakness is a weakness. Even if you push it to death, it can't become armor. Don't give up your true inner needs just because people around you question your advice.

In the final analysis, other people are just spectators. No one cares whether you are really tired or just pretending to be anxious. They just want to have fun after dinner, but you need to live every second of your life truthfully.

When you exhaust yourself to death because of other people's gazes, what else is left except the grief of your loved ones, except for giving others something to talk about after dinner.

There are only three kinds of people in the world: those who love you, those who hate you, and those who have nothing to do with you.

It is impossible for everyone to be nice to you, but as long as there is one person who is willing to be nice to you,

You have to be responsible to each other, and that's the meaning of our life.

Instead of trying hard to live the way others like you, it is better to please yourself.

If you count carefully, a person's life is only a few short decades long. Naturally, we should live the way we want, realize unfulfilled dreams, and explore the world we have never seen.

If you live your whole life for others, you will lose the meaning of life and also lose yourself.

Life is short, so we must listen to our hearts and do what we want without worrying about the consequences.

Your life is your own and has nothing to do with others.

One day, when Zhang Lan was bored and browsing her circle of friends, she saw this sentence: "Although the house is rented, the life is your own."

The accompanying picture is of a warm and comfortable home. The afternoon sun just happens to shine in through the window, some of it scattered on the carpet under the sofa, a small part fell on the petals placed on the table, and a few stubborn rays of sunlight scattered on the open book, as if it were a picture of a peaceful and good life.

After taking another look, he suddenly realized that the person who posted on WeChat Moments was a former colleague from the company. They were just an acquaintance at the beginning, and a long time had passed, but Zhang Lan immediately remembered her appearance and the smile that was always on her face.

This colleague does not have a stunning appearance, nor does she have any earth-shattering abilities, but the confident and generous temperament she exudes is enough to create a huge gap between her and others.

This colleague has always been a girl with her own ideas. She will not change her mind at will because of other people's views or opinions, nor will she belittle herself because of other people's evaluations or advice. She is confident and generous enough, and loves life and herself.

One of the most common mistakes most people make is living in the eyes of others.

Celebrities will sell their personas to maintain traffic, and ordinary people will try hard to disguise themselves to gain praise from others. But when all the prosperity ends and the glory is gone, where does the real self go?

Life always belongs to us alone, has nothing to do with others, and we don’t want others to interfere.

A few days ago, I saw a host like this on a short video platform: an adult with a relatively handsome appearance, but always making an extremely childish and vulgar video to make people laugh. When eating takeout, he would say: This is the takeout my mother bought for me, let’s try it together now, and then he would smack his lips desperately and do all kinds of things.

When I first saw it, I thought the content was vulgar. Later, I accidentally saw another video of him in which he made a clarification. He said that he made these videos just as a means of making money, and they had nothing to do with his real self.

Let’s not analyze how this way of making money works. Even if Zhang Lan didn’t have the game panel, he couldn’t bring himself to do this.

If you care too much about what others think, you will end up losing yourself. On the contrary, if you put aside other people's comments and opinions, you can better realize your own interests and values. Each of us lives for ourselves, not for others.

No one should live a life defined by others; everyone has the right and freedom to live his or her own life.

One of the most peculiar weaknesses of human nature is that we care about how others view us.

The dumber a person is, the more likely he is to take other people's words as an imperial decree. Even if there is only one person out of 100 who doesn't like him, he will secretly work hard for that one person, but in fact, there is not much need.

Smart people are always aware of their own weaknesses and will not put too much energy into the eyes of others, because they really know what they want and will work hard for their goals in a planned way.

There is a question on Zhihu: "I always care too much about other people's opinions and often feel that others hate me. What should I do?" One of the answers is "Don't always take on other people's affairs. If you always care so much about others, who will care about you?"

This is how life is. The more you care about something, the more troubles you will suffer. It is better to let go and be yourself boldly.

It encourages a person to learn to listen and try to think about problems from other people's perspectives, but this does not mean to completely lose oneself.

The tragedy of life is not that there is no achievement or goal, but that there is no self-awareness at all, just going with the flow and letting things go. Caring too much about what others think will only become a shackle that binds us, and sometimes even makes us feel short of breath;

Relax a little, don't be too obsessed with other people's opinions, learn to find your own shadow in life, and live out your true self.

It is enough to have goals, ideals, plans, strength, and not forget your original intention and live out your true self.