A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

In the case of an overwhelming overflow of women, whoever has more male members and whoever closes deals with male users faster will be able to place orders faster.

This explains why matchmakers not only refuse to accept older leftover women, but also make videos of them.

Because this actually improves their work efficiency. It sounds cruel, but the fact is that when you submit a profile, matchmakers still have to spend time picking out and throwing them away, so why not just say that the older ones will not accept them.

If you find it unacceptable, by chance, the matchmakers are filtering out just the kind of people like you who have a soft heart, and double happiness is coming to your doorstep.

There is no such thing as ineffective operation in the business field. There must be a reason why so many matchmakers do this.

This also corresponds to the logic that some offline dating agencies have refused to accept women over 35 years old in the past two years. Because offline dating agencies are also settlement mechanisms.

Because offline is more cruel, there was a report before that the woman failed to file a lawsuit against the matchmaking agency after paying the money. It was about the woman asking the man why there was no follow-up after the meeting, but the man told him that he had a very busy schedule and the matchmaking agency had arranged meetings for him with three women in one day and he was busy rushing to meet them.

The woman was furious and sued the dating agency.

Many offline matchmaking women often complain about why matchmakers prefer men. They advise women to relax their standards, but why can’t men be allowed to relax their standards?

With a supply and demand relationship of 1:40, this is of course impossible. If you don't do it, there are still 39 people queuing up behind you. The matchmakers will just fly you away and replace you with the next one. When you are full, hold on and ask the buyer to relax their standards.

In fact, with a 1:2 supply and demand relationship, the seller has no bargaining power at all. Similar to the 1:3 case just now, not only does the woman have to pay extra, but the man is too dissatisfied to even bother to talk.

When the ratio reaches 1:10 or 1:20, even the negotiation process is a waste of time. Rather than trying to persuade you, it would be faster for the matchmaker to just replace someone.

There is a well-known charity matchmaker who chooses not to accept women who were born over 35 years old for this reason. Because there is no one qualified to accept her, she simply refuses to accept her.

The economic base determines the superstructure, and the business model determines the form of the community. All phenomena that seem difficult to understand often have very clear logic from an economic perspective.

The topic of blind dating is traffic-oriented. It doesn’t matter whether you can succeed or not. As long as someone is viewing the account, it will definitely be biased towards women with more numbers.

Matchmakers are settlement-oriented, and only a pair can earn one deal. When there are many women and few men, they will inevitably favor the man who is in short supply and demand.

Under this situation, Wen Jing actually believed in the topic of big women promoted by the self-media on the Internet, and felt that it would be better to leave this next one. No matter what age she would be, there would be a lot of people following her. Zhang Lan was too lazy to say anything directly.

Even Qin Yongjun on the side looked a little embarrassed and almost couldn't hold back his smile. Because according to what Dan Wenjing complained about, Zhang Lan and Qin Yongjun are the ones who should divorce as soon as possible.

But Wen Jing was once again immersed in her own emotions. She kept talking about how much she had given to her family, and how much her husband and son did not understand her.

As she talked, she began to open up old scores again, mentioning how much her parents loved her when she was not married, and how generous her life was.

After hearing what Wenjing said, Zhang Lan finally understood, but Wenjing had too high expectations for marriage. When she got married, her family life was at a good time, but Wenjing kept saying that she got married for love. , after a long time, once there is a gap in life, you will naturally regret your original choice.

Marriage cannot be the ultimate goal of life. When a person's expectations for marriage are too high, women who imagine that they can live well if they marry well will regret it in their marriage.

Marry for love without bread, marry for bread without companionship, marry for romance without loyalty, it is impossible to have a perfect lover.

Marriage is a matter of freedom, no one forces you, so what do you regret after getting married?

Regret that marriage is different from what you imagined. You have too many expectations. The marriage I thought was not what I thought it was, so I regretted it.

In fact, there is only one fundamental reason for regret: having too high expectations for marriage and regarding marriage as the salvation of one's life.

Motivation to start and maintain an intimate relationship comes from needs. When needs are met, you will feel happy. But when the needs are not met, you will expect to change the other person, but the greater the expectations, the greater the disappointment.

Some people hope to get a "long-term meal ticket" in marriage, some hope to enjoy a noble life in marriage, and some hope to have someone who can bow down to them. Behind such hope is definitely disappointment.

Because marriage cannot bring anyone anything, everything must be fought for by oneself. Marriage is reality, not fantasy, and all the good things in the besieged city must be created by oneself.

Marriage is about finding a person you love and living together, not about enjoying life for the rest of your life, nor about a paradise. Our expectations for marriage, and for the other half in marriage, are becoming more "complex" than ever before.

This kind of "complex" expectation is the realization of desire. You want to get what you can't get by relying on marriage and your lover, and even enjoy it.

In anything, if you expect too much, you will definitely be disappointed, and if you are disappointed, you will regret it. Most of those who regret and complain immediately after getting married fail to get what they want in their marriage.

Marriage is just a starting point. Only when you accept the reality can you live a serious life.

If you regard marriage as a transaction and hope to make a profit, you will fail miserably. Because the reality is that marriage cannot provide people with financial security, cannot provide people with long-term meal tickets, cannot make people worry about food and clothing, cannot let people avoid trivial household chores, and cannot let people suddenly become a benchmark for a good life.

What it can give is a caring lover who can accompany you until you grow old after you treat your life with care and manage your marriage.

If you want to dream about a good life, you have to create a good life yourself and expect the person in your marriage to give you something. Why? A marriage in which one party is responsible for making money and supporting the family, and the other is responsible for being beautiful and beautiful is very beautiful, but among ordinary families, there are only a few people who can always remain beautiful and beautiful.

Marriage is not the salvation of life, it is a place for growth, how to be a qualified lover, how to manage a marriage between two people, how to be a parent, improve yourself, let yourself live a good life, and at the same time benefit the elderly on both sides and gain understanding. lovers and healthy and happy children.

All of this cannot be obtained with just a touch of lipstick and lipstick. It requires hard work.

Looking at the chattering Dan Wenjing, Zhang Lan rubbed his forehead helplessly. The transparent game panel appeared in front of his eyes. After thinking about it carefully, Zhang Lan, who originally planned to use 'Purpose All Living Beings', changed his mind.

Now, Dan Wenjing does not need to treat her physical illness. What she needs more is 'purity of mind' and 'peace of mind' to pull out the emotions that have sunk into the corner. In other words, a basin of cold water may be more appropriate.