A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

But the truth of this world is that there is no such thing as "fairness" at all. What did the people who were disabled or even killed in earthquakes and fires do wrong? What sins did the children who gave birth to children with cerebral palsy, autism, and trisomy syndrome do?

For an old man in his eighties, it is a very good thing to have children around to show filial piety and to be able to take care of him. Don't think about fanning the flames and trying to control the big family every day.

When in Kyoto, there was an old lady in the community where Zhang Lan's clinic was located. Her son and daughter were both abroad. The old lady was over 90 years old. Her husband had passed away, leaving her alone.

The children come back once or twice a year from abroad. After the old lady's husband passed away a few years ago, they found a nanny for her, and she usually lives with the nanny.

The nanny is a rural woman from a remote area. She is hardworking and takes good care of the old lady.

But there is a problem. The nanny has a husband and two children. She cannot stay in Kyoto all year round. Her family also needs her to go back and take care of them.

But the old lady really couldn't live without someone to take care of her. So the gatekeeper of the community gave the old lady an idea to let the nanny's husband bring the children to reunite with her every winter and summer vacation. This not only solved the problem of the old lady having no one to take care of her, but also solved the problem of the nanny's family reunion.

From then on, the nanny and her family could reunite in Kyoto for more than two months every year. And the living expenses for more than two months were all borne by the old lady. In this way, the nanny and her family were very satisfied, so they took care of the old lady more wholeheartedly.

When the old lady was over 90 years old, she needed someone to be with her all the time. At this time, the nanny's two children also went to college and left their hometown, leaving the nanny's husband alone at home.

The nanny wanted her husband to work in Kyoto and live in the old lady's house, and the old lady readily agreed.

In fact, the old lady had no ability at this time, and her children did not come back, so her only support was the nanny. She had no reason to refuse any request from the nanny.

The old lady even gave her salary card to the nanny for management. Since she could no longer walk, she relied on the nanny to do everything.

One year, the old lady's son came back from a business trip and saw that the house had become the domain of the nanny. The nanny and her husband had become the masters of the house, and even his mother's salary card was in the nanny's hands. He was very surprised and angry.

But when he calmed down and saw his mother who couldn't even walk, and thought that he and his sister couldn't come back, he felt that they had no way out, and this was the best way.

In desperation, the old lady's son went abroad again after finishing his business. He told the nanny to call and inform them as soon as possible if she found anything wrong with his mother.

Until this spring, when the old lady was dying, the nanny notified her son. Soon, her children came back.

After the old lady passed away, the nanny helped them with the funeral arrangements. Her children wanted to sell the house, so the nanny and her husband rented a house to live in.

People in the community who know the inside story think that the old lady made the right choice and that the nanny's approach was also very good, and that their combination is actually a win-win situation.

If the nanny and her husband rent a house, it would cost several thousand yuan a month. They live in the old lady's house. Since she has a job as a nanny, her husband does not have to rent a house, and the couple can live together, which is impossible in other people's homes.

When a person is unable to take care of himself, it is already good enough if there is someone willing to take care of him.

There is a saying: "An old person in the family is like a treasure."

With parents there, there is still a place in life; without parents, there is only a way back in life.

However, not all elderly people can become a treasure of the family. Some elderly people are just a trouble and burden to their children. Not only are they difficult to be filial to their children, but they are also easily disliked.

The older generation has experienced hardships and losses, so they feel that a stable life is the most solid, but it is best not to impose their own ideas on future generations.

Everyone has their own choices. Whether it is marriage or career, adults should have their own considerations.

Zhang Lan did not call her mother afterwards, but only mentioned it to her when she returned home.

No matter whether life is good or bad, the couple have lived together for decades. As my aunt's family, I should support her, but there is no need to forcefully intervene in some matters just because others don't say anything.

Indeed, the family is doing well now, and they are able to help others, such as Zhang Lan's grandfather, who has Parkinson's disease and Alzheimer's disease. Before he was taken to Zhang Lan's winery, if Zhang Lan had not treated him several times before, he would have been confused and unwilling to live in Zhang Lan's uncle's house.

To use Zhang Lan’s grandfather’s words at the beginning, his daughter-in-law was unfilial and he disliked him.

But in fact, all the children, including Zhang Lan's mother, knew that the old man was unwilling to live in his son's house. It was simply because Zhang Lan's uncle was not at home all year round, and the old man wanted to control everything he saw.

If he doesn't like something, he will subjectively think that it is what he sees, and spread rumors among his relatives and friends.

The grandson politely said that he had gone out to work, and if his grandfather felt hot in the summer, he could go to his room to sleep.

As a result, the old man didn't care and planned to move into his grandson and granddaughter-in-law's room in the summer of the second year after his grandson's marriage.

The old man even argued that it was his grandson who asked him to live there, and asked, "How can you, as a daughter-in-law, stop me from living there?"

When Zhang Lan's mother found out about this, she called in Zhang Lan's aunt and younger aunt and gave the old man a good scolding.

You just married your granddaughter-in-law, why are you so confused, old man? Is that the room you should live in?

After that, we asked Uncle Zhang Lan to sit down with his children, and after discussing it, we decided to take care of the child for a while.

Later, Zhang Lan's grandfather ran back and forth between his three daughters' homes. When it was Zhang Lan's uncle's turn, he would get some money and live outside. He would not go home unless his son came home, and would hurry back home to live as soon as his son came home.

It was not until the last two years, after Zhang Lan took back the winery, that Zhang Lan's mother cleaned up the winery house and gathered a few people to discuss it on WeChat, and decided to let the old man live in the winery from now on.

Anyway, Zhang Lan would go home from time to time to take care of the family. Now Zhang Lan's grandfather is in good health, not confused, and can still go to the fields to grow crops on weekdays.

He is already over 80 years old, so he can do whatever he wants. Except for the Spring Festival, he will just stay in the winery all the time.

When people get old, it is already very good to have a place to live and someone to take care of them without being disgusted.

After Grandpa Zhang Lan settled down in the winery, many relatives, friends, and neighbors who knew the news kept suggesting that they would like to live there.