A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

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However, Zhang Lan's mother put most of the blame on Zhang Lan, saying that Zhang Lan did not agree to other people living there, believing that it was a factory, not a nursing home.

And if something happens in the middle, no one can explain it unless it’s our own elder.

After learning about the situation, Zhang Lan told people close to him that his mother needed to support the elderly, and logically the old man should be brought back home. However, in order to prevent neighbors from gossiping about Zhang Lan's uncle, the old man was allowed to live at the winery.

There is also Zhang Lan’s second aunt, who has only lived there for two months. She is Zhang Lan’s biological aunt. Is there anything wrong with her living in the winery?

There were also some people that Zhang Lan was not very familiar with, but she ignored them. I can let whoever I want to live with me. We are not familiar with each other, so what's it to you to control me?

Since he truly matured, Zhang Lan has always adhered to one principle, that is, to let go of the desire to help others and respect the fate of others.

Most of the time, Zhang Lan rarely takes the initiative to meddle in strangers' affairs. If he sees people suffering, he might help them, but if he takes the initiative to do something that is not beneficial to himself, Zhang Lan rarely takes the initiative to do it.

Not to mention taking the initiative to help others solve their problems in life. In Zhang Lan's opinion, the biggest reason why the elderly in the village live to be over 90 years old is that they don't meddle in other people's business.

You insist on propping up the mud that is fine and rotten, and you insist on turning the salted fish over when it is lying down. In the end, not only you are tired, but also the person who helps you is tired.

There is no need to carve a piece of rotten wood into something useful. Restrain yourself from correcting other people's desires and do not interfere with other people's causes and effects at will.

The rules of the game in society, with their layers of difficulty and cost, lock different people in, layer by layer.

That’s why there is such a saying: Adults are ultimately screened out.

How much money a person can earn is not determined by time, but is gradually screened out by other people in society.

In the journey of life, everyone will face many unfortunate situations such as not making money, work not going well, and getting food stuck in teeth when drinking cold water.

At this time, don't underestimate yourself or doubt yourself. It's not that you are incapable. There is nothing wrong with your ability. It's that you are unlucky.

It's useless no matter what you do because you have bad luck. When you encounter this stage, it's best not to act rashly, otherwise you will be in danger. Make good use of this time to rest and start again.

The core competitiveness of a person actually lies in the ability to go with the flow. Being able to remain calm in both success and failure is the best quality of a person. After all, the right time, right place and right people are the key factors. People can only do their best and go with the flow.

Sometimes it is better to be more compassionate and not naively believe that people who are wealthy have achieved their wealth through their own efforts. Just because you can't see something doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

So, don’t think about changing your class. Perhaps what you have is exactly what people in that class lack. Just move forward within the range of your ability.

If you really force yourself into another class, first of all, it is unlikely that you will have the ability to do so. Some things, if you are born without them, you will never have them again.

Secondly, even if you reach that level, you might lose more than you gain.

In fact, many things are not obtained through hard work. The reason why those excellent and hardworking people are mediocre is simply because fate has not yet chosen them, so no matter how hard they try, they will seem powerless.

Although many things cannot be changed by human efforts, we must know that the laws of the universe are always dynamic. It is an infinite cycle from existence to non-existence and then from non-existence to existence. So as long as we face life with a positive and optimistic attitude and wait at any time, one day, fate will surely hit us. Life is like this, it is very unreasonable.

You don't need to be proactive every day in life, but you need to learn to wait for the right time to be proactive. The time that is truly worth being proactive will not exceed 20% of your life. The remaining 80% of the time is for a person to grow, cultivate oneself, and temper his character.

A true master is all about waiting for the right time. It only takes two or three years for a person to become rich. In everyone's life, there will be one or two golden years.

In just two or three years, you can earn more money than others can earn in their entire lives. These two or three years are the good years of good fortune. Before these years come, you should first have the ability and knowledge to match this wealth.

Don't think about being an expert and using tricks. From ancient times to the present, people have always admired experts and saviors because they have secrets to save people from danger. However, these things only exist in novels or movies. There are not so many experts and tricks in reality.

The so-called master is nothing more than a person who can do one thing to the top and to the extreme. The tricks used by masters are called master tricks. And the so-called master tricks are nothing more than doing things according to the rules and being realistic, rather than aiming too high and taking unconventional approaches.

In many people's minds, masters have secrets, but the secrets are actually the four words "seek truth from facts". The reality is that too many people are ambitious, thinking ten steps ahead, and dreaming of reaching the top in one step. They all look up at the sky, but forget to look down at the road.

If a man is in a period of prosperity in wealth, his romantic luck will also flourish. If he does not control himself, there will naturally be a backlash when he reaches the downhill stage.

If a woman is in a period of good luck in love, her career will also rise. Regardless of gender, if she can skillfully use this bug, she can save a lot of trouble.

Being successful at a young age is against the will of heaven, while achieving success late in life is the right way of heaven and earth.

If a person is very successful at the age of twenty-four or twenty-five, with a monthly income of forty or fifty thousand, then he must be prepared for a decline after his thirties. Fortunes do not come young, and those who become rich at a young age will most likely have a bad time in the second half of their lives, because this is the law of nature, and the law cannot be changed by human will.

As I get older, I will slowly discover and experience the darkness and complexity of this society. I hope that by that time, I will still be able to jump out of it and still look at this society with a simple and pure perspective.

If you can do this, you will be that insightful person, and you will be able to reach the state of seeing the mountain as a mountain after seeing it as not a mountain.

Many times, we need to learn to do the opposite. Just like others are learning how to recognize people, then we need to learn how to let others recognize us.

When this passivity turns into activeness, you will discover a new world. True wisdom is anti-human, and the same can be done in other aspects.

If the mother is weak, the family will become a merchant; if the father is strong, the family will become a historian; if the family is prosperous, the family will stay in the hometown; if the family is poor, the family will move to another place.

If your parents are weak, you should learn to do business to change your fate. If your parents are strong, you should learn to rely on a big tree to become an official. If your clan is strong, you can use the family reputation to develop locally. If your family is poor, you need to go far away to find a way out.