Northern Myanmar: Years of Dehumanization

"We're getting married!"

At this point, it became clear that this marriage was inevitable.

This means that I will have more responsibilities in the future.

No, in the minds of our Chinese people, children are very important and have a strong sense of family.

Especially for someone like me who is going to be a father for the first time, it is even more important.

At night, if those girls didn't insist on kicking me out, I would have slept next to Xiao Xun and guarded her.

But think about it, Xiao Xun is pregnant, so it would be somewhat inappropriate for her and I to sleep together.

They closed the door, and I came outside, leaned on the fence, and skillfully took out a cigarette, just about to smoke it.

But thinking that my father, who had always been a smoker, never mentioned smoking during my mother's pregnancy, I smiled, shook my head, and took the cigarette back.

Thinking of this, I suddenly wanted to call my family. For such a big event, I still want to share the joy in my heart with my family.

"Dudududu..."

Thinking like this, I took out my mobile phone and called home.

When I came to this place, Sister Feng didn't ask anyone to accept my phone number. In fact, there was no need to accept it.

Here in Kokang, the phone cards are all from China Mobile or China Unicom, so don’t think they are too high-end.

Although call records can be found in China, we cannot intervene in this place for the time being.

In this no-nonsense zone, the country brazenly sends out troops without justifiable reasons, but that's not okay.

At that time, not many people knew about it.

The phone rang several times, and the other party also received the call.

"Hello? Who is it?"

My mother's voice came from the other end of the phone. My mother never went to elementary school, so naturally she didn't know the phone number.

"Mom, have you received the money?"

I asked, but actually I felt very lucky that I could get the money back.

Otherwise, it will become useless money, the kind that is worthless.

"Xiao Bai? Have you lost weight recently? Are you eating well? It's a cold spring, so be careful of freezing... What do you mean, money? I've received it, and I've built a two-story building! Your sister doesn't have to go pick herbs anymore! "

My mother's voice came from the other end of the phone. Although I was asking about money, my mother first asked me how I was doing.

Finally, she answered my question. Listening to my mother's nagging, I used to be bored, but now I couldn't help but laugh.

In the eyes of my mother, compared to money, I am more important!

"Mom, I'm getting married, and you're going to have a grandchild soon!"

I also directly stated the purpose of my call and didn't want to waste my mother's time too long.

"Really? If I can live to, hehe, cough, cough, hold a grandson, I will be satisfied."

When my mother heard what I said, she felt it was inappropriate to say the previous sentence, so she spat, and then she coughed.

"Huh? Mom, are you feeling unwell?"

I listened to the coughing sound on the phone and my mother's confused words, and asked with some concern.

"It's okay, I've been freezing recently, cough cough."

My mother's voice came from the other end of the phone, and her coughing sound became more violent.

"Give the phone to my dad. I want to chat with him for a while."

Since my mother won't tell the truth, I can only ask him.

My little sister is too young, so my mother probably won’t tell her anything.

"noob......"

On the other end of the phone, my father's voice sounded slightly guilty and vicissitudes of life.

"My mother, is she really frozen?"

He asked directly without saying too much.

"Yes, did you work a few days ago..."

"Do it, do it, do it! Isn't my money enough for retirement?"

Before my dad could finish what he said, I interrupted him and scolded him like I would a son.

"Yes, I will stop her next time."

After I finished speaking, there was silence on the other end of the phone for a while before I replied with this sentence.

"Okay, that's it."

I hung up the phone a little annoyed.

Later, this became the thing that I regretted the most. Every time I thought about it, I couldn't help but want to slap myself a few times.

Why can't you be patient and chat with your mother for a few more minutes?

It turns out that those hundreds of thousands are really not enough!

I hung up the phone and called Sister Feng:

"Hey, Sister Feng..."

"If you have any farts, hurry up, I still have to sleep!"

Originally, I had something to ask for and I wanted to have a good talk, but I didn't expect that Sister Feng wouldn't give me this chance at all.

He interrupted me directly and asked me to speak directly if I had anything to say. There was no need to be secretive.

Hearing Sister Feng speak like this, I simply stopped hiding it and spoke out my purpose with a twitching of my lips:

"Sister Feng, I want to marry Xiao Xun! It will be on the 11th of this month."

I was silent for a moment, but also gave an accurate date. Somehow, I have a soft spot for the number one.

One represents a lifetime, so don’t three ones represent eternity?

This was the purest idea I had at the time, and it was also the first thing that came to mind.

I didn't choose those so-called auspicious days. Nana's are all in this place. No day can be considered auspicious, right?

However, I didn't expect that I would hit the mark. I ended up alone until my death. Looking back, I actually believed in the auspicious day.

If at that time, I could be more serious and choose the right time, would the ending be changed?

It's late, it's too late after all, there is no regret medicine to take...

"Have you figured it out? The day you picked is quite unique. Okay, I will arrange it for you later. I really like that little girl Xiao Xun."

Sister Feng's voice came over the phone, and she couldn't help but sigh with emotion about the day I chose, but she still respected my decision.

"Okay, that's it, I won't disturb you..."

Before I finished speaking, Sister Feng on the other end of the phone hung up the phone.

My face turned dark, this woman is so rude.

After getting to know Sister Feng in depth, I realized that Sister Feng is really not the kind of woman who only sleeps with men.

Although I have some relationship with Sister Feng, when I have control over her, I have the right to choose.

Sister Feng has needs, but she can't come to me to solve them.

There is a saying that is right:

It's hard to find a toad with four legs, but why not find a man with two legs?

When it gets dark and the lights are turned off, the effect is exactly the same.

Compared to me, Sister Feng probably prefers those 185-year-old men with abdominal muscles.

However, as I like, there was no way before, but now there is a way. I want to be a good person.

The wind blew outside for a while, and then I went back to the house.

Smoke, on the other hand, restrained himself.

Sometimes, cigarettes don’t have to be smoked by oneself.