A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

As the spell took effect, Dan Wenjing, who had been chattering endlessly about his family, began to look calmer.

After a while, Wen Jing said to Qin Yongjun with an apologetic expression, "Sorry, I went crazy again just now. I don't know what happened. I often can't control myself while talking."

After seeing that Wen Jing was really emotionally stable, Qin Yongjun nodded to express his understanding.

Because of the previous chatter, Dan Wenjing, who had sobered up, felt embarrassed and left after sitting for a while.

After Dan Wenjing left, Zhang Lan asked Qin Yongjun curiously: "Has Dan Wenjing always been like this?"

Qin Yongjun sighed and said, "It used to be fine when I was in school, but when Wen Jing went to college, her father actually cheated on her best friend. After it was discovered, something was wrong with Wen Jing."

Qin Yongjun talked about what happened at the beginning. She only found out later because they did not study together in college. Qin Yongjun only learned the inside story after the incident happened.

At that time, Dan Wenjing's father was working in technology-related fields, with a pretty good annual income and a good family background. But Wen Jing's mother worked before getting married, but after giving birth to her second and third children, due to the influence of the family planning policy at that time and other reasons, she began to work as a full-time housewife.

Marriage will encounter various problems, and the relationship between husband and wife will also undergo various tests. Just like the often said seven-year itch, two people will always feel that they have been together for a long time. Very bland, even a little boring.

However, two people in a marriage will change from lovers to relatives. If they feel that the other person is no longer the person in their hearts just because they are too ordinary, it would be a bit ridiculous. The true meaning of marriage is to turn two strangers into the closest people in the world. Since you choose to get married, you must make plans to spend the rest of your life together.

But there are always some people who are unwilling to be ordinary and lonely. In the end, they fail to withstand the test of marriage and want to choose the passion of love and greater excitement. However, true happiness is always dull. If you have it, you should cherish it and don't regret it after losing it.

Before Dan Wenjing went to college, her parents had been married for many years and their life was very dull. One of the couple focused on their children, the other on their work. They had no common topics for a long time, probably because of family and other reasons. Later, the two seemed to be inseparable, but they would leave some room for each other.

The outbreak of the affair tore off the last warm face of Dan Wenjing's family.

Because it was Dan Wenjing's best friend who cheated on her, her mother blamed Dan Wenjing, and her father also blamed her for not knowing the seriousness of the affair. After learning about it, she directly revealed the matter without giving her parents a buffer. room.

So after the incident broke out, because it became known to everyone, Wenjing's parents divorced quickly. After that, except for necessary living expenses, Wenjing's parents basically ignored her. .

After graduating from college, Dan Wenjing got married. Her parents were not of much help to her, but Dan Wenjing chose her current husband willfully. Her parents didn't say anything against it, just as long as you are happy.

But Wen Jing never understood that everyone blamed her even though she had done nothing wrong. Even classmates and best friends like Qin Yongjun who grew up with her said that Wen Jing shouldn't do that.

But Wen Jing felt that she was protecting her mother and the entire family, but the end result was the opposite.

This feeling of not being understood led her to always want to prove that she was better than her father after she got married. She can run a good family and take care of her husband and children. Unfortunately, some things will not be rewarded if she works hard.

As the disappointment in my heart accumulated, I became more and more extreme, and my behavior began to become more extreme.

In fact, Tan Wenjing's husband is quite good, with an annual salary of hundreds of thousands. He is a small leader in the middle level of a monopoly unit in Kyoto. Although there is little room for advancement due to his background, he is actually better than many people.

But the problem is that Dan Wenjing's family has always been on the upper side. Later, Dan Wenjing's father resigned and went to work because of his child's problems, and he quickly became rich.

In comparison, the achievements of Wen Jing's father and husband are naturally a little disappointing.

Comparing one person to another can be irritating. After her mentality became unbalanced, Wen Jing set her sights on her children and began to seek their children's improvement.

In addition, because of her personality, Wen Jing particularly likes to compare herself with others. We had always had a good relationship with Qin Yongjun in the past, but Zhang Lan didn't see her much in the past few years. The reason was that Qin Yongjun quickly returned to his original circle after returning to Kyoto, but Wen Jing didn't have anything to do after that. I rarely come to my door in person.

However, we have never lost contact on WeChat. During holidays and other festivals, we will also make phone calls and send small gifts.

If this person always likes to compare himself with others, compare himself with others when he is good, and compare himself with others when he is bad.

When you do this often, you are often not very happy inside and your mentality will be unbalanced as a result. There is harm in comparison. Everyone's starting point is different, and everyone's achievements are also different.

If you blindly measure yourself from the perspective of others, you will always be unable to compare with others.

Without contrast, there is no pain.

Everyone's achievements and excellence are not achieved by comparison, but by working together bit by bit.

No matter how well others live, it is still someone else's world. No matter how wonderful others live, it is also other people's wonderful life. There is no need to compare or envy.

But some things are easy to say, but not everyone can do it.

People like Shan Wenjing have never been lacking in this society. They can't adjust their own mentality. They only rely on the efforts of those around them in everything they do. Like a vine, they always hope to find a big tree to climb up. The result is that the tree withers and dies together.

When the phone rang, Zhang Lan was checking some information in the study and looked at the caller's number. After the call was connected, Huang Shasha's anxious voice came from the phone: "Zhang Lan, are you free now? Something happened to Xie Ruidong."

"Don't be anxious, calm your mind and speak slowly." Zhang Lan reminded her quickly when she heard Huang Shasha's panicked voice on the phone.

"It's like this, some time ago..." After listening to Zhang Lan's words, Huang Shasha on the other end of the phone took a few deep breaths. After calming down, she began to tell Zhang Lan the whole story.